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IRI Website Update
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Imago - Through Conflict to Connection
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A real life story of three couples, who explore conflict in their relationship, and find how it can lead to connection. Imago couples therapy was developed by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt, and is immortalized in the best-seller "Getting The Love You Want".
What is Imago Therapy?
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Founders of Imago Therapy, Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D. explain what Imago Therapy is and how to do it. You can learn more about Imago Therapy and Dialogue and ways to make your marriage or relationship even better at GettingTheLoveYouWant.com.
What is Imago Dialogue?
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Harville Hendrixc Ph.D., founder of Imago Therapy, describes what Imago Dialogue is all about and how you can use it to make your relationships and marriage stronger and more connected. It can really be used in all aspects of life! To learn more about Imago Therapy and opportunities for Couples Therapy or Workshops please visit GettingTheLoveYouWant.com.
Harville Hendrix addresses using Imago Therapy
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Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., founder of Imago Couples Therapy, addresses a common issue that comes up after a couple attends a Getting the Love you Want workshop. Learn more about those workshops, Imago Therapy and more at GettingTheLoveYouWant.com.
An Introduction to Imago Therapy
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This video introduces you to Imago Therapy through clips from the incredibly helpful Through Conflict to Connection DVD available from gettingtheloveyouwant.com. Visit the website and learn how Imago Therapy can help your marriage or relationship!
Alanis Morissette Talks about Imago Couples Therapy
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Alanis Morissette Talks about Imago Couples Therapy

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  • @annevanderlaan6441
    @annevanderlaan6441 2 роки тому

    This was in the beginning for them and they are so passionate about bringing peace into the world. This shows that they are so different people yet they have found a way to have the love you desire.

  • @david.petrey
    @david.petrey 2 роки тому

    At first I thought they were doing a comedy routine. 😀

  • @margareth1504
    @margareth1504 3 роки тому

    Beautiful

  • @Dhhtyu4566
    @Dhhtyu4566 3 роки тому

    Leading by example - interesting

  • @Kyrieava
    @Kyrieava 4 роки тому

    "the purpose of a relationship is to heal one another", I'm sorry, as a Counseling graduate student, this sounds like codependency to me...? Like I agree with the way they support each other but the heart behind this therapy just doesn't sit right with me so far.

  • @investornabil8825
    @investornabil8825 4 роки тому

    Lol funny video. Thanks for sharing

  • @BU4U
    @BU4U 4 роки тому

    Brilliant! Thanks

  • @mandyjmoore
    @mandyjmoore 5 років тому

    She interrupts him so much. It seems to contradict the spirit of the exercise. Maybe it's the nerves of being on camera.

    • @royaloakseskies
      @royaloakseskies 5 років тому

      Mandy Moore She is using the therapy to be present and attentive and mirror back to him-

    • @JesseKennedydrums
      @JesseKennedydrums 4 роки тому

      That’s exactly what I felt. Interrupting is just so dismissive and it’s hard for me to hear what’s coming next after someone interrupts me lol

  • @SuperNashum
    @SuperNashum 6 років тому

    I prefer Marshall Rosenberg Non Violent Communication

  • @susanseifert2484
    @susanseifert2484 6 років тому

    Love this - emotional safety = mirroring, validating, empathy​

  • @jaccraig071
    @jaccraig071 7 років тому

    Love this, working through a relationship connection now - 2017 IIN student

  • @thehollyannrose
    @thehollyannrose 7 років тому

    Me gusta

  • @imonlyanamatuer
    @imonlyanamatuer 8 років тому

    This is the kind of dialogue that happens when two people are afraid to let go of raw emotion. Nice idea, but ends up looking and feeling like a business interaction. I don't see the heart connection or a natural flow here. Just my opinion, of course.

    • @vaultsjan
      @vaultsjan 7 років тому

      It does look a bit 'silly' and formal. I havent started the Imago therapy with my partner yet, however it kinda reminds me how i never can remember somebodys name when they are introduced to me. I guess this kind of mirroring forces my brain to almost mechanically go over the information received.

    • @asistentedemildredpiccinon6018
      @asistentedemildredpiccinon6018 6 років тому

      Is a drill . When we do the "Real Thing" at the end you feel the deep connection and empathy .

    • @hestiewillemse7728
      @hestiewillemse7728 5 років тому

      looks like hard work and who cares about i feel this or that it wastes time, rather say how u want the person to treat u and mirror that...quick easy, i.e. show that u love me by being early.

  • @knavarre1
    @knavarre1 8 років тому

    Love this :)

  • @kimberlygrant9337
    @kimberlygrant9337 9 років тому

    I really like this dialogue. Thanks.

