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She only describes the consequences but I don't think she explained psychological splitting at all. What is it? No one is cleverer by her explanations I think.

4 years since this presentation, and Scotland is still at the same shaming position.

This has helped me understand what my daughters were trying to tell me for years when I just couldn't understood what I was doing so wrong to deserve the rejection. Helps me be very thankful for the therapists that helped them feel seen, heard, and then gave them the tools to be young women who have strong, healthy, trusting relationships with the young men in their lives. It's wonderful to see the work being done by mental health providers to understand the abuse of alienation as a systems issue.

Thank you very useful information

It is vital to define a very clear definition of "parental alienation" of minor children versus adult children of abusive or enmeshed family systems going "no contact" for their own safety and sanity. Without that very clear distinction there is no hope of justice for anyone

I appreciate any accurate information that has been realised by case studies and research, however there seems to be a huge gap when it comes to parents who have a 50B placed on them for 3 years or or more, what reliable information is there that addresses this situation, that the alienated parent has the fear of their being another serious accusation that could cause the alienated parent to be arrested due to the fact that the alienated parent and 2 children are making the accusation.

Please be truthful, don't hide the truth for your benefits, she's a professional, say the truth to these parents, they don't know what's happening to them nor to their children, they are lost, don't tell them sweet lies.

This video reinforces my views and tells me I'm on the right track, i feel encouraged thx.

How do you stop it if the courts won't hear this issue?

What about where one parent is in prison I think of BBC 1s Happy Valley and Little Ryan...

😢help my children

My wife and children hate me. My life with my family is over. I will be estranged from them forever.

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We need more laws in Ireland regarding this . More education needed .

my daughter lost her children in 2017. The aunt of the kids went and reported my daughter abandoned her kids . This wasn't true the aunt went to Beaufort and picked the children up and brought them to Pickens county then took them to dss and reported that my daughter left the children with her and didn't come back to get them .dss took custody of the kids and handed them back to the aunt .the aunt began telling the children their mom didn't love them . If she did she would be with them the aunt was the one who would not let mom around them . We never got to see the kids . The aunt went and took a no contact order on my daughter so that stopped any contact in between mom and the aunt . The aunt gave the children up to the grand dad .we do get to see the kids but the children call the mom the b word say they hate her they hit her and both of the children were potty trained before they left now the little girl uses the bathroom on herself she's 8 years old she should know better but she has on friends .she acts like she's the boss .she doesn't listen to anything it's really bad now we found out if my daughter tries to get her children back she's going to have to go through the aunt I don't think this is fair at all because my daughter will never get them back if she has to go through the aunt to get them

I have an estranged daughter. This estrangement has been ongoing 25 years plus. She never gave me a chance to discuss my side of the story and I don't know what she was told to make her want to abandon a relationship with me. At first I thought there would be reconciliation when she reached adulthood, but it never happened. I finally gave up hope for that and I focus more on me being contented with her choices in life. I pray for her, and there's no contact.

Hi Paul Just coming across your video now Thank you x

You have no chance of them taking it seriously because it's mainly done by women, they will never hold women accountable ☕

You will not find many administrative officers (they call themselves judges but in fact are not!) are NOT wanting to be educated about anything! This only interferes with their ability to reap the very most out of a case (an account through who unregistered securities are run that they ALL receive INTEREST $$). It goes right into their retirement accounts.

Until the profit measure of these private courts is removed, this problem can never be addressed. There’s just too much financial incentive for them NOT stop hurting children. It is a death experience for the alienated authentic mother or father.

The courts are well aware of what is really going on - these dynamics can be seen at a thousand paces. The court doesn’t want to prevent this was happening because this is why the family court was created and their very primary goal: destruction of the family. The psychologically damaged child makes for easier programming. Also, the money factor. Family court is the most profitable of all other court venues combined. The unregistered securities from each case and the subsequent cases that stem from them is astronomical.

This is the best in describing how PA begins, develops and affects the child all their lives right into adulthood and old age. And how it causes multi-generational damage.

She is unregulated. Sanctioned and no expert

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I feel like my soon to be ex husband did this with our children during the entire marriage. I always felt like an outsider in my own home. It was so hurtful and now that I've left the marriage it's even worse.

Dr Craig Childress is the truth! He is the only one who truly understands the pathology! I encourage all to learn the truth!

Karen Woodall, social workers are the reason he stole the children. I won sole custody after a 7 years expensive turbulent horrible legal battle. Because The judge caught him lying and caught him deliberately messing up with the stability of the children. I was awarded in the end sole custody. He angry at the judge for ordering him to pay back childsupport and legal costs then used false allegations with cps to over ride the judges order and prevent me having any access to the children for months.. How the hell do you think that turned out. Extortion that's how, eventually the children said they would never come home or see me again until I gave the father in writing sole custody. They were 10 and 11 then. That was 17 years ago. I have no contact, or relationship now with them. I do have serious cptsd. Oh and the cps dropped the case there was no evidence of any abuse according to them. But they would not help me get them back. Kids now adult 28 and 30 have re written memories of history, false stories. There is no hope now for any reunification. They are ingrained in his abusive sadistic web. I don't even have email or phone numbers. One has turned out exactly like him and wants to kill me, the other I have no clue. I was a good mom.

