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i use to be all about that spirituality than as an infj i realize it was te madeup stories so we dont all use ti and be "good"

Recently I discovered who I am I, felt the same as an infp but I am stubborn and fucking addicted to getting things done! Being a male INFJ 4w5 its hard actually. My feminine side is always to comfort for others but not for me.

Im an INFJ responding to ur hypothetical question :) . I feel like the "vision" is a gift you can't really develop over time, you just sort of have it or you dont. For the logic part, I do think it can be strengthened with effort and practice. I also think that you are right about being around different types. It strengthens our skills and helps us know when to pull them out, because we learn by watching what they do best lol. In the INTJ's case, being around them is a reminder to stick to the damn facts on the paper. ESFPs remind us to chill the hell out and choose happiness lol. Sometimes I feel like a human sponge, just soaking up things other ppl are doing.. but it definitely helps me learn + grow

Exactly

It feels so unrealistic to think that there will be a somebody who enjoys deep conversation, or who understands that crowds are overwhelming, or who understands that " being in your own mind" is very deeply enjoyable. Feelings everything is tough. I hope things are going well for you.

you could also be an enneagram 1

I really enjoyed watching both of you talking(it is not my first time watching the whole video 😅). I hope you make more videos like that or just discuss some ideas with each other ), It is gonna be so inspiring. 🤩 Wish you both all the best 💌

Thanks for sharing this video - I think it was really brave to be this honest and vulnerable on the internet with strangers, and it came from a really sweet place. I hope your journey has taken you to good places in the years since you posted this.

He's 1% agreeableness which means he is a gangster he walked through life as a gangster

You disappeared! This is the only video I found on two types,and well my combination didn't work out that well. Can you update us? INTJ really messed me up lol, I had a feeling he likes me until he didn't. I told we,as INFJ's are very critical and judging but oh boy,then you haven't met INTJ. Cold,just dgaf attitude.

I'm INFJ Male and this was hilarious. You get to the pen part and I'm going "Oh no, here it comes. She's a G2 girl." And I'll be damned, I knew it. I've done the same and have been through them all and used G2 as my go to as well for years. And then one day by chance I discovered the InkJoy and I knew I had discovered the holy grail. Went out and purchased every last one I could find.

Dear Katie, 5 years late but (I've seen other infjs in real life and many infjs in youtube and we all have so so much in common BUT) you are the first ever person in my life that is so extremely identical to me in some invisible ways that I cannot show but just feel. It's incredible! Shocking, amazing and scary at the same time! 😅 (Infj girl here, 4w5) I wish there was a way for us to talk face to face so that I could study our similarities😂 ( you know very well our infjs' need to know and understand fully) Even that feeling in your first seconds of the video ("something tells you to do something, out of the blue, something strange and new and you don't understsnd the "why" but you KNOW you MUST follow that feeling and do it, cause you somehow know it is the right thing to do eventhough you have no idea why" .... I've had so many times in my life this feeling! And of course I've followed it too😊

Did y’all break up??? It says friendship now.

What a lovely person.

Hi Katie! im very inspired by your video. I appreciate your vulnerability with proposing and sharing a less popular view. I think it's so important for us to constantly ask ourselves if the way we are searching for truth and meaning is truly giving it to us? once we think we know the way to meaning, joy, and peace in our bodies, we try to share it with others. the current reality of religions and 'science' are an example how we are once again reminded that the unchecked minds of people run by their conditioning have hijacked the method which was once intended for good, and used it for evil. the only solution for belief in a higher power is to recognize that power within us. to be guided by someone who in our day and time, has harnessed that power within them to self actualize and to learn directly from them, as their student. i recognise this leadership quality in you. i appreciate you! also, this video shoukd have 50k views! i suspect if you took out the first pert of the title, the video would reach more people like me, and fewer who want to convert you lol

love this video...fellow INTJ here who cares about your health. Teflon pans are not safe regardless of if you scratch them or not. You can switch to stainless or cast iron, which will lessen the toxin load in your body. Its easy to adjust your cooking habits and heat your pan differently to prevent food from sticking :)

I feel this. 🙏🏻 (self preserver here)

Ok, I’m back I figured something out, when the INFJ listens they do it with their eyes. Like, sure it’s the INFJ soul stare thing, but like they are focusing on the people and then bringing forth their inner counsel. The INTJ does this weird like thing where they Ni stare off while running through logical lists or whatever they are referencing in their heads and a lot of the interactions with INTJs are very specific head like movements that do most of the communicating which is mostly listening and then when they pinpoint what they are pretty sure that you’re going to say they side smile and are like they are flipping through Music Records in a used book store like yep know that, know that, that’s new, know that. Then when they use those light floppy hand movements they are like in a flow state of listening, or talking. I know this is probably like Socionics, or whatever it’s called. But, yeah I feel like I can recognize these two types just from their eye, hand and head movements when they listen or talk. Like in ten seconds. I know this choreography….. it makes me feel like I already know them. Tis creepy, but real.

