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Jill Dalton nyc
United States
Приєднався 30 вер 2011
I’m an award-winning actor and playwright, and I've been a working actor in NYC for over 40 years. You may have seen me on Law & Order, Saturday Night Live, or riding the C train. I've performed on and off Broadway and in Oliver Stone's Wall Street, Law & Order, Saturday Night Live, Rachael Getting Married, Too Big to Fail, Braid, The Looming Tower, Succession, Things Heard & Seen, and FBI. My plays Collateral Damage and Whistle-blower were semi-finalists in the Eugene O'Neill National Playwrights Conference. I've written and performed three solo plays, including Lizzie BordenLive!, which was commissioned by the East Lynne Theater Company, where I won the JACOBY AWARD for my performance. I did stand-up comedy for 4 1/2 years and won the MARY JO COMEDY SHOW AWARD '94 for best female newcomer, NYC. My essays have been published in literary journals. I currently reside in New York City with my bossy cat, Magpie.
Will meeting the Casting Director for THE EDGE OF NIGHT change MY LIFE?
In 1980s New York, soap opera roles were the golden ticket for aspiring actors, and I was determined to get on one. I attended a paid casting workshop with the Casting Director from *The Edge of Night*. The tension in the room was palpable as actors vied for attention, each hoping for a shot at a soap part. My moment finally came, but what happened after my audition was anything but predictable. Join me as I share the highs, the unexpected twists, and the rollercoaster of emotions that made this experience unforgettable in my acting journey.
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It’s not personal. It’s showbiz.
Acting is a journey, not a destination.
Showbiz! Ah, the glamor.
I drop a new video every Sunday.
buymeacoffee.com/jilldaltonnyc
Stop by for inspiration, fun showbiz stories, tips, insights, and a behind-the-scenes look of a working actor.
Thanks for being here.
Please like and subscribe for a deeper dive into the art and business of acting!
Leave your comments.
xoxo
Jill
CREDITS:
Thank you.
Sound Effects from Pixabay. (Crowd noise) (dial tone)
Sound Effect by Gavin Mogensen from Pixabay. (Payphone)
LET’S CONNECT ON SOCIAL
Facebook: jill.dalton3/
Instagram: iamjilldalton
FIND ME HERE
Website: https:www.jilldaltonnyc.com
IMDB: www.imdb.com/name/nm0198298/
The Performing Arts Legacy Project: performingartslegacy.org/dalton/
It’s not personal. It’s showbiz.
Acting is a journey, not a destination.
Showbiz! Ah, the glamor.
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From a chaotic dressing room to the set of my first soap gig-things didn’t go as expected.
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In my quest for a SAG card, i.e., fame and fortune. I booked an extra job on As The World Turns. From the crowded dressing room filled with glamorous actresses to the chaotic reality of being on set, I was assigned the part of a coat-check girl in a fancy restaurant scene. But when the episode aired, my scene-and I-were nowhere to be found. This video highlights the unpredictable nature of the ...
I learned the hard way that recognition can’t guarantee success.
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In 1980, I performed in *Father Uxbridge Wants to Marry* at the Three Muses Theatre, nestled within the historic Ansonia building. Our production had everything: talented actors, a beautiful press kit, and even a visit from the feared theater critic, John Simon, who gave us a glowing review. But when financial realities struck, we couldn't extend the run despite the positive buzz. Join me as I ...
Managing elves, Christmas chaos, and high-pressure holiday madness at Macy’s Santaland in 1978.
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In 1978, I traded my Southern roots for a shot at acting in New York City. Needing extra cash for the holidays, I landed a job managing elves in Macy’s Santaland. From navigating Santa’s village to dealing with cranky elves and malfunctioning cash registers, the holiday cheer was in short supply by December. Things got more chaotic when I uncovered an elf mutiny fueled by marijuana in the dress...
A dismal Off-Off-Broadway production leaves me questioning my choices and career path.
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Showcase Nightmare. In 1980, I stepped into a ramshackle Off-Off-Broadway theatre for a rehearsal of Sophocles' *Antigone*, only to find myself in a surreal situation. A young man stood stark naked on stage, facing a dominatrix clad in black vinyl, whip in hand. I discovered that the theatre doubled as a dominatrix show venue on weekends. Each performance night ended with me fleeing the buildin...