It's too late for me I lost my two kids I legally win custody of to a sadistic covert narcessit who stole them then groomed them to hate me 17 years ago.. I'm was just too exhausted to fight back any more. They are gone, one turned out just as sadistic and manipulative as him. The other I have no clue.

Would the young person maybe hang with an older crowd, a crowd that accepts them but could care less about encouraging them to get help related to their bad upbringing?

If you continue to write someone who is 30 every month, and you get no response, then you are harassing them.

LOL. My mother sent this to me after this is what she did to my father. She wasn't too extreme, a lot of women do a lot worse but she was and still is very toxic, yet she still has all of her kids because we love her and feel sorry for her. She was a victim of her childhood.

This is unreal

But don’t tell mommy….but she says/did …we have to feel sorry because she…you can’t have or do that because she…she obviously doesn’t love you…but I love you always You come home from work and they look at you like you have 2 heads. Then figure out what they were told in order to try to show it in the light of day. When all your children are spectrum disordered they are going to take things as they are. Since they are grown they will maintain no contact until their dad is showing his sickness. Then I will see them but my grandchildren will be grown and they will act like it shouldn’t matter. At what point do you leave and save your sanity? And that’s why I am not the healthy parent, I am bipolar, and after the kids left I was hospitalized. Their dad is a psychopathic Machiavellian malignant narcissist who is alcoholic. But I’m the one who is mentally I’ll.

All 3 of my kids are partnered with people old enough to be their parents, and have no say therefore. They weren’t allowed to love their mother. It wasn’t even a divorce/separation; while I was working I was being cut down and blamed for their dad’s unhappiness. (He’s a narcissist). They grew up and I got a divorce. Now I have no family and I am to blame because I didn’t know; but I know now that they were abused. I have had 3 nervous breakdowns and I am now accepting that I am going to live the rest of my life without a family. My therapists say I should date and I laughed, rather than throw up. My kids were brainwashed while it looked like we were a family. They grew up with these symptoms and their dad had no friends, so they became the video game playmates and kept him company. Because this happened before their brains were developed I believe there’s no going back. Their dad’s favorite phrase is “cognitive dissonance “. He knew what he was doing because that’s how he was raised.

The family court system won't even hold the mother responsible for the visitation schedule in the usa. . The family court says to her " that's not nice, next case". Why bother to fight to see your kids and spend another $15,000 when a judge only wants to insure the child support payment is being made.

In my case my bonus childrenpossi were healthier and a positive influence

They need to acknowledge the anxiety asap ..

I had no idea he was covertly working them against me until he decided to discard me. The youngest just dropped out of school.. He had the whole relationship planned from beginning to end.. he was an angry ex husband and he never loved me.. but he had no problem using me.. like a slave .

Thank you for being so accessible here on youtube, Karen. I wanted to get your book, but the shipping to Australia is unbelievably expensive. I agree with you on your wonderful ambition to heal and prevent this condition.

I have experienced both death 43 years ago, as well as 40 years of Parental Alienation, of my respective children. With death, there is a fixed date of psychic injury and passage of time sometimes heals all wounds, even one as most grievous as your child's death. The passage of time between that horrible fixed date experience in the past and today, gives opportunity for insights & revelations leading to acceptance. PAS on the other hand, is an ongoing injury, where the dawn of each new day doesn't only scrape the scab off anew, but it grabs the broken femur that is compounded four inches through one's pants and shakes the hell out of it. If there is a way to heal or accept this dynamic, I have yet to see it. The above is just the targeted parent side of the coin. This evil is compounded by various forms of abuse inflicted upon the children in their cult leader's environment. These children will never be whole and healed, without their missing parent, as they experience parental phantom limb syndrome, with emotional and cognitive dissonance, leading to addiction and worse.

A marvelous, insightful, compassionate woman. Her discussion of the problem of the TERM "Parental Alienation" 4:50 is very helpful, as it is, indeed "mired in controversy." What matters is the reality of the phenomenon, which those of us who have suffered it know all too well - and those who dismiss the term are prone to deny the reality. Bless you, Dr. Karen, and husband Nick, for all the clarity you bring to addressing this brutal war against the love that never ends: that of parent for child.

Amazing find.

I’m grateful to have to have come across this video. Going through this a long time and this validated years of fighting to feel heard about what has happened. The grief and pain from this is indescribable

I don't believe that installing security cameras in every room of your house and/or in every room of your property up for sale while fearing future false allegations coming from small children is ever a healthy adult response to the adversity called divorce. Letting go in prayer of what we cannot control is hard to do however doing so is not only possible it is a must when it comes to setting a good example for the next generation.

