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Silent treatment is cruel, childish and abusive.

20:02 Yes

16:52 I never experienced that as a child that I can remember. But I did have this one guy I was talking to. Do that to me often and I kept doing things. Because I had never experienced that before. I ended up ghosting him because he was exhausting. And doing way too much but now he’s sniffing around again. I just smile and keep it moving.

The Silent treatment doesn't bother me. It's not always manipulative, sometimes you just need a break from that person.

This is not just about being an African but it is about being a big fool. I hope he was educated so he should have known that sex of the child can be preselected by gynaecologists so he should have done that after the third child with you. Moreover, even though he failed woefully in managing your marriage with him by bringing upon himself the burden of this strange woman and his kid, he still shouldn't have signed away his house sending his five kids and their mom to blazes. That's a sign he never loved you not the kids. It is not about being African, he was a fool in a most pitiable way. Rubbish. I am a Nigeria, with five kids. A boy and five girls. Yes, the boy will supplant me when I am gone while the girls will all be married out, yet, I sincerely don't love him more even though he is a very obedient and good boy. I love my girls and will sher my assets fairly to everyone. The boy is now being groomed to stand on his feet and be a man. He should depend on my providence forwver.

It's funny that you warn women about the silent treatment, when this behavior is most prevalent in women.

Would you prefer we yell, scream, and flip out? Let's be honest. You DID do something wrong.

My lovely, sweet, late wife was quite "silent." So was I. We just held hands and were "silent" together. I miss that peace. 😢

It seems like most of these people are either speaking on a specific situation or that most of them are not relationship experts. Yes, withholding affection is hurtful and can be abusive. But to make a blanket statement that the silent treatment is manipulation is absurd. It centers the entire conflict on the perspective of the person not being spoken to, while leaving no room for the person not speaking to speak for themselves. Your boundaries are for you. Agency doesn't end because your partner wants you to communicate with them when they decide it's time for you to communicate. A healthy relationship would be able to give each other space too. That doesn't mean you won't communicate when you're ready.

19:40 I’m that bitch 🙌🙏😘

Yeah took me 30yrs with him to finally stop it.

How about I stay silent because I don’t want to crash out. How about a woman that will say the most asinine things to get me to crash out. You women really need to check yourselves. What’s wrong with you delusional modern women? Never mind nothing wrong with the women. It’s all men

My ex used the silent treatment as punishment, manipulation, and intimidation. He knew early on how devastating it was to me, especially when it carried on and on over minor and imaginary incidents. After a couple decades, it occurred to me that those extended periods of 'silence' were actually periods of peace. I proceeded to appear as upset as I had always been, slinked off to another room, and enjoyed the silence and peace. I eventually decided 'acting' hurt was just too much trouble, so I just ignored it. That appeared to be the trick to make the silent treatment end, as it proved to be upsetting to him once I no longer appeared intimidated, upset, or hurt. Imagine that....

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This is hilarious. Have to love echo chambers. The man in the blue shirt laid it out perfectly but that was probably to reasonable for most. No man is trying to punish a woman with his silence; he probably finds talking to you insufferable. But instead of seeking professional help, looking in a mirror, or respecting boundaries, it’s, he must be “toxic.” Such a cop out. Most “adults” are horrible communicators! Most! None of us are as awesome as we want to believe!

I like the man in the blue and how he breaks it down

All it says is that just because a man has married you, it doesn't mean that he cares about you as human 😢.

You will have to fight this one in court for the girls to get their share of the house if it's paid up.😢

It's very sad! Being a stay at home wife doesn't pay at all cause most men are very selfish. The whole reason why he didn't wanna you to move to another state is so he could be free and loose with many women. I strongly feel men should not marry if they cannot stay faithful. Your husband's actions were cold and heartless.. If the church was not there for you then you would've been at a homeless shelter with 5girls. This is one of the most heartless cheating stories.💔 Chances are that boy child might not even be his.

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When a man gives a woman the silent treatment is for her protection. They don't want to blow their cool and say or do hurtful things they'll regret. I'm surprised women haven't figured it out yet

It’s a very sad story.but I would not stop fighting cause he left five other children and also request to DNA done on the boy may God continue to strengthen you

Just avoid all black women are those with mixed with black and you won't have any of this problems

Are these aunties still pushing this same tired rhetoric?? Have they not learned?? I’m so incredibly happy that more young women are choosing themselves. Signed, An Auntie❤️❤️

We need part 2 please. I'm invested now.

Amen this is why I said no more. As much as I want more kids.

The car checkers are out there. Moreover, watch to see who is watching you & yours.

My hubby does this all the time. He's doing it now. I'm so over it!

I get the silent treatment. He won't do or help with anything. He will talk to our sons a little, but not one word is shared between us until he's ready. But even then, there's would be days without a talking. It's very unhealthy.

