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Created to be His Help Meet Chapter 17
“It is your job to love your husband, it is Gods job to make him good” ✝️ “You don’t honor your husband because he’s honorable, you honor him because you are.”
Marital troubles
PLEASE REMEMBER: No act of abuse is justified by God, and no one is called to endure abuse out of a commitment to the Bible or to Jesus. Adultery,Addiction,Abandonment,Physical, Mental. Jesus is ALL the things that are good in this world. Being a good human & spouse takes ALOT of work.
This is the enduring wife that Debi (the author) speaks on. Sometimes us women, can’t see when we are our own problem. Debi will speak on hard topics and admits that it's not okay for the way your husband acts and treats you BUT she is asking you to look deeper within YOURSELF. Are you fearing God through these struggles? Are you turning to God during these times? Or are you meeting ugly with ugly?
I do believe like Debi believes with 90% of men IF you (the woman) can seek Gods guidance, pray with your husband and for your husband, ask the Lord for help, Trust in the Lord to help you, your marriage CAN be saved. DESPITE THE UGLINESS AND ABUSE. Have you ever met a couple with a miracle testimony? My husband use to beat the crap out of me… my husband use to drink himself to death… my husband cheated on me every chance he got… my husband is mean to the kids…my husband was a meth addict and put me through EMOTIONAL TORTURE? Etc. KEY WORD- USE TO. That was before God got ahold of them. PEOPLE CAN CHANGE. THIS is what Debi is speaking on. THE CHANGE THAT NEEDS TO HAPPEN IN US FIRST TO BE ABLE TO Make CHANGES within OUR MARRIAGES. (Proverbs 15:1 A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.) ( 1 Peter 3:1 Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives.)
I know this to be true because GOD SAVED my marriage. HE IS A MIRACLE WORKER!!! Have faith in him and believe with all your heart that GOD CAN TURN IT AROUND!!
I do believe there are the 10% of humans who are just lost and it going to take a pure MIRACLE TO SAVE THEIR SOULS. BUT ALL YOU CAN DO IS WHAT GOD HAS CALLED YOU TO DO. Be Loving and kind, good, chaste, discreet, good keepers at home, good mommas, respectful even when it’s hard, watch your mouth, etc. AND If it doesn’t work, then YOU tried right? And I mean REALLY tried. PEOPLE ARE TOO QUICK TO JUST THROW IN THE TOWEL.
Please get help if you feel threatened, or are being threatened. Keep in mind while listening that experiencing and going through a situation IS FAR different than someone telling you about it and you just simply responding. Debi is just a human, older and wise woman trying to help women be better wives. If you are struggling in your faith, suicidal, scared of your husband, frightened for your children etc. please seek wise Christian Counsel. THERE IS HELP OUT THERE AND YOU ARE NOT ALONE! Jesus loves you!
Thanks for Watching!
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Created to be HIs help meet -Chapter 16
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“It is your job to love your husband, it is Gods job to make him good” ✝️ “You don’t honor your husband because he’s honorable, you honor him because you are.” Marital troubles PLEASE REMEMBER: No act of abuse is justified by God, and no one is called to endure abuse out of a commitment to the Bible or to Jesus. Adultery,Addiction,Abandonment,Physical, Mental. Jesus is ALL the things that are g...
Created to be his help meet! -Chapter 15 Part 2
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Created to be HIS HELP MEET -Chapter 15
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Your husband is suppose to love you like God loves the church!!! But remember this is not a book to men, this is a book written to the wives. “It is your job to love your husband, it is Gods job to make him good” ✝️ “You don’t honor your husband because he’s honorable, you honor him because you are.” Marital troubles PLEASE REMEMBER: No act of abuse is justified by God, and no one is called to ...
Created to be HIS HELP MEET -Chapter 14
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Created to be HIS help meet -Chapter 13
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Created to be HIS hep meet -Chapter 12
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Created to be HIS help meet -Chapter 11 Part 2
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“It is your job to love your husband, it is Gods job to make him good” ✝️ “You don’t honor your husband because he’s honorable, you honor him because you are.” Marital troubles PLEASE REMEMBER: No act of abuse is justified by God, and no one is called to endure abuse out of a commitment to the Bible or to Jesus. Adultery,Addiction,Abandonment,Physical, Mental. Jesus is ALL the things that are g...
Created to be HIS help meet -Chapter 11 Part 1
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“It is your job to love your husband, it is Gods job to make him good” ✝️ “You don’t honor your husband because he’s honorable, you honor him because you are.” Marital troubles PLEASE REMEMBER: No act of abuse is justified by God, and no one is called to endure abuse out of a commitment to the Bible or to Jesus. Adultery,Addiction,Abandonment,Physical, Mental. Jesus is ALL the things that are g...
