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#EndOfYearTarotTag 2024
I'm doing a VR again this year to @chaneldays' year-end tag. Hope you enjoy, and I wish you all a Happy New Year!
Where to get some of the decks mentioned:
Hellenic Oracle by @GardenGoddessTarot :
www.makeplayingcards.com/sell/garden-goddess-tarot
Brown Witch Lenny by @AuntyKsTarot :
www.drivethrucards.com/product/467168/The-Brown-Witch-Lenny-Linen?src=hottest_filtered&filters=45702_0_0_0&manufacturers_id=25268
Fool for Tarot by @RumerHaven:
www.makeplayingcards.com/sell/rumers-reading-room
(Deck comes with QR code to access the Bloody Awful Poetry guidebook)
Tarot bags from Sunset Bough Boutique: www.etsy.com/shop/SunsetBoughBoutique
Prompts:
1. Deck you used the most this year
2 Deck you didn’t use at all (or barely used)
3 Most recent addition
4 Deck that isn’t your usual style
5 Favourite deck pairing
6 Deck mod, bag, or any accessory (bought or made)
7 Favourite deck backs
8 Deck with a great theme
9 Deck you are in love with
10 Deck you wish existed (or OOP deck you want)
11 Which card sums up this year as a whole ( or a card you like)
12 Tarot practice reflection
13 Pull a card for the new year - (or a deck you want to use next year)
★ Three Girls, One Deck playlist: ua-cam.com/play/PLsmKIRUxGNPbJCxX_YJxDkDcZeqgdSZXt.html&feature=shared
★ Three Girls, One Monthly Catch-Up playlist: ua-cam.com/play/PLsmKIRUxGNPaA-zJnWl-Z_pFsIxTVQx7L.html&feature=shared
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🎴🃏 My decks for purchase:
Notorious JBG Tarot Mini
JBG Oracle
Inspired Soul Tarot
Cup of Contemplations Cards
Storytale Lenormand
Spoopy Lenormand
www.makeplayingcards.com/sell/peekaboorose
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Navigating the "Helladays"
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Just a ramble about how the holidays can kinda suck for some of us 😬 And I can't believe I have to say this, but this is in no way a judgment on how others choose to celebrate the season ✌🏻 🎴🃏 My decks for purchase: Notorious JBG Tarot Mini JBG Oracle Inspired Soul Tarot Cup of Contemplations Cards Storytale Lenormand Spoopy Lenormand www.makeplayingcards.com/sell/peekaboorose
Revisiting My #CatDecks
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For my own entertainment, I revisit a tag that @cosmic.creeper first introduced some years ago. I go through all the cat decks currently in my collection. What are some of your favorite cat decks? Decks mentioned: Cat Tarot Grimalkin's Curious Cats Tarot Magic Neko Deck Tarot of the Cat People Page of Cats Tarot Soul Cats Tarot Cat's Eye Tarot Black Cats Tarot CatTarot Reading cloth from Sunset...
#HalloweenPartyDecks
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Thank you to April @TarotandWitchery for tagging me! If you watch this and wanna join in with your own VR, consider yourself TAGGED. Prompts: 1. The Perfect Host: The deck that sets everything up perfectly for you in a read. 2. Party Decor: The deck that is all about the aesthetic of Halloween for you! 3. Comfort Food: The deck that always satisfies, leaving you feel good. 4. Bobbing for apples...
Flip Through and Impressions of Cat Tarot
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I finally have this KickStarter deck by Louis Art in my hands! Did you also back this deck? What's the illustrated book like, for those of you who received this add-on? Reading cloth from Sunset Bough Boutique on Etsy: www.etsy.com/shop/SunsetBoughBoutique 🎴🃏 My decks for purchase: Notorious JBG Tarot Mini JBG Oracle Inspired Soul Tarot Cup of Contemplations Cards Storytale Lenormand Spoopy Len...
#TarotLootDrop
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Original video from @DawnMichelleTarot: ua-cam.com/video/oehbc8WfNT8/v-deo.htmlfeature=shared VR from @LarkandLegend: ua-cam.com/video/6NCmBbvtruc/v-deo.htmlfeature=shared 🎴🃏 My decks for purchase: Notorious JBG Tarot Mini JBG Oracle Inspired Soul Tarot Cup of Contemplations Cards Storytale Lenormand Spoopy Lenormand www.makeplayingcards.com/sell/peekaboorose
Tarot Chat: Is the Tarot of a Moon Garden Companion Book Worth It?
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Do you already have an older version of Tarot of this deck and wonder if the new version is worth buying just for the companion book? I provide some thoughts here that I hope you find helpful in making your decision one way or the other 😊 🎴🃏 My decks for purchase: Notorious JBG Tarot Mini JBG Oracle Inspired Soul Tarot Cup of Contemplations Cards Storytale Lenormand Spoopy Lenormand www.makepla...