I also need to mention this notion of evidence . What concrete evidence can be gleaned from heresay ? An adult child having been " indoctrinated " against her parent makes false allegations against them. To dance to the tune of the other parent. What legal safeguard is applied to ensure false allegations are not entered into evidence. ? This is a huge issue

Finding this video is like stumbling across the Holy Grail. Everything spoken about by both of you is applicable to my own situation. And I can't thank you enough. Such a complex issue with so many variables. ...... this video is life changing for me. Thank you so much 💓

This is what I am dealing with

Say No to abuse allegations! Invites pseudo-science hearssy to destroy you. Put the words "Parental Alienation" into CRIMINAL Law against KIDNAPPING! Ever heard "never get between a mother and her babies?" TRIGGER WARNING: Oversharing about Sex Abuse! Oh please stop with the pop-pychology fad "narcissist" from you Armchair practitioners of a pseudo-science! I have a REAL SCIENCE Biology degree, and am a Targetted Parent, and believe Sara Hassman over "Dr." Phil. Alienation gurus, "Dr." Amy Baker making $$$$ selling horrid little unindexed *pamphlets to stock lawyers' shelves* about Parental Alienation UNDEFINED in both Law and Psychiatry, and "Dr." Richard Warchak, promoting Family Bridges, a *THREE DAY "reunification retreat" that costs over $15,000* and booked OVER A YEAR IN ADVANCE! QUACKS profitting on family dysfunction! *What kind of a PARENT wants NO CONTACT between the other parent and child FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIFE?* ALIENATORS, from the *"desire to erase the Ex"* so common this inspired inclusion of ALL those pages of Possession ORDERS in Standard Divorce Decrees! *Same as SAID = false Sex Abuse Allegations In Divorce.* "Dr." Phil is an "infotainment" Quack; believe Sara Hassman, her children are brainwashed into delusions! Complete rejection because overly critical, and a claim of a thrown cup of tea? Parents make mistakes. Curious, *truly abused kids SELDOM reject a parent*; they defend, visit in jail, and continue to love - an instinctual Mammalian NECCESSITY recognized in all human society, except maybe USA. More on that later. *Courts pimp these quacks for "expert opinion" hearsay* to make arbitrary over-protective Rulings like Supervised Visitation for TEENS (with their own Smartphones - friends - uber and lyft accounts - knowledge of 911 and police and CPS etc.) which *FURTHER DESTROYS A PARENT IN THE EYES OF THEIR OWN CHILDREN.* Why, with all these kids and Smartphones that record sound and video, do *we NEVER EVER hear about REAL EVIDENCE?* Because these are Coached Delusions in BRAINWASHED children! You cannot record delusions, beliefs with NO evidence. Children do not easily destroy their bond with a parent, even if truly abusive. BRAINWASHING works. SEVERELY ALIENATED TEENS seldom reconnect, probably *preferring delusions to the guilt for not getting into your car.* What has psychology given the USA? At least THREE MASS HYSTERIAS; Satanic Killings, Alien Abductions, and Hypnotic Regression of adults to "recover" SEX ABUSE FROM A PARENT, putting innocent grandparents IN JAIL! There it is again, *Sex Abuse claims to ensure "heroic" efforts by Courts to pimp pseudo-science for arbitrary overprotective "child-centric" rulings that destroy Parental Rights.* And you, the gleefully applauding, CRUEL, "American" United Statesian audience? Full of people whose parents probably followed the Anglo, anti-mammalian parenting model of letting babies cry themselves to sleep in a distant crib. Look up Harry Harlow's experiments with primates and surrogate "mothers" made of wire, wood, and fur to see the effects which *inspired rules for the ethical treatment of lab animals.* Watch what happened to those infant primates, *as if looking into a mirror* for USA's violence-promoting society, and this cruel TV audience, and quite possibly, you. "Dr." Phil panders to this cruelty with his stares and head-slapping sarcasms, unable to comprehend the nightmare he promotes. Alienated children MUCH more likely to experience academic failure, drugs, running away from home, relationship dysfunction, anxiety, depression, suicide, etc. They LEARNED to NOT love A PARENT? Thanks, "Dr." Phil. Shame on all of you. I am a rejected parent. I identify with Sara. I see through her husband's calm confident demeanor, used by my Ex to "win," briefly, in Family Court. I paid $1,000 for the transcript to identify TONS of perjury and won ALL my rights in Mediated Settlement, but the four SEVERELY ALIENATED TEENS have rights to reject possessions, and no need to reply! So MOMster simply says "kids don't want therapy with you" and I consider going back to Court with two DELUSIONAL daughters over eighteen to subpeona for cross-examination by lawyers? Advice, please, you armchair practitioners of a pseudo-science. Search "Is psychology a science?" LOL. South Africa has already produced a scholarly article, about *Covid Lockdown, and clueless Social Services, producing an "epidemic" of Parental Alienation.* If PARENTAL ALIENATION goes into Law as Criminal KIDNAPPING, then EIGHT years ago, a policeman should have said *"Tell your dad your school ID numbers, or I write mom a ticket. Further disrespect of your Father, we take her to jail. Understood?"* negating the subtext *dad subhuman, dangerous* for EIGHT YEARS. The end of most of these types of "erase the Ex" problems!

Absolutely, children naturally love both parents. #stopstatechildabuse.

What are some examples of compartmentalization? Specific examples?