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The Flirtation Experiment
From popular Christian voices Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer, The Flirtation Experiment inspired you to strengthen your marriage with a fun, unexpected approach that leads to the depth, richness, and closeness you desire.
Perfect for the wife who wants romance, passion, and the closeness that only comes from a deep heart connection but isn’t sure where to start, The Flirtation Experiment is a candid, real-life record of two Christian women from different seasons of life who discovered they could make a significant impact on their marriage relationships, one small flirtatious experiment at a time.
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Відео

Behind-the-Scenes of The Flirtation Experiment
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Here's a snippet from our longer 15-minute behind-the-scenes interview with Phylicia and me, along with our husbands. What impact did our flirtations make? How did it impact them? How did it change us? Honest and transparent, funny and serious we share it all. Available as a bonus for anyone who preorders The Flirtation Experiment! Here's the page where you can either grab a sneak peek or preor...
7 Ways to Lovingly Prepare Your Marriage for the Coming Holidays
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The holidays can be hard on a marriage. Here are 7 practical and concrete ways you can prepare your marriage for the coming season! For further resources: club31women.com/7-ways-prepare-marriage-for-coming-holidays/
How to Prepare Your Family's Hearts and Home for the Holidays
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What can you do to bring peace and joy into your home over the holiday season?
How to Enjoy A Stress-Free, Debt-Free Holiday with Your Family This Year
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How can you have a stress-free, debt-free holiday with your family? Learn how to slow down and spend intentional time with both your immediate and extended family. For further resources, see the rest here: club31women.com/enjoy-stress-free-debt-free-holiday-family/
The Best Advice From A Longtime Homeschooling Mom {Plus, Recommended Resources}
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Do you have questions about homeschooling you need some direction on? Here I am sharing some of my best advice as a homeschooling mom of 8! For list of resources, go to the blog HERE: club31women.com/best-advice-from-a-longtime-homeschooling-mom/
A Simple Homeschool Plan to Set You and Your Student Up for Success
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Today I'm going to take you through what a typical homeschool day looks like in our home and offer a few simple tips to help set you up for success! You can find more information and further resources on the blog HERE: club31women.com/simple-homeschool-plan-to-set-you-and-your-student-up-for-success/
Are Your Trials Making You Bitter or Beautiful? Encouragement for When You're In A Hard Season
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When you're going through a trial, do you allow it to refine you or does it make you bitter? Here is some encouragement when you're facing hard times. For further resources and a FREE printable, click HERE: club31women.com/are-your-trials-making-you-bitter-or-beautiful-encouragement-for-when-youre-in-a-hard-season-real-life-with-lisa/
How to Make the Most of Your Nighttime Routine {Plus, 3 Secrets to Success}
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The best way to make the most of your morning, is to first make the most of your evening. Discover my 3 secrets to our nighttime routine! For further resources and the original post, go here: club31women.com/make-most-nighttime-routine-3-secrets-success/
The 7 Keys to Getting Along with Your In-Laws
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Do you find your in-laws a challenge? Here are 7 keys to get along with and grow in your relationship with your in-laws, even when it's tough. Further resources and conversation over at the blog: club31women.com/in-laws/
How to Create A Happy Place Right In Your Very Own Home
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Creating a happy place to go to every day is a great way to refresh and restore your soul. Find out some essentials to make that space special for you! Additional resources on the blog here: club31women.com/create-happy-place-home/
Those 7 Things I Do Each Morning that Make My Day Go A Whole Lot Better
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What are those small and simple steps you can take each morning that can make a big difference in how the rest of the day goes? Here are the 7 things that I do every morning and how it impacts my family and our entire day! You can see more here: club31women.com/7-things-each-morning-make-day-better/
How Your Daughter Can Grow Into Your Good Friend
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How Your Daughter Can Grow Into Your Good Friend
How to Keep A Calm Spirit When You're Bursting with Anger
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How do you keep a quiet heart when you feel so angry? Is there any way to control your spirit when you're so mad you can hardly see straight? Yes, there is a way - and it doesn't just mean "choking" it back either. Today I'm sharing about what to do if you struggle with anger and how you can overcome! Companion FREE printable and other related resources available HERE: club31women.com/keep-calm...
Those 5 Things You'll Find in Every Good Marriage - Part 2 {Real Life with Lisa}
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What qualities go into a good marriage? The kind of marriage that leads to a lifelong friendship? Here are some of those "secret" ingredients in a close relationship!
Those 5 Things You'll Find In Every Good Marriage and Close Friendship {Real Life with Lisa}
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Those 5 Things You'll Find In Every Good Marriage and Close Friendship {Real Life with Lisa}
How to Enjoy Perfect Peace No Matter Your Circumstances {Real Life with Lisa}
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How to Enjoy Perfect Peace No Matter Your Circumstances {Real Life with Lisa}
How to Find Courage When All You Feel Is Fear {Real Life With Lisa}
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How to Find Courage When All You Feel Is Fear {Real Life With Lisa}
How to Make Hope Your Middle Name {Real Life with Lisa}
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How to Make Hope Your Middle Name {Real Life with Lisa}
100 Ways to Love Your Husband
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100 Ways to Love Your Husband

