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It's just so awkward. Every time I'm around them it's just so so so bad. They make me feel so hated. So ostracized. So bad. It's getting worse with as we age. I can't be my true self around my family

I has loving parents, but my sibling relationships are strained. My Dad never made me feel good enough.

Wow thanks it all makes sense now 65yrs pof my learning !

Makes a lot of sense.....with thanks. Steve

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For 22, you’re doing a fantastic job! 🎉

Bless you ❤😊

thanks so much!

Thank you as I embrace my new journey I’m choosing to be myself

It's really hard when you don't fit anywhere. Not just your family. I just have different perspectives from most people & I am a deep thinker & feeler. How am I supposed to hide it?

Very Interesting content. What's your story?

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Hello I am the black sheep in my family thank you for the video 😊

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My Goodness, so beautiful this is. You spoke my life and I feel you. Soul to soul, your loved and appreciated.

Beautiful encouraging message love it..

Hello Lovely, that's 100 % my story of Life.!!! Thank you so much for this precious channel!!❤🙏🙏🙏

Great video, non prescriptive or diagnostic. Very real and honest. Easy to take on board. I needed something like this tiday. Very settling for my soul. 🙂

Ah I became the black sheep, I do not think I was born the black sheep.

Did you ever read Colin Wilson The Outsider?

I realise it now why some family members when they need some sort of help, they disappear , because they were being treated a certain way.

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i feel i am alien i don t fit in on earth i feel earth is not home i have home another place planet

Such amazing articulation of the topic, it was my first time seeing this vedio and thank you. Your words helped me uncover a childhood traumer I didn't even know I was harboring, thank you so so much

I was the black sheep but my family was supportive - it wasn’t bad I was just different ❤

This video is really helpful and encouraging. I am the black sheep of both sides of the family and I never really fit in anywhere but I know how to fit in anywhere because I have to learn how to adapt in society. I have a more introverted and reserved personality and I am also an empath so my whole life I am often misunderstood. I understand now that I am born to stand out and never meant to fit in. I understand now that we are chosen to raise the vibration of our world and to be the light in this dark and fallen world just like what Jesus did when he was here on earth (“YOU ARE THE LIGHT OF THE WORLD. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, LET YOUR LIGHT SHINE BEFORE OTHERS, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven." -Matthew 5:14-16). He shared God's words to the people even though he was rejected, persecuted, and doubted so people could know the truth. He embraced the gifts, talents, wisdom He had and used them for good. All of the trauma, pain, suffering that I experienced in my life was comforted when I learned what God has done for humanity. He sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to die on the cross for all our past, present, and future sins so that for those who felt lost, broken, abandoned, hopeless, insignificant, ridiculed would have hope in this life and the next. That's the good news of the bible and that's God's love. In God I found peace, healing, joy, mercy, significance, hope, power, comfort and it is available to anyone who gives God a place in their heart and life. God really changes lives. So I wanna encourage you, if you don't know God or if you don't believe in Him that you soften your heart and to seek Jesus. Just try. And you will see what God can do. He said in the bible that everyone will find Him if they seek Him with their whole heart. May God bless you and may His face shine upon you!

I made it halfway through before painful memories made this vid unenjoyable. But it's relevant, so I'll be back.

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I don’t feel accepted by anyone. I feel incredibly lonely.

Thank you so much for this. Every single word resonated.

To those that feel they wear these shoes. I have been listening to and reading posted information on this subject. Seems like a high percentage have fallen by the wayside. Broken spirit, low self esteem, and have become haters of those that have treated you wrong. Then there are those that say they are better than others, and they are special. I can only speak for myself. This is the calling I have been chosen for. I embrace it. I am not just a black sheep of the family I grew up with. I am a black sheep in the world. They were not able to break my spirit. They couldn't bring my self esteem down. My love is strong. It has made more understanding now, and is humbling. I don't regret my purpose for which I was created. I serve TMH YAH. His righteous works is being done in me. Shalom.

