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Sounds like you’re really looking out for her, and that’s great! It’s tough when generosity gets taken advantage of, but it seems like she’s learning and growing from the experience. Sometimes lessons like these take time to sink in, but with your support, I’m sure she’ll figure out the best way to handle these situations. Hang in there you’re doing a good job being patient and guiding her! God bless you and thanks for watching ❤😊

@@gigilapinff7624 hello thanks for always supporting us God bless you ❤️

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@@lizachavacanatheoriginal6880 my my friend yes suer healthy and lalmi kaayo Ang utang bisaya + nindot pajud Ang place super blessed po . Thanks for watching my friend God bless you

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I agree Filipinas deserve opportunities to thrive whether through STEM, better governance, or personal choices. Marriage and education are personal decisions, and what matters most is finding happiness and empowerment in whatever path they choose! Thanks for watching ❤😊

Oh God man. I know exactly what you mean. The mentality is beyond me.

I get your point-balancing finances and cultural habits can be tough. Filipino generosity is rooted in community, but setting boundaries and planning ahead can help. It’s all about finding a balance that works for both of you! Thanks for watching god bless you ❤😊

That sounds like a challenging situation. Navigating a relationship with someone who may have narcissistic tendencies can be difficult, but open communication, patience, and understanding can go a long way. If needed, seeking guidance from a counselor or trusted advisor might help bring clarity and balance to your relationship. Wishing you strength and wisdom! Thanks for watching God bless you❤😊

@ very challenging when they don’t want to talk and think they’re never wrong.

Oh man so true

Very true. How ironic they view men as providers. I don’t have a problem with that concept but they never hold their fathers and brother accountable as providers. The narrative seems to be only for foreigners. Of course then when foreigners question this they are cheap or stingy. 😀😀

You make a good point! Supporting a family should ideally be a shared responsibility, not something placed solely on one person or group. While it’s kind-hearted for foreigners to help, it’s also important for local men to step up and contribute as well. A strong family thrives when everyone works together. It also depends on the man’s capacity to provide. Many Filipinos assume all foreigners are wealthy, but that’s not always the case. Support should come from the heart and within one’s means, with clear boundaries to avoid creating dependence. A healthy balance is what truly helps a family grow. Thanks for watching ❤ God bless you ❤😊

Absolutely! Teaching someone to fish not only empowers them but also builds a foundation for lasting growth and self-reliance. It’s a beautiful principle that applies to so many areas of life true giving is about equipping others for the long term. Well said! Thanks for watching God bless you ❤😊

Thank you for sharing your thoughts!It’s great that you have a clear vision for your future relationship. Providing and leading with love and care is admirable, but a strong partnership also thrives on mutual respect and support. Independence doesn’t mean separation; it’s about growing together while valuing each other’s strengths. Wishing you all the best as you start this exciting chapter! God bless you❤😊and thanks for watching 😊

You're very welcome! We're so glad you enjoyed the video. Thank you for watching and supporting us it means so much! 😊 God bless❤

Thank you for sharing your perspective! It’s true that cultural differences can play a big role in relationships, and not everyone has the same priorities or expectations. In many Filipino families, there’s a strong sense of responsibility toward loved ones, which can sometimes be misunderstood. However, every individual is unique, and not all Filipinas prioritize family in the same way. Open communication and finding someone whose values align with yours are key to any successful relationship. Wishing you the best on your journey! Thanks for watching and God bless you ❤😊

@sentinel80, I was married to my first wife for 22 years and we had a daughter. Well she brought her family, mother, father and 3 sisters to the USA and they settled down in San Francisco while we were in Indiana. Her mother and father bought a large house in SF, then 5 acres up around Sacramento. They bought the land as an offer if I moved there, they would give me the land, I declined. Then they bought a house in Reno because they knew my wife wanted to live in Reno. What happened? About 2-3 years after buying the Reno house they called up and told my wife "It's time for you to come back to your family." Wife picked up and left without telling our daughter goodbye or that she was leaving. But as for your order, you are wrong, it should go list this in order of importance in life with Filipinas: 1.) Her family always comes first. 2.) Then comes the children she has with a Filipino second. 3.) Then comes any children she has with the foreigner husband. 4.) Comes every other Filipino/Filipina. 5.) Then comes the foreign husband. ( That's if the foreign husband even makes the list at all.

