Accepting Love
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How can I know what I really want?
July3, 2024 Excerpt from free Wednesday Satsangs (www.acceptinglove.com/events ).
Hi and welcome to my channel.
After a lifetime of immense suffering and nearly three decades of all kinds of physical, psychological and spiritual work, something came to an end. All the countless openings, shifts and tastes of wellbeing, emptiness and presence would not compare. There was an indescribable change, a tectonic shift that was exquisitely profound but simultaneously subtle, the recognition of which was immediate and instantaneous, out of time and simultaneously took months and years to begin to articulate…
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Відео

How deeply can you be “in the flow” with life?
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July3, 2024 Excerpt from free Wednesday Satsangs (www.acceptinglove.com/events ). This was shared with Julians’ permission. Hi and welcome to my channel. After a lifetime of immense suffering and nearly three decades of all kinds of physical, psychological and spiritual work, something came to an end. All the countless openings, shifts and tastes of wellbeing, emptiness and presence would not c...
Meditation: Sinking into Presence
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Jun26, 2023 Excerpt from free Wednesday Satsangs (www.acceptinglove.com/events ). Hi and welcome to my channel. After a lifetime of immense suffering and nearly three decades of all kinds of physical, psychological and spiritual work, something came to an end. All the countless openings, shifts and tastes of wellbeing, emptiness and presence would not compare. There was an indescribable change,...
Breath-work and the difference between feelings, emotions and sensations
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June26, 2024 Excerpt from free Wednesday Satsangs (www.acceptinglove.com/events ). Hi and welcome to my channel. After a lifetime of immense suffering and nearly three decades of all kinds of physical, psychological and spiritual work, something came to an end. All the countless openings, shifts and tastes of wellbeing, emptiness and presence would not compare. There was an indescribable change...
The process of recognizing thought as thought
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June26, 2024 Excerpt from free Wednesday Satsangs (www.acceptinglove.com/events ). Hi and welcome to my channel. After a lifetime of immense suffering and nearly three decades of all kinds of physical, psychological and spiritual work, something came to an end. All the countless openings, shifts and tastes of wellbeing, emptiness and presence would not compare. There was an indescribable change...
Meditation: The doorway to what we truly want
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Dec27, 2023 Excerpt from free Wednesday Satsangs (www.acceptinglove.com/events ). Hi and welcome to my channel. After a lifetime of immense suffering and nearly three decades of all kinds of physical, psychological and spiritual work, something came to an end. All the countless openings, shifts and tastes of wellbeing, emptiness and presence would not compare. There was an indescribable change,...
Meditation (guided with music): What is it that knows everything in experience?
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April 24, 2024 Excerpt from free Wednesday Satsangs (www.acceptinglove.com/events ). Hi and welcome to my channel. After a lifetime of immense suffering and nearly three decades of all kinds of physical, psychological and spiritual work, something came to an end. All the countless openings, shifts and tastes of wellbeing, emptiness and presence would not compare. There was an indescribable chan...
Meditation: Recognizing that which is already Still
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Dec20, 2023 Excerpt from free Wednesday Satsangs (www.acceptinglove.com/events ). Hi and welcome to my channel. After a lifetime of immense suffering and nearly three decades of all kinds of physical, psychological and spiritual work, something came to an end. All the countless openings, shifts and tastes of wellbeing, emptiness and presence would not compare. There was an indescribable change,...
Thoughts are not the problem but the false knowing of what I am
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June12, 2024 Excerpt from free Wednesday Satsangs (www.acceptinglove.com/events ). Hi and welcome to my channel. After a lifetime of immense suffering and nearly three decades of all kinds of physical, psychological and spiritual work, something came to an end. All the countless openings, shifts and tastes of wellbeing, emptiness and presence would not compare. There was an indescribable change...
The discovery of wellbeing
