Maria Ermides
Maria Ermides
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Finding my happy (and green) space in Athens, Greece.
I think the misconception about moving os, is that you're exempt from having down days because your environment has suddenly changed.
I knew for me, this wouldn't be the case, because as with anything in life..you have to nurture what best suits your nature as a person.
Walking through the National Gardens wasn't particularly ground breaking, but it did get me thinking about the fact that we so often neglect to do the things that we need the most.
Instead, when we feel down, we scroll or feed into habits that take us further away from our truest sense of alignment.
It's a work in progress for me and while I don't think I'll 100% ever be a total city girl, I'm going to make the best of it.
My advice to anyone in a similar position, is to get back into those routines that really fill you up and make them a priority not just one the days when you don't feel totally like yourself.
Changing your environment can be life-changing, it's just not the only thing.
Thanks for watching my thoughts on screen xx
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Відео

10 things I'd tell myself at 23 (now, at 33)
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Technically, now I'm 34 but I met such a beautiful 23-year-old on my recent work trip, and she was the entire source of inspiration for this video that it felt right to go back to that age. I know your 20s are a rollercoaster but they can be soooo fulfilling and joyous as well. My biggest wish, is that more of you don't wait until you leave your 20s, to realise that it was full of good moments ...
Why I don't want to be a maximalist anymore.
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Inspired by this video- vt.tiktok.com/ZSYgJSAW6/ Does anyone else feel urge to change the way they're consuming? I'm still trying to figure out a way to do this that isn't drastic, because tbh..I don't think doing one of those 'no new things for 6 months' challenges is realistic for me. I've tried it before with social media and with my phone, and I found that going too much without, plunges yo...
Why it's ok to not want to be single.
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I did the absolute least with this makeup and didn't blend properly, but the thoughts and feelings are there so.. Part of this experiment in doing something that is unlike me content wise, is being comfortable with fears that I've long held. I've been told so many times, to 'love myself first', and aim to seek contentment over wanting to find someone to share my life with. But, I'm confident in...
How the film 'Perfect Days' is helping me navigate change
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I know this set-up is not ideal, but as some guy on some Masterclass ad had told me many times.. 'You only get better by first doing something badly'..or something like that. In the spirit of embracing imperfection, I wanted to reflect on how I've been managing being in a state of flux atm (spoiler: not very well). Of course, my natural inclination is to retreat, but I'm trying to actively prac...
The painful process of breaking patterns
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It took a little longer than usual but..I knew I wanted to post a video purely because part of breaking my own patterns, is pushing through moments I would otherwise feel inclined to retreat. I don't believe you get to a certain age and all of a sudden, you're no longer triggered by things or your peace is no longer disturbed. I do believe, that you become more aware of how your cycles are repe...
For anyone who worries about their age.
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There is something beautiful to take from every phase of your life, and while I know it takes getting to another milestone to look back and better appreciate it- I hope you can see the value in where you are right now. little side note: it was wilddd to say the least, to see my last video get over a thousand views. More than anything, I really cherish hearing from people who are going through t...
Decision fatigue and the power of trust
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We have so many options and yet feel weighed down by them- so how do we know what's right? I'm not an expert but I do understand how much of a burden and privilege it is in equal measure, and I also know how taxing it can be to not choose anything at all. Trusting in yourself is where it's at my friends, even if anxiety ensues our immediate decisions, it's what we can all lean into the most. Fo...
The dilemma of being fickle and flaky (and knowing you are)
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I had to put some kind of click-baity title, but please note there is a lot more to it than just that. In fact, I think we are a lot more than the labels we put on ourselves or that others put on us. Self-perception is such a huge thing to unpack and a topic that I'm continuing to delve into even in my 30s. While it's scary to jump back in with this video, it felt the most appropriate as well. ...
Vision Boards: Why We Need to Actively Create Our Realities
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Hiiii and welcome to a video that has taken the better part of six years for me to upload. As it turns out, I have vision, but sometimes a bit too much and would prefer to save images for later, instead of making them a tangible part of my reality. This channel is a relaxed exploration of someone in their 30s who is simply going after things, and sharing learnings along the way. But please, alw...
Technology: A love/hate relationship
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I don't have the best audio recording equipment (just my phone) so you're going to have to get past the jumps in quality. Make sure you're watching in HD! Ironically, this is another short video to talk about why I think technology is making us tune out more and why this should be more of a concern. I know making UA-cam videos and having a blog is sort of a contradiction, but if I can create co...
Fenty Beauty Review- Wild Thoughts Inspired For Pale Skin
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This isn't what you think it will be, and sorry to disappoint. If you really are curious to know, my complexion is light with pink undertones and I'm 120 in the Fenty Beauty foundation. Rihanna is a powerhouse as we all know, and I used her makeup line to not only draw attention to my message, but to back it up because F.B is all about feeling proud and confident with yourself no matter who you...
An Afternoon With My Yiayia (+Important Life Lessons)
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We see our Grandmothers, we love our Grandmothers but how much do we really know about them? I decided to dig deep and ask mine those important questions we never think to bring up. I hope you learn something from her, and also take the time to think about your relationship with your own. Grandparents hold such a special place in our lives, and it's up to us to make sure we never take their wis...