Created to be HIS help meet -Chapter 10
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“It is your job to love your husband, it is Gods job to make him good” ✝️ “You don’t honor your husband because he’s honorable, you honor him because you are.” Marital troubles PLEASE REMEMBER: No act of abuse is justified by God, and no one is called to endure abuse out of a commitment to the Bible or to Jesus. Adultery,Addiction,Abandonment,Physical, Mental. Jesus is ALL the things that are g...
Created to be HIS help meet -Chapter 9
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“It is your job to love your husband, it is Gods job to make him good” ✝️ “You don’t honor your husband because he’s honorable, you honor him because you are.” Marital troubles PLEASE REMEMBER: No act of abuse is justified by God, and no one is called to endure abuse out of a commitment to the Bible or to Jesus. Adultery,Addiction,Abandonment,Physical, Mental. Jesus is ALL the things that are g...
Created to be HIS help meet Chapter 8 Part 3 THREE DIFFERENT TYPES OF MEN
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“It is your job to love your husband, it is Gods job to make him good” ✝️ “You don’t honor your husband because he’s honorable, you honor him because you are.” Marital troubles PLEASE REMEMBER: No act of abuse is justified by God, and no one is called to endure abuse out of a commitment to the Bible or to Jesus. Adultery,Addiction,Abandonment,Physical, Mental. Jesus is ALL the things that are g...
Created to be HIS help meet -CHAPTER 8 Part 2 (I read, you listen 🎧)
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“It is your job to love your husband, it is Gods job to make him good” ✝️ “You don’t honor your husband because he’s honorable, you honor him because you are.” Marital troubles PLEASE REMEMBER: No act of abuse is justified by God, and no one is called to endure abuse out of a commitment to the Bible or to Jesus. Adultery,Addiction,Abandonment,Physical, Mental. Jesus is ALL the things that are g...
Created to be HIS help meet -Chapter 8 Part 1 Three different types of Men (I read, you listen 🎧)
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“It is your job to love your husband, it is Gods job to make him good” ✝️ “You don’t honor your husband because he’s honorable, you honor him because you are.” Marital troubles PLEASE REMEMBER: No act of abuse is justified by God, and no one is called to endure abuse out of a commitment to the Bible or to Jesus. Adultery,Addiction,Abandonment,Physical, Mental. Jesus is ALL the things that are g...
Created to be HIS help meet -Chapter 7 (I read, you listen 🎧)
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“It is your job to love your husband, it is Gods job to make him good” ✝️ “You don’t honor your husband because he’s honorable, you honor him because you are.” Marital troubles PLEASE REMEMBER: No act of abuse is justified by God, and no one is called to endure abuse out of a commitment to the Bible or to Jesus. Adultery,Addiction,Abandonment,Physical, Mental. Jesus is ALL the things that are g...
Created to be HIS help meet -Chapter 6 Practicing, perfecting Madness (I read, you listen 🎧)
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Created to be HIS help meet -Chapter 6 Practicing, perfecting Madness (I read, you listen 🎧)
Created to be HIS help meet -Chapter 5 (Wisdom don’t happen over night) (I read, you listen 🎧)
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Created to be HIS help meet -Chapter 5 (Wisdom don’t happen over night) (I read, you listen 🎧)
Don’t meet ugly with ugly. Overview of created to be HIS help meet.
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Don’t meet ugly with ugly. Overview of created to be HIS help meet.
It’s in our best interest as wives to serve our husbands! Listen along as Debi explains why.
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It’s in our best interest as wives to serve our husbands! Listen along as Debi explains why.
Created to be HIS help meet -Chapter 4 (I read, you listen 🎧)
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Created to be HIS help meet -Chapter 4 (I read, you listen 🎧)
Created to be HIS help meet -Chapter 3 (I read, you listen 🎧)
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Created to be HIS help meet -Chapter 3 (I read, you listen 🎧)
Created to be HIS help meet -Chapter 2 (I read, you listen 🎧)
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Created to be HIS help meet -Chapter 2 (I read, you listen 🎧)
Created to be HIS Help Meet -Part 1, Chapter 1 I read, you listen 🎧
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Created to be HIS Help Meet -Part 1, Chapter 1 I read, you listen 🎧
Created to be HIS help meet -Before Chapter 1 I read, you listen 🎧
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Created to be HIS help meet -Before Chapter 1 I read, you listen 🎧
Introduction to Created To Be His Help Meet -Bringing wise counsel into your marriage
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Introduction to Created To Be His Help Meet -Bringing wise counsel into your marriage

