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John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

this video found me at the right time. less than a month out from a very hard breakup, this is my first big heartbreak and I did not see it coming at all. I'm only 18, but we were best friends for six years (dated for two of those), and I feel like he defined my entire adolescence. I was so committed to a future with him and even though we weren't the right fit, it's been hard to accept that it's over. not only am I losing my dearest friend, I know all of my associated friendships (his friends before they became mine) won't ever feel the same. I only had one close friend outside of our immediate circle, and she moved away for college. I'm starting from scratch, and I know that new beginnings are a gift, but that doesn't make being alone any easier. I feel like my world got smaller overnight, and I have to heal before I let new people in. Thank you, sweet stranger, for making this lovely video. It was precisely the warm hug I needed tonight.

(I used Google Translate) I'm loving this new phase of your channel, this video is so comfortable and enjoyable. Congratulations on the crochets, they are all very beautiful, especially the bag, I can see how you put a lot of effort and love into making it. It made me want to see more of your projects in the future, I hope you continue to show us more of them. About the crochet and books club, I really support the idea, even if I can't participate in the crochets, I would at least like to participate because I find this hobby very interesting and about the books, I would find it interesting for you to talk more about it on the channel. Btw, I loved the punpun Tunisian crochet

this is such a great video. thank you for making this

DA EVIL BABY👀

i love it when i find channels like this recently been getting into crocheting and sewing (just the idea of it lol not actually doing it :') love the vibes

youtube comments are highly censored. i made a joke about you being too relatable bc i have a love interest and i lack the self control as a male to watch a video without feeling like i'm cheating on her.

Absolutely obsessed with everything omg your vibe is unmatched 😭

I love this! again! I feel like I'm always commenting that. But last friends video I was also in a different location. I will say in my last city there were so many 3rd places but they were never safe for me. Even though I had adopted some of the boundaries that you have now, in rural Idaho it was hard to exist as an alternative person and enter any space safely (and I mean that not just on a mental level but there were times when I would be spit on in the grocery store and yelled at for something as simple as having dyed hair). I moved just 2 hrs south of that city and am amazed at how drastically different my lifestyle has been because I can enter any location and feel at least neutral about a location has done wonders for me. But also I so agree with your last points as well. Im also a big concert girli, but I don't live in a city that gets a lot of shows and usually I end up driving to utah or fly out to a cheap city for concerts- and usually by myself. But I have also found people who while I don't consider them lifelong friendships I have wonderful amazing interactions with people for the night just by asking if another person is there by themselves too and that alone is so powerful for our mental health. Im literally the shyest person in the world but usually by opening a conversation with someone they help me open up and we start a flow, even if it's awkward. Also idk how much like the Secret lives of Mormon lives Albequerque is but out here in UT/ID it is so real life, like I know people exactly like that. there were seriously times I had to turn of the show and walk away because it was so close to real life I had to process it lololol

Smash?

I really identified with the things you said in the video. I do have friends, but in my mind I used to have way more. And I consider myself to be way happier with fewer friends. I felt like I was constantly making friends and getting close to people and when I payed attention we actually had nothing in common. I recently was admitted into the hospital for a lung problem and I spent 8 days thinking I was gonna die. And it really puts into perspective who you want with you at those moments, who you most like to talk to and share your time and thoughts with. Not everyone is for us and we're not for everyone. I'm lucky to have 2 beautiful close friends for 10 years +. They were the only ones who visited me at the hospital. Even though there were 20 people at my birthday party lol I've been in the same movement you were in with social media. I worried a lot about my time, brain fog and focus. And also about the performance of social media. I started to think everyone was a phony and I was the biggest phony too. I've been off socials for a month now and I feel my brain working again. I don't forget things in a matter of seconds anymore, I finish tasks calmly and I spend my days feeding my soul (sorry for sounding corny but i used to joke with my friends that nothing had SOUL anymore) and not my image, biking, reading and having fun with myself. I used to spend 6 hours on tiktok so throwing my old phone left me with a lot of time to find out who I am and what I like to do. Your old video saying that "social media made you stupid" was actually one of the first videos that inspired me, so thank you for that! Ps: I love your glasses and was wondering where they are from. Also, I love your new look, and I would love to see videos about your fashion exploration, including hairstyles ideas like this one! All the love :)

Yep, I am at this kind of turning point in my life too, I am creating a video-game however and got a blog not a YT. Thank you for the pep talk, I hope to see more videos from you in the future. Best of luck to you!

Girl your content is GOLD

i love your content it such a breast of fresh air compared to everything else on yt.

Its okay, none of us have friends :)

Glad you're back

I am working right now, will watch this video once I reach my home. But the title made me emotional, I would love love love to be your friend! I mean country borders and 1000s of miles can keep us part but the bond of friendship is so strong it obliterates the physical distance! If you ever want to talk with someone! I am here! let me know anytime, I will drop my mail id and we can connect in no time! Stay strong!

No i´m not. I´m just a Prophet. Trump will be Speaker of the House. Kamala will be President.

