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Jared’s Unfortunate “Double” Date || U Up? For More || Bonus Outtake
What would you do if you were stuck on a date lasting nearly five hours at a Sacramento golf course with a horrible bathroom interlude? You won't have to imagine for long as Jared tells Jordana the story of what might be the weirdest date he’s been on in a while and it wasn’t even his own.
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U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun dating commentary, polls, and bonus content, follow @u.up.podcast on Instagram.
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Відео

Is A Bad Weekend Enough To Break Up With My Boyfriend? || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 583
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Today’s episode is full of realizations. First, Jared and Jordana help a listener who downloaded the apps before moving and unexpectedly fell in love. While helping her through a potential long-distance dilemma, J&J agree on a new dating principle they think all single people on the verge of a move should follow. Next up, an Awkward Encounter where a listener is determined to get her jeans back...
Instagram Breakups & Girl Code For Friends' Exes ft. Kaitlyn Bristowe || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 582
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This Sunday Special, Kaitlyn Bristowe (@kaitlynbristowe), host of the "Off The Vine" podcast, reunites with her friend Jared and finally meets Jordana for a U Up? crossover we've all been waiting for. Having been the Bachelorette at a pivotal point in the digital era and a year past a relationship so public it warranted a breakup announcement post, Kaitlyn reveals how boundaries with social med...
Martinis & Dating Apps: Jared's Latest Boca Trip || U Up? For More || Bonus Outtake
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Swipe carefully, ladies! That's not a catfish. Jared Freid has officially returned to the dating apps. In this bonus outtake, Jared dives into what led him to this decision during a trip to Boca. Plus, Jared responds to a match in real time and J&J discuss what kinds of prompts Jared responds to most. Let us know what tips you have for Jared and how long you think his app streak will last! U Up...
Why Aren't Men Taking My Hinge Seriously? || U Up? For More || Dating App Makeover
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J&J are reviving a beloved U Up? segment, the Dating App Makeover, for our UA-cam-exclusive U Up? For More bonus series! A listener shared her Hinge profile after moving to Dallas and not loving what matches were taking from it. She wants to express her artistic nature, but J&J are seeing where men are missing her true message as they sort through her profile to decide which pics and dating app...
Lightning Round: How To Deal With A Football Obsessed Partner || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 581
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J&J are closing out the summer with what's weighing on our minds. They discuss the significance of hometown heroes and ask the important questions like, what’s a bigger deal: getting a street named after you or having your name on your town’s Wikipedia page? Next up, they do a lightning round full of questions submitted by listeners, from how to compromise with your football-obsessed partner th...
Compromise Is For Couples || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 580
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On today’s Sunday Special, we’re revisiting a tried and true segment: the deal reveal. But before diving right in, J&J mourn the end of summer and discuss their remaining plans. Afterwards, the two hold a "Couples Court" to discuss a long debated argument between an engaged couple from early on in their relationship. Next, J&J dissect a “Deal Reveal,” where they decode texts between a confused ...
The Pros And (Mostly) Cons Of Going On A Dating Show || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 579
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Jared and Jordana are putting themselves in the shoes of listeners who are facing tough situations today. But before diving right in, they caught up with their producer Belle about her bachelorette party and wedding prep. Then, the first email is about the pros and cons of auditioning for a dating show. Next up, an Awkward Encounter from a listener who searched through her dates wallet and foun...
My BF’s Sense Of Humor Gave Me The Ick || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 578
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This Sunday Special is full of disconnects today, but before diving in, J&J take us to Plug City to talk you through where they were right before the recording. They spent the first part of their day at Albert’s Bar after the owner (a subscriber!) reached out claiming his spot was great for a first date. They took in the ambiance during a special project for the pod and ended with lunch to get ...
How Do I Talk To My SO About Grief? ft. Dr. Naomi Bernstein || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 577
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J&J are diving right in because Dr. Naomi Bernstein, Jordana’s sister and co-host of Oversharing, is in the studio to ease us into this episode. Plus, her husband Jeff tagged along, so we got both sides of their story as they take us back to dating in 2006. Afterwards, Jared sneaks in a mini session about his “hoodfishing” issue on the apps. The first email is from a listener struggling with ta...
Why Do Exes Compliment You During A Breakup? || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 576
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We’re kicking off the first Sunday Special of August with not-so-unique dating experiences. J&J play a round of “Icky or Picky?” about a seemingly flirty line that rubbed one listener the wrong way. Then, an email comes from a listener who keeps getting what he calls the “hero treatment breakup,” a breakup involving loads of compliments leaving you alone and confused. Jared and Jordana have pla...
Easy Ways To Let Your Date Know You Like Them || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 575
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Easy Ways To Let Your Date Know You Like Them || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 575
Don’t Skip This Step When You Delete Your Dating Apps || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 574
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Don’t Skip This Step When You Delete Your Dating Apps || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 574
Is It My Responsibility To Train My BF? || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 573
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Is It My Responsibility To Train My BF? || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 573
Ho Phase Appreciation & A Realistic Look @ Married Life ft. The LadyGang || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 572
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Ho Phase Appreciation & A Realistic Look @ Married Life ft. The LadyGang || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 572
Why Love Island’s Casa Amor Isn’t A Real World Risk || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 571
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Why Love Island’s Casa Amor Isn’t A Real World Risk || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 571
The Urge To Win The Breakup || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 570
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The Urge To Win The Breakup || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 570
It’s OK To Lie On Dating Apps Sometimes || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 569
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It’s OK To Lie On Dating Apps Sometimes || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 569
How To Be A Better Dating Consumer Of Men || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 568
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How To Be A Better Dating Consumer Of Men || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 568
The Economics of Dating || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 567
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The Economics of Dating || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 567
I Dated Like It Was A Job ft. Rachel Feinstein || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 566
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I Dated Like It Was A Job ft. Rachel Feinstein || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 566
Am I Being Too Emotionally Slutty For My Partner? || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 565
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Am I Being Too Emotionally Slutty For My Partner? || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 565
What Happens In Cannes Goes On The Pod || U Up? For More || Bonus Episode
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What Happens In Cannes Goes On The Pod || U Up? For More || Bonus Episode
I Had A Meet-Cute With A Man In Finance || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 564
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I Had A Meet-Cute With A Man In Finance || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 564
My Guy Friend Confessed His Feelings, So I Ghosted Him || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 563
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My Guy Friend Confessed His Feelings, So I Ghosted Him || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 563
The Fine Print Of #DatingTok Advice || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 562
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The Fine Print Of #DatingTok Advice || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 562
Coming To Terms With Your Kinda-Ship || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 561
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Coming To Terms With Your Kinda-Ship || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 561
My Mom Is In Her Divorced Era. How Can I Help Her Date? || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 560
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My Mom Is In Her Divorced Era. How Can I Help Her Date? || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 560
I Love My BF, But He Hates My Dog || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 559
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I Love My BF, But He Hates My Dog || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 559
Love, Limerence, And Cop Outs ft. Olivia O’Brien || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 558
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Love, Limerence, And Cop Outs ft. Olivia O’Brien || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 558

