Gabriel González
Gabriel González
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Why Your FRIENDS Determine Your FUTURE
Your friends determine your future. Most people don't realize what an impact your social circle has on your life. We literally are the average of the 5-10 closest people in our lives. They influence our beliefs, our behavior, our attitudes, ultimately our future.
I believe finding your tribe is the most important step in our journey towards personal growth. In this video I dive deep into why that is. Then I share some tips on how to find your tribe.
Hope you enjoy!
OVERVIEW:
0:00 Why Your Friends Determine Your Future
1:55 What Is True Friendship?
5:24 How To Find Your Tribe
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Відео

How To Climb Out Of A Rut FAST
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Being in a rut sucks. You have 0 motivation and inspiration to do anything. You know you should be taking action towards your goals, but you feel completely empty inside, helpless, depressed, powerless, stuck. In this video I share with you my 2-step formula that I use when feeling like that. #stuck #depression
How I Overcame My Phone Addiction
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Phone addiction is REAL. We are all addicted to our phones, to the easy dopamine hits and instant gratification we get from them. In this video I share how I managed to reduce my screen time from 5 hours/day to 1 hour/day and finally broke free & cured my phone addiction. Hope you enjoy! #addiction #dopamine
The Secret To Stop Giving A F*ck.
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Giving a f*ck (in other words caring about what other people think of us) is one of the biggest obstacles we need to overcome in order to be free. We are all so addicted to approval and validation, that we waste our lives trying to please others, consciously or unconsciously, instead of chasing our dreams, reaching our goals, and ultimately fulfilling our purpose. In this video I share 6 powerf...
From Shy To Confident - My Story
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My 7-year journey from shyness to confidence. Back in high school I felt very unconfident, shy & insecure. I felt unworthy, out of place, like I just wasn't good enough. Ultimately I felt like the biggest loser... Speaking in front of my class caused huge social anxiety. Socializing with the "cool" people made me feel incredibly boring and nervous. Talking to girls was even worse, I used to fre...
A Simple Guide To FINALLY Reach Your Goals
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99% of people never reach the goals they set, which can be very depressing. For the first years of me working on myself, I was amongst those 99%. But that is no longer the case. In this video I share my 5 step system on both how to set proper goals, but also how to stay committed to them long-term. Being amongst the 1% of people who achieve their goals can be simple if you have a proper system....
The Reason You Will Never Make It.
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We all want to succeed in life, but something inside of us holds us back: Inner resistance towards taking action. So what do we do? We learn about discipline, motivation etc. to fight that resistance. But what if there was a way to simply let this inner resistance go for good, so that success becomes easy and effortless, without the need of this constant inner battle? Follow me on Instagram: in...
Full Guide To Overcoming Every Block To Success
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Being successful in life can in theory actually be quite simple, once you recognize the blocks that are holding it back. That's what this video is about, what is blocking your success? #success #motivation OVERVIEW 0:00 Intro 0:50 Blocks to Success 1:55 The 2 Problems 3:33 The 2 Solutions 7:45 6 Areas Of Personal Development 10:31 Outro
The Only Way To True Confidence.
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As a teenager I was super insecure and unconfident. At some point around 5 years ago I had enough, I decided to change. I took the "Fake it till you make it" path, which developed into some sort of confidence. But it was never real, and it will never be real. I have now realized that fake confidence can't develop into real confidence and that faking it is NOT the way, on the contrary... This vi...
Does Fashion Boost Your Confidence?
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A few years ago I got into fashion... for all the wrong reasons. I thought that looking better would make me more confident, and thus more successful in all areas of life, be it business & money, relationships & dating, you name it. While in the beginning it seemed that my self-esteem increased because of focusing on my looks, I've now realised that it wasn't true confidence... OVERVIEW 0:00 In...

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @shhhhhg
    @shhhhhg Місяць тому

    dang 5 hour was to much for you. I go like 12 hours a day

  • @yueplushart
    @yueplushart 2 місяці тому

    Hi, Hey, thank you so much for uploading this video! I live in Western Japan, and the people here are totally addicted to social media, and I see a lot of smartphone zombies on the streets, but I've gone against the times and deleted most of my social media accounts... but I've found your life hacks to be pretty useful... I'm going to try them out! Thank you so much!