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  • @manhTrinhHuumanh-z7b
    @manhTrinhHuumanh-z7b 3 місяці тому

    Helo😢😢😮😮😮

  • @GANENDRAGIRI
    @GANENDRAGIRI 3 місяці тому

    😊Thanks for sharing very nicely My Friend ,.🎥 well prepared video 👌 , 👀Full watching here , 🙌Have a Great day, 👏 sending my full support for you 🎁 , let's keep it up ✈New friend is here 🤝, stay connected 🔔

    • @mariaermides
      @mariaermides 2 місяці тому

      Thank you!! Appreciate it :) :)

  • @Rhyxxx
    @Rhyxxx 3 місяці тому

    I loveeee this and fully agree!! I was the BIGGEST over consumer when I was younger butttt once I started to save to go travelling I really stopped buying everything, besides things I actually needed for my trip, and it changed my mentality so much. Now I have fallen back into it a little, due actually needing some things...but how I stop myself is, instead of buying physical items, (that let's face it 90% of the time we do not need) I prefer to invest it into an experience, what ever that may be - savings for travelling, going for dinner/cinema, treating your friend to a coffee...something more human :)) and makes us feel more alive. A lot more than a new lipstick, that's cute, but not fulfilling.

    • @mariaermides
      @mariaermides 2 місяці тому

      I love this!!! It's so true and something I'm trying to align myself with more. It's so interesting how quickly we can justify small purchases, that when added up, would equate to something more valuable if it were saved! Thanks for sharing xx

  • @dottie2645
    @dottie2645 5 місяців тому

    i saw your smile, and smiled and i felt called to wacth this

  • @arminvanbuuren883
    @arminvanbuuren883 7 місяців тому

    U are the blueprint for your life! Such an important quote! Μπράβο Μαρία <3

    • @mariaermides
      @mariaermides 7 місяців тому

      Ohhh thank you!! I have to remind myself of it too lol xx

  • @miglestankeviciute253
    @miglestankeviciute253 7 місяців тому

    Hey Maria, great work on the video! seems like we are going through similar things right now so Im glad you chose this topic. Ive listened to many podcasts of Michael Singer and couldnt agree more that that man has wisdom to share. On the thoughts of going abroad please let me know if youre ever passing through Lithuania. Id love to connect and show you around! best wishes Migle

    • @mariaermides
      @mariaermides 7 місяців тому

      Ohh thank you so much! The wisdom is immense, I make a point to only read it when I know I can fully take it in. If you have any other book recs for me please let me know! And that sounds wonderful!! would love that, I'll def let you know :)

  • @arashdana6709
    @arashdana6709 7 місяців тому

    Are you libra?

    • @mariaermides
      @mariaermides 7 місяців тому

      Haha I did not expect this comment! I’m a Leo but my moon is in Libra :)

  • @AizHussain
    @AizHussain 7 місяців тому

    Loved this video! Really important discussion

    • @mariaermides
      @mariaermides 7 місяців тому

      Thanks Aiz!! I think we just have to be more comfortable with where we are :)

  • @AizHussain
    @AizHussain 7 місяців тому

    Tattoo this year? You crazy gurl😮‍💨

    • @mariaermides
      @mariaermides 7 місяців тому

      Haha! I know right? wilddd.

  • @sarahparks3279
    @sarahparks3279 8 місяців тому

    Fickle flaky people have faith! Thanks for this video, I'm making a huge, pivotal decision now and this prompted a great journaling experience

    • @mariaermides
      @mariaermides 8 місяців тому

      Ohh I am so excited for you!! just know that whatever you choose, is right for you at that moment xx

  • @gretalatham-demant5132
    @gretalatham-demant5132 8 місяців тому

    I loved this video so much, it helped me trust myself and my vision so much more, I believe in me!

    • @mariaermides
      @mariaermides 8 місяців тому

      Yesss! That is amazing to hear, I'm soo glad!! Keep rinse and repeating that same thought xx

  • @MB-qk6xc
    @MB-qk6xc 8 місяців тому

    This resonated a lot with me, very much everything you said. I am also so sick and tired of not continuing the path after making a decision because my feeling towards that decision is turned upside down. Suddenly it feels wrong and bad. I feel like I cannot trust my feelings. I guess it comes from fear but I don't even know for sure. You said something about intrusive thoughts emerging after making a decision but what about the actual feeling and I am not talking about emotions but the actual feeling. Can someone relate and if so what have you found out about this pattern and what has helped you? Thank you so much for sharing and putting yourself out there. That is so brave of you.