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  • @tdrive398
    @tdrive398 4 місяці тому

    Churches should really make a push for teaching like this for females of all ages. The church has really dropped the ball over the past few decades, and families, marriages, and relationships have suffered. Women aren't immune from the poison of f-ensim simply because they're Christian or attend church. F-enism is alive and well in many churches today. We are seeing the curse of Gen 3:16 even in the church- and no one talks about it; I've certainly never heard a sermon about it.

  • @johnsonjohnson1815
    @johnsonjohnson1815 4 місяці тому

    Hi how are you doing today

    • @Bearinggfruit
      @Bearinggfruit 4 місяці тому

      I’m sorry? I don’t understand

  • @keepitsunny3073
    @keepitsunny3073 4 місяці тому

    I look forward to each of your updates! I’m really enjoying listening to this book.

    • @Bearinggfruit
      @Bearinggfruit 4 місяці тому

      Oh thank you!! Thank you!! I needed this inspiration to get the book out faster to you guys and stay committed!! Life has been busy!! I’m so glad you’re enjoying it!!

  • @livingunashamed4869
    @livingunashamed4869 4 місяці тому

    My wife is reading and loving the book thanks to you :), God bless sister.

    • @Bearinggfruit
      @Bearinggfruit 4 місяці тому

      Oh my goodness!! Chills! That really warmed my heart!! Thank you for sharing 💗💗💗

  • @adk_girl70
    @adk_girl70 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for doing this!!! ❤ Just recently found you.

    • @Bearinggfruit
      @Bearinggfruit 4 місяці тому

      Aweee Thank YOU for listening 💗

  • @thevictorianedge5465
    @thevictorianedge5465 4 місяці тому

    Your accent sounds like you are from my neck of the woods. I’m in south east NC.

    • @Bearinggfruit
      @Bearinggfruit 4 місяці тому

      Bama girl here!! I have worked in Dentistry in and out for a long time, when I answered phone calls people would always make comments on my voice! 😂

  • @thevictorianedge5465
    @thevictorianedge5465 4 місяці тому

    I hate to hear about the loss of family members. That is never easy regardless of the circumstances. I will tell you that your reading and message in this video has my name written all over it. I have been pouting somewhat 😂. Yes in my 50’s and pouting silently. Our anniversary was this past Monday and he forgot. A big one too, 30 years. Yep. But I needed to hear what your message gave, it applies to me and my hubby and the Lord above. It’s really not about us, it is all about God, Yahweh!!❤

    • @Bearinggfruit
      @Bearinggfruit 4 місяці тому

      @thevictorianedge5465 Thank you girl!! Yes it was very unexpected, just never a call you want to get!! Death is hard to process regardless. I feel like tho with her taking her own life and being so absolutely beautiful with a two year old daughter just made it incomprehensible. You just never truly know the way a person is feeling. It’s hard. I’m so glad this message helped you tho!! That makes me feel like I am doing something right by reading it to you beautiful ladies!! Men can be HARD to deal with sometimes that’s for sure. My husband forgot my birthday last year. It’s a terrible feeling 😮‍💨 I hope he tried to make up for it 🥴 I really encourage you to listen to the chapters from the beginning, this book has helped me see things in such a different light!😘

  • @denniscrumbley8274
    @denniscrumbley8274 4 місяці тому

    I'm sorry about your cousin.