That´s a wrong question. Right question is: Do you have a Log Cabin ?

(I don't speak English, so I had to write to you using Google Translate) I really liked the video, I identified with some parts of it, and it helps me build my perspective on friendships. I'm happy that you're allowing yourself and making an effort to make friends. I was kind of recently not allowing myself to make friends due to a specific fear, but now I feel like I can make an effort to make new friends. Please make videos about your crochet skills, I'm very interested. Thanks for the video, it helped me a lot.

sorry about the dog, never a fun situation. glad you're back, love the authentic form of self-improvement you bring! may this year bring wind at your back and rain upon your brow!

reading these comments is so scary, but it is certainly motivating. social media was produced to make us more blind and easier to control. and it’s only going to get worse 😢

JUST looked at Mine and it said 12 hours….yeah no. I need to stop

Went ahead and followed you on here I just found you on bff.

I am deleting instagram and facebook today. Its just so toxic and i have to watch myself and make sure i dont replace it with youtube shorts cause thats gonna defeat the purpose of deleting instagram Great video! ❤❤❤

please don't stop

wise and inspirational words 😉

Healthy eating video would be good

Sister being jobless for such a long time 💯 made me into retard. Like now I just got enrolled for a design internship and now my head hurts doing these courses that my younger self would have no problem handling with. My excessive vieweing of dumb youtibe memes and ragebait videos as made feel so defeated.

The problem with these kind of modern internet ( that they so called media social ) isn't about toxicity rather about how superficial discussion quality without getting someone mad and Quality of information delivery combined by lack of fact check and accept information without skepticism that weren't a thing in forum era old internet,leading into title as your video suggest.

My addiction is UA-cam I gotta get off of here. But I just go from one video to the next.

glad you're talking about it really

Yes! =) I don't have any social media (except watching some UA-cam, and occasionally posting on pinterest). It's exhausting and isn't healthy for me - I just get completely burnt out!! Most of it is just mindless entertainment- and it wastes SO much time!! Thank you for making this video! ♡

Finally someone talking about it, it’s so disgusting and everyone just acts like it’s normal

Your voice is so calming omg

I’m a creator on TikTok, and I’ve noticed a huge huge influx of people commenting “thinspo” and a lot of other ED-stuff on my page, with them not knowing or caring that I myself am a recovered anorexic (AND at a healthy weight). It guts me and the comment filters don’t work well enough to stop them, it’s been really making me rethink even showing my body online, I feel used, and it’s upsetting to see constantly. It’s getting worse and worse online.

I havent watched yet but I keep clicking not interested and they keep coming back on TikTok and UA-cam!! :/

nobody forcing you to use the damn media

Great video!:) I also fell into a trap of consuming ed content on tumblr when I was younger;/ I wish someone told me sooner that was harmful.. it's disgusting how people promote this type of lifestyle. Sometimes I see ed posts with recovery hashtags💀 and then I'm like damn why are people putting these hashtags to the content which is literally the opposite of recovery🥲. It's sad that children have so much access to the internet nowadays, for sure it will affect them negatively;//

I think most of these types of videos are not made by people who actually have ED. Some people just want to get a follower base by getting cancelled. I saw a video where someone told that she deliberately added too much oil while cooking for her friend. Or those who claim to eat only ice throughout the day? When I entered their page, I saw that there were dozens of comments under their video, even though they had no followers. Delete your cancelled video, wait a while and upload another video again, no one will remember what you did before, right? I think that's all they want to do Love your videos btw <3

one minute in the video but i just wanted to say that your make-up looks beautifull!!

This level of authenticity with yourself and the world, is so so admirable to me. It is increasingly rare, especially when discussing what kind of relationship we can have with social media. I got rid of my phone about 6 months ago, it got ran over by a car and I decided to get a flip phone instead. That was the first big step for me. I missed it all the time, ALL the time, I live in the country so it was my only connection to the outside world 90% of the time. It was depressing, like sensory withdrawals. But now that its been so long, my other interests and hobbies have started to come back. Writing, reading, drawing, gardening, its something I feel called to do now. And even if I dont, I do it anyways, its just going through the motions. Especially if its just forcing myself to go outside. Recently me and my partner lost power for 9 days from Hurricane Helene, and my god we missed the internet/youtube/etc, but I wrote EVERY day. And I still do. Starting small, starting somewhere is everything, please remember that, you're doing amazing. For every old habit there endless possibility to build a new one you enjoy. Be patient with yourself & listen to what you need and how you feel. You got this!!

the make up and hair is amazingggg

It is wild how much I relate to you.

It's not just you young people that feel this. I'm the same at 38

such a real & beautiful video. i love this, videos like these really keep me moving towards my goals. can’t wait to see the growth ❤️

i felt so identified with this

HOW CUTE KITTIES!!!😻 new sub❤

I love this so much, i was just sewing my jeans into a skirt today and found this video. Id watch more of this series for sure

That skirt looks great! You should make more videos like this, you're style is amazing