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I worked as a garbage man to pay for college
Another story of the grind from the very bottom. I've had a lot of bad blue collar jobs over the years. Easily the worst one was when i picked up trash for a summer to save money for college. Here is that story. The part i left out was that even after the summer of work, my paycheck came out to be less then 2 semester of textbooks. Hope you enjoy
Some of my favorite books that keep me motivated:
LifeHacked: amzn.to/46OaUyH
Zero to One: amzn.to/3PYLZ4P
You Owe You: amzn.to/496VLdU
about me:
My name is Jeff, I grew up in lower class as an Asian American and got bad grades my whole life. I found my path to real estate investing (2m+ in properties) and have a successful day job as a Lead Software Engineer all before 30. My goal is to share what I've learned in my 20s that helped me become who I am today. no sales, no tricks, no games. Just pure advice from someone thats seen both the bottom and the top in this modern world.
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Working a blue collar job after 5+ years of college. My worst day on the job…
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I had a lot of crazy days as a construction worker after graduating college. This one right here was easily one of the worst. However it was a great learning moment that I figured would be nice to share. Hope you enjoy the story. oh and I didn't eat chicken for a few months after this. Some of my favorite books that keep me motivated: LifeHacked: amzn.to/46OaUyH Zero to One: amzn.to/3PYLZ4P You...
At age 6 I was a waiter at a Chinese restaurant.
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Day in the life as a restaurant kid/takeaway kid was an interesting one. One of my core memories while living low income was helping my parents run a small town Chinese restaurant. Here is the story of how as a little kid, i became a waiter, dishwasher, food prep expert all with my Pokemon t-shirt. Some of my favorite books that keep me motivated: LifeHacked: amzn.to/46OaUyH Zero to One: amzn.t...
For years I battled generational low income and poverty... You're not alone
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Before coding, before working a full time job. My first journey was to find a way out of poverty and low income. here is that story. Some of my favorite books that keep me motivated: LifeHacked: amzn.to/46OaUyH Zero to One: amzn.to/3PYLZ4P You Owe You: amzn.to/496VLdU
Current State of the Entry Level Software Engineering Market | End of 2024
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It's been exactly 1 year since I made an update on this topic. Here is my take on the entry level software market. I was able to work with about 10-15 folks this year, this will be a summary from a collective of journeys. Hope this is helpful. Some of my favorite books that keep me motivated: LifeHacked: amzn.to/46OaUyH Zero to One: amzn.to/3PYLZ4P You Owe You: amzn.to/496VLdU
Risk vs Regret: Why I didn’t give up on my goals
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Staying motivated has been a topic that has been coming up a lot. Like many, I've faced many days of demotivation over the years. One of the many topics that did that was this idea of comparing yourself to stats, outcomes, and the chances of it working out for you. I spend many days alone thinking about if it was all worth it or not. Here is the realization that I came to that kept me going. So...
I landed a senior level job with no experience | What I learned
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Here is the story of how I landed a Senior Software Engineer Job without any prior experience and how things may not always be what they seem. Even more so when it comes to titles, leveling, and apply strategies. This story is a lesson on applying for jobs. Hope you enjoy. Some of my favorite books that keep me motivated: LifeHacked: amzn.to/46OaUyH Zero to One: amzn.to/3PYLZ4P You Owe You: amz...
I was a construction worker turned software engineer | how it happened
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Heres my end to end journey from bad grades, to construction worker and finally to becoming a Software engineer. I hope you stay for all of the future stories that i'm looking forward to tell. Some of my favorite books that keep me motivated: LifeHacked: amzn.to/46OaUyH Zero to One: amzn.to/3PYLZ4P You Owe You: amzn.to/496VLdU about me: My name is Jeff, I grew up in lower class as an Asian Amer...
100k on college and ending up with a 1.79 GPA… Now what?
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Life after college is not easy, what worst is when you get super bad grades. This is the story of how that happened and before I took my first job in construction. In the end, things turned out okay for me. Hope this motivates you to keep on going. Some of my favorite books that keep me motivated: LifeHacked: amzn.to/46OaUyH Zero to One: amzn.to/3PYLZ4P You Owe You: amzn.to/496VLdU about me: My...