#BeetlejuiceTarotTag
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Please join in on a response to this awesome tag from @RobynsReflections on your social media platform of choice or in the comments! Prompts for the #BeetlejuiceTarotTag: 1. “It's Showtime!”- A deck that feels cinematic. 2. “I'm the ghost with the most.” -A ghoulish deck. 3. “I myself am strange and unusual.” - A deck that’s weird but lovable. 4. “My whole life is a dark room.” -A deck that’s p...
Three Girls, One Monthly Catch-Up: August 2024
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#TGODTarot #3G1DTarot #3G1MC Timestamps: 00:27 Tarot/Oracle 12:17 Books [Join us for Three Girls, One Book, on Sept 28 (channel TBD). We'll be discussing "Lone Women" by Victor LaValle.] 24:38 TV/Films 39:36 Wildcard (general life updates, announcements, etc.) Heather's new BookTube channel: www.youtube.com/@UCl9bUI_IMd5BrgHXKbAZ4Mg Sarah's Etsy shop, Sunset Bough Boutique: www.etsy.com/shop/Su...
Blind Ranking 10 Decks
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Thanks to Sylvia @fairlighttarot for this fun idea! Her video: ua-cam.com/video/lx8pDhWfUqQ/v-deo.htmlfeature=shared Reading cloth from Sunset Bough Boutique on Etsy: www.etsy.com/shop/SunsetBoughBoutique ★ Three Girls, One Deck playlist: ua-cam.com/play/PLsmKIRUxGNPbJCxX_YJxDkDcZeqgdSZXt.html&feature=shared ★ Three Girls, One Monthly Catch-Up playlist: ua-cam.com/play/PLsmKIRUxGNPaA-zJnWl-Z_pF...
#CollectionsMeetDecks
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#tarotyoutube Tag from @CandySoulAndSoil: ua-cam.com/video/q1IqIJ0frRc/v-deo.htmlfeature=shared VR from @tamipie: ua-cam.com/video/xtsh2ZnSl_E/v-deo.htmlfeature=shared Reading cloth from Sunset Bough Boutique on Etsy: www.etsy.com/shop/SunsetBoughBoutique Hellenic Oracle from @GardenGoddessTarot: www.makeplayingcards.com/sell/garden-goddess-tarot ★ Three Girls, One Deck playlist: ua-cam.com/pla...
Three Girls, One Monthly Catch-Up: June 2024
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Three Girls, One Monthly Catch-Up: June 2024
Revisiting My Deck Delights and Deterrents
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Revisiting My Deck Delights and Deterrents
Getting My Greek On With the Hellenic Oracle: Psyche (and Eros) (Part 3)
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Getting My Greek On With the Hellenic Oracle: Psyche (and Eros) (Part 3)
#TaRomanceTropes
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#TaRomanceTropes
A Look at the Black Salt Oracle
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A Look at the Black Salt Oracle
Three Girls, One Monthly Catch-Up: March 2024
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Three Girls, One Monthly Catch-Up: March 2024
#OraclesWithAttitude
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#OraclesWithAttitude
My First Look at the New Classic Tarocchi by Mr. Friborg
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My First Look at the New Classic Tarocchi by Mr. Friborg
#SelfCareBundle and #TarotRageDecks
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#SelfCareBundle and #TarotRageDecks
#PictureBookDecks
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#PictureBookDecks
Grab a Deck and Read With Me! Topic: Endings/Loss
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Grab a Deck and Read With Me! Topic: Endings/Loss
VR Mashup: #WhereAreYourDecks | #EveryDayCarryTarot
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VR Mashup: #WhereAreYourDecks | #EveryDayCarryTarot
Three Girls, One Monthly Catch-Up: November 2023
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Three Girls, One Monthly Catch-Up: November 2023
A Peek at Tarot of a Moon Garden, Borderless Edition
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A Peek at Tarot of a Moon Garden, Borderless Edition
Review of the Brown Witch Lenny
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Review of the Brown Witch Lenny
VR Mashup: Vampire Decks, More Halloween/Spooky Decks, Fall Decks
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VR Mashup: Vampire Decks, More Halloween/Spooky Decks, Fall Decks
Some LWB/Guidebook Spreads!
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Some LWB/Guidebook Spreads!
Grab a Deck and Read With Me! Topic: Vibe Check
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Grab a Deck and Read With Me! Topic: Vibe Check
#AsiansOnTarottube
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#AsiansOnTarottube

