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Sarah Jolie
United States
Приєднався 30 лис 2021
more life ❤️ all things self-improvement, productivity & wellness
Відео
exit your LAZY GIRL ERA (11 tips to be productive)
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This video is all about HOW TO EXIT YOUR LAZY GIRL ERA to be productive and disciplined! I cover all the basics to make sure you know how to optimize your energy, talk about goals, habits, and routines, and share 6 HABITS you need to start in your life! If you want to become THAT girl and level up your life, these are the best self development tips to get out of your slump. It's time to stop be...
All your relationships depend on your self concept #loa #selfconcept #relationship
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working out your self concept will help you to self sabotaging 💗 #selfimprovement #selfconcept #loa
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how to change your self-concept to get anything you want 💗 #reinventyourself #createyourself #loa
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self-concept is EVERYTHING #selfimprovement #loa #glowuptips
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small manifestations matter :) #manifestyourdreams #manifestation #loa
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SELF-CONCEPT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE (how to unlock anything you desire)
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In this video, I talk all about how your self-concept changes EVERYTHING. It's the way you'll reach any goal, whether it's losing weight, finding the perfect partner, or succeeding in your career. Neville Goddard defines your self-concept as the core beliefs and assumptions you have about yourself. The law of assumption tells us that your deepest beliefs are what shape your experience of life. ...
the truth about disappearing for 6 months (identity, limiting beliefs, failing, losing people)
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Hi friends!! In today's video, I talk all about my journey of "disappearing" for 6 months (do not disturb mode!!) and the lessons I've learned throughout it. I hit on topics like identity, self-concept, limiting beliefs, community, and letting go of relationships. WHY I QUIT MY JOB: ua-cam.com/video/oqh4MOnMY8k/v-deo.html 30 Day Camera Challenge: ua-cam.com/video/sibNnXYKJv4/v-deo.html Exposure...
how I stopped caring about other people’s opinions of me :) #selfimprovement #selfconcept #selflove
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5AM MORNING ROUTINE to get me out of a slump :) #morningroutine #morningmotivation
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how to *ACTUALLY* use your affirmations to get your dream life #affirmations #manifestation
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WORK DAY IN MY LIFE VLOG: productive morning routine, 9-5 work from home, time management
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Hi friends! Welcome back to a day in the life working a 9-5. I currently work from home in the tech space. Come with me as I take you through my 5-9 morning routine, what a typical work day looks like for me, and post-work activities. In my work day, I also walk through how I organize my calendar and the BEST system for time management!! :) 🌸 TIMESTAMPS 00:00 intro 00:56 morning routine 04:23 w...
how I finally STOPPED holding myself back & started doing everything I wanted
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this is the BEST conversation starter tip I’ve learned
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the #1 tip that I learned that helped me master conversations & get over my social anxiety
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Writing a to do list helps me soo much!! Even if I don’t accomplish everything on it, it still helps keep me on track with my goals. 🙌🏼
I quit my job 2 months ago and my stress level decreased so much
I'm so happy to hear that!
Yeah, just give up security for deluded nonsense... #FemaleLogic. That job that you quit could have gone to a man, instead of you, who would have worked it until his 60s. You're the problem with the workforce.
What goals do YOU want to achieve as you exit your lazy girl era? 💗
Came across to your channel from Rebekah Joys channel. Thank you for thos awesome video !
AHH I'm so happy you're here from Rebekah!! Thanks for watching!! :)
Thank you I needed this video❤
So glad it found you ❣❤
I hope 9 to 5 jobs go away. They seem like a relic of the past anyway.
loved this so much!! it really helped conceptualize a lot of what got me out of a really negative headspace, but took it several steps beyond even that! totally trying out those journal prompts!
🥰 I'm so glad it was helpful!! YES let me know what you think about the journal prompts hehe
I manifested a free car wash and did i get it yasss!!! Lets do this!!!
WOOO it’s really abt the small things :)
Start asking for understanding and wisdom for the challenges u face. Now thats moving mountains with tge power of thought.
Super Insightful !! Sarah what would be some best books to read for regaining self belief after setbacks and overcome challenges in career also around this topic..
