Nicole Manzolini
Nicole Manzolini
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My Terrible AuPair Experience // Cultural Care AuPair 🇺🇸.
Hi guys,
my name is Nicole and I’m an Italian girl who just came home from one year in the USA as an aupair.
I made this video, kind of a try, to share my terrible experience as AuPair in the USA in my first host family in Nashville, Tennessee.
I apologize for my long video and my English but I hope you guys will enjoy watching my video and also will find this video useful if you are thinking about becoming an AuPair or if you are in a similar situation.
Thanks for watching- don’t forget to subscribe for more videos and if you like it, put a thumbs up 👍🏻.
Love 💕 You 💕 Guys.
Nicole.
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First vlog ever! ~ My american Firbidden Friend
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  • @GracieTaylor-m8g
    @GracieTaylor-m8g Місяць тому

    I got invested when you said Tennessee.. Thats where I’m from… haven’t watched the whole video yet… but not all Tennesseans are bad so sorry for your experience!

    • @GracieTaylor-m8g
      @GracieTaylor-m8g Місяць тому

      Omg you should not have to work that much!!! 25hr a week minimum unless paying for difference and having to constantly stay inside if awful so sorry for your poor experience and that you didn’t get to experience Tennessee and its best… because beautiful night life, country music, southern cooking, dollywood, splash country, Graceland where Elvis Presley was born… all kind of stuff… an pair is a cultural exchange yes you watch kids but I feel your supposed to do fun things as well and show them what you state is about but oh my that crazy she made you watch the baby, and you didn’t feel free to even look at your phone which is so fine you should be able to do that without feeling awkward abt it

  • @Nina94771
    @Nina94771 6 місяців тому

    Ah I feel for you, how stressful. I’m a full time nanny and I relate to a lot of this nuanced bullshit behaviour and treatment towards you that is usually very well disguised, everything always seems to perfect from the outside. But boy the subtle hell you can be dragged through, all the while remaking polite and helpful even when you shouldn’t necessarily have to be so. Glad you got out! I’m handing in my one month notice

  • @Peace.M-ik1oq
    @Peace.M-ik1oq 9 місяців тому

    Omg the cameras I so relate to

  • @mriniimane8281
    @mriniimane8281 Рік тому

    It will be interesting to hear the other side of the story! I see so many of you coming out to talk about their host families but im sure there is another side ! Just saying...

  • @letstalkaboutit5310
    @letstalkaboutit5310 2 роки тому

    I’m so sorry you had that experience. Sounds like this mom was having Postpartum Anxiety/Depression. It’s good you were able to find something else to make your time in the US worthwhile.

  • @marimm2400
    @marimm2400 2 роки тому

    ciao, una domanda, come hai fatto ad avere una macchina? altra domanda, è difficile guidare in un nuovo paese che non si conosce? a me spaventa tanto l'idea, non so perché ahahah

    • @nicolemanzolini7657
      @nicolemanzolini7657 2 роки тому

      Ciao!!! La macchina te la da la famiglia perché in America è necessaria. Per la guida ti abitui (;

  • @simplyisabelvieira5085
    @simplyisabelvieira5085 3 роки тому

    Big hug for you. I also had a terrible experience as an Au Pair.

  • @andrewilliams8324
    @andrewilliams8324 3 роки тому

    Man I'm really sorry you had the experience you had. I don't know that she didn't trust you, so much as she didn't want to miss those moments that could be milestones, first step, first laugh etc.. I really think she felt guilty that she needed help and "hovering" was her way of trying to prove to herself that she was a good mom. Shopping was also her way of rationalizing why she worked instead of just quitting and taking care of her own baby. I really appreciate your video; it makes me very aware that I need to be very open with communicating when and if I choose an au pair.

  • @sibongilemazet7883
    @sibongilemazet7883 3 роки тому

    Sorry if you looking a au Pair plz contact me

  • @cottentheact6740
    @cottentheact6740 3 роки тому

    We are in the process of looking for an au pair here in Hawaii for my family. I love hearing from both sides the experience.

