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Hi sweet lady you need to write a book you’re life is so interesting sad😢 but would be a good read , I hope the future is going to be much easier ❤

Oh my goodness, how painful it must have been but your face is just beautiful now.❤

I have so much respect for you. And I'm a little in awe. You have suffered so many cruelties yet you have a loving and giving heart. That's pretty special. Could you discuss the therapy that said helped you? I think a lot of us have experienced some pretty harsh realities that left a mark. I know the things that happened to me have changed me.

I did have an incident once where I was walking around outside of some shops and I did not know where I was and a sweet lady saw me and told me to come in and sit down in their shop for awhile and I was given some candy and eventually came to my senses and realized I had not eaten anything that morning and had had a bout of low blood sugar, very scary to say the least. Loving your content.❤

I have detoxed bad and fake and toxic friendships for almost the last decade. I make new ones along. the way and detox rather quickly when I see certain traits. As you described one of the more recent ones I stay away from is that queen b type you described. It sounds like almost the same exact person. I invited her to church and she literally cast me aside and clung onto some of those church people. She got herself invited to a few of their homes and has one married man doing her renovations. She is not attractive but has a way of sucking people in. I saw her as very fake and too quickly familiar with others. She also lies, exaggerates and takes up all the space at lunches. She is always the one talking. I got fed up and just distanced myself. She tries to pretend to be my friend sometimes at church but never returned my calls outside of church unless she wanted something. A user. Other friends are dumpers. They dump all their problems and do not listen when I speak so bye bye to those ones. Honestly I have only my pets now. I am done being used and rather be alone. Thanks for your videos. You make a lot of sense. I think when we are too nice people think we are also dumb. Well no.... Now I observe and as you said pay attention to how I feel around people. Our instincts should be heeded. God bless you!

I LOVE YOU! Is there a setting where I can speed up your voice? I want to subscribe but can't deal with the anxiety of listening so slowly. ❤

I have it and I use to take dopamine, skullcap liquid and l-tryptophan and it helped for about a year. Then it comes back. Mine is not painful like yours. For me it is I Cannot still. My calf gets a bit sore or discomfort. I do not sleep, and it is such a Botter. Sometimes it is ok but for the most part it is not...thanks for sharing. I loved your videos about your life...I saw all of them...I just found you today....HAPPY HOLIDAYS...............MINDY

This is probably one of the most wonderful love stories I've ever heard. ❤

I liked you in the green dress💕💕

I was in my late 40s, after 2 abusive marriages had ended. My oldest son talked me into playing an online game with him. All 3 of my kids and I would play that game together, crafting, building houses, killing monsters, and so on. I was divorced and not looking for anyone, having been through similar disappointments with online dating and forget about dancing in clubs. I was just happily playing a game with my kids. Some guy starts teasing me about my character's profile. It said, "Hiya wannabe." I thought, why is he saying that to me and laughing? So I asked him. He reminded me I had that in my profile and I laughed, having forgotten. I had put it as a joke. Well, one thing led to another, we started chatting in the game and doing things together, going on hunts and such with his guild. I told him how old I was (22 years older than him!) and thought, that's the end of that. Plus I was NOT interested in a younger man! But a couple days later, I see this character walking around outside my game house. It was him. He was a university grad student of theoretical physics, which absolutely fascinated me, because I adore highly intelligent people and physicists are really quite a challenge to meet. Again, one thing led to another and finally we started chatting by phone (after several months in-game text chatting only). The biggest hurdle, other than age difference, was distance. He was in Germany, me in Seattle. He couldn't even financially contribute if he'd lived close by. Again, a series of events unfolded, where he moved in while studying in Seattle and I had started studying massage therapy. My 2 sons were also going to college at the same time. Every day, all 4 of us were going to different colleges, for a year, and I got my massage license. Long story short, we eventually got married after an 8 year long distance relationship (he had to go back to Europe). We've now been married for 16 years and I live with him in Germany, and my kids are grown and working in the Seattle area. He's both a researcher at a famous German lab, and a university professor of theoretical physics. I adore living in Germany!

Thank you for showing up on my UA-cam. I joined your ladies club and I really like it!

It’s not much will maybe buy you a small coffee ❤ ☕️ xx

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You have been unlucky in life. And I agree that you are a sweet lady. You are better off without the husband mentioned in this video. You deserve so much better!

The MEND Project another very good resource for emotional abuse

Worth listening to Lundy Bancroft UA-cam and also 4 part Podcast- Steps to Freedom with Don Hennessy. They are very plain speaking men who have a lot of experience working with women who have experienced intimate partner abuse.

“ i think it is in my nature to get a rescuer. I think that’s my problem “. I think your childhood set you up for this. Your mother was mentally ill and could not be a reliable parent and your father neglected his parental duties. You were left to rear yourself in terribly difficult circumstances and be the adult for your parents. ❤️‍🩹.

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You beautiful lady, inside and out. God bless you xx❤

He sounds like a true gentleman, I lost my husband 5 years ago, and he also had values in that same way, if I had to use one word to describe him it would be “ kind”

I. think you have been very brave recounting your past , you have been through the mill , an we should. never. assume , people have good lifes , I have identified with you as I have misjudged a lot of people in my life , I think its a generation thing an not having love for oneself , which now in my later years I have , much love to you an your darling boy , much happiness an thank you for sharing, when you go through traumatic times , the mind can sometimes shut them away , I have very few memories of my childhood an have lost many since , it was what I was told of by my lack of them , , but I feel it happens to a lot of people , God Bless❤😊

As a fibromyalgia sufferer myself I suffer terribly & it has affected my life, the thing is I look well, but my goodness the pain is unbearable! My family, my father & his sister both had MS (multiple sclerosis) & his grandmother & great grandmother had muscular pain & walking issues & I believe these are all connected?