I’m so glad you found this helpful!! One of my favorite books is called Pyschocybernetics by Maxwell Maltz. He talks about identity being the core to our success and introduced me to this idea :) amzn.to/3KJKzJ3
moving away from the person you once were is grieving. & yes it's so important to be intentional with who you surround yourself with. love you sarah!!
absolutely - your new life is going to cost your old one. love you!! <3
12:09 i love youu❤❤ literally so thankful for our friendship
thankful for YOU ily <3
This!!! I’m so proud of your self growth and can relate to so much of what you said. Also when you said you treat your brain like a computer program and needed to change the code bc you weren’t getting the output you wanted(rewire the brain) - wow that is so good and so helpful!!!
yes!! so much of how we interact w the world & our goals is based on the way we've programmed ourselves :)
So just so you understand what happened there when your corporation made you do more work than your level, and didn’t reward you for it: With layoffs happening everywhere, corporations know that employees don’t want to get laid off since it’s going to be really difficult to get back into the industry with all of the competition now. They’re using these market forces to squeeze existing employees and get maximum value out of them. So they’re lowering titles, firing more easily, and giving smaller bonuses across the board. If you get fed up and quit, they just replace you with the most qualified applicant currently begging for your job, and have them do your job for an even lower salary. Believe it or not, it isn’t personal. It’s just capitalism. Not saying it’s ethical either. It’s just how shareholders would want the leaders of your firm to act in order to optimize profits and honor their fiduciary duties.
I am currently one of these employees who is being squeezed by a greedy employer. I think about quitting my job the same way as you did, but I suppose I’m less courageous. So I continue to suffer and get taken advantage of in order to maintain my financial security and peace of mind.
100%! Absolutely. I fully agree with everything you've said here. It's highly economical for corporations - why pay someone more if they're willing to do the extra work for free? Especially when it's an employers' market right now. I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling the same way. Even though it's not "personal," it sure doesn't feel good. I commend you for sticking through it! Financial security is incredibly important. Wishing you the best of luck with everything!
You’re so underrated . This video is actually so entertaining. ❤❤* please dont mind my profile picture *
Aw that's so kind!! thank you for being here!! 💞💗🥰
I am 32, quit my 932k salary job
Triple chocolate cake omg 😍😍 absolutely loved how detailed you are with showing your work day 🫶🏼
It was SO good!! always here for a sweet treat bahah
❤❤❤you are such a hard worker! Proud of you!!!
thank you :)
I just posted my first video yesterday and I love your videos so much so I was wondering if you have any advise on youtube??? and idk how you get up at 5am I could never I love my bed too much lol
YAY!! congrats on posting your first video :) my best advice is to stay consistent and keep going! you'll get better the more you do it. can't wait to see you grow!!
this video is amazing. literally i cannot thank you enough. i'm in the process of quitting my toxic job and i seriously needed to hear all of this. thank you SO MUCH!!
Ahh I'm so glad you found this helpful!! Wishing you the best of luck with everything!! :)
These influencers are too much for me! It’s easy to quit a six figure job as you can save up A LOT of money whilst you’re employed and the chances of you getting a highly paid job later on is a lot easier as you probably already have all these credentials, experience and connections! Hard to feel any sympathy for them!
I love this 👏🏼👏🏼 very recently started getting into this mindset and the changes are INTENSE
Yes!! life-changing FOR SURE!!
An extremely informative video, applicable in all human interaction. Worthy of a TED talk!!! Great advice and tips. Especially #21 - it's a useful checklist for the type of questions to ask and seems to double as a framework for understanding what "level" of conversation you had with someone. One some days, even close friends and I cannot get past level 1. On other days, we seamlessly evolve from 1, to 2, to 3 and discover new things about each other!
This comment made my day :) Thank you!! I love your take on #21 - definitely resonates. All the "tiers" serve different and important purposes to having great conversations to build relationships!!
I wish I could send this video to my post grad self! This is so informative especially navigating the corporate world. I also love to ask questions that don’t have a yes or no answer. I try to stay clear of those 🙅🏻♀️ I’d love to see a part 2 where the focus is more of a group setting like a work meeting, networking event, etc.