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @SunsetBoughTarot
    @SunsetBoughTarot 6 днів тому

    This was a fun tag! I am very interested to know how you ended up getting on with the Brian Froud deck! I will defend Llewellyn cardstock forever, I have never accidentally damaged one of my Llewellyn decks. Floppy cardstock is easier to shuffle so I’m less likely to damage it while shuffling!

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 13 годин тому

      I still haven't worked with the Froud deck yet 🙈But it's definitely on my to-do LOL. Team Llewellyn Cardstock!! 👊🏻

  • @SunsetBoughTarot
    @SunsetBoughTarot 6 днів тому

    Making my way thru my long-neglected Watch Later list. You know me, despite being a cat person I don’t have a ton of cat decks…I think only Tarot of the Cat People (which definitely counts imo), the Faeles Arcanae, and the new Cat Tarot from Kickstarter (which I’ve been using this month and enjoying). Oh and I also have the Magic Neko deck and another cat playing card deck but I don’t read playing cards so I really only have those for…well, playing cards. 😸 I don’t know why despite loving Adam Oehlers’ artwork I haven’t picked up that deck. It’s beautiful but I just have this feeling that it will be another in the long line of cat decks that I end up not using and passing along. No idea why, just a feeling. 🤷‍♀️

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 13 годин тому

      I've enjoyed the new Cat Tarot as well! Yeah, I agree that Soul Cats probably won't end up being your cuppa tea. The whole concept of the deck is . . . interesting LOL. Thanks so much for watching, friend!!

  • @SunsetBoughTarot
    @SunsetBoughTarot 6 днів тому

    lol the Hanged Man was my card for January too and yes it 100% tracked. I’ve been doing so little that I’m even behind on tarottube as you can see by me finally watching and commenting on this three weeks late. 😂

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 13 годин тому

      Omg if it ever felt like a Hanged Man month!! I always appreciate your taking the time to watch, no matter when it happens! (My to-watch queue is so egregious that might have to call bankruptcy 😭)

  • @twiggalina
    @twiggalina 6 днів тому

    I enjoyed watching this video so much!

  • @shinethru8844
    @shinethru8844 8 днів тому

    Would anyone be willing to share the pdf guide, please and thank you?

  • @Tarotjackpot
    @Tarotjackpot 13 днів тому

    Special hugs to you ❤❤

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 12 днів тому

      Thank you so much, Diane-I appreciate it 🥰

  • @RootsAndWaves
    @RootsAndWaves 14 днів тому

    My most sincere condolences regarding your sister, Juli. ❤‍🩹💐The Twilight deck will always be extra special to you. How thoughtful. 🌹 Oooo, Fool for Tarot looks really cool! Rumer is so creative. 🖤 Great decks, as usual! You have great taste. 💕

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 12 днів тому

      Thank you, dear friend 💗 Yes, Rumer is so creative and fun! 🙌🏼

  • @magickbreath
    @magickbreath 21 день тому

    Happy new year to you, just love all your contents, I wish that 2025 will be a lot more soft and happy for you ❤

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 14 днів тому

      Happy New Year! Thank you so much for your kind words 🩷

  • @78PuertasTarots
    @78PuertasTarots 22 дні тому

    Just subscribed to your channel, A belated Happy New Year!