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @linseylinsey
    @linseylinsey 3 години тому

    I just clicked on this random episode to listen to while falling asleep and now I'm cackling in bed trying not to disturb my husband. The scale of the fucking bee is absurdly hilarious.

  • @3DelayMirror
    @3DelayMirror 7 годин тому

    Short term but healthy / not toxic

  • @bishopmcintyre
    @bishopmcintyre 8 годин тому

    I know who "John" is from 30:30 He was actually dumped lol Do not feel sorry for him He has been trying to get with the older sister for years and has a habit of going for friend's younger sisters

    • @mitchellbagnas4543
      @mitchellbagnas4543 4 години тому

      This only scratches the surface about "John" the only reason why he wanted to get with her was because his last relationship fell apart. He stings every women in his life along as bench warmers for when his other relationships fall apart. She dodged a big red flag. His choices have lead to him losing a lot of friends because of this behavior among other things.

  • @pancitoconpaltar
    @pancitoconpaltar 11 годин тому

    I feel so happy when I see these surprise bits 🥹

  • @jaredfreid
    @jaredfreid 13 годин тому

    We are now a happy thrupple!!!!

  • @NSN749
    @NSN749 16 годин тому

    I love this so much😂😂 more of these, please!

    • @karenrio7314
      @karenrio7314 11 годин тому

      Agree!! Highlights are the best

  • @SueD.-rx7jl
    @SueD.-rx7jl 17 годин тому

    Jared needs a car so he can get out of the city more.

  • @gloriagaribay8679
    @gloriagaribay8679 17 годин тому

    U gotta come to California more sir🎩🧸🎀💖 soo funny abt the kids lol

  • @dalilacalloway9701
    @dalilacalloway9701 18 годин тому

    I love these!

