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Riley Conder
Приєднався 10 тра 2015
Did you grow up with all the odds stacked against you? I'll help you Break The Cycle: of your family, society, and your own mind. Create a life of freedom and abundance without all the bullshit!
My family put the “fun” in dysfunctional... Breaking the cycle is more than a movement; it’s my mission.
People used to ask, "What happened to you?" I was a kid fucked up by abuse, addiction, and anger. Now they ask because I’ve beaten the odds.
My family fell apart when my brother died from heroin when I was 16. Finding mentors and self-improvement, I transformed my life, earning my first $100,000 in sales at 19 and reaching $1,000,000 by 25. I got buff, started my own business, and seemed to leave the chaos behind.
In 2022, my life fell apart, and the past caught up to me. Surface-level success wasn't enough.
Self improvement, psychology, healing trauma, and spiritual wisdom saved my life.
External success means nothing without internal work.
Does this resonate? Welcome to the tribe.
My family put the “fun” in dysfunctional... Breaking the cycle is more than a movement; it’s my mission.
People used to ask, "What happened to you?" I was a kid fucked up by abuse, addiction, and anger. Now they ask because I’ve beaten the odds.
My family fell apart when my brother died from heroin when I was 16. Finding mentors and self-improvement, I transformed my life, earning my first $100,000 in sales at 19 and reaching $1,000,000 by 25. I got buff, started my own business, and seemed to leave the chaos behind.
In 2022, my life fell apart, and the past caught up to me. Surface-level success wasn't enough.
Self improvement, psychology, healing trauma, and spiritual wisdom saved my life.
External success means nothing without internal work.
Does this resonate? Welcome to the tribe.
The mistake everyone makes (you’re doing it wrong)
In this video I discuss how to overcome comparison, improve your self talk, and actually self improve. Most people forget that self improvement is a personal journey, here is a little of what I have learned on mine.
COME TO ONE OF MY RETREATS
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HIGHLIGHTS FROM THIS VIDEO
00:00 - My self improvement journey
01:05 - What you want
02:00 - Self improvement, comparison, and growth
07:30 - The paradox of comparison
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✍️ Notion (my command center for business, productivity, and notes) -
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COME TO ONE OF MY RETREATS
Our next retreat is coming up soon! innerchild.rileyconder.com/home
LETS CONNECT
Newsletter | Join 650+ weekly readers for tips, strategies, and resources to boost your income, create your dream lifestyle, and become your highest self. rileyconderllc.ck.page/profile
SOCIAL MEDIA
Instagram | therileyconder
Tik Tok | www.tiktok.com/@therileyconder
LinkedIn | www.linkedin.com/in/therileyconder/
Twitter | therileyconder
HIGHLIGHTS FROM THIS VIDEO
00:00 - My self improvement journey
01:05 - What you want
02:00 - Self improvement, comparison, and growth
07:30 - The paradox of comparison
RECOMMENDED TOOLS
✍️ Notion (my command center for business, productivity, and notes) -
affiliate.notion.so/rileyconder
🏆 Notion Templates to help you get organized, get productive, and get better daily. -
therileyconder.gumroad.com
💰 AI Budget & Financial Tool (Copilot) - Use my referral code 7U7F7Q to get 2 months free copilot.money/link/g7SVoeWZNCSNoKNh7
Heads up: Some of the links in this description are affiliate links I get a small kickback from - I truly use anything I recommend on a daily basis, and want to share anything helpful with my tribe! 🤝
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Please stop giving a f*ck (here's why)
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Do you ever feel like you care too much? Holding yourself back because you give too many fucks? Here is what happens when you stop doing that. LETS CONNECT Newsletter | Join 650 weekly readers for tips, strategies, and resources to boost your income, create your dream lifestyle, and become your highest self. rileyconderllc.ck.page/profile SOCIAL MEDIA Instagram | therileyconder T...
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In this video I talk about the definition of success, and why external or material things don't make you "successful". MY COMMUNITIES For those that want to manifest a life and career of abundance: www.skool.com/breakthecycle For real estate agents wanting to make $10-20k/month consistently: www.skool.com/the6figuresoloagent LETS CONNECT Newsletter | Join 650 weekly readers for tips, strategies...
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ONE Universal law for PERMANENT changes in your life
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Appreciate you making this 💪 I had that “people are mirrors” realisation a couple weeks ago, and it’s changed the way I look at and interact with people. I used to be so focused on trying to control the things outside myself, like the behaviours of others and their perception of me, rather than focusing on what I actually can control, which is my perceptions, intentions and actions. Still figuring out how to put that in practice and be aware of in interactions on a regular basis, but once you realise that what other people do (for the most part) has nothing to do with you, that pressure kind of lifts off your shoulders.
