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Hell yes.... this is right on the dot. Many times before, I've found myself with a weird feeling of emptiness after accomplishing something. It is really annoying when I am the first one to invalidate that feeling "if everything is going great I shouldn't feel like that". Now I get it. Te is a great function, but it is not there to make you or anyone else feel good. It is kind of ironic that this is the main thing I criticize about Te doms..... go figure.

Thank you so much for this video <3 I am actually ENFP, 100% hahaha

I was wondering why a non ENFP puts so much energy on knowing and dissecating every fiber of ours when 1:45 answered 😂

ENTP - My biggest problem is nihilisme

Yes I struggle with anything I dont have interest in , I wud rather be dead then go through life working in a factory

Procedural memory is the hardest for me

I have an unbelievable good memory , about long term and anything I’m interred in but I forget short term stuff. I don’t forget It just slipped my mind , and procedures I don’t remember that well

nah that's cuz you are an infj

Me too since I don’t track or persistent with my choice, just what feel right or I mean if you went to the sea or island there are always together so why choose one just go to the beach and walk to the mountain and come back to buy something in the park. Yep

I mean I just realize if I don’t have self control and everything I would be so annoying 😮

I don’t know it just like my existence hurt me sometimes, so I try to waste other people’s life along the way😂

Easy cute & shiny, bring me into a new world I am amazed by people who are passionate & learned. I want someone I can listen and learn from , someone who lives & loves their life:) And Sooooo true about letting me have my other friends:) I want a partner, not a puppy:) (I already have a great dog But I want a full partner:) And Yes! Let me be free spirited, I can not b caged. Gentle persuasion/suggestions/convos Yes, cage me/clip my wings: Nope

hahaha i wanted to go to the moon but i chose the wrong subject, assuming when i was 15 they'd need geologists. when i applied for an astronaut position they wanted medical people. what was amazing is that the person who got the job, roberta bondar, was teaching at the same college as i was. i had even got a phd in astonomy and physics and emigrated to north america. no regrets i had a blast and always enjoy being a maverick generalist, being ahead of my time, and could NEVER have fit into the military!

As an ENFP, my commitment issues magically vanish when I truly like someone. I can't even begin to form a thought of cheating on my boyfriend, I love him more than anything and even thinking of hurting him goes against my moral code and makes me upset. So if you get in a relationship with an ENFP, what I'd say you have to accept is that we love a lot of people and we generally love the world (except for when we feel something is unfair) and we have so much love to give, which means we are capable of loving and caring for you the most, even if you feel we love too many things or people for it to be normal. I've had this kind of conversation before with my partner (he's INFJ). He said he only has one love, and that it's me, while I tried explaining to him that I love him most out of all the people I love. He still doesn't understand the concept of loving my friends and him at the same time, he called it weird. And I'm still trying to understand the way he thinks, but until then, I'll give him as much reassurance as he needs, even if he doesn't ask for reassurance when he needs it (I have to read his mind or nag him with questions for him to tell me what's on his mind). Jfjsjdjdidnsjyrhrjejd I love him so much.

I just took an online test (not affiliated with meyrs briggs) to see if i were a p or a j. They assesed me as an ESFJ. wow! If im an ESFJ then i must be a super powerful ESFJ because of my deep intuition. This video really helped de- clutter my brain. Thank you erik thor!

Oh, we are quite capable of being "badasses" in fact, we excel at it. The dichotomy is, we don't WANT to be "that person" An ENFP in "Rage mode" will tear you down so fast your head is spinning, be that physically or mentally. We do not tolerate bullshit, yet we bullshit ourselves (to others), constantly. The difference? We bullshit to help, not harm, nor ask for anything (ok, a hug sometimes) It's the joy and curse of Extroverted feeling, we simply want everyone to feel good, because feeling good is our natural state.

People on the internet seem to not love being ENFP, they all seem to be convinced they're INFJ hahahaha. Just cos you have social anxiety and/or trauma that makes your social battery short, does not make you not an ENFP

If you read Jung id agree that Ne is sociopathy

Im an enfp with BPD, 😂😂.

i speak 4-5 languages and i study in linguistics!

Why many of us are polymaths😂😅

Definitely had strong tendencies of the last one in my early 20s. Formed ideals about how people should be and judged those who didn't uphold it. This resolved after accepting the bad parts / hypocrisy of myself and being okay with not living through ideals. Being okay just doing what I feel like. I stopped judging myself, and in turn stopped judging others. Mostly at least.

How do you know these things???