That is absolutely horrifying! I wonder if she will ever allow her daughters to meet their half brother. I hope she figured out the finances.🤍🤍🫧

Ladies- stop breathing. Ladies- stop traveling. Ladies- stop going to work Ladies- stop going to any type of social gatherings. Ladies - stop doing anything because men are evil by nature- and they can do whatever they want , because they can’t help it- and if they get one of you, ITS YOUR FAULT.

It’s called financial abuse, when they do that.

Facts💯💯💯💯 This is exactly what I am going through now with my ex-husband!!!! He is a covert narcissist! I am doing everything on my own for my daughter.

I mean, are we safe ANYWHERE?

I give the silent treatment because MY mouth can be reckless when I'm upset. Has NOTHING to do with any of what they said...

I live in Philadelphia and I do not sit in my car at least. Soon as I park my car I immediately go to my destination

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Because he's hateful. My answer: divorce, that's why I'm not married.

Preach Sister, Preach. I was married to a man like that for 26 years...I am happily divorced and living my best life ever. He sounds like a serious narcissist!! Finally free...is a beautiful thing. Men like that are envious of their wife (partner,girlfriend), and cannot handle seeing any complements to their significant other. There is no excuse in the world, that one should treat anyone so badly. Life your head and move forward...period!!

I appreciate his warning as parking lots, driveways, gas stations etc. are considered transitional spaces and therefore dangerous spaces. But ANY time we're in our cars our doors should be locked, and we should never automatically assume that we're safe just because we're in our own driveways. It is my habit to lock the doors any time I park or get into my vehicle, whether they'll lock automatically once I put the car into drive or not. I also legally conceal carry AND carry pepper spray, but I still make sure my doors are locked. This is especially important for places where you're only going in for something quick. It might only take 2 or 3 minutes, but STILL lock your doors.

It’s a weird thing to do.

This goes both ways for men and women. Everyone we are all born equal, know your worth and God Bless.

This is abuse.

She's correct. Don't be that nurturing woman because you will stay single and you will never find a man who can depend on you and Care About U and work to take Care of you., Because you are not supportive.😊

I was the "Good Woman" 👉🏾good cook/spotless house/educated/organized & beautiful 😏my only flaw was never being (or wanting to be) a driver, so men seduced me with offering to fill that void. Not one of them could stay loyal (not even the father of my children)😒BUT now that we're all old 🧓🏾all 3 of them want a 2nd chance 🙅🏾NOPE!!!!!!!!!!!!

I find it very interesting that Males will push false narratives about women to justify mistreating us but will flat out gaslight women who are cautious around males. When a man does something to a woman the accountability & blame is put on us & we are told we did something to deserve it yet if we treated all males like they are unsafe to be around those same males that blame women for the actions of males would call her triggered & say it’s not all men it’s just the ones she’s choosing. If we treat them accordingly we are triggered, bitter & hate males. If we ignore all the red flags & become passive to their behavior it’s our fault for allowing it. They are never held accountable but will claim it’s women that’s never held accountable. They are the biggest manipulators & they don’t care about anything or anyone but themselves. They have labeled themselves providers & protectors, receiving credit & praise even if they don’t provide or protect. It’s truly a mind binding & insufferable experience to coexist with males

Exactly 💯

While I was in my relationship he insisted on getting a storage for some clutter instead of organizing our apt after baby. I told him i didn’t think it was a good idea. I’ve had ppl break in my storage and lost allot of things over the years. We broke up and I moved into my own apt he didn’t help me at all. I asked for my storage stuff and he stalled for a year. I asked over and over he finally confessed it was auctioned off. When I told him about himself he told me that I’m miserable. I’m taking him to small claims.

good topic but let's clear some things up.. What is a TRAD/BASE/CONSERVATIVE WOMEN ? answer Virgin bride.. yes, Before the U.S. Sexual Revolution women were expected to be a Virgin BRide. All NON VIRGIN BRIDES CANNOT BE TRAD/CONSERVATIVE/BASE WOMEN that is impossible. they are Modern women if they are a NON VIRGIN BRIDE. LOOK IT UP ! What is a Trad/Based/Conservative man? answer A man that will ONLY MARRIED A VIRIGN BRIDE..Yes, the VIRGIN BRIDE STANDARD is still in place all over the world except in WESTERNIZE COUNTRIES look it up.. Before you ask ? WHY ARE MEN NOT REQUIRE TO BE VIRIGNS TO GET MARRIED ? Answer MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT MEN AND NOT EQUAL AND THAT NOT BAD! That is why. What applies to Men dont always apply to women. What applies to Women dont always apply to men.. That is why we are having problems. The feminist sold women lie of SEX/GENDER EQUALITY. MEN AND WOMEN WILL NEVER BE EQUAL THAT IMPOSSIBLE. Just clear those things up because I keep hearing people claiming they want TRAD WIVES but the women the label TRAD are NON VIRIGN BRIDES ,,WHICH MEAN THEY ARE NOT TRAD..

The girl on front photo is a narcissist can you see the difference between her and others ;):.