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A parent can take care of 5 children and it seems that 5 children can't take care of one parent. Selfish little monsters.

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Too bad my Mom disrespected me all my life so staying away is what I do. Don't care to be near the very person who always put me down she is always negative don't care to be trashed for just being myself.

It's who comes into your family that ruins it!

In the Bible 2 Timothy, chapter 3. Is about perilous times.

I miss my grandsons

Elderly abuse does occur….mentally, financially, etc…it’s serious

I am 78 and fully understand everyone who is hurting. Friends, we are living in the last days and the Bible talks about children disrespecting their parents and love growing cold. Put your faith and trust in God and pray for your lost children because the enemy of God seeks to devour and destroy all God's children. We can be angry and not let that anger make us ill if we give our children to God and release our pain to Jesus. For Jesus is the healer of broken hearts. He is the reason I can exist. His love is perfect and He will see us through the heart ache of our children not respecting us. God bless and put your trust in Jesus because He truly loves you and me. I have a dog and God loves me through her. She can't wait until I wake up each morning with excitement. Get a pet and hang out with God. He never fails. Sending you all some hugs and love. In Jesus name. Give Him a try.

Wow. There are just too many of us who have been ignored even when we are in the same room, or when we ask for help to be told they are too busy only to find out they were playing video games online that night. Where did we go so wrong?

In our house between us mother and children.. father and children children too it's our problems..we fight we laughed when have fun we been upset..life normally for everyone It's not normal You*sell motivation for nothing your business.. it shameful. .. not respected others private life .

My daughter is not speaking with me. She is my only child. So I, in turn, cannot see my grandkids. I have done nothing wrong. She lives in another state. My mom and daughter talked for a while on the phone after she stopped speaking to me. My mom told me she finally couldn't continue to ignore the fact that she and my daughter were talking, but my daughter wasn't speaking to me. My mom said she couldn't "play nice" anymore. That's because my daughter won't speak to me she is hurting me deeply, and my mom doesn't want to see me be hurt anymore, as I am her daughter. I'm angry because my mom at 83 doesn't deserve to watch all this. I work and have my own home. Many pets and friends and family. But I have hurt that I've been carrying around now for 3 years. My daughter told my mom she has hurts and that's why she won't speak to me. I asked my mom what the hurts were, and my mom said nothing other than stuff that through the years "would roll off a ducks back". Just everyday growing up stuff. She's 36 now and stubborn. Her husband won't speak up as he doesn't want to be involved. I'm working on being the best person I can be. Overall, I'm happy enough. ❤

Wow, thanks Jesus for sending me this. The worst is when they keep the Grands away.

I was watching the movie called "War Room" In the movie she says this: "My joy doesn't come from my husband, or my job or children. My joy comes from the Lord." When I decided to look to God as my source of true joy it changed everything for me. I no longer spend time being sad because my son doesn't call or visit. I trust that God will supply all my needs and he has. God will set the solitary in families. I'm alone but I'm not lonely. I've found a peace that passes all understanding. It all happened when I let go of what I thought should be and embraced what God had for me. God does not disappoint. The best is yet to come!! Thanks for sharing this awesome advice!

I am 77 and my son cut off communication with me over 2 years ago. I don’t even know who he is any more so I don’t miss him. He need encouraged my grandsons to stay in touch with me, so those family ties are gone as well. I was a single mother and did so much for them through the years. But I will not be disrespected or not treated with gratitude. So here we are.

Load if croc!

My daughter lives next floor. I and her father did everything for her, put her interests ahead of ours. Paid for her education not having a car and normal flat. Now bought some property on her name. We even have no savings because we spent everything on her. And some months ago she cut off us. She doesn’t speak with both of us and with grandparents as well. Her grandpa has a stroke and she didn’t even ask about him. Now we are afraid that she will sell our flat and we will be homeless. I still cannot believe that she could behave like this.