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 14 днів тому

      Thank you! Looking forward to your videos as well-Happy New Year💜

  • @kampochan9719
    @kampochan9719 25 днів тому

    That’s for coastal curiosities. Happy new year🎉

  • @kampochan9719
    @kampochan9719 25 днів тому

    Use the QR code to access the guide book. It is a good one

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 24 дні тому

      The QR wasn't included with the deck, but I have the guidebook now--yay!

  • @MxKellyBear
    @MxKellyBear 27 днів тому

    Oh Jules, I love the Twilight deck you made, what a beautiful project to undertake with the connections it has for you. I'm a Spike girly too, well, him and Giles when it comes to the men in the cast. Oh my, yes, a Ghibli deck! That would be lovely. Enjoyed this look at your year of tarot in review. x

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 27 днів тому

      Giles--YAS!! I remember first seeing Anthony Head in all the Folgers coffee commercials 🤣 Thank you for being here, KellyBear!

  • @RumerHaven
    @RumerHaven 28 днів тому

    Happy New Year, Juli! D’aww, thank you for the shout-out, friend, and cheers to that sweet, sweet Spike looove…😘 I’ve been itching to get Thea’s Hellenic oracle and have just been too lazy to do the research you have-what you’ve done with it is incredible! Color me inspired. And ahhh, just adore Tarot de Carlotydes, front and back. 🖤🌙 Sending ya my first virtual hug of 2025! 😊

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 27 днів тому

      Happy New Year, Rumer!! Yes, the Greek mythology study was most definitely a time commitment, NGL 😆 The deck was worth it, though. Hope you had a lovely time with your family this holiday season!

  • @MarleneTheresa
    @MarleneTheresa 29 днів тому

    Happy New Year! The Hellenic Oracle was a big player in my year as well. I also love a clone. ❤

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 27 днів тому

      Yes, we were so IN IT with all the Greek mythology in 2024 😆Thanks for being here!

  • @RobynsReflections
    @RobynsReflections 29 днів тому

    “IDK, I love me a clone.” I felt that in my soul 🥰

  • @-NiamhWitch-
    @-NiamhWitch- 29 днів тому

    I also want a Ghibli deck. I ended up making my own Ghibli Lenormand, but obviously I can't sell it or anything lol. But I do love it!

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 27 днів тому

      That's so cool that you're making your own Lenny👏🏻And you chose a fab theme, of course!!

  • @Masculineintuitionreadings
    @Masculineintuitionreadings 29 днів тому

    ❤🎉❤

  • @MeadowlarkMystic
    @MeadowlarkMystic 29 днів тому

    This was fun! I’m finally able to watch some tarottube after my difficult semester. Loved hearing about your practice and year. ❤

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 27 днів тому

      Thank you, Renée! I MISS YOU😭Hopefully your studies will ease up next semester 🤞🏻

    • @MeadowlarkMystic
      @MeadowlarkMystic 27 днів тому

      @ I made a video which was strange after so long. And rambly maybe a bit incoherent ? 😆

    • @RootsAndWaves
      @RootsAndWaves 14 днів тому

      @@MeadowlarkMystic Welcome back, Renée! 💖

    • @MeadowlarkMystic
      @MeadowlarkMystic 14 днів тому

      @@RootsAndWaves thank you!!

  • @GreeneyedTarot
    @GreeneyedTarot 29 днів тому

    That Twilight deck is so special! Handmade with love ❤ I totally thought the traditional Korean tarot would be most used…lol, because of your love for it last year! Love your picks!

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 27 днів тому

      Thank you so much, Kristy! For once, I wasn't so predictable with the Traditional Korean Tarot 😆

  • @chaneldays
    @chaneldays Місяць тому

    That guidebook you created sounds like a labour of love Your story with the twilight deck and your sister was incredibly touching Tarot de Carlotydes has gorgeous backs Studio ghibli deck!!!