My unexpected encounters with Christopher Reeve had a profound impact on my life.
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Before I saw Christopher Reeve on stage, I thought he was just another Hollywood pretty boy. But as our paths crossed multiple times-at an audition, on the streets of New York, and later in a dream-my perception of him shifted. I saw a man who transcended his 'Superman' image, facing unimaginable challenges with grace and strength. Through these encounters, I learned that Reeve was not just a h...
Henry arrives to take me home, but I must decide whether to stay and follow my dream or return to SC
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NYC or Marriage? In the late 1970s, I lived in a shabby New York apartment, determined to make it as an actress. But then Henry, my husband, arrived from South Carolina, insisting it was time for me to come home. As he stood there, out of place in his cowboy boots and southern charm, I felt the weight of my decision: stay in New York and follow my dreams or return to a life that wasn’t mine. Th...
From sexist bosses to a subway stalker my whirlwind day shows how wild and unpredictable NYC can be.
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Surviving & Thriving in 1978 NYC. As a young aspiring actress in 1978 NYC, I never knew what the city might throw at me, from a before-dawn open call to sexist and condescending bosses at my executive secretary job to a grueling jazz class in a gritty part of town. But things turn dark when a man follows me into the subway, mistaking me for a showgirl. With Henry’s arrival in two days, I’m dete...
My Acting Class Turned Into a Nightmare, NYC 1978
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Acting Class Trauma. NYC, 1978 My Acting Class Turned into a Nightmare. In my first NYC acting class, I thought I was ready to refine my craft. Instead, I was thrown into a brutal exercise where fellow students were encouraged to hurl insults at me. The experience was so traumatic that I ended up in tears, shaking, and even started my period two weeks early from the shock. I realized this wasn’...
A Chilling Tunnel Encounter on 42nd St Teaches Me to Trust My Gut in Gritty 1978 NYC.
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In 1978, New York City was a chaotic landscape, reeling from a financial crisis, high crime rates, and the aftermath of the 1977 blackout riots. But for me, NYC was the promised land, where I pursued my dream of becoming an actor. One fateful evening, while walking to a rehearsal on Theatre Row, I was mugged at knifepoint in a dark tunnel. This harrowing experience taught me the importance of t...
My first side hustle in NYC ended with an FBI raid
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In 1978, with $70 in my wallet and a dream of making it in New York, I took on a side hustle that seemed like the perfect fit for an aspiring actress. But what started as a simple job quickly turned into a chaotic mess involving missing merchandise, cocaine, and, eventually, an FBI raid. As I navigated the streets of NYC and the unpredictable world of acting, I unwittingly found myself in the m...
My intense experience working with Hollywood legend William Hurt. Part 2
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Part 2: The Complexity - Working Closely with William Hurt I delve into the intense, often volatile experience of working closely with William Hurt. His unpredictable rage mirrored the anger I knew from my father, a Vietnam veteran. At first, I was terrified, but I soon realized his fury wasn’t about me-it was his internal storm. As I navigated the complexities of our professional relationship,...
My intense experience with Hollywood legend William Hurt.
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WORKING WITH WILLIAM HURT In 2010 I spent ten weeks working with academy award winning actor, William Hurt. Part 1: The Beginning - Meeting William Hurt and Preparing for his Role. In October 2010, I received an unexpected call to meet with Academy Award-winning actor William Hurt for an unknown role in the HBO film Too Big to Fail. My admiration for his work was met with the daunting task of a...
My Open Call Audition for Woody Allen in 1978 NYC
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MEETING WOODY ALLEN It’s 1978 New York City. I promised my almost newlywed husband I’d return to South Carolina if I hadn’t made it in six months. I came to NYC to follow my acting dream, but my six months are up. Join me as I chase my acting dreams in the vibrant energy of 1978 New York City. From the bustling newsstand to discovering an open casting call for Woody Allen’s new film. I’m filled...
Filming a scene with legendary actor George C. Scott: An unexpected emotional journey.
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Filming a Scene with George C. Scott: An Unexpected Emotional Journey I had a remarkable experience on the set of the remake of the classic film "Gloria." We were shooting at the iconic Belmont Racetrack. In an unexpected twist, I was singled out to sit next to the legendary George C. Scott and watch the race. From the chaos of a bustling film set to the emotional connection with Scott, who rem...