The pace at which we process is by far stratospheric.

All the Abrahamic religions are very male dominant. Men wrote these books not any God. One must look further back to find more truth. We are moving out of a male dominant age and into a better age of balance between the male and female. Leonard Shlain has some very interesting books and goes back in history further. That is just one source of further information as to the nature that we are.. You are only working just above the bottom of the mountain of God. You have to go further back and higher up to see a better perspective. Our imagination is our greatest asset and our greatest enemy at the same time. We all have generational patterns just from our ancestral background on this continent and we can have blinders on. The Kings James Bible is a political book for it's day and much was left out and the meaning changed from the root words. You are young and just getting started-more to come that you never imagined. And some of our science is nothing more than religion. So from another INFJ old enough to be your Mother, I have given you much to ponder and a clue where to start looking.

Jesus loves you

im also an INFJ and that is also my favorite type of pen hahahaha I was laughing when you said it because I was like "what are the odds?"

I can relate to a lot of this. I am so sorry you went through your struggles but I am proud of you for choosing you. That's something I recently started doing as well and it's kinda crazy.

That’s exactly how I feel as well. Thank you so much for your explanation. Your sensitivity is a strength because you know how others feel. ❤️ You are a beautiful person.

FIRST REAL INFJ to REALLY SPEAKS with out REPEEATING MUCH WHAT OTHER SAY ABOUT INFJ I am 76 years old, Recently found out by a Neighbor who is a Psychologist who happen to notice how different I am from other women. i was a bit reluctant, but agreed. After several weeks he came to tell me the tests I took for him, said I was a Bona Fide INFJ, OK, so , I thought. Just another PEG HOLE.. I lost so many friend by Police Profilers use in a description of the BOOMER in the 1986 Olympics ending get-together. Friends would say to me, hum, sounds like they are looking for Me. Did I set the boom in the park? Just kidding. but not for long, They would question Wonder if you had such problem with people thinking you were a thief of possible killer. weird, too quiet ? Agree, on conversation in mind seeing many areas it connects., Professor must of been Jewish. I would have had a hard time to answer that. Six MILLION. executing when show the closet size room. TRY to collect a just a Million Quarters. Many died of Influenza., old age. When I was a child the NUMBER was much lower, I am76. But when stories became interesting , the numbers escalating.. I comment you for speaking up. I wish I would have done this for another student that came into class late.in 4th grade, and the teacher pointed to a WORD on the board, explaining how some letters are silent. and ask the student who came in late , what the word was. She kept trying to say the work using the "K" sound. I tried pointing to my KNEE, But she wasn't sure, teacher upset, went across the hall to the 3rd grade and had the girl tell what the word was. "KNEE" to embarrass our class student who came in late. I WANTED to say something, but I was on THIN ICE. being DYSLEXIC, a word back then that was never and still is NOT taken into Consideration to test students. TOM CRUZ actor is Dyslexic. Henry WINKER "the FONZ" in Happy Day" Still can not Read NOR Right., Founder of IKEA, is dyslexic. Famous Einstein was Dyslexic. There are about 5-7 area forms of Dyslexia . So my life before entering, throughout much of all school years 365 days a year, hardly a day would go by I did not hear the works how DUMB, Stupid I was. Even my sons father a JOURNALIST. said he was too embarrassed to introduce me to his parents. We were out to a dinner with his brother and wife, and his brother ask me a question, I started to answer, and my sons father KICKED me under the table, and whispered saying "THEY REALLY do NOT CARE WHAT YOU THINK" Rest of the night I said NOTHING. I know they heard him say that. I just wish I could have spoken up.to the teacher,, and to defend myself, Empathy I had, many times, but to use it, for me it just may my life, worse.. I too do not like using a bathroom without BUYING., Same in class group. But alone it as if no one could really help. .Purse, 76, NO, I just have small change in pocket and TYM card. . PENS as an Artist I have a few cheap PENS to write a CHECK. Not fearful to LOOSE. But Certain pens I found to be LOYAL, to my use I buy if and when I see them. Sharpie the INDUCSTRIAL that has Printed in RED. I buy. they do not Bleed if paper gets wet.. I like the ultra thin, and medium. I buy several around new School Year. because the Ultra THIN seems to available., EYES, brought up in a non-functional Family TOLD NOT TO STAIR AT PEOPLE. A man on a street car started Bawling, because I looked so much like the Starving Children. So it is been conditioned for me to not look at people, Or If I Did my mother would accuse it as FLERTING, and it was DIRTY.. I will start, at I do not know what when someone gets a phone call, and I feel It really is non of by business. So when they are done talking, and it takes them several time to get my attention. I apologize I felt it was non of my business to listen in., So I was watching a spider climbing on one of their plants My Eyes Are my thinking, like I am absorb words, like a book, the words not spoken, but can vision the snow ,rain , wind howling in a brisk night. . HOPE NOT too long. Chicken scratch letters I can not turn my monitor upside down to read mistakes.