    • @iceclub9362
      @iceclub9362 3 роки тому

      Been an Nanny for the past 13 years,Had so many different experienced with kids from 2 to 11.I am male Nanny

  • @claudetteperrault5152
    @claudetteperrault5152 4 роки тому

    Hello, Do you know of a site, forum, blog or the like to collect testimonials from Au Pairs who have gone to the Carnagie family (only the father with two young children aged 7 and 5) in Minnesota USA? Girls are not respected, poorly paid if at all and ..... maybe even more serious. I would like to be able to protect my grandchildren (my daughter is deceased) and "stop" this exploitation of girls who are only objects for some. Thank you.

    • @nicolemanzolini7657
      @nicolemanzolini7657 4 роки тому

      I don’t I’m sorry ;(

    • @lela8081
      @lela8081 Рік тому

      I would like to know any pages like this.I know a weirdo and sexual maniac from Germany who is looking for a partner and try to used Au Pair

  • @doucelait1
    @doucelait1 4 роки тому

    Your Au Pair sounds like she was a real weirdo. 😳 I’m glad you’ve moved on and are in a better place. 🤗

  • @audreyhorne8221
    @audreyhorne8221 4 роки тому

    Di solito sconsigliano di andare in famiglie con un solo genitore da quello che ho sentito

  • @zacharydavis6067
    @zacharydavis6067 4 роки тому

    Che tipo di domande ti hanno fatto nel colloquio in inglese?

  • @rhiannestorniolo8709
    @rhiannestorniolo8709 4 роки тому

    Don’t worry about your English! You sound amazing considering it’s not your first language, I’m trying to learn Italian and I could never speak fluent as this! Sorry to hear about your first awful experience but glad you completed your 12 month program in the end!😁😁

    • @nicolemanzolini7657
      @nicolemanzolini7657 4 роки тому

      Rhianne Daley thanks 😊 it means a lot! Good luck in you Italian classes !

  • @kattodoggo3868
    @kattodoggo3868 4 роки тому

    I cracked after 4 month when host gave me attitude and expressed really rude behavior. I think i stayed really too long and cannot imagine why you stayed 7 :D It was the same for me. Kids were tough and I was exhausted but only because host were picking up my smallest mistakes and she basically did not like me

    • @nicolemanzolini7657
      @nicolemanzolini7657 4 роки тому

      Katto Doggo I think I gave myself a chance to see if things would get better

  • @sunbeam9222
    @sunbeam9222 4 роки тому

    It sounds insane. I'm sorry.

  • @sunbeam9222
    @sunbeam9222 4 роки тому

    I'm pretty sure that as an au pair you are not supposed to care for chidren under 2 years old.

  • @旧金山野鸭子
    @旧金山野鸭子 4 роки тому

    I am Dan 👩🏻love your sharing your experience to let more people know what we got through😿

  • @gabrielevilla7745
    @gabrielevilla7745 4 роки тому

    Comics not conucs

  • @gabrielevilla7745
    @gabrielevilla7745 4 роки тому

    This is not even a vlog

  • @gabrielevilla7745
    @gabrielevilla7745 4 роки тому

    Music too loud

  • @gabrielevilla7745
    @gabrielevilla7745 4 роки тому

    What's firbidden?

  • @gabrielevilla7745
    @gabrielevilla7745 4 роки тому

    ODDIO STO VIDEO HAHAHAHAHA

  • @gabrielevilla7745
    @gabrielevilla7745 4 роки тому

    Thanks for your tips though! I'll definitely keep them in mind

  • @gabrielevilla7745
    @gabrielevilla7745 4 роки тому

    Troppi 'uhm'

  • @gabrielevilla7745
    @gabrielevilla7745 4 роки тому

    Amazziiiing alooo