My Rollercoaster Audition for Martin Scorsese's The Departed.
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My Rollercoaster Audition for Martin Scorsese's The Departed.
My whirlwind journey with the film "Confessions of a Shopaholic.” Auditions, Standing in, & Dilemmas
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My whirlwind journey with the film "Confessions of a Shopaholic.” Auditions, Standing in, & Dilemmas
The challenge of doing a table read of “How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days” w/ Matthew McConaughey & cast.
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The challenge of doing a table read of “How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days” w/ Matthew McConaughey & cast.
Lily Tomlin reached out to me after I attended her Broadway show and wrote her a letter.
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Lily Tomlin reached out to me after I attended her Broadway show and wrote her a letter.
How to Self-Tape on a Budget: Essential Tips for Actors
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How to Self-Tape on a Budget: Essential Tips for Actors
How to protect yourself when you're injured on set and find yourself in the hospital. Part 2
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How to protect yourself when you're injured on set and find yourself in the hospital. Part 2
How to protect yourself when you’re injured on set and find yourself in the hospital?
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How to protect yourself when you’re injured on set and find yourself in the hospital?
A behind-the-scene look at shooting a scene and your co-star doesn’t know his lines. Remain calm.
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A behind-the-scene look at shooting a scene and your co-star doesn’t know his lines. Remain calm.
I dreamed of being in a Woody Allen movie but when the opportunity arose the bus had other plans.
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I dreamed of being in a Woody Allen movie but when the opportunity arose the bus had other plans.
How to decide if you should keep pursuing your acting career.
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How to decide if you should keep pursuing your acting career.
A dive into the chaotic world of on-set mishaps, mistaken identity, and unexpected blessings. Part 2
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A dive into the chaotic world of on-set mishaps, mistaken identity, and unexpected blessings. Part 2
How to stop struggling as an actor and allow the universe to help.
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How to stop struggling as an actor and allow the universe to help.
I defied industry standards, overcame obstacles, persisted, and found success.
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I defied industry standards, overcame obstacles, persisted, and found success.
Rejection is a fact of life for actors but you can’t take it personally.
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Rejection is a fact of life for actors but you can’t take it personally.
Do you remember the casting director’s name? Was it Ruth Levine or Whitney Burnett Voss?
Love your great stories, Jill! I applied to work at a private college in San Francisco in the 90's. Some weeks later, I received a phone call from a faculty member who liked my resume and wanted to talk to me about a possible job opportunity she thought would be a good match! I was excited, but a little perplexed when she wanted to meet me at my house, rather than talking about the job on the phone. But, I said fine and we met. When I asked about the job opportunity she talked around it but never specifically told me what the actual job was. I kept interrupting, but she blithely talked on. Finally, after some time, I became so frustrated, I asked her if she was trying to recruit me to be in Amway sales. It was as if I had cursed or passed gas. She didn't speak until I asked her again and after a bit of mumbling, she admitted it! I was really upset! She was using her position at the college to present herself as someone trustworthy and I told her that I was offended that she would do such a thing! Not an acting story, but somewhat relatable....
LOLOL!!! Yes, Alice took one of those 'Soap Opera' workshops---with her actor friend, Richard--but no she was not a soap type--nor was her friend. But she told me some hysterical stories about the classes and the people---and those wild and crazy auditions! High drama!! LOL! ❤
One of your videos popped up on my UA-cam feed and I clicked on it. Now I am hooked. I hope you're happy - another addiction for me. I so much enjoy the stories, the humor, and the behind the scenes insights. Thanks for sharing! (It's not really an addiction, more like a mild dependency.)
LOL! Thank you for watching. I'm so glad the algorithm decided to send me your way.
Jill you brought back a flood of memories. I was right there with you in the late 70’s and early 80’s. I called the casting director of As The World Turns everyday at promptly 430pm for eight months trying to be seen. My persistence paid off and they finally agreed to see me. I got there thinking “this could be the one”. We had a brief conversation and then the guy tried to sell me a workshop for an exorbitant amount of money. Those were the days (not)
I think it's called "The hustle." I remember how desperate I felt at times. But you were persistent and that's a lot of what an actor needs.