Hi. Reading through the comments below tells me these people's adult kids are still behaving like babies who have a right to unconditional love. Tantrums and narcissistic selfishness are "soup-of-the-day" for two-year-olds, that's fair enough, they don't know any better and we love them anyway. But if we keep up the junk-food diet of "unconditional love" when they're bigger kids and do know better, we end up with callous spoilt brats still throwing spaghetti on our walls when they're 20. A gentle-but-firm shift away from unconditional love to conditional love needs to start as soon as the clever little monkeys learn to weaponize their bad behaviour to get their own way (Tantrums). Never ever reward deliberately bad behaviour (or threats of it) by "giving in for the sake of peace". As with Hitler, that only postpones the war. Society is sentimentally besotted with the idea of "unconditional love" because our religions post it as some sort of "holy grail". In fact, it is a poisoned chalice that if given too long, produces slave-like Stockholm syndrome in givers, and turns receivers into monsters like Nero. Only "conditional love" with its dignified expectation of reciprocation teaches kids to treat all others respectfully as equals. When gold is freely available it is not valued and is taken for granted. It's the same with love. He who is given freely that which he should earn himself, will end up appreciating neither the gift, the giver, nor himself. Cheers, P.R.

There are many of us. It's a sign of the end times. It's not an excuse. My dad died when I was 12. All my sisters have taken care of my mom at one time or another. She's 94 now and doing well. We'd do anything for Mom. My kids? Debatable.

Avoiding gossiping groups, very toxic, I’ve been invited but kept away.

It doesnt work if you are with someone who doesnt want you to have some time but, just wants you as their slave.

I cannot imagine doing this to my parents. I moved to the other side of the world 5 years ago to take care of my mum who has Alzheimers. My dad now has macular degeneration. There is no way I could live so far away from them even though I have two siblings very close to them, one who helps out tremendously. I gave up a lot for them but with no regrets as they gave us so much in return. I here this is a very common occurrence but thank God amongst my family and friends we take care and honour our elderly.

Most of this would apply to spouse and other relationships also.

Very inspiring

If my children ignore me or abandon me in my older years, I won't leave them a dime. I would will it to whoever helped me out. That would be my last life lesson to them .

For the couple in this video the problem may be that extra hand on her shoulder at 5:04. Could be creeping her children out 😳 (Sorry, I know this is a real problem. I think your suggestions are wonderful. 👍🏽 Thank you so much ☺️)

Stay away from toxic people. If there isn’t a relationship, just admit it and protect yourself against any involvement.

Both my Mom and Dad have passed . It was my GREAT HONOUR to be able to give back when they gave so much! I lost my Mom when I just started to be one myself 😢. I helped my Dad as much as I could my new daughter was a light 💡 to share . My Dad lived on to 95 and I was there with my three children daily either by phone or physically. What an honour they both gave so much love ❤️ which I am able to pass on to my children ! They have become wonderful adults giving caring and respectful to all! I am blessed however I was fortunate to have wonderful parents to give me a strong foundation! TG❤

Terrible AI images.

Let them live their life ❤

But if your adult child lives with you and ignores you to the point of neglect, that's against the law. Society so often ignores family abuse and neglect. Sometimes its to achieve early inheritance. Seniors are valuable, and significant!

my mom was bedridden, my sister had POA and didn't want me to visit on certain days so I didn't visit at all the last 1 1/2 years of her life. Never got to say goodbye. Felt awful. She came to me in a dream. She was in the same chair she occupied when spending summers with us. "Remember when you used to ask me to stay 2 more weeks?"

Write them out of the will.

I never thought i would utter the words that my biggest regret was having children everything changed when they met their partners the list of things they did and did not do is so long i ended up ill and they briefly visited my cure was realising they were much worse than i remembered and also my husband and myself started to value ourselves more we are basically back to square one now for the first time ever we both do not discuss or mention their names we had to accept it is what it is for our own sanity

I appreciate your suggestions of handling these type of situations. The emotional pain is very real and agonizing when rejected, neglected, belittled and forgotten. One thing that has helped me cope and not take things as a personal attack, although it is. This is not an excuse but an understanding . In the bible 2Tim3;1-3 "...the last days will be very difficult times. For people will love only themselves and their money. They will be boastful and proud , scoffing at God, DISOBEDIENT TO THEIR PARENTS AND UNGRATEFUL." One translation says " they will be self-centered, arrogant pride, mock what is right , ignore their own families, be ungrateful and ungodly." I find peace when I forgive the person or persons and ask God to heal my wounded heart. That way I can respond appropriately and not go down to their level.