Fellow INFj - I relate to all of the points but the pen/purse example got me because If I find something I like I will wear/use/etc. Until I can't anymore. I have countless examples but ones that stand out are shoes- I have literally worn my fave shoes until they tear up - Have worn purses until literally the straps break and I tend to wear one purse for the most part all the time irregardless of the outfit - I think about most things from a functional/efficient lens yet I do love beauty so I consider it too - but functionality/quality/efficiency trumps all I'm afraid 😂 - Thanks for sharing!

Your level of empathy for your classmate was wonderful and I’m sure it meant a lot to him in the moment. You are a gift to the world, don’t feel like you need to change.

Never considered people pleasing as a form of lying. You are correct it is like lying. Hiding our true selves(yeah). I believe i am guilty of the fawn thing in both of my past marriages. Also i am high on the agreeableness scale and need work on that and these other things. We have a lot to work on don't we? I am glad you are seeing all this early in life. It can only help in the long run to know. I wish i knew i needed the boundaries early on. You are on the path to truth and it is what sets us free. I feel a little more free just responding to you and responding to others responding to you. Thanks to you and to them.😅

Hello Katie. It is very refreshing to hear from someone who thinks so much like myself. I am also an INFJ. More specifically I am a INFJ-T Eneagram 5w6 Big Five reserved. What you said describes the objectivity of the Infj very well. You are trying to find the balance as well as the truth. We are scientifically minded but not purely(looking for the balance).Knowing things is very important to us.I agree with what you said about us needing to rely on something more than ourselves and to work on conflict resolution. Food for thought: everybody believes and everybody doubts.Thank you for your insights. I will be watching more of your videos.

Can someone have an overlap of infj and tj

She’s so feminine

I feel seen & understood, an INFJ here myself! Thanks guys 🤍

As someone trying to confirm if im an infj and then listening to the infj go off on a tangent passionately about the same subjects and ideas I enjoy really made me feel like I was hearing myself.

Hi! I’m wondering where I can find the initial overview video you referenced at the start. Thank you!

INTJ-A male here. I played your video because of recent interest about INTJ-INFJ relationships. I know an INFJ woman from years, we have history and recently accepted the fact that (after long periods of emotional evaluation and data gathering) I love her. "Evaluation" and "data gathering" seems apathetic words in this context but they are just concepts to describe what I been doing for a long time: watching and listening to understand the pattern, the singularity that makes her unique. I saw the video until the minute 6:24 when "percentages" started to be pronounced and comparisons between them started to be made, because only one word popped up in my mind when I heard them: fear. I understand the rigor to systematize and provide evidence, but the need to carefully measure everything in an attempt to get control over relationships and love "compatibility" seems to me as fear to uncertainty. You'll never be 100% sure about nothing, so you need to accept that always a degree of uncertainty will exists in everything. In relationships is the same; you need to trust and accept the part that is uncertain void. Being around my INFJ female removes any drop of fear on me, which is the reason I prefer to honor love as acceptance and be resilient to any darkness that could manifest from the uncertainty present in human interactions. If you want to love, don't be afraid.

This is why I deleted my instagram it would wear me out.

Right on, I’m also an infj. It would be cool if we were friends 😊

TY, Katie. Can relate to so much that you said.

I am a 62 year old woman just learning about MBTI and you seem to be my clone when I was younger. It’s a very traumatic experiential way of growing up

Well I am a 62 year woman… who is an INFJ…this is July 2024. I just noticed that this is a 4 year old video. I want to thank you for this content. I’ve watched so many INFJ videos and this video hit my home heart the most. The things you described in your content resonated with me down to my core.

24:26 omg I can deeply relate to this.. nobody has explained this switch between (ni-fe and ni-ti) before

I need an intj girlfriend 😢😅😊 Infj-A

INFJ cross body bag. Haha yes! Me too. Harder to purse snatch.

Yes! When people eat grapes before buying I can’t stand it! It’s actual theft! And they did it while people were watching! Hello! Where are your morals?

As a fellow INFJ woman I don't understand how someone isn't neurotic. Lol and I started laughing out loud when she hesitated before saying her number cuz we infjs already know lol y'all are so cute

Omg the tephlon pan thing is so frickin cute and funny. That's awesome 😎

That's strange other videos say they hit it off pretty well

You should be happy that this INTJ is more human😂. I’m an INTJ and I can tell you that, INTJ smiling and able to communicate well is very rare, due to our cognitive makeup.

What is all this alphabet soup? Stop internalizing and live life.

Katie when will you come back to upload videos? I love your channel! ❤