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Jackie's Word
Приєднався 8 бер 2022
Commentary on community issues, social events
WHY DO WE WEAR WEAVE & WIGS, BLACK WOMEN?
Today, I'm having a detailed discussion about the significance of black hair. It's really important that we have these conversations about self love and acceptance. Remember, it is up to you to tell the world how you want to be treated and seen. Enjoy this conversation, and make sure to chime in in the comments if you agree or disagree with the topics discussed. Thank you!
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Wigs weaves black women natural hair community 4c 4b 4a discussion self hate hair hat kardashian boxer braids tracks lace front discrimination texturism curly coils afro
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Because every other race does 💀 LITERALLY 😂
Wow I can't believe BW let BM get to there head so bad that y'all think y'all should stop doin stuff y'all been doin for centuries I got a key for y'all sisters STOP LISTENING TO THESE BM Alot of them are 🤡🤡🤡
7:29 I was hanging out with my boy Mikey (blond dude) years ago and we stopped by a McDonald's. The women at the counter offered to buy his hair, wouldn't stop complimenting him and legit bidding for it. I couldn't eat after
They Got Mad At Me When I Ask Really Insult Me
You can wear whatever you want and still live yourself. Women of ALL races wear wigs, clip ins , and everything else. You’re not well traveled if you don’t know this. You never see other races doing this mess. It’s black women bashing other black women for wearing wigs. We have bigger fish to fry besides a damn wig smdh
I THINK BRAIDS , OR DREADLOCKS IS THE BEST OPTION IF YOU WANT TO WEAR NATURAL , ME , I LIKE LACEFRONTS AND DIVESTMENT WIGS !
Im Biracial 59 hair is lockd,. Its kinky nappy butt FK Egypt Oooglie LoL but Im working with it😊
I feel like wigs was a big way to cheat us out of free expression. In my opinion black people want to conform the most even though we have the most unique features
Me personally if you gonna wear wigs and weaves as a blk woman and never show your real hair at least wear your own texture!
I think it's more the texture....if you like weaves and wigs ...at least wear your texture....she right ✅️ no other groups of women wear another culture texture. It's sad 😔 we still in conversation about this 2024...
...and qhy do sime bkack men cut their hair low? Our generation was definitely conditioned to war permsand low cuts.
Its your choice what you do with your hair…however if your preference is to cover & damage your natural hair by constantly covering your crown with someone elses straight, flowing hair think about this….What happens to those non-melanated womens hair when they age? They become cotton candy heads…and thats where your hair will be…also we’ve created another income stream for the beauty industry (hair transplants, traction alopecia treatments) Keep wearing it and you won’t be able to not wear it
I don’t get why black women want to put wigs on there heads it’s not there’s it belongs to some one else 😂
What is with this blonde weaves with tresses flowing down their backs. How many Black women have hair like that?
There are BW and Black men who are born with blonde hair; some even have blue eyes to go with it. They are also dark skinned. If you step outside of the USA, it is amazing what one can discover.
Blame it on the white man
i think at this point in 2024, black people can’t just keep pointing the finger for every little thing. it’s not our fault our ancestors were discriminated against and enslaved, and it’s not our fault people have negative perceptions of us. but everything past that point is a personal choice. if you always see yourself as a victim, you literally just will be 🤷🏽♀️
@@phizzy123 oh I wear my natural hair out all the time no problem but this would’ve have never came about if texturism didn’t exist so let’s be real here for a min I get what you saying but still
@@DestinyHicks294 again, the cause isn’t what i’m discussing, i think we’re in agreement who is at fault for that half of it. i’m just saying that if black women cannot even come together to combat texturism by dismantling some of the unhealthy mindsets that were projected onto us then how does anybody expect this shit to change? just pointing the finger ain’t gonna get us out of here is my point 😭
Because we freakin' want to. Anymore stupid azz questions?
The real question is why do you want to wear hear that imitates the hair of other races of women?
Exactly! Because we want to. Why wear makeup, why even comb hair, why use products, why pierce your ears? God gave me a few hairs on my upper lip; I wax that ish every week.
Noooooo you stop posting? 😭😭😭😭 We need more content like this
Black women in general as a holly will never love their hair. If they don't fall on the side of their face and flow and shake and move, they can't handle that. Black women general will literally sell their soul to have hair of a Spanish or Indian woman it's not even that serious and it's not even worth it
PREACH. 🙏🏽
I'm in my 50s now so my hair is graying. I don't have the money to keep getting my natural hair permed and dyed, which is the primary reason why I wear wigs. It's just that PLAIN and SIMPLE with me.
We as black people have been breaking our necks begging non-blacks to accept us yet we cannot accept ourselves.
