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I thought I was alone in this situation, but after watching your video and reading comments I realize a lot of people are. I love my mom and brother and in the past sent money over and over. I did it out of love of course, but eventually I realized they only contacted me, not to see how I am doing, but because they will pop the question of sending more money. Now the holidays are ruined because I am no longer in contact with them. I feel guilty, but that guilt is what got me in the being used scenario in the first place. It just sucks. 😢

But look at all your beautiful HAIR! I can't even hear what you're saying, your hair is too loud 😂

This Filipino native old-sickening attitude is so common even people living in the Cities, not just in the Provinces. People who lives within poverty line and who were fed and raised up by their Milking Cow-Relatives Abroad. Haven't they've seen that the OFWs also has their own life to attend to? Because this lame attitude of Dependency is innate among them especially people with no education, poor, and who have no good moral values of what is sacrifice, hardwork, and family collaboration is all about.

There’s a lot of Filipinos are like that and when they get here they have an entitled attitude and become a Democrat. You have to really know your relatives before you support them financially!

Probably also scamming money from people on the internet.

Stop helping them. Let them work

they will suck you dry.

I have a Philippino friend that bought a house for her family back home, open a business for then, but they didn’t want to work but get the free money, and she was so frustrated about it and deciding if she needed to stop sending money and take care of herself or just keep sending to avoid problems with them

Dang , scammers in the Philippines wasting money from sweat and blood from Hardwork overseas workers

I have a cousin who scammed my mom big time kept asking money for school or hog farming, meanwhile wasnt in school didnt buy pigs, just drank and party and hes still asking

It's so sad to know that people you help doesnt show gratefulness and instead of studying they rather take it easy and go out and make fun. In the end they did not pay the money that was intended for the tuition fee and ask for additional with so much alibis😢😢🙄

Nice of you to try and match your uncles kindness, some people just won't appreciate it and maybe one day they will grow up and realize their mistake and maybe they won't but I hope you give the rest of your cousins the same chance that your uncle did assuming you have more cousins

Don’t enable moochers.

good job. mga liar hnd dapat padalhan. magbanat sila ng buto💪🏽

I have a Filipino wife who is always sending money back to the Philippines. One was just spending the money that was suppose to be for taking exam was playing video games. One got pregnant. One finish school and had a job then decided to quit her job. So far one finish schooling and have a job. There are so many stories like the one you just told. Reading the comments there are lots of other people in the same shoes. I always think to myself why do they do this.

Same here. My parents used to send money and they abused it. They ended up getting greedier, and greedier.

I stopped helping everyone because even if it was a loan, they would say “I don’t feel like you need the money so I’m not paying you back”. The fuckin audacity!! Sending you lots of positive vibes and good luck to you ♥️

oh well you just asking for a simple receipt ok who cares let them figure it out then, go on your own way and take care of yourself. i dont blame you. i was helping someone not even a family member and this person got so mean at me and i'm NOT the one to do that to, i dropped instantly and ignored then saying oh i have this and that health issue, oh well, NOW i cant believe you and bye bye go figure it out yourself. i keep my hard earned money for me and mine. good luck. you are correct the word is ungrateful so bye go figure it out one ya own. you showed your true self so not my problem.

meron ako kapatid sa US pero di kami nghingi sa kanila. self sufficent kami dito sa pinas. di kami tulad ng halos mga pinoy na porket may kamag anak abroad hingi ng hingi ng sustento. ayoko mababa ang tingin sa amin porket nandito kami sa pinas at sila nsa first world na hindi na ngayon. naghihirap na rin sila tulad natin dito sa pinas.

My daughter now is first year college in nursing course. I paid my daughters tuition fee for her first year first sem a total of Php 27500+ and Php 600 for her lab gown.

I like how other family members know this money is going to go down the toilet and they get angry for you not forking money over.

Stopped watching after she said "I gave them 30k" 🤦🏽‍♂️what you expect

When I die, my house will go to my eldest son. This is our tradition. My uncle (Godfather) got my grandfather's property. It goes back a long way in our family history. Family Tradition. Nothing to fight or argue about. My wife will get everything of value left if I die before her.