My younger sister & I made ourselves financially responsible for our mother at the age of 18 & 19 years old ; after we found our father at home with another woman. We both worked & went to school while taking care of our mother. We didn't get marry because we took care of our mother for 25 years ; until she died. She passed away when we were 43 & 44 years old. We both are working as caretakers. And had seen how old people are left alone not only holidays.But all year long by their relatives. We only have each other. We have nieces & nephews. But seeing how they treat their parents. We really don't expect nothing from them. So even though neither of us have any child ; I understand exactly how you all feel. Until today my sister & I don't regret giving our youth to our mother.

My children are so good to me. I thank God daily for them. I am 92 and unhealthy. My son and his wife are doing so much for me. I am blessed.

Prime example.. we have two children who are married we have six grandchildren. We have tragically lost two children. Christmas Day was just my husband and I alone in our house. We didn't even want to go out and have a nice dinner. The rest of the family were too tied up with their own plans their own travels... None of which included us. It's been like this for many years now.

I think it is a commentary on our society. I grew up when you respected your parents and your grandparents you made sure that you were available to them and help them if you could. Families counted on each other Our society is also become a throwaway society for older people. I hear so often that retirement homes assisted living and other facilities are just considered waiting rooms for the person to die. Our children and grandchildren have been raised in a world of self-indulgence self-centeredness and selfishness... Even if you tried and even if you were some of the best parents or grandparents. Society especially with social media has had such a horrible effect on our children and grandchildren... They have been so brainwashed and enticed that they don't understand what they've lost.

Wow I'm so sad for all of you.

3 years ago my daughter and granddaughter who I took care since a baby. Hasn’t talk to me at all. I tried to send a letter apologizing for something I don’t know what I did. I kept sending gifts for Christmas, birthdays and no response! It has consumed me. I can’t keep going on like this. They have hurt be on belief. What do you do when they do this, and you don’t know why!? I went to counseling and was told to send them a letter apologizing for what I didn’t do as a mother. And still no one contacted me or responded.

I'm heart broken to learn aging parents are experiencing a high level of disrespect by their grown children. We just moved my momma into a full care senior's facility. We made sure she knew she was supported and loved. We visit her at least 3 times a week. I can't imagine abandoning her while she's so vulnerable. I will be praying for all of you, that you find love and support from good hearted people. Be kind to yourselves and lean on the Lord always 🙏🙏🙏

Some will find my thought on the topic callous, but I firmly believe it. Much like myself, my children are separate ppl and we all have to live our own lives. I love my children very much but cannot lose my joy over being disrespected or ignored. It's called living and everyone lives their own way. I cannot force nor be continuously heart broken over theirs' or anyone else 's for that matter, actions. Hopefully the future will change with more positive narratives, but for now, it is what it is.

I have 3 adult children, 1 basically ignores me, another is great and regularly in touch and the third has been very out of touch the past year. I think the daughter who has been ignoring me the past year is doing so because she did not like that I did not vote for her choice for President, she considered it a betrayal which is ridiculous. It’s been very painful but I’ve been realizing the same things this video is saying and it’s helpful, we still have our lives to live!

❤🦘🐨 my ex told her mother to die before Xmas.. Keith Australia 🇦🇺

Adult family homes are abusive

As seniors we need to keep our hearts open and if not our grown children, allow other compatible loves to enter to share life with.

I never hear from my son and I'm 73😢

What's with the AI photos and voice over?

I just came across this, i guess it's the algorithm. I am in this situation, and i blame myself. I brought up my children in an American made religious group because i thought it would be the best way since i was a single parent. This religious group constantly put pressure on its adherents to put the religion FIRST because Armageddon was just around the corner, and a peaceful new earth will reign supreme. I believed, internalized, and obeyed the group. I put the religion before my children. Subsequently i left the religion because of its rigidity and other situations which i shall not disclose. Now at this stage in my life with bad knees, but pretty decent health otherwise my children don't give a grit about me. Furthermore, some members of the group have used that crack in the family to do irreparably damage by making it seem as though i deserve what is happening to me. I ask God to make me stronger every day, and to help me live my life purposely and meaningfully. In a nutshell, i am done with religion, and I wish my offspring well.

These are great strategies and what I’ve come to do with my adult step- children naturally. Their disrespectful behaviour, although painful, initially, has not come to influence me. I know I’m not wrong in the situations that we experience. Our adult children have some learning to go. I only hope they will someday be aware that their bad behaviour reflects poorly on them and not on anything we’ve done.