@ I was very devious too. I got a job in Security at a major network midnight to eight. I worked alone on the same floor as the casting office. I would periodically go into the room where the thousands of headshots were kept and find mine and move it to the second one in the pile. Did this a few times and finally got called to come in. Nothing happened but I finally wormed my way into Guiding Light and Another World. Soooo exhausting!
My twin sister Alice was an actress--and she 'auditioned' twice for Woody Allen---right around the time you did. (We live in NYC). She had a very 'New York" look and once time, he selected her to sit in the front row of an audience (where he's telling jokes)--I forget the movie. That was her entire 'role'. LOL! THEN---a few years later, she again 'auditioned' for him--and was told to 'come back for a big role in the movie'' (Mia Farrow was the star--and his little girl, an infant, was on set in his arms all the time, Alice, said!) What was her 'big' role? She got to sit at a nightclub table at some set in the Bronx!! THAT was her big role!! An actress friend of ours was so excited because she, too, auditioned for him--and got to be one of the dancers---except she had to wear a mask over her face for the entire scene. LOLOL! Life is funny. Alice passed away suddenly from Sepsis two years ago, when we were 76--I still haven't really recovered. We had the most wonderful life together. I enjoyed your 'vignette' so much!Lynn in NYC❤
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear about Alice. I recently lost my younger brother. It's not easy. The thing about Woody is he hand picked each and every person who would appear in his film no matter how small the part. So glad you enjoyed my story and I'm sending you lots of love.
@@jilldaltonnyc7545 Thanks so much for your kind words. Yes, Alice told me such a similar story to yours---that he seemed to stare straight at her for maybe half a minute, then told his Assistant something--and then she heard "Next"--And it was that night that the Assistant phoned and said "Woody Allen wants you to come back tomorrow for a big role in his movie!" Well, Alice got off the phone practically screaming to me "OMG---Woody Allen wants me for a big role!!" Phoning my mother and our closest friend, Alice told them the news and we spent all the rest of the evening chattering excitedly. (Had she finally made it 'big'??) But you know the end of the story---she got to sit at a table for 4 in that 'nightclub' set. LOLOLOL!! (Because we looked so 'New York' (the Marlo Thomas/ Diane Keaton type), Alice got a lot of 'extra' work--but never, alas, hit it big! But she had so much fun and met some wonderful actors over the years...Charles Grodin, Lee Grant (she was her stand-in), Bill Murray, Debby Reynolds, John Travolata, etc. (all very nice, she thought.) Take care. Lots of love to you, too!❤
@@lhasalynn2091 Thanks for sharing that. I love all those actors and started rereading Charles Grodin's book, It'd be so nice if you weren't here. LOL. Thanks for being here.
@@jilldaltonnyc7545 I just subscribed!! Alice had that hilarious Charles Grodin book and used to read it aloud to me. So funny!!!❤
Tonight I’m going to a casting directors mixer hosted by AEA hopefully this could lead to something. Love your video and channel❤
I'm so glad you're enjoying my videos. Let me know how the mixer goes. Good luck!
@@jilldaltonnyc7545 it was good times. Just another way to get my face out. Didn’t learn anything new to be honest. Keep up the good work with your channel.
@@philipfuller555 Thanks Phillip. Good for you for putting yourself out there. I always sucked at networking. Keep me posted.
@ Will do . Thanks Jill!
Another great story, Jill. Though I'm sad about the ending. It's really odd too. Casting director calls YOU ( not the other way around) with seemingly the obvious and specific intention of telling you that the director likes you and that they want to put you in a specific new role they have to cast. There's a bit of a pause in the conversation and in the middle of the phone call the casting director suddenly changes their mind? Only things I can think of ( outside of the possibility that the casting director has a personality disorder) is that they realized they actually had some other actress in mind for the part and made a mistake calling you, or someone in their office put a note in front of them while they were talking. Maybe a call came in that some "name" was suddenly available and interested in that part, or reminded them that they owed a favor to the rep of some other actress and they called in that favor. Apart from that, there's no logical reason for their behaviour.
