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Thank you, needed this as a gay Asian with extremely homophobic family

I've come out to my parent that I am a homosexual when I am about 14-15 years old and the result is totally opposite to my expectation. Both are healthcare workers and I thought that it would be easy for them to accept my sexual orientation but turn out it is just a whole disaster to them. I remember that there was a lot of argument between me and them, I have to explain that "It is not a disease, it is a normal thing and I am being who I am, nobody manipulate me to being like that and homosexual people is not toxic like how people run the rumors about them" It was a tough time because it is still hard for them to accept their daughter is a homosexual, they thought that I am following some trend come from the Western or I am trying to be cool or some reasons that impacted me and make me being a homosexual. But lucky me that they still managed everything well, I mean, they are still not accept that I am a homosexual but we are still live in peace, no discrimination in the house as long as I am not mention about it. I am focus on working and learning and being a kind person. The key is "No matter your sexual orientation, you still have to be a person with good characteristics. Being a homosexual does not mean you are something in the elite class or something supreme in the world. It does not mean that you have the right to misbehave to other people because I am different from most of all. It also does not mean people have to put you on top and consider that you are the saviour for the world and heterosexual is disgusting. We are respect each other sexual orientation. Homosexual is homosexual, it has no other meaning or stereotype like homosexual people is sicked and toxic or supreme people. We are just human being, like other people"

Based off your eyes and smile, I thought you were maybe the brother of this guy I used to date. When he told me that his brother came out as trans but, as a gay man, couldn’t get the pronouns straight, I knew I (as a non-binary person) had to cut and run from that relationship. Sometimes I wonder about his brother and if he’s doing well. Seeing you come up on my feed and hearing your message gives me hope for him. I’m glad you’re doing well! Life is fluid. Keep moving forward

change is beautiful :)

This was exactly what I needed rn, thanks man. I’m currently at that stage where you start passing consistently (like haven’t been misgendered in a few months by strangers) so you are just slammed with the male expectations and toxicity. Loved the reminder to just be you (I was also a weird fucking kid pre transition lmao)

Change is beautiful :)

Thank you for making this video. I have been wondering if I was truly depressed or if it was just the environment. I live in a controlling Catholic family and I feel like I’m just in limbo before I can go off to college. My parents wonder why I don’t want to leave my room but it’s obvious (to me) how I’m not comfortable around the family. I recently spent some time in a family’s home that was much more accepting and relaxing for me and realized it actually is my family that makes me feel stifled. I also spend much of my time on the internet because the person I am is not welcome in the real world. You’re a very wise man for someone your age. Great video.

Change is beautiful and so are you!

Change is beautiful. Thank you for this very reassuring video. I feel like even the drs who give us our T don’t tell us it actually takes years to get to where we want to be! Especially when you start at age 35 and just want to finally be you already haha. But 18 months on T now and I think I’m finally seeing enough change that I can believe I will get there. All the trans mascs & enbies in the comments - we got this 💙

Love this video thank you! Im a younger trans man, been about a year and a half on T and I love how you talk about all this <3 thanks

I’m not able to start T yet but this is still really great information! 😄

i can't wait to go on testosterone so my voice will be deep enough to sound like yours when i sing :)

Take your time indeed. I'm with you, transmascs need to band together the way our sisters have figured it out. I mean, I'm old enough to be a trans dad, but nowhere near financially capable. Lol

4 years

Younger Transmasc black guy here!! You're SO awesome I just wanna let you know. Watched this whole thing with one hell of a smile on my face that I might make it. Thank you for existing dude

i loved this so much! thank you for sharing. #TakeYourTime <3

take ur time! <3

walking on the beach and yapping at a camera is such a real thing to do also i’m terrified of starting T because i don’t know if i wanna make it 5 years, i don’t know if i want to be full man and im scared. im scared mannnnn 😅 i already have such bad mental health shit what am i gonna do i don’t know how to be loving to myself anymore…im scaaarrreeedddddd aaaaaaaaaa

Dude i want ur talent, your covers are so good! :)

This is my new favourite cover of this song, holy cow!!