Years of self-doubt and falling behind in life… How I found a tipping point
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My whole life I've had major self-doubt. Before this moment I don't ever recall truly being on track or ahead in any aspect of my life. Even thought i didn't land a job yet, or even finished the bootcamp in this moment. My 'fork in the road' felt like it changed for the very first time. No matter what you're trying to do, i sense that this was a moment that I've always dreamed of. I hope this s...
1 year as a construction worker and realizing I never had any skills.. How my life changed
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Don’t get me wrong I learned a ton in college, however my construction worker job I felt threw me straight into the deep end into what it means to be really good at something. I think more than anything, that jobs provided me a daily reflection on my everyday skills as there was no hiding from the high bar it took to be safe of the work site. Hope you enjoy the story. Some of my favorite books ...
For years I taught myself to code after my construction worker shifts... This is how it went
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Another early story about my journey on becoming a Software Engineer. This story begins after failing to land anything in my field after college. I started my construction job but decided that it wasn't time to give up on my goals yet. This is how I self taught my Coding/Programming as a construction guy. I hope this story can continue to help motivate you to keep going on your goals. If this b...
The nightmare job interviews you get when unemployed
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The nightmare job interviews you get when unemployed
How I landed a construction worker job with only 1 college degree
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How I landed a construction worker job with only 1 college degree
I struggled with my reading & writing skills my whole life… how a teacher saved me
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I struggled with my reading & writing skills my whole life… how a teacher saved me
100k on college and ending up a construction worker... How my life changed
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100k on college and ending up a construction worker... How my life changed
I’m The First High Earning Software Engineer from My Community Part 2 | Capability
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I’m The First High Earning Software Engineer from My Community Part 2 | Capability
One year on Youtube! Monetization, how much i've made & my analytics journey so far
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One year on UA-cam! Monetization, how much i've made & my analytics journey so far
I was scared of leetcode Interviews until I started thinking about them differently
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I was scared of leetcode Interviews until I started thinking about them differently
The Pain of Landing Your First Software Engineering Job
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The Pain of Landing Your First Software Engineering Job
If you're failing after college... I promise you're not alone
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If you're failing after college... I promise you're not alone
I’m The First High Earning Software Engineer from My Community Part 1 | Hard Mode
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I’m The First High Earning Software Engineer from My Community Part 1 | Hard Mode
I Failed My Tech Salary Negotiation - How I Lost 30K in 30 seconds
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I Failed My Tech Salary Negotiation - How I Lost 30K in 30 seconds
This Is Your Sign To JUST GET STARTED | How I Stopped Overthinking
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This Is Your Sign To JUST GET STARTED | How I Stopped Overthinking
1 Year Of Coding Projects In 15 Minutes
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1 Year Of Coding Projects In 15 Minutes
I Failed To Be A Software Engineer For 3+ Years
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I Failed To Be A Software Engineer For 3 Years
I Wasn't Meant To Be A Software Engineer
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I Wasn't Meant To Be A Software Engineer
Why It’s So Common To Pass The Interview and Still Get Rejected | Software Interviewing
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Why It’s So Common To Pass The Interview and Still Get Rejected | Software Interviewing
Job Search Strategies that Actually Makes Sense in 2023 | Software Engineer Prospective
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Job Search Strategies that Actually Makes Sense in 2023 | Software Engineer Prospective
Software Engineering Changed My Life
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Software Engineering Changed My Life

