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A chick video, like a chick flick, but a video. My Mom would spend literally hours on the phone listening to her life-long friend. And then report, “I spent all that time listening to her and her problems, but then she never listens to me.” Now, I don’t know a lot about women, but that seems kind of unfair. After Dad died, she also said “John, I have a hard time asking for help”. So yeah, a “chatty Cathy”. was more masculine (me), on a good day, than her. But yeah, those were our “energies”. Thank you for your insights.

What you are talking about here Sarah is that first date, or the early dating part. You don't want to dominate the conversation. She might feel smothered, or like she is with one of her friends. Once you are in that friend zone, that's pretty much it. Women are attached to masculinity in men.Using John Wayne or Clint Eastwood as examples I get what you are saying. You are not talking about the person themselves, you are talking about the masculinity they ooze. Women don't want to date feminine men, or men that make them feel like he is just a friend. Thanks Sarah and I'll see you in the next video.

Pointing out the obvious, in my opinion: this doesn’t mean be mute or ‘yes’, ‘no’. Be brief. This is different than being in a relationship and sharing more of yourself.

I'm into the wife therapist. I was growing up. The legend, the groups, the adventure, the parties. And now your man, Sarah Dawn. School me, teacher.

It is well established that women often excel in verbal communication. However, what might not be fully recognized is how much men communicate through physical actions. When a man shifts away from this physical mode of communication to appease or win over a woman, he essentially undermines his own approach.

A leader is always unavailable in some way. Hence the command in the bedroom. Too many people to pay much attention.

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Women are toxic because it creates drama. They like drama because it generates attention, and competition. Men hate it, so when women engage in it they feel like they won. Men are not attracted to toxic women, men are stuck with toxic wimen.

Its to late for me.I have been single for 25 years.If you knew my story.I find it hard to trust another woman.My life is a mess I am a loner.I have learnt to live with it.What choice have i got.I will get ripped off again

I stay single.1 I don't want any woman. 2 Been ripped off once 3 They need to change the laws.To protect men.From been ripped off.4 Accept a man what he looks like.5 Not all men are bastards.6 Don't rip off men.

Real attraction (at the deepest level) is based on personality (I recommend The Enneagram and Myers-Briggs). A man should not be talking on a date (she should do most of it). In reality, it takes less than one minute for a feminine woman to KNOW if she’s in the presence of a masculine man. In my experience, many women are in a masculine frame while men are too feminine. Only a mature male and female will have the ability to know when they’re in the presence of the right person and it’s based on personality (not money or appearance, per se). Any man or woman with any brains would not waste their time on dates. The attraction is either there or it isn’t (plain and simple). And no man should ever spend ANY money on any woman to find out whether she likes him or not (that would be a sin). Any man going to an outside source (other than self-knowledge, directly about himself) is a loser. Ninety percent of the so-called male coaches online are feminized men who don’t know sh*t from Shinola. And the rest don’t know squat either. If a woman isn’t instantly attracted to a man there’s nothing he could ever do to change that (not even throwing money at her). REAL ATTRACTION IS BASED ON PERSONALITY! The first thing a man will notice about a large share of women is when they’re trying to find out if the man has any money (when she opens her mouth). These are the women a man should run from immediately because they couldn’t care less about him. But a wise man doesn’t need to be concerned in the least and all he needs to know is whether she wants him worse (extremely easy to know)! Also, it’s not the man’s “job” to try and get a girlfriend. She’s the one who is supposed to want him (worse) … even though he might like her a lot. And if that doesn’t happen then he has nothing (outside of maybe a one-night stand). In simple speak, trying is futile and it’s always up to her. That’s why attempting to change oneself is retarded (through an outside source) ... it must come naturally. A man must go through that sh*t on his own if he’s ever going to grow a set of balls and quit putting women on a pedestal!

Lord, make me responsible for all the fruit cakes. “Feminine energy” indeed.

The number one reason why men get ghosted is because they’re too eager to go after any women at all, which includes all the wrong women that do all the ghosting. Any woman who’s the right woman isn’t ghost anybody.

The thing is, we only know what others have communicated. Not everything is true and since the rulers control what we hear and see, we just take it and run. Not all of anything is the same. Men are this and women are that is never close to accurate.

That anger is from being with the wrong men

Four glaring red flags for sure. Here is a woman I find interesting. Someone who's intelligent. A voice that just captivates me Really beautiful Alluring eyes Has long brown hair Does have luscious lips 💋 A woman that is Cuban. Wonderful smile I can't resist. Not afraid to tell it like it is. Look at the capital letters vertically and that's the woman I find attractive and interesting❤😜.