Glad I found your channel, I find taking 200 mcg selenium everyday helped with my swollen ankles and heart palpitations, also got rid of belly flab that has been there a while! The dog has some too and his legs are much stronger , I don't have a routine, but thinking it wd probably be a good idea , confirmed by your video,thankyou ! I pray and read which gives me a lot of energy, God bless

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You can drop the much younger women , im 75 and it was only yesterday that i was 50 as you will soon discover . The problem iv found is not the age gap but the mental gap , the sense of humour gap the i have a completely different set of values gap . Not only that but the older i get the faster the years that have passed seem to have gone . In my mind i seem to be around 45 , i love life more than i ever have and hope i live to be 120. Ps what was the age gap between you and your exhusband , need i say more.

Its so wonderful to hear youv found happiness , so wonderful ❤️

I met my love on my 17th birthday & he did the chasing & I do mean he chased me, we had 44 yrs of a beautiful love, a true authentic love! He died January 2020 & my heart is forever broken 💔 I’m so lost without him my gentleman was everything & more! I will never love again, so I just plod along until we are together again!

I would be deeply dissppointed, i wanted to date you.❤️

Yes I rode that (online dating) roller coaster and jumped off because it made me feel bad about myself. However, in France here they have some great 'activity' websites and I met a lovely man there who was older than me. I played hard to get because I had been through the mangle and was starting to enjoy my freedom but Pierre was very determined and didn't give up. After a long while I asked myself "Why are you fighting against someone who is so kind and just wants to take care of you?" so we started planning a future together. Sadly soon afterwards Pierre got diagnosed with lung and brain cancer which was incredibly unfair because he didn't drink or smoke. Six months later I held his hand as he left us. That was five years ago so I have that freedom that I was looking for and I do enjoy my own company but I do wonder what would have been. Your story is lovely and after, all that you went through before, it's wonderful to hear how happy you are with your darling boy. 😍

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I went through a lot of tye same things as you ..i didn't even have like a lot of woman do where they would be extra loving towards them at home .i had many many batterings off him during his affairs .im now married to a lovely man but i look back and think i lost my 20s and a lot of my 30s to him

Its the ring through your nose that concerns me . I cant imagine someone not loving you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I dont make excuses for people anymore something you do too much. ❤️

When you get to 75 you realise that if you need to confront someone ,especially if its more than once , then you need to get well away from them , i know easier said than done because relationships ,especially family, are not so easy to walk away from but iv discovered its the best option if you want to remain sane and maybe one day happy. Being on my own is without question better than being around these type of people . Ps i dont care what you call yourself , mother, dad, grandad , sister , what i care about is how you treat me , full stop ❤️

You reminded me of something, I had a little bottle of orange at school because I don’t drink milk, my siblings were the same. I’ve only just, by chance started watching your videos & I think you have truly been through a lot in your life, hopefully it’s better now………..♥️🇫🇷🇬🇧🌹

I heard someone on the radio one day saying that an alcoholic is not someone who drinks one or two drinks regularly BUT someone who cannot stop once he/she starts drinking! So, even if you drink once a week/month or year, if you cannot stop once you start, you are an alcoholic. So, stay away if a guy embarrass you when drinking. They are normally the ones who cannot stop😢

I needed to hear this today, thank you 🫶🏽

it's not a color I would have chosen but that sofa turned out beautifully! Nice work! My husband is also a metal head. Not my thing at all.

Oh my, this resonates from my previous marriage. A man very plausible but hiding within was a horror and life became unbearable. He berated me at every turn, whilst I tried so hard to be a good wife. I came to loathe him. He informed me after trying to leave a few times that he would get revenge which he did by turning my family against me, which I cannot tell you how much that hurt. I was worthless by the time I eventually left for good and struggled with self esteem. Luckily I found an excellent job whereby my line manager realised what I was going through and helped me with these issues. My son came to live with me but he was an image of his Dad and again I fell rock bottom. Therapy helped me enormously to deal with the trauma and violence that I went through. I hold my head up high now and have no guilt whatsoever about my children whom are now in their 30’s and 40’s so old enough to realise what I had told them about their Dad, but they laughed at me. (Yes it happened to me too, but their reactions as you can imagine where somewhat different to yours)I pulled away from them, I choose not to be around people that show no love or respect for me. Since remarried to a lovely man. There are some horrors out that pray on vulnerable women. Just found your channel, love it. Thank you xx

We believed so easily when we were young,and innocent 😢

I am so sorry for all the pain and abuse you have lived through. Please look up trauma bonding as it will help you understand some of the road you have traveled. I too have experienced similar situations. May you find healing and restoration for your soul and body

I've really been enjoying your stories. You are wise, very articulate, and have the intelligence to keep your wits about you. You've fashioned a life for yourself, without anyone telling you what to do or how to do it. I really admire that.

You have a beautiful English accent,so clear,and educated😊

So glad you did'nt inherit your mother's schizophrenia.

To have a German woman as a stepmother must be hell,because most Germans are so cold,and non affectionate. I think your dad was so damaged by being married to your disturbed mother that he projected all his resentments towards her onto you - so sad. Boarding schools,with all their unnecessary strictness ,and without loving parents to shield you from the staff must have been so awfull😢

I can't really blame your father. Can't imagine living with a schizophrenic person ,some people are just not fit to be mothers. You had to bear the brunt of it.

I use old food tubs in my drawers to keep things sorted and a clear stack of drawers ( meant for a desk or office papers) inside my wardrobe . In the drawers I keep tops and stretch pants and tee shirts.. but I do need to do more to keep like with like and toss more golden oldies!

Be careful what you share. Some people do not have good intentions.