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @cliffastdieyoung
    @cliffastdieyoung День тому

    Thank you for sharing your story :)!

  • @xyzaex
    @xyzaex 2 дні тому

    no shame in that. I cleaned toilets and wiped asses.

  • @angelajohnson4666
    @angelajohnson4666 2 дні тому

    Doing labor jobs unpaid to help out but been looking into paid labor jobs to pay tuition. Good move

  • @MA-xb2yz
    @MA-xb2yz 4 дні тому

    Thank you for sharing. You’ve come a long way. I’m still in the garbage man position unfortunately.

  • @oblii5590
    @oblii5590 8 днів тому

    I feel the same regarding basic military training; helps you realize that taking a warm shower; sleeping in a nice bed or having your own room is privilege enough. Makes you appreciate life more

  • @gangstaelegantproductions2780
    @gangstaelegantproductions2780 13 днів тому

    What kind of people willingly work at slaughterhouses though???

    • @mr.g4099
      @mr.g4099 13 днів тому

      mainly sociopaths

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad 13 днів тому

      Im not sure, but think most are good people just trying to make a living. A life of circumstances. Its no dream job thats for sure. lol

  • @TheFalseShepphard
    @TheFalseShepphard 13 днів тому

    -i wish i had a job- Nevermind.

  • @kotk05
    @kotk05 17 днів тому

    Great stories, big bro!

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad 14 днів тому

      @kotk05 Thanks for taking your time to listen

  • @neilbradley9035
    @neilbradley9035 19 днів тому

    thank you for sharing your unique life experiences! it was captivting!

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad 14 днів тому

      @neilbradley9035 thank you for the response here. Im glad you enjoyed the story

  • @s3trios
    @s3trios 21 день тому

    Thanks Jeff for sharing, very motivating.

  • @JustWonderingAloud
    @JustWonderingAloud 22 дні тому

    Love this story Jeff! Thank you

  • @butt-chug
    @butt-chug 22 дні тому

    this is inspiring. feeling stuck after college and this helps a lot. thank you

  • @williambates6060
    @williambates6060 23 дні тому

    Thanks for sharing this story im currently trying to get to next level myself, seeing stories like yours and my own parents keeps me going

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad 14 днів тому

      @williambates6060 Im glad this helped. Keep on pushing, you can do it.

  • @blackandblueeagle
    @blackandblueeagle 26 днів тому

    This is so real I appreciate you sharing brotha

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad 23 дні тому

      @blackandblueeagle Im glad you enjoyed the story. thank you

  • @wasubisu2654
    @wasubisu2654 27 днів тому

    26:10 I am so jelous of dat

  • @stanleychukwu7424
    @stanleychukwu7424 27 днів тому

    i cried twice watching this video, would be nice to get your sis on the channel

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad 23 дні тому

      @stanleychukwu7424 thank you for the support. Maybe one day lol

  • @stanleychukwu7424
    @stanleychukwu7424 27 днів тому

    am happy for you jeff, GOD bless you more bro!

  • @Ant_Dawg216
    @Ant_Dawg216 27 днів тому

    This channel is special to me because we share a similar background!! Although you finished college and I didn’t I’m self taught as well working with Data!! You really give me hope and a snapshot of what my life will look like. My contract ended in Sept now I’m back on the hunt, I’m coding as I listen to this. Keep up the good work man

  • @whatsupjin
    @whatsupjin 27 днів тому

    Thanks!

  • @isaackittrell1801
    @isaackittrell1801 Місяць тому

    Finally caved and took a job as an application support analyst (customer service). I will get some experience working with SQL and there is possibility of working towards an engineer role within the company. At any rate the experience is probably much more applicable than my previous job working in a kitchen. I'm also wondering if I would be a good fit for software engineering, I'm very good at coding and understanding the underlying concepts, but I don't like to code in my free time, and I wonder if constantly having to create things in a role such as SWE will burn me out. I didn't know if that was a common thing among developers or if it was a red flag per se.

  • @miguelhernandez9199
    @miguelhernandez9199 Місяць тому

    I have had some interviews, Although I had an hr call today and they told me if companies are in a hurry to hire they will only conduct 1- 2 interviews at max because they need the help.

  • @gabrielbarrantes6946
    @gabrielbarrantes6946 Місяць тому

    The field is dead... Is not even worth the effort anymore.

    • @BennduR
      @BennduR Місяць тому

      doomer

    • @snxpple
      @snxpple Місяць тому

      The field is far from dead. However, it is more competitive. Work hard, keep practicing/learning, and play the numbers game. There is no need to be a doomer.

    • @gabrielbarrantes6946
      @gabrielbarrantes6946 Місяць тому

      @@snxpple I have been doing that... Sending tons of applications, have a degree... Grinding leetcode... 3 yoe...

    • @popmop1234
      @popmop1234 Місяць тому

      How many applications?​@@gabrielbarrantes6946

  • @VizualeyezProductns
    @VizualeyezProductns Місяць тому

    Don't give up guys. It's a numbers game. Practice practice practice.

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad Місяць тому

      Yup the best thing to do is to focus on whats in your control.

  • @qbek_san
    @qbek_san Місяць тому

    Thank you for high quality IT job market analysis. Something extremely hard to google / find on YT serach.

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad Місяць тому

      @qbek_san thanks for that and i agree.

  • @touka32able
    @touka32able Місяць тому

    Thank you, Jeff

  • @TimothyLeeGrant1
    @TimothyLeeGrant1 Місяць тому

    Are you from University of Oregon? (Your hat). I am from Oregon Stare University. After I graduated with my electrical/computer engineering degree last year, it took me FOREVER to find a software engineering job. I finally ended up getting a position as an embedded systems software engineer. So grateful!!!!!!!

