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I love listening to your podcasts. I wish they can be more promoted nationwide and globally...because I know a lot of us despite our experiences in previous marriages still lack the understanding of communication skills, empathy, boundaries, tactfulness, accountability, diplomacy. If both partners in every relationships would just learn all these skills and apply them with conscious efforts....there won't be as many separations and divorces. I share your podcasts and always recommend your book to my friends 😊

Excellent episode. This was very clear, positive, educational and helpful. The examples were useful too. I will go forth challenging myself to see and act in the world in more fruitful ways. It won't be easy but it sounds worth it. Thank you very much.

The podcast that I always enjoy listening to on my way ❤

Thank you! Found this at a time when I am feeling like I need to be more accepting, especially in my relationships. I sometimes jump ahead and put meanings to things, assuming why someone did or said something that I may feel hurt by, wronged by or unheard or unseen etc.

Thank you! This is very helpful. I find I feel unheard in a lot of my relationships. I keep pondering if there is something I am doing to contribute to the dynamic.

really good analysis

Thank you. It is very illuminating.

This is great perspective and has so many applications. Thank you

The world is low EQ. Even professionals have run off with a theory down a rabbit hole. With that in mind it’s important that you learn to cultivate rather than just allocate. You can learn to cultivate by attitude, maybe you feel petty and have thoughts to back it up, by fostering and cultivating a positive attitude you can come out of cycles holding you back. Jesus Christ is the way, the truth and the light.

Loved this video. I would like to say, however, that people are not always passing judgement when describing "bad emotions"... As emotions are directly linked to the generation of feelings, and feelings generate bio-chemicals, it is the resultant bio-chemicals that are "bad" when the emotional states & feelings become chronic.

Superb .

Thank you. You broke this down so well.

This podcast is super helpful.

This has enlightened me to a simple charismatic skill or tactic that I was missing in a lot of situations/discussions over the years. I wish I had learned this sooner.

That’s so true about giving advice. Advice can be a good thing, but if you jump in with it first, it can make the other person feel like you think they’re stupid & need to be fixed.

I’m a new listener & subscriber. You are easy to listen to & I’m loving your content.

Thank you!!!

Thank you so much for this

This is amazing !! I volunteer in a hospital and as a volunteer my role is to help with the basics anything patients need & have conversations get them to socialize a bit, and as an introvert I've been struggling and feeling anxious with the socialization aspect like I could socialize if I force myself but I always felt it was not genuine to me or to them, and to me if I socialize with someone I want to leave them in a better state than they were before them talking with me, maybe a bit of people pleaser yes, but I don't like to talk for sake of talking and I think now I know why I didn't feel genuine it's because I wasn't that aware of the way you showed us to validate, when someone feels validated they show their authentic self and when I validate someone I get them to open up and show me some of their true sides that's when I will feel like I've reached that person and they feel seen.. sorry I don't even know what I was going to say 😂 other than thank you so much for the steps of validation.. it's really makes us feel at ease when we experience that.

Your book and this podcast had seriously helped saved my life. As a kid we are not taught how to properly interact. I'm sorry I'm learning this in my 30s but grateful to know it at all. Thank you michael!

Love this! ❤

Thank you so much, this is helping my relationships so much!

Application of these tips can be life-changing on Day 1! Listen. and listen again. Thank you Michael for sharing these at no cost!

Thank you! I know someone like that! For the last 3 years, I have tried to help, I have listen to her issues. I believe she needs help, her husband has cheated on her and sadly I don’t see any improvement! Has not take action, does not work, she said she is looking for work? Her rich father pays for everything! Trips, jewelry, and her husband pays for rent food etc. I think she needs therapy! But I am afraid to suggest anything because she gets out of CONTROL!😮 😢talks over you. And she is disrespectful! Iam 64 and I tried to have a positive llife l Things are not easy, I have vertigo badly, she knows that! I am soft spoken and I don’t mind helping! However I believe a person is responsible for their actions, I had a bad marriage and I did complain at the time but one day. I decided to quit the complain and I moved on other people are not my therapist! I am guilty of complaining due to the vertigo but I do it when I don’t feel well. Again I do thank you for the help

Thank you! You are very helpful. I do know a person who complaines a lot! This could be about a person, dog, husband etc. I tried to help but I can’t she is always telling me what to do I am not doing anymore. None of her family members wants to help her. She is hard to get along with and can be very exhausting to reason with! I asked myself if I came across like that and I probably did. I am learning to be more positive, friendly and help if I can. But I am distancing from her. Maybe in the future thing can be better❤

Wow, this is such an eye opener. Thank you. You really deserve more views than this for such amazing content.

Really good explained thankyou

Thank you so much for this Michael. Great episode and I hope lots of people can hear this and get as much out of it as I did.

Hi. Thanks for posting this. I've recently come across David Emerald's the Empowerment Dynamic which seems really useful and I'm starting to explore it.

Or... " I didn't know how to prioritize the time " .. Yet...

Yes!, the horrible lie of hearing in the 90s , " sticks & stones may break my nones but words may never hurt me " . Definitely encouraged invalidation. 😑

I love learning new empowering languages in communication. 🎉🎉

Im surprised to not see more comments on such an incredible topic. 😲🤷‍♀️

Sharing with a trusting person , " i struggle with vulnerability. " I've said " I've practicing vulnerability in small yet big ways..

SO TRUE !!, IT COULDN'T be brave if there isnt any fear" . 👏👏👏. 👆👆👆

" Being selective with who you share what... Definitely a safe boundry.. 😮👍

Yes, when there's critism " ive said " wOw!, that was condenscending. "

Yes, brene browns Ted talk was incredible!! 🎉🎉🎉

" When theres Not Vulnerability its a transactional relationship. "

" boundries earn is respect "

Setting boundries is the how .. " when you bring the topic of not the present instead of the topic I'm on. Ill not continue with the conversation.

Yes!!," seeing it for what it is " when theres drama " .

" instead of persecutor role , assertive instead ...

AWESOME METAPHOR !!! 😼👆👆👏👏👏 Yes!! THE WORLD WAS MORE CLEAR once seeing new slills !!

YES!!!, WE NEED TO PRACTICE INTERNAL INVALIDATION . 😼 Thank you for touching on the topic !! 😼🎉🎉🎉✅️

Yes!!, we don't have to agree with people to validate them. " that would sad or scary , feel angry to think that.

A wonderful example from a teenager. ! 😼👏👏 WoW!!

Yes!!, it does happen between countless relationships. " fixin instead of 1st validation " . ✅️😼👏👏 Builds connections!!

The sound of the audio 🔉 is really pleasant. ! Thank you for your talking speed also..

SO TRUE !, WITH people quitting their " manager ", instead of job.