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June12, 2024 Excerpt from free Wednesday Satsangs (www.acceptinglove.com/events ). Hi and welcome to my channel. After a lifetime of immense suffering and nearly three decades of all kinds of physical, psychological and spiritual work, something came to an end. All the countless openings, shifts and tastes of wellbeing, emptiness and presence would not compare. There was an indescribable change...
Choosing what IS
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April 24, 2024 Excerpt from free Wednesday Satsangs (www.acceptinglove.com/events ). Hi and welcome to my channel. After a lifetime of immense suffering and nearly three decades of all kinds of physical, psychological and spiritual work, something came to an end. All the countless openings, shifts and tastes of wellbeing, emptiness and presence would not compare. There was an indescribable chan...
Is wellbeing a more natural state of being?
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June12, 2024 Excerpt from free Wednesday Satsangs (www.acceptinglove.com/events ). This video was shared with Julian's permission. Hi and welcome to my channel. After a lifetime of immense suffering and nearly three decades of all kinds of physical, psychological and spiritual work, something came to an end. All the countless openings, shifts and tastes of wellbeing, emptiness and presence woul...
Am I a victim of identification with a limited self?
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May 29, 2024 Excerpt from free Wednesday Satsangs (www.acceptinglove.com/events ). Conversation about the longing for awaking vs Intelectual curiosity. This video was shared with Julian’s consent. Hi and welcome to my channel. After a lifetime of immense suffering and nearly three decades of all kinds of physical, psychological and spiritual work, something came to an end. All the countless ope...
Meditation: The Love of what IS
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May29, 2024 Excerpt from free Wednesday Satsangs (www.acceptinglove.com/events ). Hi and welcome to my channel. After a lifetime of immense suffering and nearly three decades of all kinds of physical, psychological and spiritual work, something came to an end. All the countless openings, shifts and tastes of wellbeing, emptiness and presence would not compare. There was an indescribable change,...
What's wrong with just staring out of the window?
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May 29, 2024 Excerpt from free Wednesday Satsangs (www.acceptinglove.com/events ). Hi and welcome to my channel. After a lifetime of immense suffering and nearly three decades of all kinds of physical, psychological and spiritual work, something came to an end. All the countless openings, shifts and tastes of wellbeing, emptiness and presence would not compare. There was an indescribable change...
Following our deepest wants
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Following our deepest wants
Dealing with the pain and rage of a Breakup
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Dealing with the pain and rage of a Breakup
Meditation: The "Yes" in Everything
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Meditation: The "Yes" in Everything
Our Heart can't be harmed
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Our Heart can't be harmed
Meditation: (Guided w/ Music) The Miracle of Here/Now
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Meditation: (Guided w/ Music) The Miracle of Here/Now
Am I only a human being?
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Am I only a human being?
There are no objects
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There are no objects
How to deal with the intensity of energetic openings?
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How to deal with the intensity of energetic openings?
What if there is beauty even in my most disliked and difficult experiences and feelings?
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What if there is beauty even in my most disliked and difficult experiences and feelings?
Why can’t I be at Peace and Productive at the same time?
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Why can’t I be at Peace and Productive at the same time?
The pain of Knowing who we are
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The pain of Knowing who we are
Talk & Meditation (Guided w/ Music): The meaning of life
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Talk & Meditation (Guided w/ Music): The meaning of life
Why is Active Meditation helpful?
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Why is Active Meditation helpful?
Meditation: Our essence is always at rest
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Meditation: Our essence is always at rest
What is it that never changes?
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What is it that never changes?

