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Definitely the a hole he is still a kid at 17 and is more than likely acting out because he has always felt the subconscious favoritism of his brother from his father and seeking attention the only way he can get it as well as being a teenager that automatically comes with the attitude and the arguments that’s what teens are known for he will eventually grow out of that behavior but not without the parents showing up and showing him they haven’t given up on him and as a father should definitely be trying to spend time with him maybe doing something he enjoys doing take an interest in his life because I’m sure they made it very clear they had none for a long time but always showed the brother attention in this way

Smart to cancel the wedding. Run and run far that momma's boy won't change. She knows no boundries and will continue to meddle.

I would if I hear you to get a paternity test and if possible get a lawyer and divorce your husband and if you could sue the woman who slept with your man because that because she should probably face damage control

You DEFINITELY did the right thing ! Your fiancé and his mom were more worried about impressing others and obviously not taking your feelings into consideration. He is not right for you !

You still have your wedding dress? How cost-effective was the dress you wore once?

OP absolutely did the right thing in canceling the wedding! The fact that her fiance refused to even consider her side in any of the disagreement with his mother makes him a mama's boy and poor marriage material. He dismissed her concerns and took his mother's side in every single issue. OP, you dodged a bullet! It's good that you found out where his allegiance lies prior to marrying him. If he can't put YOU before his mother, he has no business marrying you!

You need to decide if Tom is the one you want to marry. If you cant abide your mother in law 's meddling it tells you what you need to do.

With a MIL like that, dont get married. Thats controling and it will nvr get better. My MIL acted like a lover than a mother. To the point she faked cancer for attention. How can anybody do that, especially a mother who’s children lost their father to colon cancer at 42. It was the straw that broke the camels back. DO NOT GET MARRIED! Imagine what it will be when you have children, HER grandchildren! Dont do it..

Get a life, Turn Straight, Forget about lgbt it's most FxCKED UP thing to do

NTA He's taking advantage of the community. Helping out is great, but the idea of a "meal train" is ridiculous. Do you buy the food with your own money, or is it his money? If you're paying for the food, he has no right to demand certain brands; I have a feeling his brands are the expensive ones. Tell the ones who sent private messages to go ahead and remove you, see how long it is before they're begging you to join again. None of them will want to fill your space once you leave. Again, I think this idea is ridiculous. No one should fee forced to be generous. You should be able to decide what you're comfortable doing.

Not the ahole, yea, the family is going through a tuff time people are doing their best he is taking advantage of these people's generosity. he needs to be thankful for the help he is receiving.

Key word. Volunteer. It’s not a job. They can’t afford to loose people who are working for free

He can eat his own shoes before I would buy anything for him again. Someone I know (who didn't have a lot of money to begin with) was told that the recipient asked for croissants for her kids' lunches because they were 'tired of' bread. That's the last time she participated.

Stayin the group, just have them skip you when it comes to serving this one particular man.

No. Amanda is right. I have one piece of advice for her. Run! Run far, run fast! Just run!

Run away! Run fast!

Nope step dad will cintinue to bully wife, dont know why a grown "man" would act that way. But play stupid games earn stupid prizes. No big loss with him not at the wedding. Mom doesnt sound any better, two peas in a pod.

Yes your the asshole - ask first! Also stopping kids from saying first, and stop with the ai Reddit articles!

Fake bullshit stories. Reddit sucks.

this is a judge judy case

Yta. Jane's dad can afford to buy HIS daughter what he wants. YOU and the other kids need to suck it up.

Dude, there is no such thing as a wife's job. You make it sound like she needs to do all of the housework without help. What is this, the 1950s? Plus, it's called being a parent. I have 2 autistic boys. Both in school. 1 isn't talking. I don't sleep well. I have back and joint pain. Yet, I still do what I need to do to help with the household chores and taking care of my boys. You need to do the same. You don't want balance. You want to come home to a clean house, food on the table, and a beer in your hand. You don't get it at all. Yes you are the a-hole.

You need to take yohr ex to court.

Your ex sounds like the a-hole.

You need to look into separation real soon it’s just going to get worse. She also needs professional help.

you are only obligated to pay the child support. get a dna test and see she is yours tell your ex to give some of the money to her daughter.