    • @Bearinggfruit
      @Bearinggfruit 4 місяці тому

      Thank you, I appreciate that🙏

  • @SwordOfLaban2
    @SwordOfLaban2 4 місяці тому

    "Help meet" is not a noun. It means a helper (a person who helps), who is MEET for Adam. That is literally what it says, both in the original and in the English translation. "Meet" means something or someone suitable for, or appropriate to. That's in the dictionary, you can look it up. Adam was amazing chosen by God, and Eve was just as amazing woman as Adam was a man. She was suitable for him and just as good as him. But we can be helps, meet for God! So it still makes sense to say we are a help meet for God (appropriate to what he needs, suitable to him) it's just not a noun is I guess my point.

    • @Bearinggfruit
      @Bearinggfruit 4 місяці тому

      In another Chapter she explains this exactly as you have just wrote. A woman is a good thing. A crown to her man. They are both Gods beautiful creation, they were made in the image of God. I know this book is super controversial, and I get it. There are some take aways you don’t want to apply to your life (just like with anything really, besides the bible)and there are some take aways I have applied to mine, and it has changed mine and my husbands relationship. For the better. She gives some good perspectives that some women need to hear. -Coming from a woman, I know women that have a different outlook on their lives from this book. Feminism is a HUGE banter these days that lot of women believe "They don't need a man; There sons don't need a male figure in their life" (also not saying that a woman isn't capable of raising good men or doing it by herself; I know plenty)but that is just not Gods plan for men and women. Debi gives good outlooks on that and also how not so perfect relationships can be redeemed though Jesus Christ. I know personally, because her perception that she teaches on grace has helped me and the way I looked at things. A couple that was almost divorced and a family almost split up is now a God fearing, loving, sober, and compatible one.

    • @SwordOfLaban2
      @SwordOfLaban2 4 місяці тому

      ​@@Bearinggfruit yes! Thank you for sharing God's truth

    • @Bearinggfruit
      @Bearinggfruit 4 місяці тому

      @@SwordOfLaban2 Thank you!! I am trying to honor him the best ways I can.💕

  • @adk_girl70
    @adk_girl70 4 місяці тому

    I'm so sorry about your cousin!! Nobody has ever reached out to me. And I look back and unwittingly left lots of hints. I still am held in the depths of depression. I have tried to reach out, they don't get it. Would appreciate prayer. Seriously. Thank you. ❤

    • @Bearinggfruit
      @Bearinggfruit 4 місяці тому

      Thank you girl!! I am so sorry that you deal with this disease that is such an overwhelming darkness!! Some people just don’t have the compacity to understand what others go through. Or maybe even the words to help others reach the light!! If you EVER need to talk to somebody my door/phone is always open to you!! I will pray for you and be a friend to you! 💗

  • @metasebiyakebede3450
    @metasebiyakebede3450 5 місяців тому

    Bless you!

  • @autumnhomer9786
    @autumnhomer9786 5 місяців тому

    🎀Non Christian here, but I am married with children and brought this book. I hope your channel helps me to study this book. Thank you.🎀

    • @Bearinggfruit
      @Bearinggfruit 5 місяців тому

      Aweee I love this!! Thank you for your support, if you have any questions feel free to reach out 💗💗

  • @livingunashamed4869
    @livingunashamed4869 5 місяців тому

    Its such a good book! God bless sister.

    • @Bearinggfruit
      @Bearinggfruit 5 місяців тому

      It has been a blessing!! God bless you!!

  • @makemeupgurl
    @makemeupgurl 5 місяців тому

    Thank you ❤

  • @DonaldHenson-w4h
    @DonaldHenson-w4h 5 місяців тому

    I love your necklace The Collective

    • @Bearinggfruit
      @Bearinggfruit 5 місяців тому

      Thank you! It was a gift from my momma. I wear it everyday!