  • @ToFunForThis
    @ToFunForThis 23 години тому

    Stop saying “like” 😂

  • @Lizisfor
    @Lizisfor День тому

    This was a good episode. Short for J&J. Wedding guy. Dump him. So mean to her and she was nervous about what he would do

  • @arielasarah
    @arielasarah День тому

    I paused my Hinge account and deleted the app last night bc I started seeing someone a few weeks ago. But I also happen to live in Boca and now I am SO tempted to turn it back on AND PAY to see if I got a like from Jared 😂

  • @Hokieashley
    @Hokieashley День тому

    40:25 I’m sure it was gas from wherever they went to dinner

  • @Mario-em1zg
    @Mario-em1zg День тому

    16:15 im in tears! hahaha

  • @anamilosavljevic8803
    @anamilosavljevic8803 День тому

    Why is Jared reading makeup ads lmao Jordana is right there

  • @NSN749
    @NSN749 День тому

    This was a shorter episode than usual! I really like the longer ones 😅 I love hearing the convo’s and banter between the two of you! ❤

  • @motheranddaughterabroad
    @motheranddaughterabroad День тому

    we're on the way to south of france, too!! Hope Jordana has a great trip

  • @Alpenglow29
    @Alpenglow29 День тому

    Ugh ditch that guy. There’s enough, warnings there to tell you everything you need to know. The first group friend hang is always so telling. Only exception maybe being if he’s SUPER young and learning an important lesson for the first time here. But even then…

  • @elifylmaz4951
    @elifylmaz4951 День тому

    sometimes I wish jared would let Jordan speak for a second before just sliding in shouting till my ears hurt

  • @esikazemese
    @esikazemese День тому

    I haven't watched the Bachelorette so I am not biased , I actually really enjoyed this episode :D

  • @catherineritch6241
    @catherineritch6241 День тому

    Don’t date your coworkers ex. Have RESPECT

  • @dangowad5368
    @dangowad5368 День тому

    It’s the fact that demure has reached LinkedIn posts that’s officially killed it for me

    • @linseylinsey
      @linseylinsey День тому

      And people aren't using it ironically like it's intended! It's so annoying! Joke murder.

  • @jaredfreid
    @jaredfreid День тому

    This is a fun one!!

  • @ryanst.g
    @ryanst.g 2 дні тому

    pretty sure this was just an attempt to hook up with jared after his show

  • @rachel12240
    @rachel12240 2 дні тому

    Ugh I love you guys but you defending Kaitlyn was not great. “I always knew you were a bad person” doesn’t come from nowhere. She should have asked why someone would say that rather than say “if it were me I would’ve responded differently” Kaitlyn’s comment about sending the pic was also gross and unfunny. Laughing at that and calling Taysia’s reaction embarassing … mmmm let’s just say this isn’t a fav episode

  • @ryanst.g
    @ryanst.g 2 дні тому

    Jared always says there's 3 sides to the story...each persons side then the truth somewhere in the middle. If she sounds this bad telling her side of the story about dating her friends ex....i can't imagine what the truth is actually like.

  • @VictoriaRoberts-tn1vj
    @VictoriaRoberts-tn1vj 2 дні тому

    KB has always been self absorbed, but for J & J to sit there & not call her out was more annoying... if someone wrote in w/ this story they'd call them out for being in the wrong.

  • @dangowad5368
    @dangowad5368 2 дні тому

    I like to imagine that Jordana’s ‘I Dreamed A Dream’ joke prompted Jared to start singing while riffing on the original lyrics which was promptly left out of the edit

  • @ariellesteinberg9863
    @ariellesteinberg9863 3 дні тому

    Very unclassy. Very unmindful. Very… Kaitlyn.

  • @ariellesteinberg9863
    @ariellesteinberg9863 3 дні тому

    Kaitlyn was trying to make t look bad. But in the end , it made Kaitlyn look bad. So bad!!! And she’s so delulu that she doesn’t realize it.

  • @TheSimplyDone
    @TheSimplyDone 3 дні тому

    Kaitlyn is a woman who watched Tayshia painfully go through that failed engagement and even publicly asked Tayshia about it. To then go and joke about sending pornographic images to Tayshia of her being intimate with him as payback for not liking the response KB got is just sour.

    • @TheSimplyDone
      @TheSimplyDone 3 дні тому

      I don't see how it's funny to joke about sending someone who clearly doesn't like you a pornographic message of you and their ex. Like enjoy that laugh KB, should Jason's new GF do the same?

    • @TheSimplyDone
      @TheSimplyDone 3 дні тому

      Because someone shares a private opinion about you, you hit them back with a gross, vindictive response? "Oh you think I'm not a good person, let me prove it to you by sending you a picture of me being intimate with your ex." Like huh? Is that funny? If someone joked about that publicly, with context would you think that's funny if you were Tayshia?

    • @esikazemese
      @esikazemese День тому

      @@TheSimplyDone You know she didn't send any pictures, that was just a joke right?

