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Golden nuggets of advice, thank you!

True 👍 ✔️ 👍 ✔️ 👍

During some of the narcissistic abuse times, I went horse riding. The power that those horses have to make you feel relaxed but to trust them is so very strong.

Jesus loves you all

I think I need to do something on my own

Ya for a few minutes it really does not last long just long enough to build that dependance

My ex lied about everything I was always cought between his lies he was telling others Some lies I have no idea why he lied about it but ya everything was a lie

Yes it helped to empower me learning more about it

Fall is a burnout time for me getting the garden in and ready for next year Just getting ready for winter when I'm done I'm ready for a snow storm so I can rest😂

I had to learn Bounderies with my pony and cow 😂I definitely had to set physical boundaries 😂

Good advice

I have these signs…

As someone who comes from a family where my emotions were never understood. This hit deep. Especially the self talk. Nothing good comes from talking down to yourself. Learning to love yourself and work on yourself is so important. Know your worth ❤ thanks for this video. I sincerely enjoyed it

5. It feels impossible to make peace with the past recalling all I put up with and taking it out on those I love, especially because the past is the reason my life looks as it does 6. Why is it so fucking impossible to succeed in my life? The reality of my life is hell. Most often I'm just being buried alive, and trying desperately to escape

Bounderies can help but not always sometimes we need to work through it and get the "job" done anyway

I had a very positive experience this summer in an equine therapy class. The connection with the horse was dramatic. It opened up a voice inside that I had not heard before: love, kindness, peace.

I am 60 and have experienced pretty much all of it. I was the last of 7 children and never had the feeling of being cared for, hugged or talked to. I could go on. I experience getting g totally emotionally hijacked sometimes. It's hard to cope - Paula

Very well said. Thank you for your videos.

Great video

Well now i need tips to stop being a pathological liar 😭

I fully agree

...and unlike a psychopath they can explode emotionally and are even more dangerous

I have no time for these people. I struggled for years. I’m glad I’m free.

Never realized i was a sociopath ...😢😢😢😢

😂I never seen it that way b4 😂because we had strengths or they would not even bother ❤🎉

Thx for the advice. 🙏

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My dad was a lot like this. He was abusive to us kids and my mom, but would always have a facade in public and do things to look like the perfect family. Only to scream at us when we got home. When we all grew up and got away from him. He still thinks himself the victim

I remember using a mindfulness book called 30 Days to Overcome A Toxic Relationship by Harper Daniels. It was simple and helped.

This was helpful thank you

Thank you I watched this a few times because I was thinking about others😂 These really help because of the loop... You can drill it in if need be 😂🎉❤

I love your style. Don’t give up!

I need to be a step ahead, would my helper give me some piece of info ? For once I must be a step ahead.

This is a bunch of bullshit. Healing. Life is hard, buy a helmet.

❤Thanks

Is it uncommon to do this not only for myself, but to insulate the other party as to not further corrupt that individual, as I did with my last ex? That was 3 years ago, and it seemed to have been the best option for the both of us. However before I even understood the no contact rule, I was just avoiding conflict at the time.

I agree

Victims need to hear this.

I believe my wife is a Borderline BPD but sometimes I can’t tell if she might just have NPD. It’s severe though. Complete cognitive dissonance. She acts like a super Christian woman but has propagated great evil against me without remorse but will say those same words to me. It’s a mind F%#^! Thoughts?

Bounderies we don't really think about them until in the situation behaviour could be different for different people We could be stuck doing something we don't want to do because we didn't think about it 😂

Your channel has some great videos and advice in a manner that is easily digestible. Keep up the good and life changing work. Stick with all the great work you are doing. The rewards will come like a tsunamia, and your channel will go strength to strength. Write a book! God bless.

Oh my definitely in my prayers 🙏❤️💞🙏

Makes sense and yes they all do it not just soft drinks 😂 Cool so keep focusing on what we want to attract...

Cool explanation

I took care of my mother - hospital visits, showers, doctors, food, stayed there every week. I planned the funeral. I was shocked that I was disinherited and hurt deep in my soul. I felt like an outsider to everyone. Still do. My husband and kids see my pain but they don’t realize how deep it goes. I will never get over it. I don’t even know who I am. My siblings I’m sure persuaded mom. They took her to the lawyers while I was in the hospital. I’m currently suing them. It’s not about the money but it’s about not letting them beat me While I’m down. Even if I lose at least I tried. So I lost my mom, dad had passed a few years back. Then I see the disinheritance and I for some reason stopped mourning my mom. That made me feel worse. What is wrong with me. Then I lose my siblings- I will never talk to them again. I’m truly not okay. Everyone is sick of me complaining and crying about it all the time. I just want to talk to my mom and ask her. Why?

The pain of disinheritence is very painful and I will never ever get over it. Even though I’m going to be successful in my own right, the pain is something that will always be there as I can’t ask them why!!!

I sure hope he is. God bless them

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So very true..

Thanks this does clear things up My ex did call himself God at times he is was I don't know an atheist He always said things in a joking way Yes they mirror us so we see good in them but ya temporary They can't change unless they are not a narcissistic person they might just have traits but should be willing to work on things