The sponging Mother is the Asshole not You!

Long discussion and a contract to improve

If your paying the governing bodies calculated amount you are paying for the full spectrum of child care.

Yes you are the asshole, the child is suffering not the other parent.

You had need to have a judge to correct the b,,,,

That's why you pay child support.

How many men commit suicide due to having to pay massive amounts of child support? How many men have mental health issues due to high child support bills? How many men have to fight just to get minimum parenting time with their kids? Why is it assumed that women are the better carer and provider. I’m a mom and see how terrible the court system is against dads. Be great to see a positive change for men.

Youre not the a$$#ole, she is!

Yes

Based on this info., I’d say no you aren’t. I do understand why mom was fibbing about what the added expenses were. The car is an actual must for transportation and work/school. The laptop is more grey, but if it kept mom working, that’s the lesser of two evils. Sounds like mom is struggling financially to provide for kiddo. But it also seems like she’s trying to uphold a comfortable lifestyle she’s not currently eligible for. Callie should’ve just had an adult conversation with ex to explain her predicament (car breaking down, laptop not keeping up with workload). Callie is correct in a way, her having a job or not certainly affects her daughter. But she went about it wrong. Dad, you can do the following: 1. Stop giving any additional funds to mom other than obligatory support. 2. Build a trust in daughter’s name, inaccessible to mom. 3. Say no and build healthy boundaries to keep yourself safe and secure. 4. Have an open talk with daughter about how you love and support her, but you need to balance your cost of living expenses, too. Teach her to manage her finances early on so she won’t be another apple from mom’s tree. 5. I can’t help you with the mutual friend situation, having gone through that myself. Whomever is most aligned with you and your life’s goals and dreams will naturally defect to you. If those friends are worth anything, they will stay out of a married couple’s intimate affairs. Ex wife’s lies will hurt and be initially damaging. In time, hopefully everyone with a brain will see you being a loving dad and a guy just trying to navigate difficult circumstances. 6. Be careful not to get triggered by anything said or done by mommy dearest. If she’ll lie to make herself look good or squander your money, I wouldn’t trust her at all. Be especially careful of sending any texts/emails/social media posts about anything regarding you two. If she’s that much of a problem, you can just deal with the child and choose not to interface with mom beyond child support pay.

Hey! In my opinion (as u still privided her food) you are definetly not an asshole! some words coukld be said for the mother in this story! The real problem i felt here was that the mother was basicly grroming the child to do her bidding wich is... ill get deleted if i use those words... Anyone finding themselves in a situation like this, there are proffessionals you can turn to for help. Do that rather than anything else Kids are easily manipulated specialy by their parents, i also want to say this to people that do this... You are not doing your child and not even yourself any favours with this behaviour! Love life a and dont seek whateveryou want to call it with your child ,as a tool! Best wishes from Sweden!

Hundreds of thousands? I don't think so

she's not overstepping, the blokes are shocked upon lerning where do children come from, and that the mother-baby bond is real. Some cheek to say "the baby that wasn't her's" She's Aaron's mother, and Aaron has the right to have her in his life.

And the reason the ex-wife is not using the child support she gets for paid lunches is?

She probably agreed to no kids because she wanted to be with you and she knew how adamant you were about not wanting any kids.

Yes, you are. She wanted to share that kind of love with you and it’s a special love. She wanted to experience pregnancy. Even though this baby doesn’t belong to the both of you, you should put yourself aside, and experience this with her.

YTA. You're supporting your wife. You're not getting kids, you're giving hope and love. Grow up .

When people like Sally show you who they really are, BELIEVE THEM!!!

Lived with a drunk for years. You are not wrong. June has a sickness and unless she knows what that illness does to her family she probably won't change. Good on you.

You absolutely, positively did the right thing! Robert's so worthless!

I would have left too. Not make a show of it just quietly leave.

Nope. Stepfather adopted your child. Hate to say but legally your bio child is his until they are an adult. He adopted. He's responsible for all payments. If you want to, you could put whatever money you would have paid (if you hadn't had your legal rights removed) into a savings account for your child to give them when they are older

Jennas definitely a keeper. Kick your ex out❗️

Very satisfy Like a yard of bubble wrap by yourself