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Thanks for the question Jerry. Changing the neural pathways requires a comprehensive education on addiction, resulting in a very specific script being set up which can be used every time an urge, junkie thought, or unanswerable question is present. Without understanding junkie thoughts and unanswerable questions, it's unlikely you'll be able to recognise when an urge is present. So essentially, break it down to if you're thinking about it on any level - that's compulsive desire (an urge). Believing you're engaging in your compulsive behaviour as an "escape and relaxation" is what we would call a "junkie thought". Another example is "I'm out of control in these moments". Essentially, any excuse, rationalisation, justification to engage in the compulsive behaviour. But, these are to be very much expected when you are in an addiction. Every client we have has loads of them. And it requires education to change these kind of thought patterns. The constant anxious thoughts and overthinking are symptoms of the addiction and will continue until you have learned how to deal with those compulsive desires specifically and correctly. To summarise, what works for me and my clients is having one A4 script which documents the truth (5 facts) based on their personal reality of addiction. The script enables them to think through their choice in that moment and make a decision. Without a tool to make that choice, the addicted part of the mind will keep your brain busy and whizzing around in a state of compulsivity. Simplicity is the answer. Our full program requires hours of training and is all focused on changing the addicted neural pathways correctly. So my comment here is just a very compact summary, but I'm afraid this is not the best medium to answer your question in full. Nevertheless, I hope it still helps to some extent!

Thanks for letting me know! Yeah there's a lot of information out there which isn't very helpful. If you want to here more from me and my mentor (Mari) we also have a podcast called Help is Here. Sorry you are struggling with this and are young. You are in the right place to overcome this.

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Thanks have a happy new year!

Did it work?

@@beyondcompulsionacademy 100% because what I found was I keep that Semen energy benefit and never flat line due to the cardio benefits so motivation never drops 😊

@@danbruno5945 Nice glad it worked out for you!

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You will need to change your neural pathways so that you connect the cuckold mindset to the misery it causes you. Start by writing down the impact that mindset has on you and be brutally honest with yourself.

@beyondcompulsionacademy hey I just want to know how do you describe a rebooted mind. You have said in your videos that you have yourself rebooted. I am at the point where even when I read about that stuff accidently, I'm aroused, does that arousal template go away, and the impulsive thoughts to act them out go away as well?

@@AdityaSingh-h4w6o If you connect to the compulsive desire and think it through enough times then yes. Also chances are if you are reading about that stuff accidentally then the addicted part of the mind is still active. Someone not in the addiction is very unlikely to read about that stuff accidentally.

@@beyondcompulsionacademy approximately how much time does it take to be completely rebooted, what do you mean by connect the desire can you elaborate more on that.

@@AdityaSingh-h4w6o Connect to the desire is acknowledging you have the desire and then thinking it through. We teach all of this in our program but that is hours of content on addiction. And how long it takes completely depends on how often someone wants to connect to desire and think it through. We set up personalised scripts with clients to think through the desire and change neural pathways. So for example, a client could use their script 100 times per day for 100 days and that would lead to them rebooting a lot quicker than another client who uses their script 1 time per day for 365 days. Time also does matter from the more biological point of view. But in terms of changing the fundamental thought patterns, we need to change the thinking.

Thanks for being here

Thanks for the comment, hope you are well!

Fair enough :)

Thanks for sharing and sorry you are going through this struggle currently. Do you struggle to stop watching the content? If so, I believe the primary problem is the addicted neural pathways and the type of content is due to tolerance, but the addicted part of your mind will look for reasons (strict dominant teachers / jiu-jitsu) etc as explanations as otherwise it makes such little sense to be into something which you also don't want to be into it. I have a video talking more on femdom and other content like this coming out on Thursday this week so hopefully that is also useful.

@@beyondcompulsionacademy Yes, I'm watching it for years and basically femdom content is the only stuff that sexually triggers me up, and after release I hate myself. Can't wait to see that new video!

Perfect!

Pleased for you!!

Don’t count the days, focus on changing the addicted neural pathways for good 👍🏼

This is 100% accurate.

100% it is really sad how most people get exposed to it at such incredibly young ages

Thanks man I really appreciate the comment! Yeah edging really messed me up and im glad to be out of that now and sharing my story with others. Hope you’re good thanks for watching ❤️

Did you listen to my football index podcasts?

It did get me interested but I never invested as I thought it was to good to be true when investors dry up the company can't continue I do find it interesting that Caan Berry released a video about it the day Adam Cole stood down

@TheSugarDaddy1 aye fair play! Been a long while since them days, I was definitely addicted!