  • @ben.tolman
    @ben.tolman 2 місяці тому

    Powerful ❤

  • @idgaf8389
    @idgaf8389 3 місяці тому

    5 hours would be a dream… my average is 9-10 hours a day. Some days I have 14 hours on my phone.

  • @drolugbengaadetitunTV
    @drolugbengaadetitunTV 8 місяців тому

    Thanks for yhis talk. I appreciate. You are real and truthful.

  • @mannyargo8951
    @mannyargo8951 10 місяців тому

    Thumbs up and subs done to you.

  • @SilasBrawlStars
    @SilasBrawlStars 11 місяців тому

    Fuck I just noticed you failed the 20 vids/year goal 😕 Would you say you underestimated the work which is needed for that?

  • @salomontrujillo117
    @salomontrujillo117 11 місяців тому

    where to get the animations from?

  • @alygreg5557
    @alygreg5557 Рік тому

    Also, you can set your screen to be only black and white. Reduces the color, which can make phones addicting.

  • @shreyashdesale
    @shreyashdesale Рік тому

    LOVE FROM NIKLAS CHRISTL❤‍🩹

  • @wellsytube
    @wellsytube Рік тому

    Hey brother, do you have an email for business enquiries?

  • @hamdarafiq2779
    @hamdarafiq2779 Рік тому

    Hi I reach out to you by niklas christl and now I started to watch your videos nice work.Can you please make a dopamine detox video.

  • @nicklas99
    @nicklas99 Рік тому

    what a jouney it´s been over the last seven years. from retaking german exams together and asking ourselves why the f*ck we are doing this (at least I was) to ruling our very own worlds and lives like men. cheers bro, hope you doin great. keep rocking ;)

  • @nicklas99
    @nicklas99 Рік тому

    Hey Brooo ;) Schön zu sehen, dass auch deine Journey weitergeht. Keep it up, you rock 🦾

  • @NameZei
    @NameZei Рік тому

    The fact that you also shared your journey as well, that you said that you were using this intention and went above beyond what you advertised the video to be just really sells the point on why we should listen to you and your techniques. This was a new look into confidence for me, thanks for the advice!

  • @Octavia_84
    @Octavia_84 Рік тому

    Please tell Niklas to post vids as well😢 we love you both

  • @Octavia_84
    @Octavia_84 Рік тому

    Love this vid

  • @ferdinand5170
    @ferdinand5170 Рік тому

    Entertaining video, vital message and editing is on point. Social osmosis is real. Regarding the lone wolf mentality: This mentality might actually serve some people better than having any friends at all, at least as a starting point in their journey. Most people are afraid to be alone so they cope by conforming to people that are "cogs in the wheel"... This was definitely the case for me for a long time.

  • @szymonlebek9040
    @szymonlebek9040 Рік тому

    great one bro, lfg!

  • @victor.novorski
    @victor.novorski Рік тому

    Hi Gabriel!! I just wanted to put a small opinion, but I think there are a couple of color imbalances in between. (Just my opinion)

  • @svmuele
    @svmuele Рік тому

    True, but i find difficult to find ones

  • @sahafideal8638
    @sahafideal8638 Рік тому

    Bro, you deserve millions of viewers and subscribers.. I've watched every single of your videos. Keep up the good work, man.. best of luck and cheers 🥂

  • @bestboy.4
    @bestboy.4 Рік тому

    Love you from Bangladesh ❤❤

  • @mohibquadri4053
    @mohibquadri4053 Рік тому

    How to associate or get new friends when there aren't any around me in small town where i am at now ? Whatever friends are they're not related to my career in any way so what's the solution to still become an ultra achiever ??

    • @patrick_breitenstein
      @patrick_breitenstein Рік тому

      I can totally relate bro, I have met for example Gabriel only when I decided to move to a big city in order to expand my mind. Little cities can literally limit you. But online communities and MasterMinds is how I found Alex. So yea it can work. I think video calls are a good connector :) Hope this helps

    • @mohibquadri4053
      @mohibquadri4053 Рік тому

      @@patrick_breitenstein Can you name a few real online communities & what is masterminds.. how to join ?