Most are not happy with the way they look or their hair
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Black women heads are seen as a unit price for wigs/weaves and extensions. The Chinese man just see dollar signs!!
We didn't do weaves, until the mid 80s
About time a black female brought out a video to tell the God's honest truth about their afros 👍🏻👏🏻
Why do people care about black women wearing wigs? Why do people police black women’s hair? Does black women’s hair choices affect other people? Why do people feel the need to voice their opinion on black women’s hair? Why does a simple hairstyle defines if a black woman loves herself, blackness, or hair type? Why do black women judge other black women’s hair? Why do black women even give a damn because at the end of the day there will be someone stalking a black woman’s hair.😏
Always! In Asian countries they are perming their hair to look mixed/Black/racially ambiguous. Why would a BW get a wig that looks like her own hair; the point is to switch it up. Do people wear makeup to look the freakin’ ’ same?
Protective style?????....bullshit! They just think they are inferior. That white is better!
Im so confused you show a bw in the beginning if yhis video with very course hair and says bw hate this they hate their hair ??????!!!! .... And you show a darksinned bw with course hair and typically blk lookihg features But ummmmmm not all bw including myself have course hair texture!! I can wet my hair and it waves uo my natural hair i wear wigs not lace wigs though i despise those the regular synthetic wigs is what i like I like also sew ins amd braids but i did stop perming my hair many.. moons ago and that's when i realized oh wowwwwwww i have wavy curly hair texture!!!!!!! My mom had 5 girls and i giess it was just easier for her to perm our hair when we were younger we all have a head full of hair my mom worked didnt have time to do it so she just permed it But ive stopped perming my hair and my natural hair is literally wavy curly when i wet it i csn put a little gel and OMG the waves and culers is amazing !!!!i could literally buy a wavy curly weave wig and ut looks like my hair my natural hair The only thing i hate is hiw shiney and bone steaight bw buy their hair i cant stand shiney hair with no texture even though the vwigs i buy maybe be curly or some waves their never shiny!!!!!! I hate straight shiny lifeless bone straight hair my synthetic wigs all have texture i bought a 32 inch long wig that i often bought from this particular manufacturer company and when i bought it again it was so damn shiney no texture literally looks like a white womens hsir there was 2 wigs i bought thinking it was the ones i normally bought but these 2 that came OMG looked literally like it just came off a ww head it was so shiney no texure i never wore the wigs everrrrrrr and they will be going in the trash unless someine else wants them lol Also my features when i wear these wigs it looks like my real hair because agsin the ones i wear aren't shiney with no texture they are blond but ive gotten compliments because it looks natural my cimplexion goes beautifully with the wigs and my facial features looks like its my hair andi i put some just a little dark marker in the roots and just a little through the blond hair which is a color 22 it's a light color but these wigs the hsir looks like it ciould be mines ppl say oh your hair looks nice is it yours im like no lol but their like but the way you have the blk in it the texture it looks like your hair its not shiney its just really long 32 inches but its beautiful i will never wear lace wigs because i hste them i have edges and refuse to tear my hair out I'm not gluing ish in my hair on my skin !!! No tape! No gkue! That's ridiculous ! But im tired if ppl thimking all every singing blk women' looks the same and have the same course hair texture as every other bw!!!! We don't all look like the bw you showed in the first photo And honestly myself and other bw ive seen look like vwe couod have the hair were wearung but like the first bw you shiwed and the other bw you showed in this video which i didnt see the whole video so i dont know if you showed other bw but they definitely look like they would be wearing someine else hair because of their features and if you look like these bw with damn strsight bone straight shiney hair it wint look like its their hair Agsin all of my wigs are more textured looking but i bought a long straight one fir the very first-time the other day because it didnt look bone straight thst shiny look it came and my sister is like wiwwww this looks nice in you too lol so sgsin i believe its facial features i have big almond eyes my lips arent real big i have a cute nose its not pointy but like rihanna nose or asian nose i have high cheekbones and you can tell my natural hair when i brush it out is a nice texture it blends in with the wigs is what im saying i just wear some of my real baby hsirs brushed out because its not a lace front its my actual real hsir ! So theres many factors to this speak for yourselves i definitely dint hate my real hair i have a head full of natural wavy curly hair but i like different looks different styles and maybe blk ppl should make natural wigs no dsmn lace but textured looking 32 inch long hair they don't make wigs and then complain that bw are trying tk look other then what they are no bw like changing looks doing different things with their hair maybe make wigs