You have a beautiful voice
ORRRRE MAYBE YOU NEED TO MIND YO OWN BUSINESS AND LET ME HATE MYSELF
Thank you I needed this today!
Love my mess
You're right! Like a man facing the sun the shadow Is always following. Don't chase the blessing let the blessing follow you. Ps. 23:6 KJV
@@reyganbanaga2321 beautifully said 🙏
I wish we were friends
@@matthewwilliams1187 let’s be friends!
@@therileyconder I thought you would never answer 😔 and awesome. It's nice to meet you.
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The paul brothers' long lost 3rd sibling.
Why exactly does there need to be an intention? You can't just take it without any?
You can do whatever you want to however I don't think it is a good idea. Psychedelics are no joke, and I like to say "will abuse you, if you abuse them". You can definitely go into it with the intention of wanting to have an interesting or enlightening experience - I personally just don't recommend doing them just to do them / escape because they have repercussions.
sup
Right on, Riley
Hell yeah
I really needed this
not trying to hate or anything, but you your content does not reach millions of people please pin another source if it does in another platform to correct me if I'm wrong. much support from morocco!
thats part of his visualization ;)
@@roven7730 you got it haha! only a matter of time, more consistent content on the way
@roven7730 nailed it, but I appreciate your willingness to comment!
Proof of u earn million dollar?😅
stay tuned for a video I'll post soon breaking down my real estate career with screenshots of my earnings since I started
As a guy building up after a big accident & surgery, it was rather serendipitous being suggested this video, especially as I'm trying to visualise getting myself back to my former lean, competitive state. Thank you for the video.
With visualization you got it in the bag my friend. Wishing you a speedy recover & comeback
@@therileyconder thank you mate, all the best to you too!
This is awesome man- super articulate. This practice is also central to tantric yoga techniques, which are fundamental to spiritual evolution and have been practiced since the the dawn of humanity (though usually to overcome worldly struggles and desires). Use wisely!
Thank you my friend! Also - yes, use wisely. The same tool can be used to create your deepest desires, or destroy you with your deepest fears!
Yes, ruts are challenging. Feeling sad, lost, and lonely. Hoping that someone understands and will pull me through but find out that i have to do this so that i can become stronger. Just see the light, do the steps to get it out then do things daily to feel better. Lastly, never hurt yourself. Just Love yourself. Ask for help to. ☮️🙏
you got this my friend! can't get tough without being tested.
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appreciate your support my friend
Probably a dick comment but it’s true. If ending your relationship was the hardest thing you’ve ever done. Your bar for hard things is quite low.
Hahah I appreciate the comment - brother I've been through some hairy Shit like losing my brother. However when you are with someone since age 14 - and go that deep (engagement etc) it's brutal. Subjective, but brutal.
@@therileyconder Ok, the end of a 14 year relationship would definitely change the vision of your life. But I think the loss of my older brother would be worse. Like you said, subjective.
This content is rich with insight. Thank you for sharing brother.
appreciate your support man! thank you!!
I always struggle with this when working even though I KNOW done is better than perfect, it's a constant struggle
Haha I relate! I feel like this was what I needed to break that pattern.
Notion is fantastic!!🔥
My favorite tool by far!!
You just read out everything I told myself after I got dumped a month ago. Thank you
Glad this helped you my friend! Get excited because life is about to get way better!
My best friend killed himself a year ago. And i guess it changed me. Had trouble dealing whit it and became distant and moody. And becaus of that my partner left me. Now im trying to deal whit the loss of him and her at the same time. Thanks for any advice
Sometimes hard things come in pairs, I can imagine that is tough as hell to deal with. I've learned that things happen for a reason, and it may not make any sense now but one day it will. If your partner left you during that time, it's probably for the best because you don't want someone who isn't there for you during dark times. Sorry to hear about your friend, do what you can to honor her in how you show up moving forwards - much love.
I feel lucky that i incorporate 2 of the 3, without putting in much thought. Journaling however, has been the area I always let myself down in. Constantly wishing I had been journaling, wondering what thoughts I’ve had, that could potentially help me out when I need motivation, or simply having some memories written in my own words. I’ll commit to journaling/meditating. Thanks for the insightful video Riley!
