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So good, thank you both ❤

My mom actually told me a story about when she was a teenager, where a man basically kidnapped her after school and took her to this abandoned building. When my mom suspected what was going to happen, she said she started flirting with the guy, talking about how much of a good boyfriend he's going to be and what a great man he is etc. He ended up thinking she really liked him like that and let her go, hoping for a future date. Crazy.

This is so great and helpful 🎉

The videos you showed aren't even that bad! People say so much vile shit about her you'd think she murdered someone... I truly don't understand it. It shouldn't matter how much she complains about random stuff or chooses not to promote politicians when she is so creative and talented, it's what made her popular in the first place. We say we want iconic artists that dgaf like back in the day, but we aren't ready for them. The new generation is almost more conservative than the millenials and baby boomers, we can be so sensitive and this is why our celebrities are so bland. You always see callbacks and homages to fashion looks, new versions of old hits and remakes of successful shows. Originality is not as accepted as it once were, the culture is different and they have to play it safe.

She supports Trisha Paytas... So no... Trisha Paytas exploits her children to the fetish community. ( On to of the REST of her horrible trolling...)

last night i was watching tik toks from the past couple days about people's opinions about chappell roan and i'm so glad your video found me, i was thinking this stuff the whole time and you put it into words. it's wild how this enmeshed mentality towards celebrities is so common!! it's standard in the entertainment industry but in the big picture of humanity it's not normal! thank you for posting this

Why does someone sharing their reality, no matter at what stage of success they're at, upset people. Like how can you expect her to be grateful solely because she's getting attention, when she is right there telling you the attention she's getting is actually toxic? It would be wise to listen and reflect on how celebrity culture/worship actually affects everyone. Someone choosing to participate in the "fan" dynamic has a responsibility to honor the humanity of the artist they claim to support. Do all artists, specifically pop stars, need to follow the Britney Spears arc to earn respect? The public will discard one pop star after another until they get the one that is docile and non-confrontational so they can then project all their insecurities onto. We've seen it before. It's quite sick and demented.

thanks for posting, despite being over 50 years old, i do listen to your postings and find them interesting

i can relate, i had some of the best experiences in community meets where i could be a sneaky little extroverted introvert hahah , there was a whole group but i barely spoke and it allowed me to embody this softness and quite gentleness in connection. A little harder 1 on 1 with someone where i feel compelled to speak.

I'm really liking this channel. What is Somatic?

That's actually great advice.

Wow perfect timing, feels good to self validate

i really love your youtube channel..Thank you so much for what u are doing is so life changing <3

See, this is a real thing, but to hear it come from a woman just makes it sound like horse shit

how did you not know that girl

lmaooooo meeee😭👏🏼

Very helpful thanks

thank you ❤

This makes so much sense with fawning. Wish we could choose. I’m 100% freeze. Gets me nowhere.

me when i don't take my schizo pills

Cringe

Yo i had a dog named daisy

*gets angry* *fabricates dog names daisy*

This is great! Can you recommend any reading on this for practitioners (especially the part about avoiding disembodied anger practices)?

Awweeeee what a cutieeeeee 🤣😍😍😍😍

If you’re obsessed with a child that’s weird asf. Get a hobby

fear god 💩💩

True religion is God pleasing not people pleasing

ICONIC. this is so true and ps u are so stunning!!!!

SO REAL GIRL ive gone through the same thing! So hard to heal but definitely worth it to love yourself and not just others!

You’re literally trying to hypnotize us with those ice cubes girl 😂

I stop breathing and find it very hard to breath after. I have to keep reminding myself to breath in and out properly otherwise I end up light headed

i umfortunately *have* to fawn in my current situation. i do a mix of freeze and fawn to mitigate harm from him :[

Now I understand “FAWNING” better 🙏

Wat is your OF

Nice posting , thanks 🙏🙏 This is the first time I hear about “fawning” 🤔. Think should be ok, English is not my native language anyways..

Been pleasing people all my life, some I regret but some I truly don’t. For example, sometimes i have chosen to please vulnerable people to give them some peace and comfort…. Not much harm caused to myself.. Anyways, love your postings, whenever possible, keep them coming🙏👍

I think this is the content that people need. I definitely live in a similar mindset at the moment so seeing this brings me ease knowing I'm not the only one and also what you've learned from your experience. Thank you!

I think Ur Cute sis 🔥

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Excellent podcast! I learned so much! And I loved how, the entire time, you made it clear Abi was the one *being bullied,* not the other way around (that is especially true and needs to be highlighted)! 💯💯💯 And thank you so much for asking my questions! 🙂🙂🙂 PS: The Parvati question (which I had to limit in characters so some context was cut out, sorry 😅), I was moreso asking how Parvati (in her original season, Cook Islands) came off as a "hero" at that time for saying those things about Penner (which weren't in any way standing up to bullying and were bullying behavior themselves), and only got termed a "villain" after her second season (Micronesia) when - as you mentioned - she created an all-woman's alliance and voted out all the strong male players! To be clear, I don't think Parvati or her alliance members are "still bullies" - in that I *distinctly* remember Nate, Candice, Parvati, and Adam being *very* embarrassed and apologetic about how they treated Jonathan in their Survivor Live interviews back in 2006 (with Nate and Candice specifically emphasizing Jonathan was a "good friend"). Yes, in the end, I believe, like Abi, Parvati is a *hero* who was unfairly villainized for the *wrong* reasons. The goal here is call out *the perception* of certain actions by *audiences.* But yes, ironically, I believe Abi answered it in other parts of the podcast. Ultimately, in the name-calling example (where it wasn't just her - others also participated in the name-calling and bullying, including Adam and Nate, i.e., two men), it wasn't seen as "standing up to the patriarchy," or "Parvati is showing she's a strong woman." But when she created the all-woman's alliance, *that* is how it was seen and portrayed, similarly to when Abi stood up for herself against bullying! I do indeed believe that *that* is how one *actual* example of bullying was deemed "heroic," while examples of women showing how strong they are (by creating an all-woman's alliance, or standing up to gaslighting, or both)! But I say that as a guy, I've never experienced it as a woman like you, Parvati, and Abi, so if any of you disagree, I defer to your opinion on that matter. 🙂 But yes, fantastic podcast! Thank you!

Hey Kali. Thanks for video. Great work. Please keep it going 🙌🏼

This is so real lmao

Thank you so much for your workshops, Kali I feel like your content is helping me a lot, especially with my ppl pleasing tendencies ❤

Thank you for the workshop

I am a massage student and graduate next month. You ladies are so inspiring and I love this! I’ve followed Sage for a while and I learn sooo much from her.

Very helpful thank you

Thank you. Thank you so so much. ❤

This episode is revolutionary & mind blowing... I think entire careers could be built on this reframing through the lens of addiction to endogenous opioids. Wild!

Does it really works 🤔

Uuuh this should be good!!