fir bw long long texured hair Not no damn short hair wigs like all bw like shirt styles i hate short styke wigs as well but you bw obsessed with how other bw choose to wear their hair i see you as the problem im a divested bw wjth an amazing white Hispanic guy whose successful business owner of 2 store's he doesnt waste time or find time to waste talking and concerning himself with how i style my hair he gives me money to do whatever I want as ling as I look good and I always do! You all are taking on bm shenanigans and obsession over how bw wear their hair only broke males typically a bm who cant get the bw he wants and thats the majority of them will sit complaining about a bw dolling herself up and how she wewrs her hair even the bw who have typically blk features dark-skinned biggrr lips and noses if they choose to wear shiney wigs or what you don't like why do you care???? Honestly i feel bw like yourselves have problems the same problems bm have there's something wring with you i just happen to hate shiney shiney non textured weaves and wigs because i wasnt born with that hsir type and theres not much styling you can do with such lifeless bone strsight hair and thst glossy shiny look i just don't fancy it but instead of you naking videos complaining how these bw wear their hair maybe come up with a solution to manufacturer more textured styles wigs for bw ahd it could be a mixture of different textured hair lines because agsin i dont have course hair ok!!!! I can wear a wavy curly styled wig and it looks like its my real hair because of my real hair is the same texture as tge wigs wavy curly nit course it gies with my features some bw just look like a bw wearing fake hair just because theur festures and then they have the hair thst doesn't fit their facial features! But ive literally bern called blondy by my client's my friends call me barbi miss America ive been called goldie locks i wouldn't get these comments if i looked out of place wearing these wigs so please check yourselves soeak for yourselves all of you because i definitely dont look out of place with my real hair wigs weaves or braids whatever ever i choose to wear you need to find a hobby The funny thing is bm also pop ish about bw wearung wigs weaves but i cant keep these fool's out of my face on the steets i constantly have to tell them i have a boyfriend you spending you're time complaining about bw like bm do most of these bw no matter how they wear their hair a bm still wont cherish her or treat her well and take care of her Just look at the drop dead gorgeous bw of the 30s 40s 50s 60s 70s even when bw didnt wear lace fronts and shiny hair texture bm still didnt do right by bw and many bw like tina turner iman and other bw with sense got with wm these wm like imans the drop dead gorgeous iman married to the handsome king the late david bowe tina turnurs husband eves husband max millionaire these wm dont consume themselves with this nonsense their too busy making gazillions of dollars!!!!! Like my guy whose non blk 😅 I get approached daily by all men Its how i met my guy im with niw who cherish the ground i walk on and your sitting uo here talking about a bw hair chouces lol you seem unhappy and i believe you know it doesn't matter what you do with your hair go natural no makeup bm still won't want you but you see i have no desire for bm because again they consume themselves with girly things thats a turn off ww get the most plastic surgeries and enhancements out of any races of women wm dont complain neither do other ww this is only a blk ppl thing were theymwill literally make videos about how they hate what bw are doing how they choise to beautify themselves smh Where's the videos of these disgusting do rags bm where and sagging pants 👖 and wife beater shirts go get a life please you and all the terrible tyrones who should be doing manly thing's like building like wm and other rsces of men geeeez,,,...😢
Why do black women need to love and embrace their natural hair?…no other race gives this much of a fuck about another women’s hair. I get what you’re saying though and I agree with you but I think we should just do what makes us happy and move on. Our hair doesn’t define us, your soul defines you. I think natural hair girlies over identify too much with their hair as if that’s the only thing that makes you black. Also you calling and view something as bad is extremely subjective and isn’t necessarily bad or a problem just because you think it is. Who cares if black women don’t think their hair is pretty? Do whatever you got to do to make it pretty (which is gonna be subjective) and get over it.
Why do we need to love and embrace our own hair?? What?? Of course we need to. What she saying is because we have been taught to hate it, isn’t it time we start loving it. I know women who have lost all their edges because they always wear sew in and wigs. Hiding behind wigs and weaves doesn’t change the fact that your hair is still your hair. You can love your hair and wear weave but she’s mainly addressing those who hide behind the weave. Hair is part of us that’s why we are discriminated against it.
it’s always the kpop stans i swear
@@phizzy123 it’s funny I commented this because I only wear my natural hair now 💀 but your comment is so funny omg
@@soggycookie345 lmao and i swear i meant no harm by it either, cause i used to be one of those bitches too 😂
Men think if you wear a weave/ fake hair- your bald. And probably never wash your hair.