Appreciate the self reflection my friend. Journaling is the single best habit I have for overall quality of life, and it definitely is great to document all of your experiences. Looking forward to hearing how that, and meditation help you!
Thank you 😊
I got dumped about a month ago, and even though it’s not my first rodeo, it hurt so much. I thought I had really found the “one”, but complex trauma can be a bitch and it just happens that (at least now, it used to be worst) it gets triggered when I’m in a vulnerable state and fully committed to someone. I have come to terms with my part of it, wish this beautiful person the best, and know it was part of the journey. Now, I am better prepared to tackle my deficiencies. Long story short, thanks for the video, was very helpful…Stay strong everyone, onwards and upwards
I feel you my friend. In relationship is when we have a giant mirror exposing us to ourselves. It can be so great for growth, and also very challenging to cope with along the way. Give it time, learn from it, and keep your head up!
How do you learn to forgive someone?
Realize that forgiving them isn't about them. It's about letting yourself off the hook from the resentment you are feeling, so you can find peace. It's like that one analogy around holding a grudge being like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die - it only hurts you. Find the lesson from the experience and person, gratitude for the growth, and then clarity on how to honor yourself moving forward with how you show up & how you choose to engage with the other person.
Thank you...that makes a lot of sense! I've always been a person that holds grudges and won't forgive or forget. I'm trying to change that and reinvent myself to be a better version of me.
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Most underrated channel. Lot of things helped me, showed me another view how I can see my break up situation. Ty for that ❤️ even therapist cant helped me and say things like you here in 10 mins video. Big shout out to you brother. Ty
Glad it helped you out. I know how you feel my friend
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Thanks for the support, I appreciate it!
Your advice always hits home! 'So tuned to the story of other people’s lives that they aren’t paying attention to themselves' - this really resonated with me. It's a reminder I needed to hear to focus more on my own journey. Thank you for always sharing such valuable insights!
Glad this resonated with you. I was just thinking about you the other day!
Yes thank you for sharing your story, it actually helps
Glad to hear it, thanks for letting me know.
Great video! In the same thought as what’s this going to contribute to my life is return on investment, I used that when quitting alcohol and I’m using that to quit corn ( though I’m not a daily user ) now unlike alcohol, corn is free, so I equate my time to money there. Again appreciate the honesty of your video and yes triggers are very important to recognize and change.
Thanks for sharing some of your journey man! Eventually it won't even be something to tempt you because you'll outgrow it, but it can be difficult until then.
Riley: I appreciate your openness and telling your experience. I too have found that being honest and vocal with myself and others has opened a platform to talk about it safely without judgement. I commend you for sharing these moments with the world.
Thanks my brother! Appreciate the support, and am glad you found it valuable.
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Interesting Video!
Just lost an AMAZING relationship w my wife over this
hang in there brother! some lessons are learned the hard way, but always lead to growth & a better life.
I will remember you when you blow up I am suprised you only have 96 subs, you will blow up if you continue respect.
thank you! that is the plan, and I appreciate your support!
I comming from a different circumstance that I had bad father figure and since my 16's I was conciusly mentally choosing myself my own father figure that I wished to live up to. Periodically I changed him. So if I faced a new situation or I set a new goal in life I could think about, this my favourite figure what would expect me where to reach, or so. (A Kinda shortened comment)
everyone has a different experience and with that comes different challenges, thanks for sharing your experience!
I am lucky. My father died 10 years ago.
Sorry for your loss, learn what you can from who he was - and step into who you know you can be!
As an older guy this is all good advice I wish I had when I was younger. Keep it up man.
appreciate the support my friend! glad to hear it resonated!
Hey Christopher , really nice video! I was wondering if I could help you enhance Editing in your videos and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail which will help your video to reach to a wider audience .
LOVE IT bro. Great message.
somehow just seeing this! appreciate it brother!
What the hell is he talking about .. is talking about turning into an owl 🦉
Solid message, Riley! I love how’s it broken into pieces…truth about planting good flower seeds into the subconscious soil of our minds…reminds me of the Book The Greatest Salesman in the World by Og Mandingo taken and read daily in a specific pattern for 10 months…that book and method changed life for me in my early 20s by shifting overtime the subconscious programming of the mind!! 🔥 🎉❤
Thank you brother! That book is still on my list, I appreciate the reflection - gets me fired up to read it!
BIG sense 💪
Appreciate the support man, glad you enjoyed the video!
Hell yeah🔥🫡
Thanks for the support brother! 🫡