Thank you for sharing your story it’s so inspiring! It’s wonderful to see how your wife’s family cared deeply about her happiness and took the time to ensure her future partner was genuine. Eight years of exchanging letters shows so much patience and commitment, and it’s beautiful how that turned into a strong, long-lasting marriage. It’s also heartwarming to hear about your great relationship with your sister-in-law after all these years. Wishing you and your wife continued happiness together! Thanks for watching we really appreciate it. God bless.❤😊

Thank you so much! We’re glad you appreciated the video. It’s true there can be so many things we experience that might not be immediately obvious. It’s great to have open conversations and understand each other’s perspectives better!❤ Thanks for watching we really appreciate it God bless ❤😊

Absolutely, dating should always be a choice made freely without any pressure. And while having a foreign partner can come with certain advantages, the best relationships are built on genuine connection, mutual respect, and shared values. ❤️ thanks for watching we really appreciate it God bless ❤😊

@@LoicFoundGrace my wife herself wants zero money from me but her family allways is coming up and putting pressure on her... she is on they way to brake with them. I rejected to pay - I would pay in case of very serious health issues, never for anything else. They did fine before, they will do fine after. About my wife and her son? ALL! And she would give ALL for me and my daughter. From the first money my wife did earn she bought me new shoes...now she soon will earn more than me and I will retire. She really wants to give me a comfortable life - I know it. No luxus but all we need. But I feel all that pressure for her... she is so fed up. But we love eachother to maximum. Since many years allready. Best woman i ever met. I will never leave her. I met her beeing enslaved in Saudi Arabia when I worked there. I liberated her during my job - she never forget that, I feel it. Now she did get qualified in my country (in Europe) after years of studies... my wife feels like you... I see it. She is much younger than me but also in her mind older...

That’s understandable, adjusting can definitely be challenging for some people. It takes time, and everyone has their own pace. Thanks for watching God bless❤

Thanks for sharing your insights! You’re absolutely right honest communication from the start is key to navigating cultural differences and setting expectations. Supporting family, having kids, and dealing with external pressure are important topics to discuss openly. Every relationship is unique, and mutual understanding makes all the difference. Congrats on 8 years of marriage that’s inspiring! And thanks for watching we really appreciate it ❤😊

wow so pround of you sir, your so humble. God bless you and more blessing to come.

Ahahhha anay kay. Ysulig kalit hehehe

Hello thanks for always watching ❤😊

You're right-health is wealth! Bisaya and Tagalog differ in vocabulary, pronunciation, and grammar. For example, "How are you?" is "Kumusta ka?" in Tagalog and "Kumusta man ka?" in Bisaya. Both are unique and beautiful languages! Thanks for watching we really appreciate it God bless you ❤😊

We glad to hear that you liked our video❤ God bless you too❤ and thanks for watching we really appreciate it 😊

Thank you for your advice. It’s true that we can sometimes be our own toughest critics. Learning to live authentically and not let the opinions of others define us is a valuable reminder. Balancing self-acceptance with personal growth can lead to a more peaceful and fulfilling life. Thanks for watching❤ God bless you ❤😊

You forgot to say that Pinoys are very judgemental and loves to maritise, ate

You're absolutely right! My Filipina wife is amazing with a blade for making every little thing special. She's skilled, hardworking, and full of love, so she definitely deserves all the kindness and respect I can give her.