I agree. Those are all real possibilities. I remember working on a film and I was told I'd be the jury Forman, which meant I had a line plus two weeks work. Turned out the director's daughter decided to fly in from LA and he gave her the part. I still sat on the jury for two weeks but that's showbiz. Nothing is fair in love, war, and showbiz.
You NEED to be on EVERY DAY, Jill!!!!!
LOL!!! Oh, Julie,, if you knew how long it takes me to make these videos, you'd laugh. I do all the editing, find all the music and sound effects, and write the script. It's a lot. Maybe one day I'll be so good at it that it won't take me as long. I usually spend at least 3-4 days on each video. But I'm so glad you like my stories. Thanks for being here.
Love your stories and how you tell them. But wait did I not hear you say you were in a play with Steve Buscemi. Surely there is a story there? He's one of my favourite actors.
It was so long ago. We were both in acting class with John Strausberg. Lee's son. I remember it was really fun working with Steve and doing the play.
Hi Jill...dreams are like Halloween candy in a bowl, make sure you have enough you never know who will knock on the door. Better yet, make that two bowls.
And remember to keep the lights on and a broom handy for the candy-throwers! I was so hard-headed and single-minded. I was blinded by my dream.
You videos are really funny, informative, and engaging. For someone who loves stories, especially stories of the past and fame, they're really interesting. You're a great storyteller too, which enhances them greatly. I have a question: during your years living in New York City, did you ever meet or encounter musician Lou Reed, dubbed "The King of New York"? If so, I would love to hear that story
I never encountered Lou. I wish I had, but we ran in very different circles, and I was laser-focused on my acting career.
These stories should come with a two drink minimum.
LOL! I discovered Buy Me a Coffee and think I've installed it correctly. That way, if anyone wants to leave me a tip, they can.
Hilarious! I liked the background special effects! 😆👍
Thanks, Jake. I actually love creating the effects. It's time-consuming but fun and creative. I'm so glad you like them. One of my friends told me she thought they were too much. I. toned them down to what I think is a good mix.
Hi Jill. I'm not an actor, but I always look forward to my Sunday's with Jill. You're a great storyteller and those graphics are a nice touch. I love how only doctors, actors and drug dealers had pagers!🤣I used to watch all the soaps back in the day. I never could get into 'Edge of Night'. The way it was filmed was so different from the others. No soap is anything like real life, but that show just looked so phony. Oh, listen to me, the none actor critiquing acting!!! I'll go now. Have a fabulous week Jill.🤗
Glen, if I'm honest, I never watched THE EDGE OF NIGHT. I wanted to be on a soap and didn't care which one. LOL. Was it as fake as DARK SHADOWS, which I loved and ran home from school to watch.
Wow, that was another wonderful one and a surprise Sunday night treat! Thank you Jill!❤
Thanks for watching. I'm so glad you're here and enjoying my stories.
What cruelty to give you the opportunity of a lifetime, and then snatch it away so heartlessly!
I agree. So mean and I don't think I ever worked on that show again. Strange. Maybe it was a blessing in disguise.
It's basically a paid audition and a huge scam here in LA in my opinion. I've never seen anyone get booked from these 'workshops'.
When I did those "workshops," I booked several things, but these days, I have lots of actor friends who still do them and get nothing.
@jilldaltonnyc7545 yeah, it's a pure money grab. Also you don't have to have any sort of training to attend, you just pay your money and do your audition and that's it. Most of the time the casting directors are not even paying attention. They just want to collect their money and line their pockets.
@@independentfilmandhealing In NYC, they make you audition for the workshops to ensure you're a real actor. At least it was like that before covid, but I'm not sure it's the same now.
@@jilldaltonnyc7545 it was NEVER like that here in LA. My impression is that you have to be a genuine actor with training in NY for any sort of workshop, audition, etc. Here in LA, you literally can just arrive and call yourself an 'actor' with absolutely no training, and as long as you pay, you can do all the paid auditions ('workshops') you want. It's a complete scam. I made several short independent films and I also went through the audition process just to see what actors go through and it's all about money and nothing to do with talent. They collect your money, keep your hopes up so you can keep paying them, and you never get anywhere. They just prey on people's hopes and dreams. Over the last few years, the latest thing is if you're up for a part, they base it on how many social media followers you have so you can promote for them for free if you get a small role. Glad I'm not an actor. Do you still go out on auditions? What's it like?