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @Sofia_no_secrets
    @Sofia_no_secrets День тому

    The beauty of nonduality is that every dumbass can sound smart

  • @katehiggins9940
    @katehiggins9940 12 днів тому

    that was really clear though when you said “the Gold in the future moment is not real “! I mean, I’ve acknowledged that many many many times, but for some reason the way you said it really landed. Seeing the desire, for a better future moment, which is a thought., seeing that thought as a thought. Empty.

  • @katehiggins9940
    @katehiggins9940 12 днів тому

    yes i feel i’ve sort of but up this resistance tone to doing things now because i feel i have to hold onto the simple easy clear moments, the breath etc. it’s like the peace i’ve felt at times is soooo fulfilling, that i don’t want to do chore like things. it’s become a habit to resist i think. but yea……. the silence can’t ever go away. the last couple days have been better. more spontaneous. thanks for your videos.

  • @katehiggins9940
    @katehiggins9940 12 днів тому

    sometimes when i feel so open and expanded, and seamless, just a simple thought like oh i have to pick up my son’s school supplies can feel soooo painful because it reminds me of being a person, this person, this mother……. but yes being able to plan and have thoughts of the future can happen in the “appropriate “ way . i’ve felt this as well. ❤

  • @brianboye8025
    @brianboye8025 12 днів тому

    Very clear, thank you. I explore with you as you "explain" these dynamics.

  • @sandycarter5300
    @sandycarter5300 20 днів тому

    The unusually rapid display of feelings/thoughts/emotions seemingly embodied as a person distract & detract from the teaching.

  • @sophiafakevirus-ro8cc
    @sophiafakevirus-ro8cc 25 днів тому

    Look at all the thoughts running through her face 😂

  • @mcs351
    @mcs351 26 днів тому

    Thank you 💗

  • @CT2507
    @CT2507 Місяць тому

    Meh...nothing deep here.

  • @annieandaj
    @annieandaj Місяць тому

    The music doesn't work for me....too discordant/distracting! Like your overall channel however. I'll listen to the meditations without music🙂.

  • @BennyOcean
    @BennyOcean Місяць тому

    Nice video. Do you own a television? So rare for people to be able to sit in silence. I admire it.

    • @AcceptingLove
      @AcceptingLove Місяць тому

      I haven't for a few decades, but with the pervasiveness of screens in these times I don't think owning or not a TV makes a big difference. Not having cable service might tho. It is a practice to unplug from the addiction to mind, screens/devices are just the access point into collective mind. Very powerful and addictive, but the addiction root is at the level of the personal mind.

  • @sarahmuschel4812
    @sarahmuschel4812 Місяць тому

    Very clear. The direct sensation would belong more to the entire moment; rather than having more of a sensational or romanticized vibe to it. Probably not as interesting as the tragic or heroic story tone of this movie like character that is trapped or released and so forth. It will have a more grounded and ordinary tone to it (less dressed up). Thank you for this.

    • @AcceptingLove
      @AcceptingLove Місяць тому

      Direct sensation bypasses the character, reveals it as 100% imaginary, imagination can be practical, so there is a valid place for the character, but only possible when fully known as character vs real / essential.

    • @sarahmuschel4812
      @sarahmuschel4812 Місяць тому

      @@AcceptingLove can you expand on what you meant by ‘direct sensation reveals the character as 100% imaginary’? How would that happen? Is there a practical example you can give to illuminate this?

    • @AcceptingLove
      @AcceptingLove Місяць тому

      @@sarahmuschel4812 It is possible and accessible to have a partial realization ('seeing/knowing' of reality) where there is only perception and no 'me' story. In a sense it is 'to be as children', from that we can experientially learn that the content of 'me' is only thought, which is optional to existence. It is a partial realization because there still remains perception, in a total realization there are no perceptions, no experience, experiencer, experiencing. That cannot be described. Either happens spontaneously without a cause, but practice and training in meditation, self inquiry and good therapy greatly increases the chances, prepares the ground for the seed to spontaneously grow..

    • @sarahmuschel4812
      @sarahmuschel4812 Місяць тому

      @@AcceptingLove thanks for responding. Not sure that that was my question, but I appreciate your words. Also, I believe you are one of the very few non-duality speakers who recommends therapy and I find that to be refreshing and necessary. Too many people come into this subject carrying loads of unprocessed trauma, which makes the message of truth less likely to be accessible or received fully into the depth of their being. So that component is a big factor I feel in the awakening process amongst the other things that you mentioned. So I’m glad you talk about that.

  • @annamaria7464
    @annamaria7464 Місяць тому

    white doves out of the window

  • @pianodesu
    @pianodesu Місяць тому

    Non duality is scam, been into it for years and wasted so much time. Ask yourself question: Why so many non dual teachers come from 'first world'? And youll get answer how much hidden shadiness is in it that most people dont wanna talk about.

