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As heart-breaking as yourstory is , you are so strong and profound as you have learned from life, ( I have seen a superficial shrink that I stopped my confused teen daughter from seeing as I saw she was not helping her at all, on the contrary) and I am glad you have found this serenity. I hope your words will help many young people who are going through this trans problem; it is a wealth of exprience suming years of thought , introsppection and may save months or years for a troubled teenager ; thank you for that gift. I have shared M Walsh's docu-film so that my students understand, and this to my daughter to help her think about her great worth, for she is.

Thank you for your story. I hate how people use detransitioners as ammunition for hate.

Thank you, Sam, for your words and pictures! I wonder if you know the French artist Louise Bourgeois - - she created sculptures of giant spiders as protectresses-perhaps too scary to look at? But meant to be helpful and protective. I just want to mention them in case you don’t know because her spiders are described as “looming and powerful protectresses, and delicate and vulnerable“-tender! I think she didn’t start sculpting these giant sculptures until she was in her 80s. She came from a family of textile artist. Anyway- warning: they are as you describe Giant and dark, but I love that she sees them as protectresses.

I'm very glad that you found your way. A way to understanding your true inner self. What a road you've been on.

4:40 what a fcked up school

Genuinely brave. Thank you for speaking to people. It makes me so sick to my stomach that the left has decided to make this political.

I just wish i could be the older brother/father for every little boy and girl in the world and protect them all. This world is truly so cruel.

I do everything in my life as naturally as i can possible manage and the idea of taking hormones and mutilating my body with surgery is just so absurd to me it's hard for me to fathom how people can ever consider it as a solution to a problem. Unrelated but i feel like this ideology used to be a left wing 'hippie' ideology and nowadays more and more i see it in right wing extremist ideology.

13:44 Men were blessed by whatever powers may be with many things, not the least of which is the strength to withstand suffering. Loneliness is just another form of suffering. I'm not religious really but when I'm alone i feel like I'm as close to god as i can possibly get.

I am very surprised and refreshed to see the lack of transphobia in this comment section. I love that everyone has just come to appreciate your personal journey without putting down others. I think that's really beautiful. And it means that the door is open for trans people to see your story and understand those who detransition without stigma, because they are not distracted by having to fight their own battle in the comment section. That's quite rare, and I'm very glad to see it here.

Everyone hates to talk about it but a shockingly large percentage of the LGBT community has stories very similar to yours. When someone comes out as gay/trans/whatever that should be a red flag to their family and friends that something very bad might have happened. It's not every case but again it's an insanely large percentage.

my heart wants all good healing to come to you. Jesus is restoring, nurturing and strengthening you moment by moment. Thank you for sharing lovely lovely Scotland with us.

Sam, thank you for sharing so much of what you have learned. You come across to me as such an amazingly intelligent person. My heart breaks for all of the children who grow up not being held, loved, cared for...

God Bless you and your beautiful heart and soul! Thank you.

There are horrible things from my own past I'm only now barely able to process and understand here well into my 40's.. Because of people like you who share their story. I spent so much time and energy for decades blocking it out that I had no idea who or what I was, and the horrifying realization that I likely never did to begin with! Thanks for sharing your pain, it reminds me to live

I hope you find happiness in this world my friend.

I wish humans as a species were smart enough to hit the pause button on all these teenage gender changes and hormone therapies that are being pushed now. People doing this are not even stopping to ask why and the fact they refuse to even consider mental health problems as the cause should be alarming and enraging people. It's the old Jurassic Park line of "Yeah, yeah, but your scientists were so preoccupied with whether or not they could that they didn't stop to think if they should." Except replace scientists with doctors.....

Sam, Thank you for sharing the deepest, most sacred parts of yourself with us so we may find the self-compassion we ALL need to heal. I agree 100% about dogs and people who are kind to us! ❤

I feel tremendously blessed that I was allowed to see someone come back and accept themselves as they have always exisisted after such a long time. I'm praying God continues to show you such mercy.

This is absolutely fascinating, thank you for sharing yourself with us Sam. I really relate to your story

I expect to see a massive increase in this in the next 10-20 years. What a sad society we live in.

