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Selene Z
Приєднався 12 жов 2018
Ni hǎo :) 探索生活、学习、情感成长,以及人类学纪录片之旅。
I am a content creator who thinks and shares about the human life and the world. Maybe you will appreciate your life more after you watch my videos. I hope so ! :D
I am a content creator who thinks and shares about the human life and the world. Maybe you will appreciate your life more after you watch my videos. I hope so ! :D
20 year-old isn't too bad if you live it like a capybara
Just a chill, generally nice, love to hug, attack only when we need to. somehow become viral by being cute. --statement by capybara .-. (does this look like a face to you? ;-; )
2024是很幸福,很满足的一年。
第一次穿梭原始森林,海钓,在美国拿驾照,买车。独居生活中的琐事也一点点学着,Selene在和身边 精彩 出色 有爱的朋友们一起成长。
2024是我在弗吉尼亚大学的最后一个秋天,高分考过了GRE,也第一次获得了1w+奖学金和荣誉戒指:)在年底,Selene顺利的完成了美博/硕士申请(got into uchicago master so far:),力量举打破了自己三大项的记录,回国见到了异国三年的闺蜜 一起来了一次说走就走的旅行。
2025 年,我会带着感激继续活这个很爽的剧本☺️ 困难和挑战是我们了解世界,接触人类多样性,对另我们胆怯的事情祛媚的美好过程。谢谢你们的陪伴~加油!
xoxo,
Selene (2025)
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I'm not sure if anyone on youtube will see this, but I'm here and hopefully be here more often soon! :)
2024是很幸福,很满足的一年。
第一次穿梭原始森林,海钓,在美国拿驾照,买车。独居生活中的琐事也一点点学着,Selene在和身边 精彩 出色 有爱的朋友们一起成长。
2024是我在弗吉尼亚大学的最后一个秋天,高分考过了GRE,也第一次获得了1w+奖学金和荣誉戒指:)在年底,Selene顺利的完成了美博/硕士申请(got into uchicago master so far:),力量举打破了自己三大项的记录,回国见到了异国三年的闺蜜 一起来了一次说走就走的旅行。
2025 年,我会带着感激继续活这个很爽的剧本☺️ 困难和挑战是我们了解世界,接触人类多样性,对另我们胆怯的事情祛媚的美好过程。谢谢你们的陪伴~加油!
xoxo,
Selene (2025)
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I'm not sure if anyone on youtube will see this, but I'm here and hopefully be here more often soon! :)
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Documenting my journey. Hope to make genuine connection&share your story to join along:) Feel free to comment/subscribe/questions!
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Be That Girl--如何高效自律平衡【留学/兼职/健身/自媒体/社交】/ 学会三个心态,掌握聪明魅力的秘诀
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Asian girls love BWC 😂
I don't think people date in the U.S. they just hookup instead
Selene you look so pretty:)
Selene🥰🥰🥰
0:19 looking good on the black/white driver's license 🥰
All of your life you run after money and status ? To hell with you !
People are overwhelmed and so disgusted at seeing limbs and gore in real time, I've seen some on twitter and it sends chills down my spine.They will never talk to the other side because they want instant solutions asap and anyone who is against that and is too disgusting to talk to. Arguably tech in some ways has made us this way. I'm an ABC and my views of freedom of speech definitely changed recently 😅
I’m in the uk. I’ve dated and married but it has always had issues, sometimes like treading on egg shells. A man can never open up and totally immerse himself in the whirlwind of the relationship. It is very hard to make the relationship go the distance. I wanted only one life partner. But now I have met a beautiful amazing Chinese woman. It is very very different. The culture difference is new and exciting , and we are the greatest of friends too. Over a year now and still I get more excited each time in spending our time together. This relationship just happened from nowhere. Totally unexpected, and I love it. Culture differences are not for everyone , I know, and understand that , and especially as she is a traditional Chinese woman , it has been a culture shock. Crazy but it works and I am running with it as I couldn’t imagine my life ever being this good without her.
😅Asian girls who married any foreigners they call left overs.
