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why having "potential" is overrated
blog: goodbadhuman.com/
insta: goodbadhuman_
email: blueslily619@gmail.com
timestamps
story 00:00
analogy 03:45
cursed gifted children 06:22
scam of innate talent 14:18
personal story 21:56
practical tips and advice 31:10
reminders 41:08
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Відео

When delulu is NOT the solulu.
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The same tool can both be extremely helpful and harmful. Correct usage is crucial and will save years of your life. Music: Chillpeach - Dreamy Mode : ua-cam.com/video/hCtwi8XkB4o/v-deo.html Email: blueslily619@gmail.com Blog : alicejaestudio.com/ Instagram: alicejaestudio
Why you give up when the novelty wears off | The "Progress Plateau"
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No, you're not giving up because you're a failure or "lazy", whatever that means...(as if any human would want to do absolutely nothing, all the time, if they had the opportunity and confidence to live the life they actually wanted). We often give up because we are not well prepared for inevitable challenges such as the Progress Plateau. These are some practical tips that have helped me sustain...
eat with me 🥯 (+ how i regained 15+ hours of my life every week)
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yummy little eat with me vid to accompany your meal without requiring too much attention ❤️ also I checked on amazon and the box is just called a phone lock box (could not be more self-explanatory)... short night, apologies for all the brain farts love xxxx AJ LINKS Instagram: alicejaestudio Email: blueslily619@gmail.com Blog : alicejaestudio.com/ ASMR Channel: www.youtube.com/@A...
PMDD : Actionable Tips & Solutions | Make It Manageable
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As I was making the list of scoops that will prevent your bucket from overflowing, I realised that I needed to insert the main characteristics of each scoop, which will help you choose the best one for the situation you are in. Therefore, I created a table that you can access in one of the links below: Google Doc: docs.google.com/document/d/18ii4Y1bOACOoGLS4jK_7NtZMa_b5P0yMxTQPtzB800E/edit?usp=...
How self-help can sneakily become harmful.
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Made this video because despite our best of intentions, there are many times where we end up making things harder for ourselves without even realising it. Tried blending science with some practical tips that I've learned through personal experience and mistakes. Hope this brings a bit of clarity and help. x much love AJ LINKS Instagram: alicejaestudio Email: blueslily619@gmail.co...
eat with me for 30min :)
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a little chill mukbang for anyone who wants an eating buddy today :) LINKS Instagram: alicejaestudio Email: blueslily619@gmail.com Blog : alicejaestudio.com/ ASMR Channel: www.youtube.com/@AliceJae_ASMR Main Channel: www.youtube.com/@goodbadhuman?sub_confirmation=1
doodle with me 🎨 - art therapy with lofi beats +[ASMR]
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happy scribbles~ love x AJ insta: alicejaestudio blog: not-so-obvious.com email: blueslily619@gmail.com 00:00 Intro 00:57 Doodling 33:15 Results 35:17 Why art therapy & current struggle
relief, relax & talk ~ [ASMR]
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zzzzz insta: alicejaestudio blog: not-so-obvious.com email: blueslily619@gmail.com
clownette
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rufhshwkrftxkptfkr. love~ x insta: alicejaestudio email: blueslily619@gmail.com
PAPER themed crunchy ✨ tingly ✨ cozy ASMR
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little break from everything, enjoy~ insta: alicejaestudio blog: not-so-obvious.com email: blueslily619@gmail.com CHAPTERS: 00:00 Intro 02:16 Weird wrapping paper 06:20 Paper Butterflies 12:45 Ghibli postcards 19:41 Sketchbook 21:03 Instruction booklet 22:30 Tearing/ripping paper 24:42 Hunter x Hunter carda 25:59 Luxury shopping bag
ASMR - Singing bowl & Ghibli cards
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had to cut so much fml xo LINKS Instagram: alicejaestudio Email: blueslily619@gmail.com Blog : alicejaestudio.com/ ASMR Channel: www.youtube.com/@AliceJae_ASMR Main Channel: www.youtube.com/@goodbadhuman?sub_confirmation=1

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @lieutenant007
    @lieutenant007 4 дні тому