Well, that was more direct. Not tied up in knots so much. Yes, she’s all of that, but you are beautiful. Not just to me. Not just FOR me. But to other men. And, that kinda means I must be “on” when I am with you. There could be a fan at any moment watching what we do. My self esteem is off the charts. So please don’t tell me that. You tell me. Would this drive you nuts: The temptations: I Can turn the gray sky blue I can make it rain, whenever I want it to, oh I I can build a castle from a single grain of sand I can make a ship sail, on dry land tell 'em yeah But my life is incomplete and I'm so blue 'Cause I can't get next to you I can't get next to you, babe (next to you) I can't get next to you (I just can't get next you) I can't get next to you, babe I can't get next to you I Can fly like a bird in the sky Hey, and I can buy anything that money can't buy Oh, I I can turn a river into a raging fire I can live forever if I so desired Unimportant are all the things I can do 'Cause I can't get next to you I can't get next to you, babe (no matter what I do) I can't get next to you Uh-ya Ooo-ooo Ooo-ooo Chica boom, chica boom Chica boom, boom, boom I can turn back the hands of time, you better believe I can I can make the seasons change, just by waving my hand Oh, I I can change anything from old to new The things I want to do the most, I'm unable to do Unhappy am I with all the powers I possess 'Cause girl you're the key to my happiness And I Can't get next to you Girl, you're blowing my mind 'cause I can't get (next to you) Can't you see these tears I'm crying? I can't get (next to you) Girl, it's you that I need, I gotta get (next to you) Can't you see these tears I'm crying? I can't get (next to you) I, I, I, I, I can't get (next to you) I, I, I, I, I can't get (next to you) Girl, you're blowing my mind

What I understood about this video is I won't stay single 😎

Yes I agree with that gentleman Sarah, you have good posture!!🫵🏾

I don't know, I'd like to think there is a consistency about me that makes me hard to fool. But of course, the pretend advances that I make and information that I ask for, are taylor made for you.

Sarah. “Talk and share your belief systems after watching t.v. with your parents”. How on earth do leftist parents produce a right wing leaning child or visa-versa. It’d be like “where hell did he get that?” Who the hell is giving him ideas? I can see myself and I don’t really like it. We had better have a talk and straighten this right out. Also Sarah, they put my wife in a facility. I have not been happy. I’ve seen the light go from my wife’s eyes throughout the years when she’d end up in the psych ward. She has not lost that light, but still I worry. Will we be together?

Love you Sarah. You have got some balls, (in a good way) over things that you have said. You were in a new relationship, last I checked. I hope it’s going well. I know what it’s like to be all tied up in knots. Forgive that that’s the way I saw you. That’s the thing about lust, isn’t it? It plows right through the noise. Knowing how a woman is in bed.

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When a man likes a woman, the mistake is already made.

None of its true.your not a man, so quit trying to act like you know what a man wants or thinks.

Do you speek to people on Telegram?

Exciting video. A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldnt say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other

REALITY: Women have no rules for Chads and Tyrones. . Women make rules for Betas and break them for Alphas.

Your analysis resonates with my experience. Being a nice guy and ignoring my inner emotional work has damaged my relationships in the past.

Sarah...You have A VERY PRECISE MINDFUL UNDERSTANDING of the Dynamics of HOW OUR "IMPRINTING" affects Us later in Our interactions. So it seems THAT Your MINDFULNESS is Very Balanced out...Via Your Articulate EMOTIONAL UNDERSTANDING (E.Q.) ....I really like listening to You FERRET OUT the pathways of Actions...Responses and/or Reactions. We could learn a lot from each other. Ok...back to finish THIS VID then onto anotherxone of Yours (BTW ...I grew up IN THE OZARKS....and I am currently in Philadelphia )

Hello Sarah....1st time Video.....I was BORN IN THE LAND OF GIANTS.....and The GIANTS were GODS....and the GODS WERE AT WAR....and I was IN THE MIDDLE. My name is Mark. I had NO MEMORIES of my childhood (up thru age 5) UNTIL I was 33. I had Guardians from 5 to 12...whereupon I was ADOPTED by those same Guardoans. I loved MY FAMILY. I excelled at many things. My first Family was POOR. My second Family was RICH ( we had 4 Restaurants consecurive over 19 years) At 21....my adoptive Mother TOOK HER OWN LIFE...on Her Husband's (Our Father) BIRTHDAY. I was IN THE NAVY and was only four months away FROM RETURNING HOME. I am HERE and I am now 64. I am SINGLE...NEVER MARRIED....AND I have NO CHILDREN. I am REINTEGRATING & HEALING. I have also had several Near-Death experiences and walked away WITHOUT any scratches. I am NOT nor ever have been ADDICTED to Alcohol or Drugs. It is A MIRACLE I am alive and have MY WITS about me. I encourage You to READ "The Powrr of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. Reach out if You'd like. BTW the VA MEDICAL SYSTEM is NOT helping Vets to become RE-EMPOWERED & HEALED. They are DIS-empowering them (US). Their "guise" is "help" ....but Their MODUS OPERANDI is TO HINDER......BUT A WHOLE LOTTA PEOPLE MAKE GOOD SALARIES WORKING THEIR. "Thank You for Your Service" is "VIRTUE SIGNALING"....and it's AN EGO-TRIP to make the provocateurs FEEL REAL GOOD about themselves. So many things to say....I COULD WRITE BOOKS. Thank You for Your Support Sarah......PLEASE GO GET THE BOOK AND READ IT. I gain nothing from it's purchase.....BUT TO HELP MY NEIGHBOR and Country-Woman.