    • @AcceptingLove
      @AcceptingLove Місяць тому

      I don't consider myself a non-dual teacher, that said non-duality is a powerful tool/method, a thorn to pull out a thorn. But as for any tool, the one wielding the tool is more important than the tool itself, I'd rather receive surgery by a master surgeon with improper tools than surgery from a medical student with proper tools.

  • @mariusd7803
    @mariusd7803 Місяць тому

    The path to enlightenment is challenging. You'll feel much pain along the way. This is impermanent and will not last forever. After the dark night of the soul always comes the dawn light of the awakening. If you choose to take this path, there is no turning back. Keep going fellow travellers, we are all on our own journey back to our true selves and oneness with everything!

  • @M-i-k-a-e-l
    @M-i-k-a-e-l Місяць тому

    In daoist energetic anatomy we find the heart protector or the pericardium meridian. I do think there is reason to say that the heart can suffer blows which we cannot cope with as mind/body.

    • @AcceptingLove
      @AcceptingLove Місяць тому

      Yes, but we are not mind/body, that is where the heart I speak of is.

  • @fabiannystrm
    @fabiannystrm Місяць тому

    If we are neither alive nor dead, but both- if we are life- what is your take on ”life after death”? On heaven and hell?

    • @AcceptingLove
      @AcceptingLove Місяць тому

      Heaven and hell exist relatively and only within mind. Life after death: what dies dies, what doesn't die does not die, we are both and neither. I have strong evidence from personal experience to be certain that I cannot conclusively determine that the individual mind does not continue after death.

  • @romip7844
    @romip7844 2 місяці тому

    5:54 I enjoy these meditations SO MUCH… so simple and yet so moving… It would be such a great contribution to a lot of people if UA-cam would position them above many other results.. this channel is gold! 🤩

  • @thatregiskid
    @thatregiskid 2 місяці тому

    Awesome video! Time for me to go deeper in the practice

  • @8eji
    @8eji 2 місяці тому

    keep going

  • @MarinaHasselberg_cellomusic
    @MarinaHasselberg_cellomusic 2 місяці тому

    💛

  • @LisaCairnsClips
    @LisaCairnsClips 2 місяці тому

    🙏

  • @richardsnyder6413
    @richardsnyder6413 2 місяці тому

    Gratitude 🙏

  • @richardsnyder6413
    @richardsnyder6413 2 місяці тому

    Gratitude 🙏

  • @penielmubita7116
    @penielmubita7116 2 місяці тому

    You need to continue uploading. I am loving your stuff... totally helping me understand myself more!!!!

  • @romip7844
    @romip7844 2 місяці тому

    Such a powerful combination.. the meditation, the music, the background.. it “dissolved” me… THANK YOU!

  • @zakimansouri9929
    @zakimansouri9929 2 місяці тому

    Wowww thannks!!!!

  • @kevinmai2947
    @kevinmai2947 2 місяці тому

    13:52 - 19:09 - this helps me alot. I feel I am still listening to the thoughts due to fear and indecision instead of listening to the movement. Like a learned helplessness.

  • @natestott342
    @natestott342 2 місяці тому

    Nicolas I can't believe I found you. This video filled a missing link in my experience. It was like a nervous system massage. Some deep knots were loosened❤❤❤

  • @tenminutetokyo2643
    @tenminutetokyo2643 2 місяці тому

    If you’re not, then you’re doing it wrong. Inner peace comes from joy at work. If you don’t find joy in work, find other work.

    • @AcceptingLove
      @AcceptingLove Місяць тому

      Having joyful work could be helpful for some, and a lucky thing for many, but the joy, wellbeing and peace that I'm speaking of does not come from activity nor work.

