Відео

One of the rarest, but not the rarest. ENTJ is the rarest from my experience. I met and was friend with many INFJ when I was younger, at school.

I'm an infj and they could not come up with a definitive "label" for how my brain works. Bipolar, add, ocd, panic disorder, I am also in recovery. I'm just "me", this is such a good question has me really analyzing haha ! 🤪 I LOVE "there's no AVERAGE person, what the heck does that even mean?" That would be a great slogan to wear on a t-shirt to my NEXT psych exam. (I'm the one analyzing the psychologist...)

It's true

I’ve thought this many times 🫶🏻😎

Oh man, this one is right on the nail. I hadn't realized how much I actually do feel fear until you described my experience word for word. I especially feel on the fact that deep down, if I did fail, I'd be proving those buttholes right, I think this has a link to why their voices are still at the back of my head and then the comparison happens, which is completely unhealthy. AND on how acceptance and approval is conditional was just cherry on top, it wasn't until I started doing good in school that no one gave me the attention, so it is true that self-worth for me was very conditional to success. Trying my best to overcome this, still on shaky road but still trying. Loved this video, please keep it coming Trina! I also loved that you call those who belittle or bully us as buttholes, Imma start calling them buttholes now lol. Thanks for sharing these videos and for helping to bring these things into us INFJs attention. Not sure how I can do step no.2 but I'd try step 1 and step 3 (though step 3 sounds scary). Can't wait for your next upload! And It'd be great if you could talk about INFJ on moving on (or being stuck in the part) or even INFJ on comparison.

You're right it's losing control of our environment that bothers us the most and the thought that we have do it again is tiresome. We say INFJS are perfectionsts but is being a perfectionist even a thing? It's exhausting. Also, the time and hardwork that we put in makes us fear if the result didn't meet our expectations all the hardwork and time got wasted.

I have ADHD so I am neurotypical and I also have BPD. There seems to also be a link between autism and personality disorders as well.

I never heard of that strategy. I just got out of my overthinking mind. I just thought of this. Over thinking is probably because it’s something we’re not supposed to know the answer until later. I don’t need to know this red hot moment is a good one too.

I broke my foot last year and I decided to exercise along with the videos and gave myself a break because I figured doing it half good was going to benefit me

Thank you for this channel, and for reminding me it’s okay to be human.

Everytime fear kicks in me like : fear is a reaction, being brave, a decision ❤ to not take action is the real failure ❤

Sorry about the beginning being sideways hahahaha....my first live.

yes

you are sideways

A regional church leader told me I just needed to help take the stress off a local level narcissistic leader "to avoid contention", and my reply was, "When he/she treats me equally, I'd be happy to do that, but as long as he/she thinks themself superior, God won't allow me to do that because He doesn't want to have me brought into bondage and serfdom to someone who'd like to be an idol in my life between Him (God) and me." I got NO pushback to that.

One of the biggest markers of autism is lack of social skills. Introvers tend to lack social skills therefore I believe alot of introverts get diagnosed with autism.

Maybe we are “normal” and the rest of the world is “neurodivergent”??? I mean, who is to say??? Just because we are not the majority doesn’t mean we aren’t normal!!!

I'm also INFJ and Autistic so yes I believe this can be quite common. Nothing wrong with us, our brains are just wired differently.

I'm an INFJ and HSP, and came across this question months ago. After deep digging and being honest with myself, I came to the conclusion that I share many traits of neutodivergent due to my sensitivities, but am not. It's pretty annoying how the norm is dictated by 75% of the population, when 75% of the population that is considered "normal " is dysfunctional and emotionally and empathically constipated. I honestly don't think that we're the broken ones here. ❤

In this case, 'neurotypical' means they're Baffled 😅

How about this: A neurodivergent person is dysfunctional at something in life because of the way their brain processes information, or fails to process information. That makes stereo typical INFJs, or unhealthy INFJs, neurodivergent, but not for the same reason as those with autism or ADHD.

actually idk, i feel also authistic , i learned ADHD and C-PTSD can result authistic symptoms, but im not sure about c-ptsd any more. Actually my current believe is : only what we believe is reality is reality. I believe im neurodivergent ^^ and i like it. thats all important for me <3 <3

Wow this really spoke to me directly! Thank you! 🙏🏼

I'm 51. There's still hope to break out of survival?? Whaaat?! Lol

LOVE my calendars and whiteboards ❤😊

Great Topic, thank you.

OMG! I feel such a relief listening to this video.... I literaly feel disabled trying to express myself to "normal" people and I'm diagnosed Audhd (ASD + ADHD) and I'm an INFJ too.... what a weird combination and so complexe to live on this planet like this I feel....

Oh wow, I’ve been waiting for you to guide me. Thank you so much!

After watching your videos I believe I'm autistic. I feel like people should be able to read me the way I can read them. Without words. Words are annoying and inefficient

That’s super interesting. I volunteered this weekend was told how great I was taking care of things. I’m done decluttering and it’s pretty much like a minimalist and then next video I watch is that’s going down the line of perfection. I still kept a balance though and I did it for a good cause. I just wasn’t sure how long and perfect it needs to be. I don’t feel like sharing my songs even though I wrote for people like me not to feel alone if you’re dealing with chaos and how to stay sane through it all. It sounded like a good idea but I really don’t know if it’s a good idea yet. All this inner turmoil in a week at least and I’m just chilling out now as upside to getting a life. My songs were supposed to be the next step. At least I can relate to my songs:).

How do you keep focus and motivation enough to be consistent?

exactly what i felt like. thing is i didnt know this narcisstic person did this on purpose to gain unlimited control. Thanks to therapy im not even sure if its c-ptsd . its just me beein infj after 30 years of trauma

I am so excited about the Boundaries Bootcamp.

Actually I like chameleoning, so nobody can find my weakness. The people in who I have my trust are exent oc the chameleon effect. And it happened few times my closest ones saw me adapting to a catching situation. They were like amazed, in positive way.

Look how far have you come from feeling worthless to being a confident lady who is helping so many people. You are awesome 😎. And the way people insult tells about their insecurity . If someone comments about other person's appearance it means that person is insecure about his own appearance so now they try to make other's feel bad so he can feel good. People's insults reveal them not the other person. You know once i met a girl she told me I'm quite thin but at the same time she was saying she wants to loose weight. You see how this works. Deep inside she was dying to be like me but on the surface her words were screaming her insecurity