    Sometimes its much easier for people to talk about potential and how you could build it up, because actually focusing on the status quo and having a constructive reflection, is a conversation very little people are ready to have! (I am people, really have to work on that tbh) Ps. Amazing and very inspirational video, I just discovered you right now. Keep up the good work! 🙌

    • @goodbadhuman
      @goodbadhuman 3 дні тому

      @@lieutenant007 Thank you! I am also “people”… It’s so hard to not replace the actual work with more planning, tutorials, theorising etc. :’) thankfully, every time we bring awareness to it, we make these avoidance methods weaker and weaker 💪

  • @mariapacheco7995
    @mariapacheco7995 8 днів тому

    Sounds like the illuminated me speaking. It's not been a month since I knew this Indian Dr and found out my problem... Biggest problem though I'm almost 36.

    • @goodbadhuman
      @goodbadhuman 6 днів тому

      We're all students til the end, no such thing as too late. 36 is young, you got this

  • @andreeanich
    @andreeanich 9 днів тому

    27:35 I really enjoy these kind of videos, the visuals don't matter that much, as i prefer to listen to the monolog rather than truthly watching the video. The sound is good and that's what matters for me. I really loved the topic. Thanks for the video!

    • @goodbadhuman
      @goodbadhuman 6 днів тому

      So true i also just listen to many videos (vs watching them). thank you for the kind words, very encouraging <33

  • @Daijyii
    @Daijyii 9 днів тому

    Ahh I watched the whole video and this is extremely (and scarily) relatable. Especially the part where you just lay down and stare at the ceiling 😭 I take science based subjects partly because of I was blinded by my ego and the toxicity of "potential". This video just basically sums up what I'm currently facing. And honestly another thing that I think contributes a lot to this is those 20 minutes motivational videos (or even from real people). I'm not saying they're inherently bad or not motivational just because I don't get it, it's just that they picture mediocrity as something bad. But that's the problem, you have to BE mediocre before you become the best. I used to watch them and I remember this quote, "Be allergic to being mediocre." And so I just did nothing.. Highlights : 11:00 , 18:12 , 28:21, 35:19 Also I just wanted to say that I discovered your video through yt reccomendations and your commentary is structured really well. Don't pressure yourself too much on the set up or editing bcs personally, after awhile I just listen to the videos like a podcast instead of watching it.

    • @goodbadhuman
      @goodbadhuman 6 днів тому

      Thank you for this, means a lot. Can relate to picking certain subjects for ego and potential... And spot on about the motivational content. It just monetises the manipulation of short-lived, strong emotions, but fails to teach a single thing about the actual reality of long-term goal achievement (and maintenance!), as well as the radical self-acceptance needed throughout this chaotic journey

  • @YanTheMan_notaman
    @YanTheMan_notaman 9 днів тому

    OMG same I've always wanted to make an animation channel but felt like my art skills weren't good enough compared to other channels....I love art i shouldn't abandon that passion just because I'm scared

    • @goodbadhuman
      @goodbadhuman 6 днів тому

      exactly, just pretend to be a kid at first, make super simple animations, laugh at the silly mistakes, have fun with it and take pride in witnessing the grind and the slow but steady progress <3

  • @tommydowd7718
    @tommydowd7718 Місяць тому

    Keep making videos! What you’re talking about reminds me a lot of stoicism and Buddhism. Meditations by Marcus Aurelius and the 4 noble truths are all about keeping your expectations in check and managing your happiness based on your expectations!

    • @goodbadhuman
      @goodbadhuman Місяць тому

      Appreciate it! Hard to believe how true these philosophies still ring many centuries later

  • @bugburger_
    @bugburger_ 3 місяці тому

    ohh i thought this was pmd as in Pokémon Mystery Dungeon

  • @reekocatolico4850
    @reekocatolico4850 3 місяці тому

    you have no idea how helpful this video has been. i found this at exactly the right time, as my pmdd has been affecting my relationships and causing me to lose people close to me. this has been a huge encouragement to me that this will get better and i will get through this.

    • @goodbadhuman
      @goodbadhuman 3 місяці тому

      appreciate you for sharing this. currently in pmdd week and definitely feeling it, but these tips have helped keep things "functional"... it is very hard on relationships, think the best way is communication and not socialising too too much. all the best <3 (p.s. love your karma profile pic)

  • @shreycurious
    @shreycurious 4 місяці тому

    This was a great video! Many of the points resonated with me. Thanks so much for talking about this!