Yes, I was called by a contractor/director, near the end of my days in NYC, to join in the Bronx Arts Ensemble. I told him I would do whatever he needed me for, whenever, and make it great. A few days later, he called and canceled. I asked why, there was a heavy silence that rang a bell. "Did someone in the group say they would refuse to play if I was there." Again, silence. And I dared say, "And is that person so important that you have to acquiesce to their pressure, YOU, the director?? He apologized, and I knew who it was, someone who was blackballing me whenever she had the chance.
Oh, dear, you were blackballed. That's awful but it happens and we have no control over it.
Love your stories!!! Wow you got my total attention. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for your life’s lessons. Blessings
Thank you so much, Artie. I'm so glad you like my stories, and I appreciate you being here.
The sound doesn't seem garbled to me.
Good. Thanks.
I thought workshops are illegal?
Paying to audition for casting directors, etc. is illegal, but if it's labeled a "workshop," then it's considered you're taking an acting class. Or something like that.
I was so Happy for you!!! Then Damnit! Hahahaha! You are a great story teller!!
Thanks so much for your support and for enjoying my stories.
Keep putting these out! Love your wacky sense of humour!
Thanks. I think it was Richard Pryor who said Tragedy plus timing = humor. I've always used humor to survive.
Tell us about Law and Order
Have mercy!
Right!
I've been enjoying your videos. We seem to have arrived in NYC around the same time with the same dream and have had similar experiences. My ears perked up when I heard you mention the Actor's Information Project. I was a member for about a year in the mid-80's. A little later I took a "workshop" at the office of a commercial casting director. She said to us that commercials were the way to make money while we pursued our artistic careers. To my delight, by the end of the course I signed with a commercial agent and was being sent around everywhere. Casting directors were delighted to meet me they said. "Where have you been?" one of them said to me with a straight face. I quickly booked a few national and regional spots. I thought I was set. Then all of a sudden the phone stopped ringing. Suddenly all the interest and buzz from my agent and the casting directors died down. I wasn't new anymore and thus less interesting to them I suppose. I booked a couple more spots over the next year or so but the casting directors didn't seem so delighted to see me now. Then my agent suddenly dropped me. I couldn't figure out what I had done or not done. I got jobs, I made a decent amount of money, but I just wasn't useful to them anymore. And that promise of making money from commercials to pursue my artistic dreams never really came true for me. I spent all my time pursuing commercials and less time auditioning for theatre and film. Once I stopped looking to be the next Mr. Whipple or Josephine the Plumber, I began getting parts in regional theatre, Off Broadway and eventually Broadway. It was an interesting time though and I have lots of stories to tell from the experience. That's why I love watching your videos. Keep 'em comin'!
I've heard from friends, but I don't know firsthand that that's the deal with commercials. They love you. They book you. This could last 1-10 years, and then you're done. What's the joke? Get me Al Pachino. Get me a young Al Pachino. Who's Al Pachino? Such a crazy business. It's just a game, really. Not to be taken too seriously. I'm glad you found other employment in the theatre. Thanks for being here and enjoying my stories.
Your channel is a blessing, an awesome gift, so helpful (and appreciated!), to those like me seeking connection and community, a rare commodity I feel these days ... in these times.
Elizabeth, I'm so glad you feel that way. One of my intentions when starting this channel was to create a sense of community, so this makes me very happy. Thanks for being here.
This was a sad story. I was really rooting for you! Yes, I did have a 'this is my moment' moment. I am a visual artist and after years of showing in small galleries and doing art fairs I sent images to a gallery that was hosting a themed show and had sent out a notification. I had answered calls like this many times so I knew the ropes. AND this was LA and not a small gallery! They contacted me. I was in. I was so excited...until another artist already at the gallery threatened to sue me because my work looked similar to theirs. Long story much abbreviated I lost the opportunity to send/exhibit work.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. Life can be so unfair and disappointing. One of the reasons I tell my stories is to work through and make light of all the insanity. Like Richard Pryor said, Tragedy plus timing = humor.
Thanks Jill. You are a character. Hope all is well with Magpie. 🍀
Thank you. Magpie, bless her heart, is hanging in. I'm not sure for how much longer, but she's got such a strong little spirit. I am blessed to have her. Thanks for asking.
