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You have to be white young and hot and you'll never face discrimination in the gay community

The ending was hella cute 🥰 🤪

Thanks for sharing! Just got out of a relationship of 12 years that ended in divorce. We were both bottoms and made it work until he wanted a “dominant top”. The separation was devastating for me but now I consider myself a side. Even though I don’t think anybody knows these days with that term even means. I guess I’ll be single for a long time 🤷🏽‍♂️

I've been dating this guy for 5 years and he doesn't want to make a compromise of goon have a coffee or anything you make so many excuses just to meet up or anything and then he brags about his American friend who's in prison or something and the relation he has with him it's kind of putting I just chill out my straight friends and he gets hello jealous about it then you jokes with me to have a relationship with my siblings I'm more of a sensitive type of person really panicked Close already love the guy so I don't know what to do I don't know what to do you think I'm doing something wrong

Disgusting app. I created an account that fully complied with the terms of service and added my real photos. I wasted 1 hour answering their stupid standard questions to get the profile completed. I created a profile and closed the app without sending a single message, because I didn't have any free time at that time. When I logged into the app a day later, my account was deleted. I absolutely did not violate any terms of service, among other things, I saw profiles with terrible photos of a naked man sitting on the toilet - and these profiles were not deleted. And mine was automatically deleted because of my ex's harassment and sending false reports that my profile is fake. No one checks your profile before deleting it - be assured. Don't pay for this app, it's a waste of time and money 🤬🤬🤬

I totally agree with you there

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Okay your video actually had me updating my bio. Thanks for tips. It makes sense to me😉

I have some questions. Is there a dating app that you do like? Do you live in an area with lots of available guys around you? How did you feel about what happened to Icheb?

I give up on the apps, and the whole dating thing, because it seems that there are better guys than me out there for them. And that is if they bother to even get to know me for a start.

If this guy is only getting 1 date, we’re doomed hahah

I've had the very same experience that you described during "storytime". I think part of the problem is that some people really believe they have their own *advanced* testing method for "fireworks". And, at least for the guy on my date, he seemed to have a script and set of choreographed steps that he launched into and he gauged my eligibility for a future date based on my impromptu performance. Meanwhile, cut to me a few days later, trying to figure out why this guy asked me to his home and cuddled with me (G-rated cuddling!) if he didn't already feel there were at least some fireworks?! I was crushed!

I've definitely been ghosted mannny times... sometimes even before the first date (just in that initial, messaging-and-getting-to-know-you stage). While on the surface I can understand how someone might find it awkward to say they don't have any real desire to move forward in getting to know someone, I think one of the things that makes ghosting seem so "appropriate" is that too many people see the early levels of interaction (chatting over text, video chatting, and even first dates) as a very small investment. And -- just as you wouldn't drive across town to pick up that dime you dropped on the pavement earlier in the day -- you might not think it's worth it to tell someone you barely know that you're "done getting to know them." That being said, I thought your suggestions for HOW to communicate this instead of ghosting were *very* helpful. I've never ghosted anyone (cue halo + angelic backlighting), but I can honestly say that I know the temptation. The one time I've had to tell someone after a first date that I didn't want to see him anymore, he got VERY emotional and began trying to negotiate. Awkward! But I agree: regardless of the potential for bad reaction, it's the adult and kind thing to do.

Does ignoring an initial message on grindr count as ghosting?

Well i can't tell the truth about myself, that i literally never do anything fun, just come home from work and watch TV. I don't smile in selfies because it feels weird and forced. And my credit score? I'd be less embarrassed to send a flaccid dick pic! Maybe i got some work to do.

“No that was the previous guy.🙄”

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Yes! Agree with all of these. Although I don’t mind a group photo if it's limited to just one of their pics and it’s clear which person they are. Can be a good way to see their interests and nice to know they have a social life haha

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Sorry, but can you explain this to me?

Calling my dr now. But happy to provide an exam for you - anytime 🥰

It annoys me so much when I match and theres no reciprocation. Or, theres a pay wall you have to go through to message your match.

I see Dating Apps as a tool, a means to an end to achieve a nice matching partner. They can help you in ways that a friend who knows someone or a bar crawl can't do. You got to know your limits and what you're not prepared to put up with. I like the slot machine analogy ngl. It does feel like such a gamble and the pay-off does feel very hollow especially when you have blank profiles and whiny guys who list things they don't want. 😞

I’m honestly worried and don’t really want to put myself out there. 😅 Maybe someday. Also off-topic, but I love that both your dating videos have Pokémon merch in the back. I’m so pumped for Legends Z!

Never use- ever.

All of that effort is a waste of time. Most people on there either don't really know what they want or are just looking for sex.