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad Місяць тому

      @TimothyLeeGrant1 yes I did. Big congrats on the job! That’s big. On a side note, I’ve been putting a theory together on the video AI from UA-cam. I suspect the Oregon “O” should have been picked up by the AI. So wonder how that sways viewership.

  • @GaminYoon1
    @GaminYoon1 Місяць тому

    Thank you for sharing your knowledge about this subject. It's interesting to see how companies are reacting relative to outside factors in the economy, politics, law, etc.

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad Місяць тому

      @GaminYoon1 I agree, wild how these things change the landscape. it seems that companies are very quick as well to change positions once something happens.

  • @norsangnyandak
    @norsangnyandak Місяць тому

    Hey Jeff! I would love to get in contact with you.

  • @jimjs5672
    @jimjs5672 Місяць тому

    Really appreciate you putting this video out. Tbh im scared shïtless to start my own journey. I’m unconventional as well. I wasn’t great in college and not stem based. But here we go, thank you for the inspiration.

  • @johnjeong7933
    @johnjeong7933 Місяць тому

    Coming from the opposite spectrum as you. I went to a high school where the majority of students got into college and get a degree. I am about to finish my doctorate in pharmacy. My gpa was always in the mid 3.0 range. You would think I would have a lot of confidence but I don’t. The attendings and residents I see on rounds keeps showing me how inferior I am. It goes to show that you would rather be an underdog than having high expectations for yourself and then realizing you weren’t all that great.

  • @FilipBalakovski
    @FilipBalakovski Місяць тому

    Thanks for the transparency, uncle Jeff. Really helps with perspective on my journey.

    • @N1rOx
      @N1rOx Місяць тому

      Same here, love these videos

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad Місяць тому

      @FilipBalakovski thanks for the support. im glad this helped. Hope to continue to see how your journey progresses. also Lol to uncle Jeff

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad Місяць тому

      @N1rOx appreciate this.

  • @alieninvaders1188
    @alieninvaders1188 Місяць тому

    Whats your linkedin? Can I see your github? Where are you employed? I cant find anything on your channel. Too many fake tech engineers telling fake stories when in reality, they’re journalists writing tech articles looking for attention. Don’t believe anything you see on the internet.

  • @jaspreetsodhi
    @jaspreetsodhi Місяць тому

    Realyyy inspiring. Hope u continue to make videos

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad Місяць тому

      I appreciate the support. Hope we both continue to gain success

  • @jaspreetsodhi
    @jaspreetsodhi Місяць тому

    Really inspiring! U are a brave man!

  • @EleshChannel
    @EleshChannel Місяць тому

    If you don't work hard, they will soon find out you oversold yourself.

  • @GoodTimeDev
    @GoodTimeDev Місяць тому

    TY

  • @abdelrahmanmostafa9489
    @abdelrahmanmostafa9489 Місяць тому

    What about imposter syndrome? Make a video about what are you doing in that job and how do you handle it

  • @clublulu399
    @clublulu399 Місяць тому

    senior software engineers have to have the necessary skills to lead a team of devs. How can you review Merge Requests, participate in code reviews, or gather requirements for your team with little experience in coding and the development lifecycle. Senior devs need to be well versed in things like OO programming and have extensive knowledge with OO patterns, how else will you mentor those below you?

    • @mark-d-creator
      @mark-d-creator Місяць тому

      I am curious about his journey on these items, because this is the dream for everyone. Looking forward to the next videos

  • @kevlems
    @kevlems Місяць тому

    Thanks for sharing your experience this can help people getting in the industry. I have 2 years of experience at Microsoft and when I joined was always confused when I saw some people being ex-Senior/Principal level Engineers at a small company getting SDE 1/2 positions at Microsoft. But after working with actual senior/principal I understand why, the gap of skills is just unbelievable.

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad Місяць тому

      @kevlems thanks for sharing your experience at microsoft. This is my point exactly on this video. The following job i had after was in big tech in which i took that down level from the senior title, Like tons of others that transition from low tier companies. This up and down leveling i think is something that you should be aware of at the least and understand when apply to jobs, both early and late career.