Imagine if we eliminated concepts of masculinity and femininity and allowed each other to be full multidimensional humans without limit.

God bless you Jesus Christ loves you Sam. *Mark 1:15, John 3:16-17, Romans 10:9-10 KJV* 🙏💙

GOD BLESS YOU

Out of curiosity - does your current facial physique have anything to do with your initial transition? Or is this your natural face?

You cannot be something you are not......I wish more people would understand this. You are a very beautiful and brave soul. God bless you Sam.

I'm so sorry that the actions of someone else caused you so much trauma. You didn't and don't deserve that. I'm glad you are able to find love for yourself now. You deserve it.

Sam, you are a superman to have been through all that and yet being able to recognise all those small things of value like being outside with the dogs. These things may be small individually, but they combine to become a powerful whole. I take my hat off to you.

I am currently transitioning, and even though I don't do it from a position of trauma (I had an incredibly lovely youth and upbringing), 11:40 rings so true. That whole idea of to be seen now where before people wouldn't give 2 f's about me is incredibly powerful.

It's amazing how much the trauma of youth has a hold on our adult lives.

You are so beautiful.

Yes. Most trans people have reacted too quick to a psychological imbalance.

beautiful conversation. People so very rarely have conversations like that. Almost never. Sam, I will be with you in my soul, when Cory is ready- and I think he’s bound to be- such a wise and good person. Love to you both!

Every time I look at you I see a glorious man. I’m not sure if you had surgery or not, but you have a lovely androgynous face regardless. I hope you are proud of your appearance. I really admire your being and what you’ve survived and healed. You are changing things for the better ❤

This is honestly amazing. Thank you so much for sharing.

just because a bunch of people transition because of trauma or whatever, it doesn't mean ALL trans people are wrong. that's right wing trump's c'ck suckers rethoric. just a reminder

Sam, we are here from all over the world led to you. I don't know if you feel like Light. But you are. ..i know too well the feeling when fear comes. The Fear. Found my way through these storms. But it returns over and over. And i fear it. fear the Fear. Funny ...i don't wanna feel like this anymore..

very helpful video ❤❤

Mistakes are sadly a part of life, we can't avoid making them.

You have nice cheekbones

This was intense... Wow you are so intelligent. The ability to be introspective and extrospective.... Just wow. This was so brave I am so glad for you. You are who you are.

I’m so sorry 😢 But you have so much depth and are helping others. ❤❤❤I’m so happy the detransition was healing for you.

sam the man

Dear Sam, Thank you so much for sharing another deeply helpful and healing video. You give so much courage to those of us with complex trauma that it is possible to gradually open to feeling and connection, things we have often guarded against in fear and self-protection. I definitely feel less alone after seeing your videos. You help shine a light on the possibility of breaking out of isolation. I know within in myself I profoundly want to connect and I'm often in that push/pull dynamic of connection vs hiding. But it is a gradual process and I can see you are really moving along in your own journey which is so encouraging. Thank you so much again for the courage, love and wisdom you are sharing 🙏💖

You are absolutely not mad. You are a survivor. You are helping people...even as they are walking alongside you as your witnesses. In that beautiful place that God created, a place where you see him in that sunset...he is your witness, too. Soon, Revelation chapter 21 verses 3 and 4 will come about when there will cease painful tears. He will bring it about right here on earth. Massive changes are ahead.

I think we’re all supposed to be a little stereotypically masculine and stereotypically feminine. I believe in Jesus Christ, and I think he’s a wonderful example of this. He is a man and a strong one (e.g., He was a carpenter.), but he was also compared to a mother hen, gathering her chicks. So perhaps you’re tapping into the divine by recognizing who you are and realizing the benefits and rich qualities of each sex.

Thanks. I needed to hear this.

Sam you are so loved - thank you so so much for sharing and helping - you are an awesome awesome amazing person and this story is SO PROFOUND - thank you SOOOOO much from the bottom of my heart xxx

certified open heart chakra moment

damn you got transitiioned 25 years ago? i had no idea that they were doing it that long ago