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  • @mommyof3march2
    @mommyof3march2 2 роки тому

    You impart so much wisdom because you’ve been there….. thank you for sharing your life experiences with us. I yearn to hear more. Please post more if possible. Can you do a video on relationships, especially with in laws who are living with you? I know you once mentioned you will share the story about your relationship with your mother in law. My in laws will be moving in with us soon- that’s why I want to learn more.

  • @juliar6874
    @juliar6874 2 роки тому

    🗽🎶❤When i just got married we started to live together with my in -Lows in tiny apartment. It was a HELL. !!! My husband 's mom hated me (and my mom!) and she was not shy talking about it loudly! Every day was something that eritated her! My husband always tried his best for improving situations but it was helpless. After 9 years we finally got our own housing. And we started pretty good relationship. They were welcome to our house always! All of us never reminded bad time and any offenses. Mom (like i called her) helped me with kids( Father was still working) and with some chores, and i was VERY grateful. And we NEVER argued anymore. GOD SAVE THER SOULS!

  • @raythomas3333
    @raythomas3333 2 роки тому

    That was so helpful. I literally took this video to my bedroom where I have a huge picture of Jesus hanging on my wall. This picture gives me comfort. I listened to each step and then I prayed after each step. Yes I am going through and my wife as well an unpleasant situation with my neighbor that has falsely accused us for something I did that was so innocent, but she is been very ugly to us with threats. And this is robbing us of peace. So God bless you and may our precious Lord continue to make his face shine on you.

  • @Emily_Rudolph
    @Emily_Rudolph 2 роки тому

    This sounds great!

  • @jefftube58
    @jefftube58 3 роки тому

    Lately I have seen many videos here about steps to having a better relationship with your in-laws: steps to dealing with your mother-in-law,etc. They all miss the huge point: Before the couple gets engaged, they must sit down and discuss the mother-in-law problem that WILL emerge immediately after tying the knot. Not IF but WILL. Since statistically the vast majority of mother-in-law problems are with the bride's mother, the prospective bride must decide if, in marrying her man and starting THEIR life together, she's going to be a woman or a girl regarding her mother. I've been there. The only way a mother-in-law can do all the destructive damage, manipulation,etc., is if her daughter (or sometimes son) allows her to. That's it ! All the wondering about how to deal with mother-in-law problesms after the marriage is a sign it wasn't dealt with before the engagement. When speaking of "in-law problems" these problems are usually the domineering mother-in-law and a weak father-in-law who won't step up to the plate and make his wife knock it off. So, most of these problems with in-laws are actually mother-in-law induced. Lady planning to get married: don't insult your boyfriend's heart and love for you by being a girl.