Hinge is a scam. Good example of how clever marketing sells a product at a higher markup without any additional value for the user. Same girls from Hinge also happen to be on Tinder and Bumble, whatever else you can imagine. Pointless. You're just paying for getting a different frontend and battling with a new algorithm. Not worth it.

Don't worry. I don't care for dating apps nowadays either

Honestly you are a decent looking guy. About average, but you act/talk effeminate and once guys review you then they reject their interest

5:57 The initial conversation was not engaging enough, or they fizzled out. I tried Bumble BFF, and that's what I noticed. I just knew that after messaging person #46, I was no longer invested after sooo many interactions that went nowhere. It was a drain, and I stopped putting in effort to care and changed strategies to going to Meetup events to make friends. For dating, I only ever tried a speed dating event, which was an interesting experience while out of town and much better than an app. I recommend it for the novelty and meeting gay people in quick succession.

I really related to this and I really appreciate you making this video ♥️♥️ I feel like I am starting to make progress in all things adulting and building up confidence in myself and even think about handling a healthy relationship

Never used apps. I just meet people out in the public and just act as me.

You resemble a young Roddy McDowall. Do others think so and let you know?

I am 76 and gay. I don't have a boyfriend and I am not sexually active. My choice. But its not for religious reasons.

Ok, but the guys who say they are only looking for love on apps don't give me any idea of what they like sexually. They just say they are looking for "love", "dating", "friendship", and "chat", so how am I supposed to know if they are a top or bottom or whatever?? Yes, I find those top/bottom labels tedious too but I am equally suspicious of men who come across like emotional sponges of need or start calling me "sweetheart" or "dear" within five minutes of chatting with them online. UGGH!! They've either listened to too many Streisand albums or watched too many icky Hollywood romance movies! They present themselves as if life is the gay male version of a Harlequin romance book. I am not a psychic so yes, it is pertinent info to know what you DO and DON"T DO sexually. Sex is a very important part of a long term relationship to most of us so SPELL IT OUT and stop fluttering your coy face-fans of propriety At least the guys who just say "I'm a sex pig" are probably being honest. I know most will disagree with me, but I can learn more about a man by having sex with him and then chatting afterwards than I can on a formal "date" (which I see as job interviews in which the other man presents the ideal photo-shop version of himself) or endless "chat" (also a screening device and one in which those who use it inadvertently reveal red flags, thus leading to what some call "ghosting"). I can see what a man is all about in a standard issue hook-up in which he will show not only the Full Monty bu, unsuspectingly, also his red flags waving in the wind. I can also see if he has QUALITY. Yes, it's rare, but it's there... I'm ever the optimist.

position and horoscope are the most useless things to know for LTR. MBTI type is one that i would like to see more

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Your situational acting vignettes were “right on the money” ….. “Rented a yacht in Greece…have you been?” Bitches need to humble themselves don't you think?

AS aGWJMD, having had 9 years of analysis during my training: but the idea that might ask that question, well...

I absolutely HATE blank profiles or, worse, profiles with a photo and some basic demographic info such as age and gender but that is it. Usually, these people will send me a like or a heart. Normally, I blow them off because there is nothing to say because they offer nothing. Sometimes, if they have a nice smile or pretty eyes, I will send a question linked to a commentary on their photo or something and hear..........CRICKETS. Very frustrating.

too cute.

Ok so you say position is not important, I beg to disagree! It is super important, and I wish there as a pin or something one can wear to clearly indicate in a gay bar who is who. In a straight society, it is very clear who is the male and will be doing the top role, and who is female. But in a same sex scene, at the bar, on apps, anywhere really, you have no clue, unless you ask (awkward), or you find it published on a dating app (really nice). So why is this important. Well if you are going to hookup, you have to know this anyways, since you don't want to spend a lot of time courting a guy, take him home to find out, you both are bottoms or tops for example. Believe me the world is mostly either of that and not very adaptive (verse). I am pretty much exclusive bottom and most gays are bottoms. Psychologically I can't top and don't get a hardon doing it. So only way will be viagra and doing it out of duty/being nice, rather than enjoyment, either way, not something someone should be subjected to. Finding a top or a true verse person is very rare and a verse person says they are verse until you test them to find out they are a bottom under cover. If you are more after a "date" or relationship, guess what, again, you are better off knowing that up front than to spend months dating a person holding off on sex (a rare thing for gays anyways) , to find out you are sexually incompatible. What then hey? Only options are to break up and move on, which is easy for a hookup, but not so much emotionally for a real date. Or open the relationship to a 3rd, which works only for people with no jealousy issues and who are not stuck on a the idea of monogamy and dating is for 2 thing. Sure I get it that people don't like the labels top or bottoms, and I think bottoms especially don't because of history of bottom shaming in the community. And yes you would rather want a person to like you for your personality rather than your sexual position, but at the same time, a straight man won't be chatting up another straight man knowingly to date or have sex with for their sparkling personality. No they will see a woman they like, so which they are sexually compatible 1st and foremost, and THEN, they will go chat her up to get to know her personality. Gay men and lesbians, do NOT have that same convenience, since we are attracted to the same sex. Hence we need that filter up front to help us navigate, what we want. If it was just a hookup, then who cares so much about position, you hardly spend any time getting to know or spend time on or with a person, so if you end up being incompatible, no hard feelings, you just walk away. Might be awkward or annoying yes, but emotionally, and financially, it is of little consequence. Dates and relationships, his is a complete different story and of utmost importance in my view, unless you are prepared for your 2 to play the field.