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 27 днів тому

      Happy New Year, Chanel! Thanks again for starting such a lovely tag tradition!🎊

  • @thestarmeanshope
    @thestarmeanshope Місяць тому

    I got Coastal Curiosities recently too. There is a digital pdf version of the guidebook that comes with the pocket edition. Did you get the card with the QR code with the deck? 🌟

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 27 днів тому

      No, that card didn't come with that deck--I think the person I got it from got it from someone else, and maybe that person left it out before passing it on🧐Thank you for letting me know!

    • @thestarmeanshope
      @thestarmeanshope 27 днів тому

      @Peekaboorose I can send it to you if you like?

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 26 днів тому

      @@thestarmeanshope Thank you for your offer to help! I was luckily able to get it from the person who gifted it to me; they did have it after all--woot!

  • @1976mcfarlane
    @1976mcfarlane Місяць тому

    That's beautiful that you made that deck in honor of your sister. 🌻

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 27 днів тому

      Thank you. It's become a very prized possession to me💞

  • @ikalesunflower
    @ikalesunflower Місяць тому

    Happy New year Julie 🎉

  • @theslightlychippedmoon
    @theslightlychippedmoon Місяць тому

    Thanks for sharing Juli <3 <3

  • @tarotthoughtsinspace
    @tarotthoughtsinspace Місяць тому

    Happy New Year and thank you for sharing! Especially the Twi-hard deck that you made in remembrance of your sister… such a lovely tribute!

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 27 днів тому

      Thank you and Happy New Year to you as well 🎉

  • @aspasiarising4732
    @aspasiarising4732 Місяць тому

    Happy New Year, Juli. I send many blessings to you for the year ahead. I got the Coastal Curiosities and I too am interested in Peculiar Pathways Tarot (I almost backed it on KS). Aunty K's Lenny deck looks super fun. Thank you for sharing!

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 27 днів тому

      Thank you, Beth!! You'll have to let know what you think of both of Rees' decks 💜

  • @papermoontarot4219
    @papermoontarot4219 Місяць тому

    Happy New Year, Julie, and I hope 2025 is much better for you and all of us. Thanks for all your lovely content this year. 🥰

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 27 днів тому

      Thank you so much, Nancy! I appreciate your kind words 🥰

  • @AuntyKsTarot
    @AuntyKsTarot Місяць тому

    that Spike deck, amazing and fun. There are some Studio Ghibli decks on Etsy. One is called Studio Ghibli and one called and based on spirited away. Also pleased I pushed you out of a box and you liked it.

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 27 днів тому

      Running now to Etsy to find Ghibli decks 😆

    • @AuntyKsTarot
      @AuntyKsTarot 26 днів тому

      @ I hope of them meets your hopes and dreams.

  • @margarets2924
    @margarets2924 Місяць тому

    The Coastal Curiosities guidebook explains the reason for everything in the card. The pocket edition has a pdf and the bigger size has a physical book. Have fun exploring it. Happy New Year!

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 27 днів тому

      Thank you for letting me know--I look forward to digging into the deck!

  • @Tarotismagic
    @Tarotismagic Місяць тому

    Gosh it looks GORGEOUS trimmed😍 I just fear I wouldn't be able to riffle shuffle it if I trim it.

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose 27 днів тому

      Thank you! Yes, trimming it would mean that you'd have to overhand shuffle. In its original form, I thought it riffled so nicely!!

    • @Tarotismagic
      @Tarotismagic 27 днів тому

      @Peekaboorose it does, I really like how Lewellyn cardstock riffle ahuffles. 🙏

  • @MxKellyBear
    @MxKellyBear Місяць тому

    Oh Jules babe, I wish I could reach through the screen and give you a hug. I'm glad that you have been able to carve out some space/traditions for your own little family, as a childfree couple over here, I get the expectations thing on that particular front. Having to navigate giref and the anniversary of the cause of that grief is so much harder at a time of year when everyone expects you to be happy. I hope you find a way through it and have the support you need. Sending you lots of love. xx

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose Місяць тому

      Many heartfelt thanks, Kelly Bear 🥰 Sending you lots of love in return and hoping you have an expectation-free (or as close as you can get to one😆) holiday season!💗

    • @MxKellyBear
      @MxKellyBear Місяць тому

      @@Peekaboorose Thank you lovely. It has been very expectation-free this year (I have made it that way by design, though I know I can't get away with it every Christmas). x

  • @Bookishdowntime
    @Bookishdowntime Місяць тому

    The helladays are hard, first anniversary’s of loss are hard, having to combine the two is just so much to have to deal with. Sharing that online in order to make space for people who might also be having a hard time is such a generous and kind thing to do, and is one of the many many reasons I am grateful I can call you my friend 💖 I haven’t decided what I am going to do for Xmas yet, but I do know things got a lot better in the last few years once I realised I actually can just say no to the things I really don’t want to deal with.