Beautiful 🤮🤮🤮
Maam, this sounds like a cope
Omg, A crown 😅, it's 🤢🤮🤮🤮
Last time I check blondes aren’t wearing Afro wigs to feel beautiful 🤣
You won’t get it until the blonde starts rocking Afro wigs 🤣 it’s okay for that preacher to preach about a book he did not write? Okay so when a fellow Afro women shares light on self love one should read. If the latinas and Asians started trends of Afro wigs would that influence you to at least “try” being authentically curly? Because that’s who you are beautiful girl. TV failed to show up for you. Black American celebrities failed to show up for you. Now it’s just you and your phone.
I guess I'm a one percenter. Always loved my Afro in the seventies. Yes I'm Old School. Then wore bearutiful beaded braids. Switch to wearing extention natural braided styles. Presently wear many all natural hair styles. And. I love my hair ! My Mom had a lot to do with embracing my own hair. My hair is thick, kinky coils, soft, strong, healthy and well kept.
Your hair is BEAUTIFUL!
Thank you for being so real with this video. Lots of people don't want to talk about it. Even when I was a kid, I never liked the idea of my mom wearing looser textured wigs. It irked me, I thought " Why doesn't she use her real hair?" Of course my perspective changed as a I grew up and then it went from that to " Why don't they make wigs that look like my hair?" I genuinely thought wigs like our hair DID NOT exist until I found a girl using a kinky straight. 16 year old self hating me was so happy. Also around 6:16 You said that " our hair is beautiful" this phrase always irked me. I'm not denying that it's not the truth but, often times when people say " Black hair is beautiful." They won't say why. You did: you talked about the uniqueness and such. To anyone like me that gets irked like me when it comes to this "your hair is beautiful" ...here are the reasons why your hair is beautiful (and is mostly likely the best hair texture. Of course I am biased because I'm part of the curviest and prettiest race 😇): . um...SHRINKAGE??? SHRINKAGE is literal magic. Your hair could look like ear length but actually be back length and people are non the wiser . Curls are feminine asf and don't tell me that be about " I don't have curls bc I'm 4C :(" first of all, shut your damn mouth, you do have curls. and second of all, if you wanna see your curl pattern use some water and petroleum jelly . Very versatile with styles: one day you can have waves the next day you can have a big fluffy puff . VOLUME??? Big hair is superior. If you disagree you're just wrong babe. Because we have the superior hair texture, we literally don't have to kill ourselves out to get it to look like a cloud . You don't have to kill yourself out to get your hair to have a looser pattern ( I'm referring to braid outs) unlike straight hair that needs heat for that stuff . While our hair can't tagpke abuse like straight hair, it does love oil and water, it soaks that stuff up . You have a free Lion's mane attached on your head at any given moment . POV: humanity originated in Africa so all other hair textures are stretched out versions of yours and not the other way around Please love your hair baddies. You are like a person that has a diamond ring but threw it away because you are ignorant of its priceless value. Don't be a clown babe. 💖💖
A better question is why do they wear those silly eyelashes
The eyelashes look ridiculous and blatantly fake. How have we as a collective convinced ourselves that these things look good when they actually take FROM our features instead of accentuating our beauty?
@doll.ov.poetrii4682 I have no idea. I can understand why so many women wear makeup because makeup can sometimes change the appearance of the face and make a person look more stereotypically pretty, but the lashes seem absurd
😂😂 never understood the need for them.
@KushQueen9 it's to the point now lashes are like some right of passage to be part of a secret club
You made very valid points but you didn't need to say you're not "bashing" anyone (that's such an overused word) and that you don't have a problem with weaves and wigs. Just call it out and leave it at that. You're not being disrespectful and you don't have to make the people who wear them feel comfortable about wearing it. It IS a problem and it needs to go away.
Simple and obvious answer. Men and to blend into white society.
I am 70 years old and I have never worn a weave or wig. I stopped wearing perms in my forties. I have no regrets. I've been blessed enough to have decent hair and no problems with my hair growing long through out the years whenever i decided to stop cutting it off because it grows fast.
I feel like do what you want. I have long hair and I still will rock weave bc I love to. Now I think we cover our hair completely with wigs all the time due to internalized racism. When the natural hair movement became a thing, wigs also became a thing. And if you wear them all the time, it’s not protection. It’s covering it. I also think that we talk and spend too much time telling black women how to wear their hair. This is also due to the natural hair care movement which caused more division than anything. Like this video. Black people get online and make think pieces about everything and none of it moves the community forward.
This is the most annoying shit I’ve ever heard!
Thats why im wearing mybown haor for a year and continue and than do my own twist outs even. Im not wasting my money on my added hair
Stop appropriating white culture and rock that nappy head
I hate fake hair, eyelashes. White society dictates black beauty.
Why dont u upload more??
This 16-18 minute mark is especially special to me. Thank you. ❤ I’m working on it.
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Thank you my dear sister!