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To disconnect babies from parents further

My baby was doing this too. I switched her to a Comfort milk and it helped her so much.

Literally just thought the same thing 😅😅😅😅

I guess we shouldn't expect our offspring to be able to soothe themselves or sleep until 25.. 😮🤦‍♀️

but it can cause traumas in some other ways. You don’t need many interactions to don’t have a trauma. Amygdala can be hurted by this amount of stress, affecting their nervous system The Australian Association of Children's Mental Health (AAIMHI) warns that controlled crying is out of sync with the child's physiological and emotional health needs and could have unintended negative consequences. www.aaimh.org.au/media/website_pages/resources/position-statements-and-guidelines/sleep-position-statement-AAIMH_final-March-2022.pdf Dangers of CIO method, Darcia F Narváez Ph.D Notre Dame University www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/moral-landscapes/201112/dangers-crying-it-out “The nurture revolution” book presents the latest research in neuroscience and parenting, challenges the idea that the way to cultivate independence is through letting babies cry it out or sleep alone; also with science based warns about sleep training in special chapter. www.amazon.com/Nurture-Revolution-Transform-Nurtured-Parenting-ebook/dp/B0BH4KMSCZ The science of children’s sleep (la ciencia del sueño infantil, españa 2022) with more than 500 sources. www.barnesandnoble.com/w/la-ciencia-del-sue-o-infantil-comprendiendo-el-sue-o-de-nuestros-hijos-mar-a-berrozpe-mart-nez/1142964751 Harvard Research, Childrens need attention and reassurance- Instead of letting infants cry, American parents should keep their babies close, console them when they cry news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/1998/04/children-need-touching-and-attention-harvard-researchers-say/ Today there are many other gentle effective methods, ñwithout harming baby or mom

... and the study she sighted suggested the baby underwent 'stress'... okay, so? We click on this video because we want to understand how to avoid the *harmful* effects 'stress' can have - *not* because we want to avoid *all* 'stress' - stress stimulates biological changes, whether you're talking about the neuronal connections of the brain and nervous system, or a bone remodeling from the pressures applied to it - stress is a necessary component to adaptation. So, while she demonstrated 'hey, you're baby's undergoing 'stress' when you take this approach,' she has utterly failed to demonstrate the negative consequence to that stress, and secondly propose an alternative strategy to avoid that consequence. I hate it when people use 'scary' words, like they know something at a higher level, to get a negative reaction out of people without actually explaining the mechanism. Shallow video.

... also... I can't help but feel there is a *tremendous* difference between a 25 year old adult calling a friend for comfort and stress reduction, and when a young child or infant engages in a more instinctive behavior... or when someone with AUD engages in a repetitive behavior to regulate their stresses for that matter. I think she's blending multiple concepts into one. You don't just magically start self-regulating, managing your stress and emotions at the age of 25 years old when the brain is fully developed. The question is by what mechanisms does a 25 year learn to self-regulate over a 25 year period? We're specifically asking about early phases of that process which she didn't even touch on...

Exactly. There's three types of stress and sleep training doesnt meet the criteria of toxic stress unless of course we are talking about Russian orphanages where the infants had no attachments nor did they get their needs met. Oh wait sleep training critics DO use babies from Russian orphanages to make their point 🤦‍♀️

Did she mean 25 months ?

We had the same for my daughter--the lasered the lip and the tongue was classified as a 2+ functionality- the ibslc disagreed!🤪

May I ask for more info on how your situation went. My little guy is just about two weeks old and I’m nervous.

@@rraymond4912 the reflux got much better around 5/6 months, which is what the doctor predicted (once the muscles in chest/neck get stronger they can keep liquids down) the medicine was a lifesaver she was able to feed without crying and stopped being sick. She's now fully weaned off it at 6.5 months. Good luck!

What was the dose? According to the weight? Plz guide fully

​@@rraymond4912same here can you explain the symptoms in detail

​@@Nat-lk1gncan you guide me about the dosage

My parents & most ppl in my family that I’ve seen always cared for the baby first when the baby is crying & trying to sleep. Ppl say “oh their gonna depend on u now” n all that other bs but that’s literally the point. How are you suppose to build trust with your baby if you’re not there for them when they need physical touch? as long as you practice confidence with your child when their young & older. There are also diff independent skills you could teach ur children. Your children pay attention to u more than u think. So I’ve noticed confidence & structure & just practicing daily routine might just have ur child telling YOU their ready for their own bedroom at the right age:)

Also, depending on how old she is (she sounds very young & possibly newborn) they have no idea when “sleep time” is or the concept of time itself 😂. Therefore it must be the energy (taking turns in a relationship helps like passing the baby back n forth if one of y’all is stressed) or they just not ready to gts.

We used a weighted blanket to trick ours

Baby’s can’t manipulate there mothers ur selfish

@@Emma2537ly selfish lol sure. we are both training him to self sleep. i guess my wife is selfish too. worry about your child flemsy

Lol I think you misunderstood the point of the video

Babies don’t have enough brain function to manipulate anyone. They need something and are designed to cry when they need something. You are projecting adult traits onto a dependent being with one tool for getting its needs met: crying.

but it can cause traumas in some other ways. You don’t need many interactions to don’t have a trauma. Amygdala can be hurted by this amount of stress, affecting their nervous system The Australian Association of Children's Mental Health (AAIMHI) warns that controlled crying is out of sync with the child's physiological and emotional health needs and could have unintended negative consequences. www.aaimh.org.au/media/website_pages/resources/position-statements-and-guidelines/sleep-position-statement-AAIMH_final-March-2022.pdf Dangers of CIO method, Darcia F Narváez Ph.D Notre Dame University www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/moral-landscapes/201112/dangers-crying-it-out “The nurture revolution” book presents the latest research in neuroscience and parenting, challenges the idea that the way to cultivate independence is through letting babies cry it out or sleep alone; also with science based warns about sleep training in special chapter. www.amazon.com/Nurture-Revolution-Transform-Nurtured-Parenting-ebook/dp/B0BH4KMSCZ The science of children’s sleep (la ciencia del sueño infantil, españa 2022) with more than 500 sources. www.barnesandnoble.com/w/la-ciencia-del-sue-o-infantil-comprendiendo-el-sue-o-de-nuestros-hijos-mar-a-berrozpe-mart-nez/1142964751 Harvard Research, Childrens need attention and reassurance- Instead of letting infants cry, American parents should keep their babies close, console them when they cry news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/1998/04/children-need-touching-and-attention-harvard-researchers-say/ Today there are many other gentle effective methods, ñwithout harming baby or mom.

I am so glad you found it helpful!

i'm so sorry you had this experience 🙁

Mine told me she didn’t see any need to touch the tongue because sometimes it makes no difference. We did get lip ties lasered. My baby also has a prosterior tongue tie. He is still not getting a deep latch.

Exactly!! We all need time to adapt when it something we're not used to and baby's are the exact same