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose Місяць тому

      So glad to know that you've been able to say no over the holidays and have had better experiences as a result!! I'm eternally grateful to call you my friend, and I deeply appreciate all the generous ways you've been open and supportive 🥰🫂💗

  • @weststartarot-Liz
    @weststartarot-Liz Місяць тому

    So with you. This time of year can really shine a spotlight on loss. I’ve been struggling with a couple of huge losses these past couple of years and for some reason the “helledays” magnifies things. Thank you for speaking openly about this and giving room for others to acknowledge our feelings of grief and loss. When the chips are down you really discover who your true friends are and it can be pretty surprising. Sending lots of love to you, Juli, and a big virtual hug. You’re one of my favorite UA-camrs even though I can’t stand the big eyed girl decks!!!! 🤣🤣🤣 thought I’d try to end on a note of humor.

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose Місяць тому

      Sending huge hugs back to you, Liz 🫂This time of year really does amplify feelings we’d rather not revisit. Thank you for being here (and for putting up with the JBG gals 🤣😘) 💗

  • @MixtressRae
    @MixtressRae Місяць тому

    Solidarity, sister. 🥰

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose Місяць тому

      ILYSM!! You are a most wonderful friend and listener--thank you for everything 💜

  • @TechCoven
    @TechCoven Місяць тому

    I really appreciate the nuanced and layers you brought to this - both the season and grief and regulating. Oy. It's...just a lot. Sending warmth ✨

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose Місяць тому

      Thank you for taking the time, Allison! Hugs to you 💙

  • @thedollsthewitchandthewardrobe
    @thedollsthewitchandthewardrobe Місяць тому

    Yes, Juli, I agree. My Mom's 3rd anniversary of her passing was on Saturday, the 7th and I have been a teary mess - it really hit hard this year. My family and circle of friends is so much smaller now. My Brother and SIL and nieces are close by but they go to Hawaii for Christmas every year - and my Sister and BIL live in Memphis, TN and can't travel out to California to see me (and vice versa) for the holidays this year so it's just gonna be me and Rob (by BF) LOL. And that's just fine! We're getting each other spa for X-mas and getting a mutual gift of karaoke machine to sing and carry on during the coming difficult times. :D By the way, when I lived in Atlanta - I spent many Christmas and NY holidays in Key West - loved it!! I agree - travel is so fun during the holidays. I think you are doing all the right things to take care of yourself and I want to support you in your journey. I'm sending you lots of love and hugs!

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose Місяць тому

      I'm sending you so much love during this difficult time, Kim 🫂 It can be easy for some people to assume that grief will subside as the years pass, and that just isn't true. It's nonlinear and ever-present. Um HAWAII for Xmas every year? Can you brother please adopt me? 🤣 Your Xmas plans with your BF sound great! My thoughts are with you💞

    • @thedollsthewitchandthewardrobe
      @thedollsthewitchandthewardrobe Місяць тому

      @@Peekaboorose Yes grief has been so strange over the past couple of years. Both my Mom and Dad passed within 3 months of each other - both rather unexpectedly - but it was a shock, really, to find myself a sudden "orphan" at the age of 57. We were/are all a close little family. So I am a big fan of you get to do what you need to do to take care of yourself. And if that means drawing boundaries or taking time to really understand your own needs - then YES, more please. It's funny, that first year, my Mom died on Dec 7 and we - my brother, sil, two nieces and Rob and I had planned to go to Hawaii for Christmas - already had everything booked. So we still went after Mom died and looking back, I think it really helped me. It was so hard that first year. I'm really concerned about my girls - though both are citizens, my SIL has a green card and I know that he wants to go after birthright citizens. I kind of feel like maybe they should preemptively go to Australia (where they all have citizenship, except for bro). Arrrgh - all this to say it is so stressful for so many right now (like you were saying in your video). But I'm really glad you decided to post the video and just show up for yourself and ask only to be heard. Often, I think, we don't get enough of that. Sending all the love right back to you dear one!