  • @LucasLopesc
    @LucasLopesc Рік тому

    Wow, what an incredible video! Your words truly resonated with me, reminding me of the power and influence our relationships have on shaping our lives. It's fascinating how the people we surround ourselves with can either uplift us or hinder our growth. I appreciate the reminder to choose our friendships wisely and nurture those connections that inspire and motivate us to become the best versions of ourselves. Thank you for sharing this thought-provoking video!

  • @dhyanikpatel3573
    @dhyanikpatel3573 Рік тому

    Osm video gabs! Keep going with all of our love and support...🙌🙌🙌 Love from India♥️

  • @Laxmanforyou
    @Laxmanforyou Рік тому

    Excellent man great topic 👌 you choose it's very important us to know 🤟🤟

  • @igotwect3174
    @igotwect3174 Рік тому

    Really impressive video, keep up that grind

  • @joshuav4194
    @joshuav4194 Рік тому

    Please never stop making content even when the results aren't coming sometimes. Your channel becomes one of my favourite ones. Love to see your journey

    • @gabrielbgonzalez
      @gabrielbgonzalez Рік тому

      Hey, thanks for the support, really appreciate it! Definitely won't stop 💪

  • @patrick_breitenstein
    @patrick_breitenstein Рік тому

    Pushers find Pushers 😉 I can only emphasize the message in this video, this is the secret that everyone is looking for, literally. Doing things alone or being a "self made" is literally a lie in my opinion.

  • @rajasimuley367
    @rajasimuley367 Рік тому

    If your friend is a no shit own business minder, even if 2 friends have 0 similarities, if the friend's mission is to just get you to fucking work your ass off trust me that friend is the person you want to be with. I was a believer of show me your friends I will show you your future but I think I have 2 types of friends and honestly as a teenager most people are level one because no one fucking knows what they want at that age so get to know people who are older fuck your ego leave the ego at home and never go back like go talk to elders and people with some clarity and I have 1 friend who is level 2 when it comes to career or when it comes to life in general my friend is no shit direct. for soo fucking long I thought she was toxic but when I was at the bottom with my mom's death and dad's toxicity she stayed, I had breakdowns and still do but like I am always with her on the call and she just knows how to get it done with quickly and get back to work this is the level 2 And i do have level one friends but not much contact with them... this video was phenomenal and just required right now for me as i am stuck at home with a fracture can't walk can't do shit and it hurts like hell but yeah positivity rn is the key.

    • @gabrielbgonzalez
      @gabrielbgonzalez Рік тому

      Thanks for sharing your experience. Keep it up, you got this! 💪

  • @lisaaju
    @lisaaju Рік тому

    Wow, what a crazy video Gabriel! It's astonishing how much of an impact the people in your environment have on you. They can enlighten, motivate, and guide you, but they can also make you face harsh truths. Also, you created the message of the video incredibly professional. My respect! Keep crushing it!

  • @alexxhlmt
    @alexxhlmt Рік тому

    Living together with you and Patrick here in Mexico for the past few weeks has been a game-changer for me as well. 100% underestimated the impact tribe-friends can have. #1 Learning for (besides Accountability): True friends in your tribe call you out on your bullsh*t, they don't beat around the bush. They will tell you what they think. Even if you're sometimes even lying to yourself to make you feel better. They will catch you, make you aware of your mistakes and lift you up with them. There's no way you won't win when you surround yourself with the right people!!!

  • @alexxhlmt
    @alexxhlmt Рік тому

    How often do you stay in touch with your tribe-friends?

    • @gabrielbgonzalez
      @gabrielbgonzalez Рік тому

      Pretty much always live with some of them, with the others usually close to every 2-3 days via text, and even calls once every 2 weeks or so :)

  • @alexxhlmt
    @alexxhlmt Рік тому

    Love the production quality! Especially knowing how you much time you put into these videos!

  • @bestboy.4
    @bestboy.4 Рік тому

    Love you bro from Bangladesh

  • @basabisarkar1271
    @basabisarkar1271 Рік тому

    Hi brother, how are you? I really like how you represent one of the important topic. It's really important to connect with like-minded people to live a life which everybody wants to live.🙌

  • @Meme-tz3nn
    @Meme-tz3nn Рік тому

    great message !

  • @CSIRII
    @CSIRII Рік тому

    Thank you so much! ♥ Your content is awesome. You deserve more subscribers.