Oh, Jill-- How I remember!! Tried for Guiding Light-- Oh, well. The same day I went to a job for a wait person on Lex, I think, and the line was LONGER for the waitron position than I had seen at Guiding Light that morning!!! I didn't get either!!!
This is such a crazy business. It's a wonder any of us survive with our sanity intact. Thanks for being here.
I love your storytelling. I used to work film crews, so most of my friends are actors. I've been passing the links to your stories to them, and they're loving them! They find them relatable!
Thank you so much for doing that. I so appreciate it. I'm pretty new to UA-cam and appreciate any help I can get. So glad you enjoy my stories.
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Thank you for watching, John.
Jill. I know nothing of the acting world but you make it so interesting and fun! I also have this vicarious curiosity with the fashion world. Thank you for your stories!👌
Cool. I worked in the fashion world as well. I'll be doing some of those stories here. So glad you're enjoying my videos.
Love your videos.. As someone who went to tons of auditions in the 70's early 80's and some in the early 90's, i certainty understand where you are coming from.
I'm so glad you can relate to the insanity of it all, which, at the time, seems somewhat normal. Sort of like being in an abusive relationship with a bad boyfriend and wondering if you should stay or leave, or is this love? LOL
You are so funny! I certainly had those experiences of YES! I'VE MADE IT! Oops, no I didn't. It has to be consistently "making it". That's success. Love these videos, Jill. Keep them coming!
Thanks, Sally. Like Emmerson said, Life is a journey, not a destination. I'm going to use that in my next video.
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One actor to another , am very glad to have discovered your channel. ❤
Thank you so much. I'm glad you found my channel too.
Your camel on set story literally cured my election anxiety. For a minute or two at least. Keep posting, your stories are speaking for more of us than you know.@jilldaltonnyc7545
@@almamattersr3735 Thank you. I'm so glad my stories are resonating. And glad the camel was able to help.
The Guy who was so awful and couldn't Improv with you was me! However, I want to let you know about my audition for The Devil Wears Prada. The director told me to walk up to Meryl Streep and Improvise with her as my character. I got the job! We shot the scene about 30 times and each Impro Ms. Streep changed our conversation. I kept up with her each time and I didn't miss a beat. She acknowledged me afterward which I really value to this day. I do remember our Improv and you're right- it was really bad. - Ambassador Franklin.
Well, I tip my hat to you. If you held your own with Meryl for 30 different senecios that is saying something. I'm glad you booked the job. Sorry if I offended you. My apologies.
⭐️💟😄 Ross Reports & PC's😄💟⭐️ Those were the days❣️Wonderful, Jilll🤗💚🐱
Yeah, remember those back in the day.
You are a great example of emotional intelligence. When you lost the six year gig on the TV show for obvious idiotic and illegal reasons, you didn't become bitter or resentful, you let it go and expressed your gratitude to the producers. Your positivity opened up a better opportunity! I cant act myself out of a wet paper bag, but I learn from your videos. 🌹👍
Thanks, Jake. I really appreciate that. I learned many lessons the hard way but at least I learned. I'm glad you find my videos useful.
@jilldaltonnyc7545 Hey, I was wondering if we could get your take on the differences between actors from the UK vs the United States or any experiences you may have had. Just a goofy thought. 👍
@@JakeLeMonde That's a good question. I've had several people ask me things. I need to make a video to answer questions. Thanks for asking.
@@JakeLeMonde, I have a folder with questions, and I'm putting your question in it. I'm hoping to make a video to answer questions one day soon.
I really enjoy listening to you your daily life as an actress😮😊❤
Thanks, Cary. I'm so glad you're here.
I was "on file" with FBI Agency, thanks to a friend, but nothing came of it. When I did finally film a national commercial, they were not interested.
Show biz. When I booked my first Law & Order part my commercial agent recommended me to their legit department and they weren't interested. Who knows what the reason are.
This sharing leaves me speechless of how draining acting can be..... 😿👌
Acting is a hard job. I heard a Broadway musical guy saying actors shouldn't work on Broadway after 30 because it too dang hard. It take physical and emotional stamina.
I am catching up with your story...... always a pleasure to listen to you.... 🤩
Thanks so much. I appreciate you being here.
