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I totally understood when u said u find it hard to be yourself i can relate a hundred percent..buh I realized i didn't come to this world to impress anyone any one who wants to stay can stay and anyone who wants to leave can leave..so just be u..there are ppl out there who will definitely like u for who u are

I totally understood when u said u find it hard to be yourself i can relate a hundred percent..buh I realized i didn't come to this world to impress anyone any one who wants to stay can stay and anyone who wants to leave can leave..so just be u..there are ppl out there who will definitely like u for who u are

I totally understand u when u said u find it really hard to be yourself i can relate a hundred percent... buh i realised that i didn't come to this world to impress anyone so i jus have to be myself anyone who wants to leave can leave and anyone who wants to stay can stay

This is so exciting!!! I can't wait until I can go to pride it seems like so much fun

oh my godddd i LOVE the hair 😭❤❤❤❤ love from Canada ❤

The energy is so captivating girl, definitely wish I would have got the chance to experience pride this year but there’s always next year 😂. I love watching fellow queer UA-camrs because the representation is needed !

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I used to flap my hands when I was a kid, which I think is stimming, and my parents would get mad and tell me to stop because it was weird 😞

I can’t stand crushed velvet!! Same with sherpa. I have to put on gloves to wash my dishes 😭

I'm so happy for you! I always love seeing these "My Late Diagnosis Autism and/or ADHD Experience" stories. Especially because so often it is a relief, even a celebration, because going through life feeling broken and constantly wondering if you are just a "bad" person is soul crushing. Thank you for sharing your experience so that others might gain insight as well. Remember that accommodating yourself isn't selfish, you don't have to suffer through things that "aren't a big deal" according to allistics. You deserve to be comfortable and authentic. Always.

That sound that your hair beads are making when they hit together. I could listen to that shit all day. 😳 ANYWAY love the video. Congrats on the Tism. 😅

LOVE this vid!! queer frida rep AF!! your delivery is informative and hilarious!! your takes on art are conveyed so wonderfully and your perspective feels so genuine and internally driven. cannot wait to see this channel grow!

Now this is the kind of content I want recommended to me! UA-cam did something right this time. Great vid!

Man this video is so amazing... You completely made my night after working all day. You explained it beautifully and so so well. So confident. This was my first intro to frida, I hope more students learn about this art and the way she expresses her pain

Whattt im actually shocked this video has so little views. It was amazing, id love to see more like it!!

i love love looooved this thank you so much, i cant wait for more of these aaaaaa <3

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Cool, Timari!

this is so good. love hearing about a bisexual icon🫶🏾

Lovedddd this vid!!

I really appreciated this video, you don’t even know how much I relate to

It's cool to see someone talk about the color thing. I've had the same theory for many years.

I love your name and keep going great video ❤

Wow your amazing i cant cornrow at all like wow your talented

AwesomeThank you for sharing

I related to a lot of symptoms you have 😅

Okay okay, officially subscribing around the 6 minute marker. LMAO Um, yes, to all that!

The one I also get is, "when are you going to grow up?" *Side eye*

OMGOSH you seriously had me cracking up getting ready for the park. So relatable.

Great video. New subbie!

13:50 I've heard about this argument but I think it's just silly. I know i should be nicer but I don't think its reasonable at all 😔. Pretty much every condition or "disorder" comes on a spectrum so I'm not sure why people are so upset. Was it disrespectful for people who died of COVID if my condition was also COVID but i survived? Was it minimising the struggles of people with stage 4 cancer to call stage 1 cancer cancer? Is it unfair to call myself clinically depressed if I'm not also self harming and suicidal? I know those examples aren't exactly the same but I don't really see why it upsets people so much. Like it says that your diagnosis is a level one. Like if someone who is nonverbal has autism with high support needs, why would I decide not to support them because "they have autism and I know a guy who has autism and can speak." Like yes people make those shitty arguments but honestly they would have been shitty anyway. There's nothing hard to understand that "there's more than one type of autism and therefore support needs vary." If someone is using the existence of people with low needs to make life harder for those with more severe forms of it then that person was a dick to begin with. I just don't see the argument holding water. People who say this arent seriously worried about their struggles not being taken seriously in my opinion (usually its carers making the argument too). What people really dislike, even if they can't admit it, is the idea that the conditions are "the same" because on some level they resent people with low needs being placed in the same category. Like it's stolen "trauma" or something just because they're using the same label for their condition. That's what they're really upset about. It's an understandable emotional reaction, but I don't think it's based in what's best for autistic people, but moreso on people's feels about who the "real victims" are.

Welll done for actually going to check it out and not getting offended. I was diagnosed with ADHD last year. I read up on it and found out it's highly heritable. I then looked around at my family and realised it's an epidemic. Strong signs of it all throughout my paternal family. Dad has it, and my brother has it too probably. What pisses me off though is that when i told my brother and asked him to do a questionnaire he blatantly lied on it. One of the questions asks you if you ever talk too much in social situations. He put never. He could talk for England! Every time i introduce him to someone they tell me " wow, he's really enthusiastic. He talks sooo much." I realised he was just lying to himself because he doesn't want to admit he has a "problem." He's been living at home since he was 21 and he's now 33. He has lots of social issues with friends, lots of job problems. He's always trying to do a million things at once. He's nearly textbook ADHD. But he refuses to see it. And what upsets me is that he's so unhappy. He can't figure out why he's having so many issues in life. Why his career isn't taking off. Why he has issues in his personal relationships. If he understood he had ADHD he'd be able to address the root cause. But he refuses to even consider it. It's sad and frustrating. Anyway, thanks for the video. This discussion is so important.

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Jumping is my favorite stim, I love vestibular movement. Singing/vocalizing is my favorite vocal stim. (I have Tourette's syndrome so stimming helps with tics and calming myself down). I also love certain textures/pressures for grounding. :) 5:37 (I hope you dont mind me comparing our experiences) I was dismissed a lot too and told to stop doing certain things (motor and vocal tics when they were developing for me) and I was even convinced by others that what I was doing was purposeful and since I didnt stop when people told me to that *must then mean* I am annoying, rude, disrespectful, etc. which is now a huge fear of mine I've had to work to get over, people pleasing and being afraid of making people upset with my presence. No one should minimize your presence.

4:34 I'm literally biting the inside of my lip like that as you said it, what a coincidence 😂 (Also hello, this video was recommended to me and I've subscribed to hopefully remember to watch more videos. You seem nice /gen)

Also I related to this HEAVILY!! I’m Black too and I’ve had a hard time with certain people taking me seriously when I say I’m autistic (and adhd). Funny enough I feel like people take my adhd for seriously than my autism for some reason idk.

Can you talk about what to look for when trying to find an autism specialist? I don’t see many videos talking about it and I’d like to seek a diagnosis, but I don’t really know what to look for to figure out whether they are more inclusive or not!!

Good luck in finals

Hilarious!! 😂

Omg😂 1:56

Gurlll you look cute!!

the part where you said being with creative people raises your creativity!!!! Honestly tho i just find someone who’s even interested in my interests like asking me what i drew today or something like that would probably make me draw a lot more throughout the week. But yea thats was so real of you.(btw yes you do look cute lol)

As soon as you said “heightened” I knew you watched the vampire diaries😭

Very insightful perspective. #relationshipwithGodvsreligion. 🙏🏾💕

thankkyouu for posting this content is really needed ! sending peace &love 🤍

New here. Supporting smaller channels like myself. New sub

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