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Thank you for sharing your perspective. It’s true that hard work is a universal value, no matter where we are in the world. Everyone’s experiences and struggles to earn a living are valid and deserve respect. It’s always good to approach conversations about money and effort with mutual understanding and kindness. Let’s strive to build bridges and foster empathy, as we all navigate life’s challenges together. Thanks for watching God bless ❤😊

When looking for a house to rent, my wife goes by herself and nails down the rent and advance. Only then do I go to look at it and make the final decision. Wife looked at a 2 bedroom, 2 storey apartment once and agreed to the terms. So she went and got me and I looked at it and agreed, so off we go to the office to do the paperwork. Sitting down at the desk talking with the pinay owner: Me: " How much is rent and deposit?" Owner: " Rent is 30,000 pesos a month with 3 months deposit." Me: " We were told rent was 20,000 a month with one month advance." Owner: " Who told you that? " Me: " You're employee who showed my wife and I the apartment." Owner calls in the employee : "How much is rent and deposit on the apartment they looked at?" Employee: " 20,000 a month with one month deposit." Owner gives the employee a dirty look and sends her away. Owner talking to me: " Well you have more so you should pay more." Me to owner:" Well you have more than most people in the area. So should you pay more also?" Never ceases to amaze how Filipinos/Filipinas are never ashamed nor embarrassed when they are caught trying to cheat someone. Had a Filipino steal my Hush Puppy shoes once. Well the brgy captain knew who took them and told him to give them back. The thief's excuse for stealing my shoes,,, " If you do not want Filipinos stealing your stuff, don't buy it to begin with." Like Filipinos as much as you want, but never trust them.

I know. They think every forienger is rich 😂. It's wild really.

@@samuelschick8813 Yeah it really grinds my gears that they think they are entitled to your money. That's not how the world works. Like what world did these childish people grow up in? If they want to ask anyone for money they should start with their corrupt government. Not some tourist just because they are white. Their own people pay them bottom wages and get rich off of them. That's why the wage gab there is so huge. Their own people are cheating them. They should start with fixing that. Ridiculous.

Talk of sense of entitlement mindset. They think treating a foreigner as an ATM is their right.

Hehehe she's not tired. And she's teaching me how to speak bisaya. Thanks for watching ❤😊

@@LoicFoundGrace "tired" in that sense doesn't mean "physically tired", it means "she's been correcting you over and over"...

@@valmir144 hahaha yes lol 😂 I’m fighting with my bisaya but hopefully soon she won’t have to correct me over and over 🙏🏾

Thank you for sharing your experience. It sounds like you work very hard to support your wife and create wonderful opportunities for her and her family. It’s clear you care deeply for them, and your efforts are truly admirable. Expectations can indeed be overwhelming at times, but it's important to set boundaries to ensure your own well-being too. Open communication with your wife and her family about your efforts and limitations might help manage expectations. Your kindness and generosity are already making a big difference, and that’s something to be proud of. God bless you 🙏🏾 And thanks for watching ❤😊

Its time to sit down and think. Does your wife prioritize her family before you. YOU should always come first. Filipino parents love to confuse and guilt their daughters when they know a foreigner is involved. It seems like you havent demanded that you are top dog in your relationship.

@@FrankSouza-ss7cz In the past my Filipina wife expressed frustration (attempted guilt from her mother) over the demands for money her mother was putting on my wife (her sister attempted it as well). My wife is a homemaker/housewife (no work) and wonderful mother to our 2 kids. It did not matter how much I bailed (helped) the mother out, it just was never enough. I knew this going into the relationship, and my boundaries were well set. The minute I said ENOUGH...My mother-in-law referred to me as a "selfish man" because I just don't piss away my life's work away on her (them). Referring to me as selfish man did not bother me, as it was expected sooner or later. Funny to think how quick she/them forgot of all the aid provided to them beforehand and labeled me as "selfish".

Good for you bro. Your duty is the comfort and security of your wife and kids. I too was in the exact same position as you. Very early I told my wife they don't have respect for us. They only care about what they can get from us. NO MORE. Both of us much happier now.

😂😂 that's hilarious.

Thank you for your kind words! It sounds like you're already excited about the idea. Wishing you the best on your journey you never know what wonderful surprises life has in store! God bless you ❤😊

Truth and honesty, trust no one.

No friend it’s a potential nightmare, be careful.

@@Pilbara_Trucking everything is

@@captainobvious8037 sadly you’re not taking me serious. Just be careful man and don’t rush into stuff that’s all.