    • @goodbadhuman
      @goodbadhuman 4 місяці тому

      Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it☺

  • @laboflife4036
    @laboflife4036 4 місяці тому

    I watched the video and then decided to rewatch it while sitting and not walking. Would you say I cheated and watched another self help video? 😅😊 I clicked to watch it cause I deep down was having the same sense of realization albeit in a different experience. Great content,message and well put together. I think you have gone to school for a masters or something.

    • @goodbadhuman
      @goodbadhuman 4 місяці тому

      That's a great question. 😂 Given that it's the same info, it should be fine ;) Thanks a lot for the feedback, much appreciated!

  • @danceonthemoonn
    @danceonthemoonn 4 місяці тому

    This video is great and just what I needed! Thank you. I hope you have a lovely day!

    • @goodbadhuman
      @goodbadhuman 4 місяці тому

      @@danceonthemoonn thank you for these sweet words, I appreciate it. Have a lovely day as well x

  • @aingkieu
    @aingkieu 4 місяці тому

    The algorithm brought me here because my "watch later" list is full of self help and self improvement content 😅 I feel called out... But you're right

    • @goodbadhuman
      @goodbadhuman 4 місяці тому

      @@aingkieu hahahahaha my “watch later” is the same!😭 and the algorithm always calls you out when you need it the most…

  • @hannemikkelsen607
    @hannemikkelsen607 4 місяці тому

    Great video! For many years I consumed so much self help content, and even though it helped me a lot at certain times, deep down it came from beliefs that there is something wrong with me, that I'm not good enough, and self hate. First when I started to practice self acceptance, authenticity and changed these beliefs, I've started to feel better. When I figured out that I don't have to be special, be successful and achieve a lot to be good enough, it really was a game changer. I don't feel guilty because I'm "behind" anymore, and I act out of inspiration instead. And I find joy in the simple things. I still consume self help, but I'm looking for content where it's assumed that you are whole from the beginning.

    • @goodbadhuman
      @goodbadhuman 4 місяці тому

      @@hannemikkelsen607 Thank you for this beautifully written comment. I resonate with everything you said! No amount of self-help content will heal you if you do not have a foundation of unconditional self-love/acceptance, free from shame, social standards/pressures etc. It can feel a bit lonely and scary at first but the freedom and inner peace received in exchange makes it worth it.

  • @itisnirina
    @itisnirina 4 місяці тому

    I agree! Especially the downfall and sadness that comes with “I’ve read, listened to books, podcasts” why can’t I feel better? 🥲 keep it up bibi 🩷

  • @혜-k9s
    @혜-k9s 4 місяці тому

    i can 100% relate to you😂😂😂 tube subway metro

    • @goodbadhuman
      @goodbadhuman 4 місяці тому

      too much stress and mental maths. and for what?? 😭

  • @itisnirina
    @itisnirina 4 місяці тому

    pov: you live abroad but really love French butter 🥹 wayyy too relatable - I LOVE IT!

    • @goodbadhuman
      @goodbadhuman 4 місяці тому

      giiirl can't live without if fr fr

  • @itisnirina
    @itisnirina 5 місяців тому

    Wearing the same Nail color bibi 🥹🥰 And the drawing is so peaceful to watch 💕

    • @goodbadhuman
      @goodbadhuman 5 місяців тому

      Deep purpleish red will ALWAYS be the one Thank you Nirina very glad peaceful is the feeling conveyed ♥️

  • @D3nker_Cdull
    @D3nker_Cdull 6 місяців тому

    Very nice and soothing video, keep it up!

  • @itisnirina
    @itisnirina 6 місяців тому

    you got this :)

  • @itisnirina
    @itisnirina 6 місяців тому

    Love the ghibli ones omg ❤ and the butterflies are such a good gift idea!!!

    • @goodbadhuman
      @goodbadhuman 6 місяців тому

      ty love, yes it was v thoughtful rly touched me ♥️

  • @itisnirina
    @itisnirina 7 місяців тому

    I love how relaxing this is 💕💕💕

    • @goodbadhuman
      @goodbadhuman 7 місяців тому

      Biggest compliment thank you 🌻