  • @goldachava1295
    @goldachava1295 3 роки тому

    like your videos

  • @kathycole1
    @kathycole1 3 роки тому

    I appreciate your authenticity. God Bless you and your family. Thank you

  • @MegaPerson012345
    @MegaPerson012345 3 роки тому

    My inlaws are going to assisted living then nursing home. Years ago I was willing to care for them, until they showed their true colors and became extremely controlling, disrespectful of boundaries, and really petty when they didnt get their way. I had to cut them off as they escalated their behavior.

  • @sunflower-oo1ff
    @sunflower-oo1ff 3 роки тому

    You are such a kind and awesome daughter in law ❤️

  • @chestenelambert9906
    @chestenelambert9906 3 роки тому

    I got these books for a family couple

  • @vbryxo
    @vbryxo 3 роки тому

    Thank you!😭🙏

  • @vbryxo
    @vbryxo 3 роки тому

    Why am I already crying. Heal me.

  • @danieldelacruz7305
    @danieldelacruz7305 3 роки тому

    8 children she’s crazy to carry so many babies on her

  • @taylormckenzie8897
    @taylormckenzie8897 3 роки тому

    Thank you for being so open and vulnerable and for sharing your advice. I pray I can walk worthy and reflect the image of Christ!!! A wise woman builds her house, a foolish one years it down 😊

  • @daniellerickel7947
    @daniellerickel7947 4 роки тому

    Gosh this morning I was so Angry with. My mom for reason I get upset really easy so this helps with me thanks

  • @montgca1
    @montgca1 4 роки тому

    Actually the Bible says for wives to respect their husbands...I would like to see a book about that. Husbands are to love their wives as Christ loves the church...THEY need a book about that...

  • @kalliegrobe7563
    @kalliegrobe7563 4 роки тому

    I can relate to this on so many levels. Have you ever heard of being an enneagram 9??

  • @empress.l.e.tra5904
    @empress.l.e.tra5904 4 роки тому

    All u saying I really feel u glad I am not alone

  • @empress.l.e.tra5904
    @empress.l.e.tra5904 4 роки тому

    U making me emotional as a black single woman in a unprivileged communities I been.homeschooling since 2016 or 2017 up till now I stay in Chicago

  • @nancywathika5739
    @nancywathika5739 4 роки тому

    Just found your channel!!!💃💃 I am always blessed by your emails!! I have grown as a person as I gleaned from you God bless you!

  • @ashlieleavelle
    @ashlieleavelle 4 роки тому

    Your daughter said you encourage marriage at age 15 and 16. She said she was in a courtship at a very young age. Savoury. Stelle. She just did a long interview saying that your Husband was abusive and overdid corporal punishment. You seem lovely.

  • @dazza8551
    @dazza8551 4 роки тому

    Child abusers! You will burn in hell for abusing your children and scarring them for life! Disgusting, EVIL people! Discipline does NOT mean abuse! "It would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck and he were cast into the sea than that he should cause one of these little ones to sin." - Luke 17:2

  • @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690
    @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690 4 роки тому

    Im a new subscriber. I hate my mil she's a covert narcasisst. She's critical constanly, unsolicited advice, controlling and passive aggressive. She's always victimizing herself. Can't communicate properly, doesn't deal with any problems that come up. Sweeps it under rug. No empathy period. Tries to pit us against eachother. I can't really talk to her. She didn't treat me like a valid human being . No respect period

  • @sarahf.s.2961
    @sarahf.s.2961 4 роки тому

    Thank you

  • @neverwhere1391
    @neverwhere1391 5 років тому

    My hubby’s mother turned up at our house, after being told to stay away! I had already spotted ‘Red Flags’ from our first meet. I have made a point of staying away from her in more recent years, not visiting her-and her arse of a husband-and have not invited them here. She would always phone up giving us dates she could visit!! The sheer nerve of her. She knows she is being blocked from turning up when she wants to BY ME! Tough! She is not part of our family/home life. She has her own and she should focus on that.