    • @Aurelia-dp3td
      @Aurelia-dp3td Місяць тому

      I know how you feel today the 11th my mom has been gone 5 years and I am just still Humpty Dumpty lost without my best friend I will never be the same and it's just more depressing now during holidays which I just will share with my fur babies so I do feel your pain it's unbearable some days❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @thedollsthewitchandthewardrobe
      @thedollsthewitchandthewardrobe Місяць тому

      @ sending love and healing to you. Thank you for sharing as well - it helps me to know that I’m not alone in how I deal with the grief. ❤️

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose Місяць тому

      ​@@thedollsthewitchandthewardrobe I can see how Hawaii for that first Xmas without your mom would prove to be a helpful distraction. And oye, yes, I know that citizen stuff can get so messy. Sending all the positive juju out to you and yours! I appreciate your encouraging words about this video (I really wavered on whether I should post it!), and thank YOU for sharing your own experiences with us 💞

  • @LarkandLegend
    @LarkandLegend Місяць тому

    So much love for you 💜 and so much respect for y’all making the effort to carve out your own Yuletide traditions (though ffs, it shouldn’t take effort, ugh). I love the idea of a vacation of like that every 2-3 years, btw. And the entitlement from some is wild. Like ah, since you don’t have kids to live for, you should live for me instead. As if lol. I hope 2025 will be a much gentler year for you. You are a lovely human being, and you deserve some sweetness and some softness. 💜

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose Місяць тому

      Yes, the entitlement really chafes my ass! 😆😤 Thank you for your unwavering support and friendship. It's been such a balm for me this year and has meant so much💞

  • @tamipie
    @tamipie Місяць тому

    It's a really strange time right now. I am in a place where I kind of feel like I should be happy all the time, but I am not. And yes, the people who stick with us through the shit are real family. I am also grateful for the friends I've made in this virtual world... I hope it lasts. As Camelia Elias says, "Keep going."

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose Місяць тому

      I, too, am grateful for the connections I've made here. Yes, all we can do is try to "keep going." Sending you lots of love, Tamipie 🫂

    • @tamipie
      @tamipie Місяць тому

      @Peekaboorose 🫂

  • @RobynsReflections
    @RobynsReflections Місяць тому

    12:59 this part right here 💯

  • @emmaythegray
    @emmaythegray Місяць тому

    I feel this too, thank you for talking about it. Sending hugs.

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose Місяць тому

      Thank you for listening! Sending hugs right back atcha, Emmay 🫂

  • @RoseHoneyRitual
    @RoseHoneyRitual Місяць тому

    🗣️🫶🫶🫶

  • @teslagoth9401
    @teslagoth9401 Місяць тому

    I’m a fan of just doing what you want and letting people get mad

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose Місяць тому

      As draining as it is to be on the receiving end of conniptions coming from grown-ass adults, ME TOO.Thank you for being here!

  • @symphonyofthecards
    @symphonyofthecards Місяць тому

    omg Juli, Helladays is such an appropriate term 😩🤭 thank you for being so sincere, you expressed yourself beautifully. A looot of what you said resonated with me 🫂💖 I’m taking that virtual hug, actually I’ll take a baker’s dozen 🤭 thank you again for sharing, sending you a whole bunch of good vibrations 💖

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose Місяць тому

      Thank you, Tom!! I'll be sending you DOZENS AND DOZENS of virtual hugs as we navigate the helladays! Wishing you much strength and resilience 🫂

  • @lorrianalee3833
    @lorrianalee3833 Місяць тому

    Thank you thank you thank you!!! You gave voice to things I have felt, but thought I was the only one. Thank you for holding space and sharing space. 💜

    • @Peekaboorose
      @Peekaboorose Місяць тому

      I'm so glad that this video resonated with you! Sending many virtual hugs as we surf these tumultuous helladay waves!