NO WONDER..MANY if NOT MOST YOUNGER GENERATION in CHINA , NO LONGER interested in MARRIAGE, FUCKIN HAVING LOYS of SEX & MAKING BABIES.! It ALL just TOO DAMN COSTLY & BURDENSOME..with so LIL & UNCERTAIN RATE if RETURN !!! LOL..LMAO 😂😂😂 TRUE again ! EXACTLY..
They wanna their daughters to go to the HIGHEST BIDDER..just likw in some FISH or ART AUCTION..LOL..but also TRUE !!! LAMO😂😂😂😂😝🙈🙉🙊👊🏽👊🏽
You forgot to mention Chinese dating now, a lot of it is about asking “how much money do you make? What college did you graduate from and what major? How many houses and cars do you own? How much money do you have saved up in your bank account? Are you at least 6’5 or higher? Are you an attractive person physically?” And the list goes on. If you don’t meet those 1% requirement in term of wealth, you’re basically not successful
Bullshit, these questions are only asked by people who remain single forever and in marriage markets
Extreme passionate love is not true love, it's temporary passion and as quickly as it starts it will end.
Truth is these situationships someone or both are fooling the other. Its like they are not committed to you but still looking. But they won't admit it like that. That's how it can be. But people are so used to it now they that began to believe its normal culturally.
u r beautiful u can date anyone
I don't get it. Am I too old for this? 😂
Personal opinion: For anyone you'd want to spend the rest of your life with*, they have to transcend their own culture. Otherwise they're not even a person, just a predetermined list of reactionary behaviour. Transcending one's own culture is a process of de-conditioning. The transition from reacting to life from the unconscious mind; to responding to life with the free will of conscious: mind, heart and soul. *Addendum: Anyone you'd want to spend any time with for that matter, including friends and associates.
somehow they just made it up XD
The Chinese female cosplayer I liked was so cold and rude to me and she led me on for my money
Asian girl loves the Big White Pipe
Anyone know the divorce rate for arranged marriages. In 30+ years in banking I've never seen one despite have probably over 100 as clients.
This is false and you're retarded. 🥱
Wanna get married? I’m broke but we can be broke together I might not even pay for the first date
Did not expect you to be a fellow philosopher too! Nice discussions and insights... Did not take you for a continental philosopher especially from your other videos haha
hahahah!!! applying to grad school.... hopefully I will be able to bring out insightful videos for you all:)
@@selenezz666 wow thats so cool! what aspects of philosophy are you planning to study in grad school? Respect your drive and courage ngl; Im thinking of grad school too, but am so undecided... All the best! =)
You are an extremely beautiful girl holy
Here in America we Don't waste time like in China no Matter how hypocrite we treat you but at the and we just wanna jave fun loves come later.
mix relationships are fun for a short time most don't last
Whats your name again i missed it, are you an american citizen now?? Whats your Chinese name and which province and city do you hail from. Are you a hybrid mixed individual? Did you vote for Harris or lisa Simpson?/hahaha 😅😊😮😢
I thought it was very interesting. When you compare asians to Americans as well, the agreeing on relationship status or confessing. I think that somewhere in between would probably be good. But I agree I think American's culture I would say is more laid back, let's not define what we are until it gets serious.
Hmmm... really hard to properly reply to this. People can tell when someone doesn't think they are good enough and if they sense your attitude to them and it could be off putting. Which would leave to them not fully commiting. If you feel someone is below you, best to be honest and not pursue. Love is complicated so it's not simple, but don't undervalue yourself or your partner.
Just finished a 4+ yr relationship with a Chinese women. It was like we were married from the get go. Literally bf gf 2nd date lol. Back in 2020.
So, are you single or not? 😅
Attraction is easy but the difference in culture can make things very hard.
Cross Culture dating is not hard...the problem is that you aim for white guys that are skinny 6/10 light eyes light hair ...these guys are sought after by all asian woman like you so obviously its going to be hard with them. I have many asian friends who tell me their stories with white guys its always cheating players...etc. (im married btw). If you could date a non-white race...things would be much easier but of course not really attracted to those i guess unless it's a white latino lol.