Gods it’s my thoughts aloud… Gods? GodS? Oh jeeze you were so relatable, my enfp d&d character was who responded 😂😂

I am the enfp. Struggling with the fact I don’t feel very listened to by my intp partner. Wondering why I feel that way when, if I ask them what I said, they’re able to perfectly recite my statements. Feeling like I might be going crazy and I don’t know what to do about it. Thought maybe you’d list something I needed that I hadn’t realized I didn’t have. But I don’t think it’s something my partner isn’t giving me, I think is my own inability to make friends. I’m so scared that I’ll annoy everyone I interact with like I annoy my family, and I’m paranoid about humans because my mother is a paranoid person and she mother gothel’d the heck out of me. So I have no friends. I’m trying to make my partner into the one person that can give me everything I need. But the truth is, no one person can be that. I need to make more friends…

True! 😊😅❤❤

I’ve been diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 9 and I have been taking the MTBI quiz yearly since I was 12. Every single time I’ve gotten ENFP

I watched the first 8 seconds of the video and I don’t know why but I couldn’t help but smile you look so happy and cute I’m an ESFP btw 😂

That speaks to me. I have had wide variety of obsessions about different generalistic topics, mostly psychological and humanistic, ever since I was 13. Including MBTI now 😅

"Study hard what interests you the most in the most undisciplined, irreverent and original manner possible." ~Richard Feynman

Quite helpful! ENFP Ne: Expanding ideas, combining ideas, difficulty narrowing things down (which are the BEST ideas), don't always need to DO what they imagine ENFJ Ni: Narrowing down ideas, especially based on a desired outcome; predicting outcomes and pre-running scenarios to see how "people react" (hypothetical); anticipating the BEST way to do something. I'm ENFJ 😘🤗

I'm kind of right in the middle.

These questions upset me 😂

Thank you for giving a varied look at how an ENFP can take different paths!

I don't like the term devils advocate because it implies what you're arguing for is wrong. Furthermore and upon further reading into the Bible, the Lord either allowed, didn't stop or directly ordered evil barbaric acts which is something you'd expect of a devil but it was God. Removes the meaning from devil and evil after reading those passages if it doesn't diminish what God is.

When I realized im enough as is and my intentions are pure enough, I largely dropped Te for things unrelated to helping me with my Ne and feel so much freer.

Sadly didnt play out like this when I was a kid, but once I found my people things got a lot better

My crush's MBTI was ENFJ and now ENFP

This is lovely, helpful, supportive, and true ♥

This was a lovely take Eric. Personally what I have found to go well is pairing with ISTJ's and INTJs. They tend to like the way we think and they don't find our energy to be excessive. I have found that INFJs and I tend to be amazing friends but not quite romantically compatible because what tends to happen is we mutually become each other's therapists😅😂

Perfectly described ♏

ENFPs are the most manipulative types and also selfish,they are very good at thought manipulation

I feel so seen! Exactly so - we appreciate you just as you are. We are pragmatists AND optimists. Our free-flowing interest in new people and ideas generates many helpful files in the brain cabinet. We love implementation strategies and will help you manifest your dreams. We won't commit if there is incompatibility, but we'll still be a good friend. Thank you for this helpful unpacking of the type 🤗 Signed, an AuDHD ENFP grant writer living her best life ✨✨✨

I have a problem because I am ENFP, probably, but it is not easy for me to work like Te. I study management to learn more and practice on business but ... it is difficult for me to go to people, work in a team and organize work for others. I don' t feel comfortable with Te. I can' t understand myself and I am do tired, maybe I am not ENFP.

Make a video on ENFP cruelty

Cool video! And as an ENFP I'd say it's quite accurate 👏

I couldn't it explain better. Thank you! I stuggle eveyday with the emptyness while I reach much goals and people like me and be populair. It just sux and feel drained a lot. Also the feeling of accomplicing nothing while others do with my help.

Your videos are great, Erik. This one I found very comforting! So many ideas and projects started -- and so much guilt. Thank you for all the effort you've used to help us creative, off-on-the-next-adventure sorts 😊

This was very helpful. Thank you.

You are Awesome i have follow you some time, yours Vidios brings me hope when I'm down, Iam a enfp I love infp loyalty I love estj humor Istj is my girlfriend she is awesome on soo meny level, infj is inspire both side we just click, and we can talk forever and it's fun, Entp is interesting becouse the are crazy on a way I understand, but offen my fi can't handle the action, and entp just do it, Xsfj is just nice, and cute on the own way but have enfp energy. Enfp is interesting. Thanks for your video's Erick you work is awesome 😊🌈🤠🎩