That was a touching story thank you. I think my favorite is Dr. Strangelove.
I'm so glad you enjoyed the story. And you're right, Dr. Strangelove is amazing. Thanks for being here.
@@jilldaltonnyc7545 thank you
Ha! You always make me laugh with these anecdotes. Also you made me remember about the time when I spent one night working as an extra for a Hong-Kong low-budget movie that was shooting in my city. A friend who was doing jobs as an extra at the time summoned me and another friend (none of us actors) to participate; it was easy and well-paid, he said (I live in South America and this was being done guerrilla-style so we didn't need a union card). The night began at 1 AM and I noticed the extras were all men, some twenty people. The guy managing us announced bluntly: "OK, from now on you're all gay, OK?" We knew for our friend this wasn't porn so we nodded, a bit ashamed. They were shooting street scenes of gay hustling (is that the term?) with one of the lead actors, called "Tony". Basically, he walked us by and we had to look at him on passing, "enticingly" (something we did not have a clue how to do, I guess some of the other extras did 😉). The friend who took us there was made to fondle some other guy (more shame for him!). I was worried about bumping into someone I knew right there, as it was a real street and a place well known for its gay-parading at night 😅 Finally, after some hours doing this (mostly waiting, as you explain so well in your clips), they paid us in cash and we left with the sun rising and a sigh of relief. Well, guess what... turned out "Tony the actor" was Tony Leung. The cinematographer was Christopher Doyle. And the movie director was Wong Kar-Wai! This was the mid-Nineties and we didn't have a clue who they were yet. The movie is called Happy Together and is excellent!!! Happily, all that was left of that night's scenes was a half-second shot of my friend fondling the other extra guy, haha. I was relieved I wouldn't be spotted by anyone "cruising" in a gay spot, and at the same time sad that I wasn't in the film, if that makes sense. Hope this wasn't too long to read! Thanks to you Jill (and exec producer) for bringing up that memory.
Non union extra work is always a crap shoot. I did non union extra work once on a film and vowed never to do that again! If that was a union shoot that fondling business would be two principal actors who agreed to do that or they would have asked the extras if they'd do it for more money. I'm glad you didn't get outed in the scene. I was once asked to work on a union. shoot as a street walker in the Times Square area. I said no. The casting person kept trying to convince me to do it. Exasperated he yelled, well wear a wig! I said, sorry, no.
@@jilldaltonnyc7545 Thank you Jill for your insight on the biz., you really get the whole picture. For me it was only a weird anecdote and a quick buck. Never had any actor ambitions, but I'm quite the film buff and wanted to sneak around a film shoot. Certainly standards were kept low on this one.
Great energy and hilarious! Kind of reminds me of the train scene in the first remake of A Star is Born. Judy dares to show her face and all hell breaks lose.
I forgot about that. LOL. I should have stuck my head out.
I'm too introverted to even aspire to have a big moment. However, my mother lost the opportunity to be a fill-in hair model on TV in the 1950's. The phone company, where my mother worked, would arrange little outings for the female employees: give them tickets to plays, arrange a visit to a professional skin care/makeup artist etc. As a result, she came in contact with a hair stylist who was on TV. My mother had a gorgeous, thick head of hair (that I , unfortunately, didn't inherit), so she was asked to fill in when the hair model the stylist always used became ill. My mother had ambivalent feelings about this opportunity. On one hand, she was full of excitement over the prospect of being on TV - who knows, perhaps she might be "discovered" - but on the other hand, she was as nervous as could be. Did she really want to do this? Could she do this? Well, when it came down to the wire, the decision was taken out of her hands - at the last minute, the hair model made a sudden recovery. Hmm... I wonder if she was afraid that her temporary replacement (my mother) might be a hit and take over for her permanently? Who knows? At any rate, my mother ended up being one very disappointed lady. :o(.
Yes, I think the original hair model had second thoughts and decided she better do the job . Everyone is expendable in show business and there's always someone waiting in the wings to replace you. I guess it wasn't meant to be for your mom.
The way you tell the story is hysterical! I went to see an independent film that I was in - but I wasn't in it. My boyfriend at the time said, "well, the good news and the bad news are the same - You were NOT in that film!"
It happens so often, but when it happens to you, it's so disappointing.