Lmao wow, i haven't heard such pile of racist bs in a longer while. Did you just categorize all white males as players and told her to not date white guys because of that ? I don't believe you are actually married with this kind of reasoning, unless you've met a similarly shallow person :D That's crazy. Just because there were a few guys with yellow fever who wanted to hit an Asian chick doesn't mean there wouldn't be any from other races that happily do exactly the same thing, haha
Not true....... It simply depends on the person, their age, background and so on. I lived in Shanghai...... there are no rules, it is whatever the two people decide they are....
your mouth is super cute
😂😂😂 its because you are dating foreign men , they have their own priorities and culture , Lots of Chinese women look down on their own men prefer foreigners instead , Next thing you know you hit 30+ , Expect to get married , went back to your hometown from oversras , and get regarded as a "leftover woman" in China 😂😂😂
😂😂 chinese men have proclaimed to not wanting to date their fellow chinese women who study overseas I guess i know why now , chinese women are busy dating foreigners overseas , And expect to get married with good amounts of dowries when they r back in China 😂😂😂
Would your family ask for a bride price? Does the person you meet have to own a car and a house? Does the guy have any height requirements like being 1.8m tall or something? What about the traditional marriage gifts of gold?
That is not the American way. It is what youtubers just spread online. Most American young men don't even have the opportunity to hang out with the opposite sex. It is only the top 2-5% and they have too many women to handle.
True enduring beauty always comes from within as looks can fade with age . More women need to speak on that inner love and how to become soulful embodiment and shine from inside out . I hope more women like you can coach others about the need to embrace that inner soul beauty so that don’t have to be a slave to plastic surgery to uphold a certain image . I’m sure there is some more healthy options for certain plastic surgeons now a days and working out the body will reshape it also . Nice videos !
I’m learning a lot about the not so subtle differences between Chinese woman and how to honor both cultures in a healthy respectful way so appreciate your videos ! In USA it’s very easily expressed love , flirting, and passionate dialog yes very true and I see how it can be turn off and feel disingenuous and surface level and actually leaning towards the Chinese way feels way more honorable and respectful by showing by way of actions and in return the woman takes actions so that it’s mutual . Men in west might give give give when the woman really only wanted attention etc but Chinese women take way more serious which as a man I would want anyways and then proper respect would then be received . Great content here , Mahalo 🙏🏽💫
Asians demands to marry a billionare when they dont even have a butt and boobs lol
Chinese food looks disgusting...and then you eat it only to find out yes..its truly disgusting
Yes because Chinese food sucks....
Hi, what camera are you using?
Interesting discussion, I have ideologically wrestled with these issues myself. I believe that life, as a unique and invaluable phenomenon, deserves deep respect and caution in any manipulation, as each being is endowed with inherent worth that goes beyond a simple scientific description. Biotechnology’s power to alleviate suffering is quite undeniable, yet suffering, paradoxically, often serves as a sort of a 'catalyst' for resilience and depth of character that shapes human experience in many profound ways. Autonomy in scientific pursuit should, therefore, be tempered with humility-acknowledging that while science grants us the capacity to influence life at its very roots, there remains a wisdom beyond our full objective, scientific or observable comprehension that has guided life’s complexity. Thus, I find that biotechnological progress is most meaningful when it not only enhances health and well-being but also honors the intrinsic value of life, respects the transformative aspects of hardship, and exercises restraint to maintain harmony within the natural order of existence. What do you think?
Quoi mais c’est pas possible, même les mêmes, les Chinois s’y mettent à nous bouffer notre culture 😂That’s the classic French cancan
Yeah. Im not taking advice from someone who doesn't even have to worry about this.
Facts😂 💯
I had the opposite experience with a Chinese girl. I hung out with her a few times, nobody declared any love, and then she assumed we were dating. When I stopped hanging out, she got angry. I always assumed that you cannot be dating unless you declare it, somehow. I am not sure if this is a Chinese or American thing. I think this is a person-to-person thing.
I see what you mean!!! case-by-case, she might assume that you guys are "already dating" because for some, hanging out with the opposite sex is already quite romantic! That teaches us to be clear and communicate about "progress" since we never want to hurt anyone when expectations unmatch:( I totally feel u, when others get angry it's quite upsetting.