My fiance's family fully expect me to support all of them with my VA Disability Pension. So cringe to mooch off a disabled person. I went through hell to earn that money. Why can't they earn for themselves? My money is for my healthcare not to support lazy entitled people. The Debt of Gratitude is bullshit

Typical.

If they can't comply with a simple request for a receipt for tuition then you did more than enough. If they both spent it on other things, then that's their problem not yours. Sorry to sound so harsh but they knew what that money was supposed to be used for.

I'm agree...sometimes you have a limitation to help relatives

No face culture if its about money lol!

Consider paying directly to the school or through a trustworthy individual in the family.

Audacity is the word, the nerve these people have, especially Africans when asking for stuff.

Family in the Philippines will only message me about money problems. They never ask about how I’m doing. Every time i see a message, its always money, money, money, pera, pera, pera. “Oh we need money for hospital bills. We need it for this and for that.” Always sounding so urgent when its really not. Found out that one of them was using it for gambling and ended up being in debt. And was asking for more money to pay it off. But instead of paying it off, they use it for their gambling addiction. Its so mindblowing how careless they are with money. And the thing is, that’s my money I worked hard for, And yet they are the ones that are angry and all entitled about it. Never sent a single cent after that. I just blocked them. Less headache.

This happens all around the world some family members are good some are more like parasites

Many stories similar to this. I live here in the Philippines and I'm still astounded at the audacity of some people to still ask for handouts. No receipts, no money. My brother in law 'lent' his mother-in-law $2000 figuring that when she failed to pay it back, it was worth the money to prevent her from EVER asking again. It worked.

It’s definitely a problem. We live in the Philippines and see it first hand. We’ve also been burned. There is definitely a lack of appreciation now days.

Wait until you have to work psychiatric.

I know a guy, not me, who was supporting a woman's entire family, in the Philippines. All while the woman was with another guy, and having that guy's children. Which means his money also went to the other man.

Family can be the worst people on earth

unfortunately, this story has been told millions of times🥲 it's a recurring story in my family too. it's a shame because a day's worth of wages here in the US can go a *very* long way for people philippines, but not everybody appreciates it. i think the best way to suss out people's financial integrity is to look into that person's values when it comes to effort/work.. does this person work hard or harder than the people around them or does this person do just enough to get by.. does this person look outward or inward for solutions to problems they may face.. etc etc

Maan I had gave a random person 5k next she asked for 10k her dad arm got hurt I'm like what... then right after she's asking another 5k her son got hurt and I'm like WTFREAK of all people.... daang

There are greedy people everywhere, I find. I try to be kind but I wouldn’t put up with this behavior either. Nursing is SO HARD! I had excellent nurses when I was in chemo treatment. I wouldn’t be alive but for them doing their jobs. They were so busy! I’d have been mad if my nephews did this too. I think being poor will be good for them. They can either stand up on their own two feet and get jobs, or they can continue to lie in the mud and beg. Hopefully they will gain some sense.

That happened with my grandma's village. She left for the US and never went back. Many years later, the neighbors came to San Francisco to visit other family members. They had the nerve to ask for money. My auntie said if they had money for travel, they don't need money from my side of the family. We never met the people living in her village!

Those unfaithful in what is least are unfaithful in what is much.

My mom went through the same thing with family in West Africa. What made matters worse is that she was a single mother trying to pay all of their bills and hers. they didn’t appreciate her and would get mad that she wouldn’t send even more than she already was. She had to eventually cut them off to survive. Family right lol 😂

You did absolutely well, don’t worry about them, they don’t deserve it.

I did the same thing with my wife and child.... Now im free to find another wife that suit my needs

The Philippines isnt too bad, people just need to work hard and be smart. Although i do acknowledge the lack of oppurtinity because majority keep on voting for lousy and

And yet, they still expect you to send them money for Christmas and birthdays.

So many women i know stopped sending money home to their country because they were treated with rudeness, entitlement and i know two of them that send huge amounts of money over the years expecting the family to built a house for them (while also supporting the family) just to discover the male members of the family wasted it on themselves. We all have to stop this and taking care of ourselves FIRST. Stop trusting words. I believe actions now.

good for you , you've gotten smarterl ol

They weren’t ungrateful. They were scammers in training.