  • @lindaruss3772
    @lindaruss3772 5 років тому

    Who is this speaker??

  • @SassySofia-l9t
    @SassySofia-l9t 5 років тому

    I’m getting mad just listening to how calm she is.

    • @patrickbonham949
      @patrickbonham949 3 роки тому

      🙄😂.... I thought I was going to be the same initially 😂

  • @TheDailyConnoisseur
    @TheDailyConnoisseur 5 років тому

    I have found your videos to be so lovely and helpful. Thank you! ~ Jennifer Scott

  • @mauriciaannatkins
    @mauriciaannatkins 5 років тому

    I wish I had good in-laws.

    • @brothertn708
      @brothertn708 5 років тому

      Queen Z your in-laws also wish they had a good daughter in law

    • @neverwhere1391
      @neverwhere1391 5 років тому

      BROTHER TN she’s talking about HER situation-do you know about her situation? Good daughter in laws can’t make in-Laws good people. Either they want to be, or they don’t.

    • @daisycocoa2557
      @daisycocoa2557 3 роки тому

      @@neverwhere1391 …the senior member is the one in control to begin with, usually the matriarch of the family. A power hungry matriarch is a nightmare to be related to.

  • @kog4685
    @kog4685 5 років тому

    You mentioned you have troubles with in-laws in the past and then everything was fine. I consider you are now positive about that because today you are the "Mother in-law"

    • @daisycocoa2557
      @daisycocoa2557 3 роки тому

      Her mother in law is now dead and father-in-law’s almost dead. In laws probably helped them raise and pay for the 8 kids. She got a lot out of it but no mention of that.

  • @kamrynwynn-brayley9521
    @kamrynwynn-brayley9521 5 років тому

    I am not religious in the slightest, I do still greatly respect religion and the Bible for its teachings. I applaud everyone for their faith in God and I wish the best for all of you. I’m struggling in my journey to find inner peace. I have a big heart and it is hard to control your emotions when they are such a big part of who you are. I’m looking to grow as a person and as I said before, despite not being religious, I would greatly appreciate any prayers to help me in this process.

  • @windyhuaman7554
    @windyhuaman7554 5 років тому

    More videos please. Your videos are very helpful to me.

  • @windyhuaman7554
    @windyhuaman7554 5 років тому

    Amazing message! I love your videos. You are a very wise woman. God bless you!

  • @mjpartyof7784
    @mjpartyof7784 5 років тому

    I’m dealing with the mean “MIN” and in our almost 12 years of marriage I have had a lot of issues with my MIL but the biggest is the way she treats me and my children because we are not biologically blood related and even though she’s been in my kids lives since they were 2 and 4 she has been cold and unfair for the past 5 or 5 years!!! Please help

    • @nancyfaircloth5489
      @nancyfaircloth5489 5 років тому

      My In laws were the best they watched my children from the age of 4 months old and I was totally blessed to have them .they are both gone now and we all miss them very much but they will always be in our hearts

    • @naheedarshad9883
      @naheedarshad9883 4 роки тому

      Don't worry too much just do your work that is taking care of yourself and family . this time will pass soon u will have good time

  • @cantbeaslave
    @cantbeaslave 5 років тому

    It's not appropriate to walk into anyone's home. I guarantee her MIL does not do that to her best friend. My adult kids don't do that.

    • @tammymcginty123
      @tammymcginty123 5 років тому

      Amen! Simple solution...lock your doors & keep them locked! You can work around this, even w/ kids coming in & out. No way would I put up w/ any extended family just walking in my home...Boundaries. I have a large flat garden stone just outside my front door. It says "Friends Welcome, Relatives By Appointment". Yes, it's announcing this boundary, I meant it 18 yrs ago when I bought it & it still holds just as true today. ❤ Btw, one day when my MIL looked @ the sign w/ a friend of mine standing there, MIL said, "That's not for me". I said, "Oh but it IS.. exactly for you".