    • @mariaermides
      @mariaermides 8 місяців тому

      Ahh thank you for watching and I'm so sorry to hear you're struggling with the same thing! From the comments, it's clear that you're not alone, so I hope you don't beat yourself up too much about it. I think self-awareness is the key to unravelling the whole thing, which you seem to have because you know it's a pattern. I know you asked for the opinions of others but I'll just chime in as well! So much of it I think, is self-doubt. And that can run really deep on a sub-conscious level, which is why it presents in day to day life, in ways that you can't understand but can feel very strongly. For me, it's been a form of self-sabotage as I couldn't see a positive outcome and instead could only see the bad that might come from choosing one or the other. The only way through it in my opinion, is to literally keep committing to choosing the best outcome for yourself, which as I touched on means picking something and really backing yourself. It's like exposure therapy for decision making! You may feel uncomfortable at first, but try starting with small decisions that come about your day and see what happens. Notice the feeling you get, sit with it but don't stay with it..as in see what can come if you let it transform into something else. Why a lot of us stay within decision-fatigue is because we don't know what lies on the other side of that feeling, we always pull out before it gets that far. Anyway! sorry this is sooo long haha I hope it's somewhat helpful and I'm really wishing you all of the best xx

  • @LafrikhCeline
    @LafrikhCeline 8 місяців тому

    I resonated so hard with everything you just said and am at that same point where i feel a different way of being and going about our path becomes possible. I'm rooting so hard for you <3

    • @mariaermides
      @mariaermides 8 місяців тому

      Ohh wow! Thank you so much. That really made me tear up a little! I hope that everything opens up for you in the best way possible 💕 it sounds dramatic but at this point, there is no plan b for me! Sending a lot of love your way xx

    • @LafrikhCeline
      @LafrikhCeline 8 місяців тому

      @@mariaermides yes! I get it! Being authentic feels like do or die, there is no plan b and there has never been. Look at us growing our metaphorical balls 💋

  • @AizHussain
    @AizHussain 8 місяців тому

    Really resonated with what you said especially about saying no to those intrusive thoughts and backing yourself 100% 👏🏽 Keep up the great content

    • @mariaermides
      @mariaermides 8 місяців тому

      Thank you Aiz!! It’s a process for sure but one that I feel like I’m chipping away at 😊 thank you for the love as always

  • @galwithanafro
    @galwithanafro 8 місяців тому

    This video is your best one yet. Authentically you! I like when you free flow best. Keep them coming mamaz ❤️

    • @mariaermides
      @mariaermides 8 місяців тому

      Ohh thank you my love!! I appreciate that 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 will try to keep free flowing lol

  • @JessicaSchmidt-n5b
    @JessicaSchmidt-n5b 8 місяців тому

    Post them all 💙✨

    • @mariaermides
      @mariaermides 8 місяців тому

      Thanks for the encouragement you inspired me to dig up a video from last year! haha hope you enjoy it xx

  • @AizHussain
    @AizHussain 8 місяців тому

    Lessgooo👏🏽👏🏽

    • @mariaermides
      @mariaermides 8 місяців тому

      Haha! My number 1 supporter at the min. Appreciate it Aiz!!

  • @Kenny-ep2nf
    @Kenny-ep2nf Рік тому

    some nice deep stuff :))

  • @prettydalila
    @prettydalila Рік тому

    Today I found out that we go through literal evolutions of our character, of our person and of who we are in society. It’s crazy we can say, there is a death of a chapter, the end to some habit and at the same time it’s exhilarating. It’s exhilarating to think we can evolve and we can change to whatever we need to and there’s more. Realizing your capacity is part of that evolution, it’s part of your reconstruction. I like to see people do this and thank you for posing this. I’m literally doing this myself now and coming across your post was interesting, it was almost a universal confirmation that I need to keep going. It doesn’t matter what age you are on this journey either.. if you are realizing that life and experiences are more like a playlist instead of a bucket list, that’s freaking awesome because it’s the truth. We go through the motions but do we ever stop and think about why? And what it really means. Are we happy, what makes us happy? And there’s a lot of possibilities in getting to a very productive place, a very tangible place with our goals. So why not act on them. Thank you Maria❤ hope you’ve reached or scratched out some of those goals for yourself.. from this standpoint it all sounds wonderful and worth pursuing. Even if by now your goals or intentions have metamorphisized.. it’s very worth it:) From one dreamer to another.. I’m super proud of you:) and hope you reach your every summit point you dream of❤

    • @mariaermides
      @mariaermides Рік тому

      Hi! Oh my goodness, what a lovely lovely comment to have received. Genuinely, thank you so much for taking the time to respond and also for watching my video in the first place. What you said about our characters evolving is so true, and I think where a lot of people get stuck is that are attached to past versions of themselves which are long gone! I think we have to adapt and flow into the higher version of self, which is always changing and that in and of itself, is quite scary. I'm so glad you took the message of 'keep going' from my video <3 age is sooo not important and I don't say that as someone who has finally stepped into their confidence in their 30s, I say it because courage is something we can tap into at any age. There is phrase that I love and it's 'if it's in your mind, it's worth taking the risk', I think Paulo Coelho said it. You have to keep going and to keep trying, even if thing aren't perfect because more often than not, it's about taking the first step. Once again, thank you for your feedback! I'm excited for what's to come for you and I wish you all the best xo