  • @michellesavage3634
    @michellesavage3634 9 років тому

    Nice eye-opener! -IIN Student

  • @in2wishin
    @in2wishin 9 років тому

    She is "overtalking" and rushing to mirror sometimes when she is doing Imago, that is why it lands for us that there is not a complete listening process going on. Also, when he says that her point of view is very hard to see, she "retaliates" with telling him, "... and yours too" instead of mirroring what is there for him and stop the blame game. I feel that she needs to really listen and hear him more.

    • @asistentedemildredpiccinon6018
      @asistentedemildredpiccinon6018 6 років тому

      Is a drill . When we do the "Real Thing" at the end you feel the deep connection and empathy .

    • @mheimerp
      @mheimerp Рік тому

      The male is doing most of the talking? Curious about the lenses or bias the above comment comes from.

  • @jakealcock775
    @jakealcock775 9 років тому

    I LOVE THESE DOCTORS!

  • @Eeriekid
    @Eeriekid 10 років тому

    ahhh first time i see the couple's dialogue done on video. very interesting. can't wait to get my copy of the workbook

  • @hb7678
    @hb7678 11 років тому

    What's so interesting: This couple SHOULD BE REALLY GOOD at validating each other, and.... repeatedly in the video you can in fact see them NOT QUITE DOING IT, and instead quickly raising their own issue, and it's reactive on the part of both, especially him.

    • @hb7678
      @hb7678 11 років тому

      So......if they can't quite do it...... Don't you think in fact this ISN'T ENOUGH? It *is* a good thing. And....IT IS NOT ENOUGH.

    • @hb7678
      @hb7678 11 років тому

      Let me be more precise -- they are validating, sure, BUT they are also reacting. They only have improved a little over the normal situation..... What's needed? Probably some individual healing work! Imago -- a good thing that WON'T work by itself often.

    • @asistentedemildredpiccinon6018
      @asistentedemildredpiccinon6018 6 років тому

      Is a drill . When we do the "Real Thing" at the end you feel the deep connection and empathy .

  • @rafarafa87
    @rafarafa87 11 років тому

    In this context, some couple therapy I think.. It seems to be a word from psycoanalysis that is used for an idealization of a parental figure in a person´s childhood.. And as a third meaning, it has something to do with enthomology (insects), and it´s like the final transformation of a bug, so it has some relation with the idea of perfection.. And at last, it has something 2 do with Carl Jung, who was a psycoanalist that doesn´t deserve2 be remembered because his crazy ideas were incoherent..

  • @DerCrusaderWabbit
    @DerCrusaderWabbit 11 років тому

    imago is amazing. and it really really works.

  • @josephcancellieri6892
    @josephcancellieri6892 11 років тому

    look it up on youtube bro. -IIN student

  • @Shamuto3167
    @Shamuto3167 11 років тому

    I wasn't able to see the video!

  • @cindy394
    @cindy394 11 років тому

    Such important and valid work, i feel privileged that I attended two Imago workshops with my former partner, one with the founders.

    • @lisgnell
      @lisgnell 5 років тому

      cindy394 ‘former partner’. Lol

  • @acquavida
    @acquavida 11 років тому

    Did one of the courses , fantastic '! Every couple should do this , the personal growth is beyond expectation !

  • @aptcmpasion
    @aptcmpasion 12 років тому

    at 57, i've seen, read ,heard, experienced a seemingly universal phenomenon of couples not communicating--a 'just do it' approach to their relationship, that has been stuck in failure-mode since, probably, the 50s; it took about 3yrs of visiting Facebook in complete bewilderment, as to what this is, before it finally hit me, that Facebook is for standard-american-smalltalk-only, i.e., completely dedicated to shallow communication, by shallow people (who may hold advanced degrees in something!)

  • @spiritualangel824
    @spiritualangel824 12 років тому

    this is not a therapy this is simply communication and no one can heal our spirit but us no one can heal someone else

  • @nichuizen
    @nichuizen 12 років тому

    like the therapy, video not that much!

  • @Restcounselling
    @Restcounselling 14 років тому

    Great overview

  • @Vegall1992
    @Vegall1992 15 років тому

    What's Imago?

  • @Jibbie49
    @Jibbie49 15 років тому

    "Getting the Love You Want" by Harvel Hendrix is a book everyone should read. He says to NEVER CRITICIZE and that is the most important rule ever.

  • @CouplesHelper
    @CouplesHelper 15 років тому

    Great video! Thanks for putting it on UA-cam!