@beyondcompulsionacademy if your doing podcasts get some of your old football index pals on would like to hear where it took them and what there up to now

Sorry what?

@beyondcompulsionacademy sorry, badly articulated by me. I meant, if you binged on porn and then you did not watch it, but did still used images to get aroused?

@@barrymace3153 Sorry still not making sense for me, can you start again and ask the question in full and I can see if I can help?

@beyondcompulsionacademy when you stopped watching porn did you still need the pornography images you watched to be aroused and when did you nolonger use fantasy to be aroused with your partner or yourself. I'd think porn images even after quitting porn would take a while to overcome. Masturbation without porn is difficult I'm sure though I do it on occasion. B

Ah I see thanks for clarifying the question. I’m afraid I don’t have a great answer though. I can’t remember how long it was to be honest but I’d say what happens is it’s more like the brain creates new brain maps that connect real intimacy to sex / orgasm etc. What I find now is that the more someone disconnects the link between real sex and porn - the better. I see porn more like a drug like heroin / cocaine etc than I now think of it in the context of sex.

I hope you overcome this problem for good and can experience peace of mind!

This is an unanswerable question designed by the addicted part of your mind to make you feel helpless and unsure of yourself. I highly recommend watching this to understand the concept of unanswerable questions and deal with them effectively. I Accidentally Looked at Porn, Is This Is a Relapse on NoFap? ua-cam.com/video/0X9qYCH1V3Q/v-deo.html

It really does take so much and give such little in return. It is sad what is happening to so many men. Thanks for being here and commenting, appreciate you.

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Hey thanks a lot for the question! My honest answer is that right now I have no idea whether I’ll ever re-introduce it into my life or not. Currently I don’t do it and like things this way. But who knows, maybe this will change :)

@beyondcompulsionacademy thanks for the Honesty. Another question, but related to men who are circumcised. Do you think circumcision is still important? I'm cut and happy I am. But I've had to make changers. Regards B

No problem. I am too. In what context do you mean ‘important’ ? I’m not sure I understand the question. Due to changes in my approach to addiction recovery (using Mari’s method), circumcision isn’t something I’ve really thought about for a long while if I’m honest as it is not relevant to the method I use and teach.

@@beyondcompulsionacademy I mean important In modern times and important for men to choose. No foreskin means more lube and possibly a less sensitive penis.I'm from. SOUTH AFRICA. More common in America then England or Europe. Curious that you are.

@@beyondcompulsionacademy I mean, do you think it's important now or should it be a choice? It's unusual for English men who are not Jewish or Muslim to be circumcised. Why are you if I may ask. It's more common in USA. Some men feel robbed and missing out sexualy. It means also that lubricant is recommended though I always have used it Not related to porn but more a male sexual development thing. Thanks B

Routing for you Lawrence!

@beyondcompulsionacademy routing for you too buddy

Thanks a lot for the comment! Yes there are man amazing benefits to choosing not to engage with porn / masturbation etc :) Glad you also get to experience that.

No problem, thanks for watching.

Glad to help! Hope to chat with you soon. I believe in you and am glad you are making progress.

Thanks a lot! Appreciate it :)

@@FrancoDavisWhat sort of things do people not really say to themselves? A lot of what goes on inside of the mind of an addict doesn’t take place as rational direct thoughts, until we bring those thoughts into conscious awareness. We do this through tools like the remember letter which sounds like a similar tool to writing your intentions around PMO each morning.

Appreciate you!

Thanks you too!

Sounds good. Let me know if you have any questions or anything you’d like me to answer and potentially I will make a video on it :)

Sorry I can’t remember as that streak was from a few years ago. Take things moment by moment :)

@@beyondcompulsionacademy OKAY THANKS FOR ANSWERING BRO BUT AT LEAT AFTER 20 DAYS WOULDI SEE THE BENEFITS RIGHT ?

@@philosopher0636 Yes if you do not replace porn with other things like gaming, social media, junk food etc.

It becomes a lot easier when you know exactly how to deal with any urge at any moment. It is still hard at times though :) best of luxk

@ How strong were your urges though? Did you ever get really pale and did your hand shake? My urges are unstoppable when in full force.

Thanks yes porn can have a powerful impact on the mind and be so detrimental.

Yes so addictive it was crazy. And if you’re winning, it’s harder to notice the consequences as if you value making money and you keep making money, it’s when it all crashes that you realise you’re left without money and without peace of mind!!

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Hey sorry to hear this. It is really difficult when you don't know how to overcome this problem. Help is here. Change is possible. Let me know if I can help further.

Thanks!! Much more coming soon :)

Thanks a lot!! Nice to hear from you :)