  • @EinfachNurTyp
    @EinfachNurTyp 3 місяці тому

    Maybe it is just that in "meditation" trauma in your body is released, accept the feelings you have and you change

  • @AlfredPetrie
    @AlfredPetrie 3 місяці тому

    Wow, very clear, resonates a lot here. Nice to meet the expression of truth through you. Very nice!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @macaroon147
    @macaroon147 3 місяці тому

    Weird, i find it easy to be at peace and be productive at the same time. the more tricky part is being at peace when all the discomfort comes up and you're doing nothing.

    • @AcceptingLove
      @AcceptingLove 2 місяці тому

      That's great! For some people it's harder to go right, for others to go left.... we usually need to move until it's easier to move than to stop moving. Ride the energy that moves when you 'do nothing'... don't worry about being at peace, dive into all the discomfort with curiosity, what lies there might not be what it appears to be.

  • @raginald7mars408
    @raginald7mars408 3 місяці тому

    ... as a German Biologist - this is Genetic - no way to “teach or learn” that ever we are “pro Ductive” each moment of our Life always preparing for future events which require enormous Energy and Resources to deal with - to be lazy right now is saving Energy for the Future when I am thrown into a sudden event - most of the time we are in the wrong place with the wrong things vampyring all our resources to sort this out may be a life long process

    • @AcceptingLove
      @AcceptingLove 2 місяці тому

      Thank you for your comment! I'd invite you to trust that something else is possible, something that science is just starting to validate. If you're interested in a scientific perspective on this, check out the video "The Default Mode Network & End of Suffering" by Gary Weber

  • @jamil1418
    @jamil1418 3 місяці тому

    because meditation and worldly pursuits are antagonistic : ua-cam.com/video/Vlep2Ehs3BU/v-deo.html ua-cam.com/video/h0Az8CvTaU4/v-deo.html

  • @jadecrump5573
    @jadecrump5573 3 місяці тому

    i feel so lucky to have come across your video.

  • @jadecrump5573
    @jadecrump5573 3 місяці тому

    Thank you!

  • @reconzero5699
    @reconzero5699 3 місяці тому

    Wtf is this

  • @RomanianWalterWhite
    @RomanianWalterWhite 3 місяці тому

    Human.

  • @leannem268
    @leannem268 3 місяці тому

    Beautiful… the voice, the music, the birds and the words… thank you very much

  • @leannem268
    @leannem268 4 місяці тому

    Hauntingly beautiful 😻 thank you

  • @hhgg28
    @hhgg28 4 місяці тому

    Crystal clear my friends, you cannot do what already is, you cannot go to the place where you already are, just know this... and relax, whether your mind is percieving this or not. Hug.

  • @robertcarleo6846
    @robertcarleo6846 4 місяці тому

    To me what you are describing seems to be the "practice of mindfulness" as described by Buddha. Just being aware of what is happening.

  • @MatthiasSchwenk
    @MatthiasSchwenk 4 місяці тому

    Your guidance in this mediation is really helpful. But the music in the background is sort of an unusual choice. To me it is discomforting but maybe this was your intention?

    • @AcceptingLove
      @AcceptingLove 4 місяці тому

      Hi Mattias, I appreciate the feedback, ultimately all discomfort is a flavour to be savoured and music is a great environment to elicit that. On the other hand, here is another meditation with maybe a more preferable taste for you 🙏: ua-cam.com/video/ZI8mimhNSug/v-deo.html

  • @ashiquep7511
    @ashiquep7511 4 місяці тому

    such a sychronicity. it feels so great when that threat is me itself. i just had that glimpse and now i understand. thank u for confirming this.

  • @osbornvideoNondual
    @osbornvideoNondual 4 місяці тому

    🙏

  • @osbornvideoNondual
    @osbornvideoNondual 4 місяці тому

    🙏

  • @LisaCairnsClips
    @LisaCairnsClips 4 місяці тому

    🙏

  • @mutronium
    @mutronium 5 місяців тому

    very concisely stated... as direct as words can be with this kind of thing... no thing... Thanks

  • @cassidylundmusic
    @cassidylundmusic 5 місяців тому

    Dude!! I have been feeling this exact way!