Sorry but knowing their position is important cuz ok we both vibe and like each other’s personality, both good peps etc.. and then we both bottoms like😰 u have to know to not be wasting time

Its a scam its been 5 days still 0 likes

All the voices in my head always try to break me F me up and change me but talk is cheap this is the last time I listen to the voices in my head

Amazing...how people still don’t know or wish to be honest...or they are just looking for instant fun. Like on the phone or comp...we just scroll when we don’t like to watch something and we do same in real life’s....I am curious how many people told you that is the end of relationship over SMS or messenger?

I agree with you! But looks there is not a lot of people out there who thinks that way.. I am God = Love! And I practice and train to be God in all situations. This is my name, job and a hobby and honestly I mostly still use life to relax and have fun as it is still my 7 th day! Do I need a therapy? Maybe but where can God find a therapist? Or where can love find a therapist? Because if I live life of love you and everything what you do...what would I need a therapy for? So if you ask me...and I know that you will never do that...I would say that the Love is the answer and if someone need a therapy or anything outside of God=You as you are created by my image and you own everything what I have, then what else do you need if you are Love=God=one = one and only? Love you and all of you! God

Yes, yes, yes...thank you! I am observing the same style. Top or Bottom? Wtf! If someone is looking for a friend...as friendship is a first step in any love! And yes integrity is number one because who on the world can trust you if you don’t have integrity and love towards yourself and your word? Guess what! If you hate yourself how anyone can love you? Please explain to me! And honestly if you don’t have any photos with smile or you send me a photo of your dick and ass? Hello, I am not interested in your ass or dick as if we meet or if we will have relationship your dick or ass will not talk and your dick or ass can’t give me a hug or any satisfaction in relationships or in companionship. And if I will be with you only because of your dick...then is better If i go to sex shop and get one there! I am sure I can find bigger one then is yours! And yes let’s talk about communication. If you write in your profile how you are not interested in fat or in older/younger or any people...what that tell me about you? That mean that if I will not be by your standards after first date you will find another one which will be...and that is reality for you. So you are just not interested to hear or be there for anyone except yourself! Would you date that sort of a guy? Then about responding on the messages and it looks that you - most of you don’t understand the basics of life....as someone noticed you, he was observing or reading your bio...thinking that you might be a good person for him. So...he already invest some time in you. Especially if he was already talk with you for a while...and then you just block him or you just don’t respond anymore... Hope you know what that means to another guy! You show to him how you are unable to have communication for more then 5 minutes and that only mean that you hate communication and yourself! And you believe that on your immaculate look and perfection other guys will just love you? They will for sure but try to understand that these guys who are falling for you just because your dick, ass or a car or money they fall in love with your dick, ass or a car and not in you! As they don’t know you at all! And they are not even interested in you at all! So if you ever like to find a guy! Think from your side...what would you like! How would you like that a guy come to you and start a conversation with you and do it to others. Step out and say to a guy honestly: “You are cute! You are different and would love to know you! Can I help you with that! Do you need something? And observe people around you...anywhere! Don’t steer just in your phone and hope that the right guy will come out as you should understand that the guy who spend most of the time on his phone will do that same thing after he will meet with you! And try to understand that he will always love his phone or computer more then you! And on his phone will be always someone better, more good looking and more fun...then you are! So step out in real life and practice talking, observing, loving...and if you don’t know how to do that...read some books about real life and love! Be the change you’d like to see in the world! Love you! God

3:10 that made me laugh for a while, I wasn't expecting it hahaha. My experience with dating apps can be summarised by your "hokay" at 3:05. It's like, I know this is poison to my self-image and it's kinda against my morals to commodify partners this way, but also I'm pretty lonely and bored, so I have to jump through the hoop. It's the exact same "hokay". Also I'd never pay for premium because it would make me feel horrible. They are selling hope, I don't want to give them more money.