SUCH a good callout about yes/no questions!! Definitely good to ask more open ended questions :) Ooh! That's a great idea! Adding it to the to-do list!! ❤❤
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this was such a good video!! i'm soooo bad with names so im definitely going to try to incorporate tip #15 😊
Same!! I used to be SO bad at them until I started saying them more throughout the convo - helps me remember them after 😄😄
Staying present in the conversation has been a GAME CHANGER for me! But it’s definitely something I have to work on daily. As someone with a bit of social anxiety, I find myself overthinking during conversations and worrying about what I’m gonna say next. But when I practice staying as present as possible and listening intently to the other person, I find that the conversation flows so much better !!
YES!! Staying present is SO important ❤helps take some of the pressure off and makes me way less anxious about keeping it going!
love these tips!! so detailed. conversations are emotional exchanges im gonna remember that
❤❤ YAY so glad you liked them :) ABSOLUTELY!! ~ emotional exchanges ~
You are glowing 🤩
thank you 🥰🥰
Wait I love that you’re wearing gloves to clean your shower.. I definitely need to invest in some. I just cleaned my bathroom for next week’s video and I don’t have any gloves😭 thank you for the reminder to purchase some!
Omg a must!! My bathroom was so gross
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Considering the job market, sorry, but these videos are not going to be very popular.
I’m considering quitting with over a year of expenses saved and I still can’t bring myself to do it yet…
And that's okay!! Everyone's timeframe and comfortability is different. I know you'll make the right decision for you!!
Thank you so much for sharing your experience, I recently got unemployed and I feel like I could relate to so many things you were talking about, glad to hear that you’re enjoying your role now and wishing you all the best in everything ! ❤
So glad this video resonated. Wish you the best of luck and hope everything works out :)
Heyy Sarah love your videos ❤
thank you <3 <3
It looks like you guys had a blast 🤩 so happy you got to go!!!
we had so much fun!!! <3
The outfits are so cute ✨✨
thank you!! :) <3
If the poles are rubbing together the batteries can start a fire!
There are great batterie organizers to buy if you don't want them in the original packages. ❤
omg!! thank you so much for letting me know!! definitely going to look into that!
"You can change your mindset when you have enough money to do it."
loved this :)
YAY so glad :) <3
I soooo commend your courage. Prioritzing yourself takes practice - you did it! Leaving your job sends multiple messages and while corporate America may not change-YOU did, please never lose sight of this. YOUR journey is far more pertinent than a role. I too recently left 6-figures as they promised autonomy and delivered chaos. I look forward to watching your journey.
Thank you for the kind words!! <3 This means so much to me! I wish you the best in YOUR journey!
This was fun to watch! Pls say the brands next time I would’ve loved to look up some of the pieces! 😂
I'm so happy to hear that!! If any pieces speak to ya let me know, happy to tell you the brand :)
God if this is your message, I am all in.
Hope you found some comfort in this video and wish you the best in your next steps!
Working in tech is a very love hate relationship. One week things could be amazing. You’re on top of your shit and feel great about it. Only for monday to happen and a ton of new work is coming for the next few months. It truly is a roller coaster of stress. Even if it doesn’t matter all that much in the end you pretty much feel a constant state of stress in your stomach that never quite goes away except for on those rare occasions between one shitshow to the next. And that stress only gets worse as you progress into your career as you become expected to take on more responsibilities.
loved your video Sarah!
Yay!! thanks for watching :)
I have so much respect for people who do these trying on everything in my closet videos!!! That’s commitment right there👏🏼👏🏼
me too!! i didn't realize how much work it would be!!
5:51 hahahahahhaha you’re the cutest person omg
HAHA i was starting to get delusional
Please anyone watching and thinking of doing this without a massive emergency fund saved up, a great safety net (move back home with parents, rely on spouse's income etc) great networking connections or a guaranteed job (your own self sustaining business or other employment) lined up, THINK TWICE, LONG AND HARD before doing this also. THE JOB MARKET IS BRUTAL RIGHT NOW, people that have been fired or quit jobs are finding it's taking them up to 6 months or even longer to find another job. It can be good to take risks in life but in times like this, take VERY CALCULATED risks.
I couldn't agree more. You have to be financially independent to jump that high. That's craziness do this without being stable.
enjoy your fashion show 😊❤
So glad you like it!! :)
omg love this series already!! the tips are so helpful I’m feeling so inspired to declutter now
YAY im so glad they're helpful!! :)