I'll give you another one - when men get married - they have an external constraint placed on their sex life and the decision is not their about 80% of the time. want to stop having sex after 3-4 years - get married. Like it's some sort of sport or hidden agenda Women have that they won't discuss or actively work to avoid - they just expect to remove sex and you have to learn to live with that decision without your voice or needs allowed. want to have an active sex life - avoid marriage and long term relationships.

Being genuinely selfassured, working on your goals, skills, sports.. Better yourself, constantly, and women are not your priority. Make a list of what you want and not want in a woman. Looks:No tattoos, no piercings, no plastic, no crazy haircolors instead: feminine, natural, behavior, values... Any woman you meet not fulfilling the looks, behavior--> disqualified, not wasting my time to get to know her better. Start with this gentleman and don't settle if she's not meeting your standards. That's how I avoided wasting time. Be masculine, be successful and don't marry!!! I told her that upfront. I don't need a peace of paper! So I got to know her better and she made the cut. If all men started focusing on themselves, better themselves in every way and making a list of requirements regarding women, what are they gonna do??? I would never have deviated from my list. So these self-proclaimed beauty queens with plastic, too much make-up and boss babe attitude-->in my case automatically ignored, disqualified!!! Always do a background check, cause yes her past matter's!!!We are the price, always have been, only that little brain. So yes she's right, you are the price, gentlemen, if only you would believe it and yes remain single if there's no woman meeting your standards.

Forgive the signaling to the healthy woman you are, but it sounds like another Gordian knot. To me Sarah, you’re fishing. What would you like to hear?

Fantatic presentation. Very deep and full of wisdom. Thank you!

Men stay single because women have killed all form of relationships. It just does not matter for women, they all seek the better man all the time. Egoism and egocentrism of women has reached all time high. It is not worth it for us men.

Human nature dictates in every human being , 3 factors...A persons motive....intention & agenda! It's up to each individual to remove their " mask". Be honest, genuine and themselves. No facade...no game playing and trusting themselves and each other. Know what your wants and needs are. Acceptance, compromise and communication. Some people aren't relationship material. ( polygamous). Some are co- dependent. And some couples are lucky to have that mutual spark, chemistry and connection! The one common demonitor that I've seen repeating itself in relationships is a mundane routine, taking one another for granted and getting too comfortable with each other! Any relationship takes work 24/7!.... Not putting it on " auto- pilot." My mantra in life is... If anything in life is E- Z, it's NOT worth having. If it's WORTH having, it will NEVER be E- Z!!!

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The root cause is. Women don’t want to sleep with me, I’d love to go back to being confident having good self esteem and believing in myself, except that life and women passed me by, so. Now I’m behind, and I’m anxious, and I’m alone, and I’m scared I’ll die alone, which is scarcity, because everyone else is having sex and relationships and I got left behind. That’s where nice guy behavior comes from and this is what’s going to make me take my own life how many more time do I have to say help , do I need to say it with a bullet?

We have a generation of men that are not at this advanced stage. They don't know how to close. I don't mean sex (although that is obviously important lol.) I mean move meeting to talking on the phone to a date to multiple dates.

Let me fix this for you Sarah. Three reasons why men stay single: 1) they dont put a lot of effort into their body. They cant compete with Chad in the looks department which is - backed by dating app data - the primary initial component to attract a woman. Chad however has a different lady a night because hes putting in gym time. 2 - they dont make more than most of the women looking. Women in my experience rarely will stay interested in a man long term if she makes more. Ever see a lady doctor married to a nurse or janitor? Yeah me neither. 3 - man stops trying. These things can absolutely be worked on, but its a phenomenal amount of energy to spend when you know if you get sick or lose your wealth, the woman is highly likely to leave them. Divorce statistics dont lie. Ive known dozens to hundreds of men deficient in attitude, demeanor, and were assholes but had several women at any time because they had their money and body on point.

You have to be more specific in your title. These are reasons for guys who don't want to be single. Not for the guys who are choosing to be single.

You left out, that most modern women are not relationship material. They have too many bodies, too much entitlement, and way too disrespectful to make a relationship.

Of course, women want kind men, women want a whole army of simps. And what is the point of dating older women, I really can't understand that, to be honest. You get baggage of old trauma and craziness, and they are not fertile either. There are good women out there, but they are already in a relationship withtheire husbands that they are in relationships with when they are in their teens or adolescence age. Single women now is b material not worth to spend time money and energy in it. Just focus on life and accept that you not have a thriving relationship and family like our mothers and grandmothers have.

Let’s see for me it’s… not feeling quite right about them, not enjoying it. Consequently no long term relationship forms.

Wow. I am doing all three of these. The biggest is I've been attracted to anyone who shows kindness or if the girl actually says yes to meeting me. Then My brain zeros in on them and anything they want, they will get because I think it's going to pay back in the end and never does.

So good. I prefer the title of your board (inner child wound) to the video thumbnail. It seems like we are all looking for trauma where it does not exist (trauma exists, of course). In my case, these wounds definitely apply although I was never traumatised as such.

A man remains single because he does not need a narcissistic, egoistic, materialistic, careerist and hedonistic creature next to him. A man doesn't need today's women except maybe sometimes little sex,