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I'm the black sheep. My younger sister's are treated way better than me and have support of our mom. My own mom basically makes me feel like I do everything wrong especially since my mom doesn't care about me, it hurts because I do everything to try to get her to like me but she makes me feel like crap about myself. I have tried everything but she doesn't listen to me about anything I say, I can talk but she doesn't listen to me. Nothing I ever do is good enough for her she makes me feel like the black sheep. Thank you for this video it helps a lot ❤️♥️💞

I've always been the black sheep of my family, and I have no idea why. I'm not allowed to have problems, or get sick. Everyone else, their problems matter, their illnesses are always worthy of compassion, but not me. God forbid I hang out too long at a family gathering. Everyone else is welcome as long as they like, but if I stay past the bare minimum alloted time I've overstayed my welcome. I've never done anything negative to any of them, but if I lose my cool for a split second over something that had nothing to do with any of them, and I'm not getting invited to Thanksgiving the following year. Even when they do invite me I'm mostly ignored, so I don't know why they even bother. My family is close with each other, but not with me. Thing is I'd like to be included, to feel like I was one of them, but it's never going to happen. My mom bent over backwards trying to earn their approval, and it was only after she died that they finally acknowledged how great of a person she was. I just don't understand how I can do no wrong, and yet still be seen in such a negative light by those who claim to love me.

Im the oldest of 10. My parents were very young and I went to my grandparents, they both remarried and had kids. I stayed at grandparents. I watched from the outside, both of them have families i wasn't included in. Lots more but i won't write a long story here. I'm an adult for many years now and can still feel all of it

I don't feel accepted anywhere.

Ive struggled with similar stuff to you all my life (im 70 now). I spent a great many years just trying to understand the pain. What Im hearing from you here is about dealing with self-criticism, self-blame, self-beating. I think its most important to distinguish between perfectionism and self-beating .. the perfectionism ISNT the problem. Perfectionism is good - perfectionism leads to excellence of results in whatever field you operate in. What is needed is to balance it with rest and time spent doing other stuff. Yes you have to accept that a perfect result is impossible and de-link the result from your self-worth and know when to let go. Its the link between what you feel about yourself and the perfectionidm you have to break. Then you can start to enjoy the perfectionism, while making sure you keep it in some perspective that gives you internsl rest too. Its not “one or the other”, its not “perfection” or “disaster”, its not “perfection to avoid self-blsme”, its not “if only” … black sheep is not the same thing, we need to separate black sheep from perfectionism and keep (to a limit) the perfectionism (and also let go, ackonowledging perfectionism is just a process, but a sometimes useful one.

Healing is a lifelong experience. There is never a point where its “done”. Im 70 now and I worked to heal the pain all my life and still do. That doesnt mean there are never good times - there are. Love to all.

I need a transplant, and the best chance for a match is my brother. But he don't care. None of my family cares. When I almost died and the hospital called my mom, she said, "I don't have time". Doctor told me I have 80% change of dying within 5 years. So it's kind of hard for me to "just get over it" being the black sheep. Perhaps in 5 years it won't matter.

I’m the black sheep of my mom side of the family they don’t wanna hang out with me cause I’m werid but idc that’s just my personality🤷🏽‍♀️

I made the decision not to be the black sheep, I made myself the black wolf.

By being rejected i am removed from drama and trauma in the family. I am glad i am rejected.

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I’m the Black Sheep of the family. Same with my husband.

Thank you for sharing.

I was the golden child and then the black sheep. And guess what? I totally embrace it❤ I was my moms favorite and when she died they cast me as the black sheep. I will be the one to continue to be myself, I will continue to live authentically. My parents never rejected me, it was always the siblings. The siblings, 8 of them. Except for 1, my eldest brother, he’s always been supportive and loving❤he’s an empath like me. I refuse to shrink anymore because my bigness makes them uncomfortable. I’m me! I am ENFJ WOOHOOOOO🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

Someone to pray for me things just keep falling my way like landmines we are all one we need empathy on fighting our way to happiness, hoping we never give up for God is with us Joshua 1:9 let's trust on divine right timing these sorrows will surely end.

Well said. Thank you