    • @TheSimplyDone
      @TheSimplyDone День тому

      ​@@esikazemese You do know sending unsolicited pornographic images to someone is sexual harassment, and joking about sexual harassment is gross to me. HR would not approve.

    • @esikazemese
      @esikazemese День тому

      @@TheSimplyDone HR LOL, this is not a corporate environment or podcast dear :D

  • @arelymendoza2853
    @arelymendoza2853 3 дні тому

    Love Kaitlyn's honesty. She is free to date whomever she likes. All the hate she receives is so necessary. Taysia gave mean girl vibes.

  • @mariad4330
    @mariad4330 3 дні тому

    KB 4E <3

  • @lindsaywilliams1311
    @lindsaywilliams1311 3 дні тому

    Yes KB 👏🔥😂 absolutely hilarious as always! Love how she lets the jokes fly like she’s having wine with her girlfriends!

  • @Phishfood-fg7sv
    @Phishfood-fg7sv 3 дні тому

    this woman might be the farthest from anyone I'd ever date (physically, her voice, her attitude, her low key self aggrandizing) I'm not trying to just trash her, am I crazy for thinking this?

  • @Loveturmoiltoolkit
    @Loveturmoiltoolkit 3 дні тому

    Dude talks wayyyy too much. Let her finish her sentences please.

  • @2CMY
    @2CMY 3 дні тому

    Kaitlyn is such a narcissist that uses humor to do "not so passive" digs at her exes. She is very competitive even in a relationship per her comments on other interviews. She keeps doing interviews that spill (a little) tea so she stays relevant. Her negativity is showing and hopefully she can move forward & continue personal growth to find true happiness.

  •  3 дні тому

    She doesn’t seem to have grown or matured at all.

  • @ilsegonzalez811
    @ilsegonzalez811 3 дні тому

    Kaitlyn purposely thinks how she can exploit others around her for views and thinks it’s cute. She’s loosing SO many followers

  • @adreeanna_5885
    @adreeanna_5885 3 дні тому

    No, not following her and I’m glad she’s losing followers. This confirms my thoughts about her as well. 😤 Nasty.

  • @jenanjeha
    @jenanjeha 3 дні тому

    People forget Kaitlyn and Tayshia literally hosted bachelorette together. Kaitlyn is honestly the worst for talking about her and for dating her ex. All around everything Tayshia said is true.

  • @hiimbellalynn
    @hiimbellalynn 3 дні тому

    I feel like you should want your exes to do well. If you spent time with that person you obviously saw something in them, why not wish them well? I don’t understand this negative outlook and promoting that to others, especially young people who may be watching. Just seems irresponsible.

  • @skittlesrus001
    @skittlesrus001 3 дні тому

    She literally comforted Tayshia during this breakup.. and is now with him what a weird person 😭

  • @skittlesrus001
    @skittlesrus001 3 дні тому

    Wtf? The hosts telling her it should all fall on the guy? LMAO WHAT???? very nasty people. as if they were not friends. in fact the betrayal would be way worse if a friend did that than an EX

  • @cbk69
    @cbk69 4 дні тому

    Great episode as always guys; ty ❤❤ Jared would you ever go on the NYC based UpDating podcast show with Brandon and Harrison? If you have seen it what do you and Jordana think about it?

  • @deeneufeld4507
    @deeneufeld4507 4 дні тому

    The way she shades Jason so very subtley in regards to social media and displaying his relationship with Kat...

    • @rebe94
      @rebe94 3 дні тому

      she doesn’t.. she’s always said she doesn’t want to have her next relationship all over social media before jason was even dating kat

    • @adreeanna_5885
      @adreeanna_5885 3 дні тому

      @@rebe94Well that’s her. He is free to share his new relationship as he wishes. She is free to not share hers. But she has no right to disparage him for doing anything publicly with Kat.

  • @76cjones
    @76cjones 4 дні тому

    She talks about keeping things private but then does the complete opposite??

  • @eeg122
    @eeg122 4 дні тому

    I'm shocked this girl that Kaitlyn gave a heads up on dating her ex gave. YIKES! Tells us more about the girl. Kaitlyn is hilarious at wanting to send her a pic...ROFL! I truly wish happiness for Kaitlyn & the new guy she's dating. I ship them.

  • @user-ei9ud1yo4b
    @user-ei9ud1yo4b 4 дні тому

    “There are people that you see that you go …I see it” -- me everytime I watch Jared’s videos 😂🤷‍♀️🤌

  • @ColieBear17
    @ColieBear17 4 дні тому

    I know lots of people think KB overshares and you know what? she totally does! *and* I think that it makes her very entertaining and likable. She FED us this episode.