  • @kevinosorio8770
    @kevinosorio8770 Рік тому

    Helpful and inspirational video. Thanks so much. ❤

  • @SilasBrawlStars
    @SilasBrawlStars Рік тому

    Thanks for This helpful Video 💪

  • @karolinakubenska
    @karolinakubenska Рік тому

    Thanks for this important reminder! Great video..as always 🙌🏽

  • @victor.novorski
    @victor.novorski Рік тому

    I gotta stop hating myself. (I cringe on my past but also jealous, because the 14-16 year old me was just the time where I could just keep running forever and not feel a thing. Now I wake up and have my back pain)

    • @gabrielbgonzalez
      @gabrielbgonzalez Рік тому

      Yeah man, one of the most important things to do in life, learning to not hate and judge yourself!

    • @victor.novorski
      @victor.novorski Рік тому

      @@gabrielbgonzalez Welp. I'll start with running right away from tomorrow (it's night here).

  • @dhyanikpatel3573
    @dhyanikpatel3573 Рік тому

    Sorry bro.. i am late for this video but amazing!❤

  • @gaston_luna
    @gaston_luna Рік тому

    Me encantó Gabu!!! Buena reflexión al final!

  • @szymonlebek9040
    @szymonlebek9040 Рік тому

    nice lil video bro. An important reminder for everyone, I guess. For both of your tips, it requires awareness tho, otherwise its gonna be super difficult to recognize the first little win or to finally stop judging oneself. At least for me, constantly reminding myself of how important meditation is, sets the cornerstone for both of those helpful tips bro :) Keep going, i really enjoyed a shorter vid, lfg

    • @gabrielbgonzalez
      @gabrielbgonzalez Рік тому

      Yeah bro, awareness is ALWAYS the first step, without exception!

  • @Sapple.
    @Sapple. Рік тому

    You are so underrated. The amount of work you put into these videos is ↗️. Thanks for this video, this really helps.

  • @IsraaMarouf90
    @IsraaMarouf90 Рік тому

    I learn a lot from your videos! Love from Egypt :D

  • @mohibquadri4053
    @mohibquadri4053 Рік тому

    Superb ⭐ Bro what's some best books to read for on this topic & tackling hopelessness once n for all..

    • @gabrielbgonzalez
      @gabrielbgonzalez Рік тому

      Hey Bro, the one that mostly changed my life is Letting Go from David Hawkins. Read that one 5 times already. Also a New Earth from Eckhart Tolle is a good one to start, that one is simpler.

    • @mohibquadri4053
      @mohibquadri4053 Рік тому

      @@gabrielbgonzalez Thanks a Ton 💚

    • @alexxhlmt
      @alexxhlmt Рік тому

      "Can't Hurt Me" & "Winning" really helped me develop a strong mindset around achieving my goals. Hope this helps! What is your favourite book around self-development & mindset?

    • @mohibquadri4053
      @mohibquadri4053 Рік тому

      @@alexxhlmt Thanks Bro 😊 i am reading the book 'Grit' at the moment & some people suggested me 7 habits of highly effective people.

    • @gabrielbgonzalez
      @gabrielbgonzalez Рік тому

      @@mohibquadri4053 habits of highly effective people is awesome bro, also a must read in my opinion!

  • @ferdinand5170
    @ferdinand5170 Рік тому

    Hey bro great video! I find that finding ways to create a high degree of *urgency* is the best way to motivate myself. When I am in a rut, I think about what it would mean if I failed to accomplish my goals and what fate awaits those who succumb to sloth and don't escape the rat-race in the time they have left.

    • @gabrielbgonzalez
      @gabrielbgonzalez Рік тому

      Good point bro, I also use that. Just gotta be careful not to only use negative motivation, eats you up inside in the long-term...

    • @alexxhlmt
      @alexxhlmt Рік тому

      Amazing point! Couldn't agree more!

    • @patrick_breitenstein
      @patrick_breitenstein Рік тому

      Back against the wall mentality :D i like it

    • @ferdinand5170
      @ferdinand5170 Рік тому

      ​@@gabrielbgonzalez Urgency is not really an emotion in my opinion, it's "mental velocity" and propels you into action, so it's a very positive thing that 99% of people lack completely. And honestly, most people should be filled with anger at their lives. They *should* feel negative emotions and the *should* judge themselves, otherwise they will never get out of apathy.