    • @brothertn708
      @brothertn708 5 років тому

      Lolita hanks yup, people hate that today because most people keep their house freakin’ dirty

  • @mybanana9103
    @mybanana9103 5 років тому

    I was watching this while folding laundry this morning. My 2-year-old sleepily came out and snuggled as we finished. At the end, she announced, "This is a great show!" I agree.

  • @homeschooledaroundtheworld4660
    @homeschooledaroundtheworld4660 6 років тому

    Could you do more Homeschool videos.? You are an inspiration. Thank you.

  • @florespiritu7645
    @florespiritu7645 6 років тому

    Thank you very much for sharing this encouraging message. I receive the articles by email too and they have been a blessing for me. Regards from Peru. God bless you!!! :D

  • @harrycarrey1225
    @harrycarrey1225 6 років тому

    it would be really funny if she kept getting more and more angry during this video and by the end of it was screaming at us and calling us names.

  • @keishapalmer2992
    @keishapalmer2992 6 років тому

    Thank you so much! I'm struggling to control anger and keep failing. I will definitely be reading the book of James and following those steps. God bless you and thank you. I really needed this.

  • @christinesmith7
    @christinesmith7 6 років тому

    You have blessed me greatly with this video. We are in a similar boat with a special needs baby. I truly needed this thank you!

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    @sergeydzema5569 6 років тому

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  • @crissycrochets
    @crissycrochets 6 років тому

    It’s definitely hard when you explain what you want and try for those boundaries and nothing is respected and understood and then the relationship continues to be toxic.

    • @jasminjoy61
      @jasminjoy61 6 років тому

      totally agree

    • @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690
      @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690 4 роки тому

      I agree my mil is a covert narcasisst . Thinks she should be treated better then anyone and everyone. She don't like that i am opinionated and have feelings that don't agree with her. The best thing is she lives 1 hr away .

    • @cynthiamarquez3370
      @cynthiamarquez3370 4 роки тому

      My Mil has been telling my husband that i don't really love him....and yes we live with her and my sil. They have been against me and our relationship from the beginning. Yes we pay rent...yes we pay bills and we aren't yet in a position to move and she frankly needs us to help her with bills. I feel so trapped and alone. I moved to a different state to be with him and i don't really know anyone here.

    • @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690
      @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690 4 роки тому

      @@cynthiamarquez3370 i feel bad for you i really do

    • @daisycocoa2557
      @daisycocoa2557 3 роки тому

      @@cynthiamarquez3370….move out and far away immediately

  • @glorifacts
    @glorifacts 6 років тому

    Thank you! That was quite encouraging. I'd be giving a talk on how to get along with your in-laws. This adds to what I already knew.

  • @elnorablue
    @elnorablue 6 років тому

    Thanks for the encouragement. I needed to hear this message today.

  • @timvandermey4792
    @timvandermey4792 6 років тому

    Your intro dress is very flattering!-danya

  • @bellareina05
    @bellareina05 6 років тому

    I love your channel. I find it very inspirational. I hope to homeschool my children. Currently I am trying to figure out where to start and this helps set a guideline of understanding to beginners.

  • @kelseybogus7354
    @kelseybogus7354 6 років тому

    I have 3 young boys right now and this idea sounds so peaceful! You've inspired me to create a little happy place too!

  • @ramonaswanson6079
    @ramonaswanson6079 6 років тому

    Thank you so much for this encouraging video. I really needed some encouragement today since my home school day didn't go as I hoped it would. God's blessings to you and your family.

  • @noellep9404
    @noellep9404 7 років тому

    Thank you for sharing! I have three daughters 6 and under and, I admit, it's hard to keep my long vision often times caught up in the daily. I do so desire to cultivate, now, real relationship with my daughters. To know them and encourage them. But so often I find myself hurried, reacting to this and that and feeling overwhelmed. Not a conducive environment for sweet relationship. It helps to know I am not alone in struggles! But, oh how very oppressive they feel at times!