Thank u,sending love from Turkey!

Change is Beautiful

change is beautiful

GODDAMN U SO FINE

change is beautiful

This is my first time watching a video of yours and just want to say you got an INSTANT subscribe. Your energy, the way you communicate so freely, everything about this is great! Looking forward to watching more of your work! Change is beautiful <3

Change is Beautiful 💯💯💯🌊🎀☁️🎀🌊 Remember, life is what you make it. It’s your life and you decide if it’s gunna be sunshine or rain.

change is beautiful~

i'm transfem (just entering highschool !), and really like your videos despite not being transmasc. you're incredibly funny and to some degree even if you're the opposite trans-ness of me, it's really inspiring to see how well you pass. also shoutout to that nonbinary grandma she sounds cool lol

Take your time!!!

this is really lovely

Change is beautiful. <3

Flnd

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dude ive been thinking about going on t but im 4'11 and idk if i have the confidence to exist as a visibly 4'11 guy

it's amazinggg

From a stud-muffin , take your time!

Thank you sexy black man.

3:38 currently in the trans voice stage. it’s very embarrassing and i can’t wait for it to pass 😭😭😭

The fact that this video exists is messed up. I live in an anti-LGBTQIA house and I am leaving next week cos I cannot take the negativity any longer. Wish me luck. Maybe I can find a nice liberal family to live in.

When someone doesn’t accept you, it isn’t just something we “disagree about” , it’s all encompassing. I find there’s really nothing to talk about. The things I wanna share that bring me joy are upsetting to ppl who don’t accept me. When they ask how work is, I would wanna talk about how my new work partner is super cool & accepting with me and really good about always using my correct name. It seems small but means a lot to me. But my correct name upsets my mom, and she won’t use it. So I just say “it’s going good.” I leave feeling drained, lonely, and ready to weep. So I don’t come around. Time is precious and I have hope that one day it can get better, but it’s not gonna be from me pretending not to be who I am around those who wish to be close with me. That’s just not possible.

Hey! Trans-androgynous fella here! I start T in January! I’m excited! And I’m glad your vid popped up, change is indeed beautiful! And ahhhh! Idk I’m just excited!

Change is beautiful. On the grand scheme of things I am technically at the beginning of my transition (cause pre-te and all). But I still think I've went really far since the first time I realised (with my own kid's mind and words) I wasnt a "cis girl". I just look up to the ones that did the journey and are on the journey, and take their advice. I applaud them and cherish them. And trully thanks for this video. Learned a lot about it. I already knew to a degree that it was personal and changed from people to people, and took time. But everytime learning from another Trans person their experience just reminds you, and makes you understand and mostly accept it better. Thanks for everything and the great personality.

Did you grow a beard just on t or did u use something like minoxidil?

Change is beautiful Im starting low dose t as soon as insurance approves it. Trying to ground

I luv ur voice ✨you’re amazing

The really depressing thing I’ve experienced is that even other trans people can change up on you after you transition. All of a sudden, people start talking behind your back in a way they didn’t before. All of a sudden, your weird quirks become “issues”. All of a sudden, whether it comes to your physical appearance or your character, you’re held to a standard that you never were before. And the worst part is the way they get enraged if you dare to draw attention to or even just notice this.

I would have loved (and hated 💀) to hear all of this advice for my younger self - because I was so impatient, socially anxious, and devastated for a quick fix to be patient or take my time. But learning how to slow down and find ways to self-express / plan a way out in an environment that isn't meant for you is so crucial. It took me a little over ten years to find my way out of my situation and to learn all of this, and I'm just starting my process now - nervously excited! Seeing this makes that inner kid in me tear up a bit. Thanks for sharing yourself and helping others.

amazing!!!

Change is beautiful:)