  • @Speedstack799
    @Speedstack799 Місяць тому

    You can make a startup and give yourself Senior Staff Unicorn Flying Software Engineer with no prior experience. Titles are arbitrary (AKA literally made up) and only mean things within companies recognized within the industry as actually meaning something. A common tactic within small companies that struggle to get talent is to hyper inflate titles so they can attract talent. That's why "principal engineers" at startups get mid-level and sometimes entry level when joining a company like Google.

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad Місяць тому

      @Speedstack799 right, this is the point im trying to make here. My "Senior job" in the Retail sector here was at best a entry/mid level. The pay reflected that. My next job was in big tech and like many I had to join at a lower level and regain my leveling. Now later into my career, what im trying to explain here is how does this impact the average persons job search? Im not saying youll be a senior at google fresh out of college, maybe a mid level at a startup? maybe a higher level SWE at non tech focus corp?

  • @TomRaneyMaker
    @TomRaneyMaker Місяць тому

    Good tips! I found two software jobs (in my 20 years in this biz) by meeting people at local tech meetups. Some companies offer bounties for new hires and people are willing to sponsor qualified applicants. While most meetups frown on overt recruiting, it's just a really good way to get your foot in the door and make friends in a world of similar interests. And a super critical skill to learn is how to interview the interviewer. You're going to spend a significant amount of your life there so don't be bashful about getting to know them too. Trust your instincts.

  • @DeadCat-42
    @DeadCat-42 Місяць тому

    I have years of experience and gave up trying to get a. Engineering job. My degree is in a landfill..

  • @gabrielfono844
    @gabrielfono844 Місяць тому

    Hey I have been watching for a year now. I am also a self taught and I have built many applications. I started working on my first job 2.5 years ago at Booz Allen Hamilton as contractant. I recently applied for senior backend engineer but the new company offered me the position of mid-level backend engineer. I appreciate your videos and thanks.

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad Місяць тому

      @gabrielfono844 Thanks you for sharing and all the support. Thats some good stuff, still surprises me on how many things can happen once you apply to a job. Im glad you found success, much more to come!

    • @gabrielfono844
      @gabrielfono844 Місяць тому

      @@AdviceFromADad Thanks.

  • @urdarkside1
    @urdarkside1 Місяць тому

    Hi Jeff, Nice to finally know your name (Advice from Dad). Please there is a video I have been anticipating from you in regards to learning how to read better and learning technique as a software engineer (Improved comprehension) as someone who did not know how to read earlier on in their life. what steps and techniques did you use to fix this?

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad Місяць тому

      @urdarkside1 hope you been well. Okay ill keep that in my, i struggled with reading and comprehension as well. Being in ESL (english second language) all the way up to high school. I'll think about how to talk about this.

    • @urdarkside1
      @urdarkside1 Місяць тому

      @@AdviceFromADad Thank you for sharing your experiences, I look forward to hearing about your actionable steps :)

  • @dinorossi6611
    @dinorossi6611 Місяць тому

    Thanks for the videos. I see that you are probably in your late 30s or so ? I am 40+ and in a coding camp and IT school. I watched your video until the very end. I can relate a 100%. My story is actually very, very similar to yours. Very. Just different circumstances. The idea is not to give up on your small or big dreams ever. Keep pushing and doors will open.

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad Місяць тому

      @dinorossi6611 thank you for the support. Im in my early 30s. I appreciate you sharing your story. keep pushing

  • @dinorossi6611
    @dinorossi6611 Місяць тому

    Interesting. Did you just graduate from a bootcamp ? Self-taught ?

  • @CodingPhase
    @CodingPhase Місяць тому

    Hack reactor was the gold standard.. I applied once and didn’t get in then I tried a different route found a job as a product editor -> front end dev -> ruby dev -> php dev -> so on…

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad Місяць тому

      @CodingPhase Love your story. Yes the good old days when the outcomes were a crazy number like 99% or something. Im glad you made your way. Hope we keep growing and gaining success!

  • @N1rOx
    @N1rOx 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for sharing your story!

  • @I_Lemaire
    @I_Lemaire 2 місяці тому

    They let you pass because you are the very definition of grit. Colleges really look for good character, and your courage and persistence prove that you are a worthy graduate.

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad Місяць тому

      @I_Lemaire Thank you for that. I agree, i am thankful for also having a great counselor that was willing to see my story and push the boundaries even by a little.

  • @hmart92
    @hmart92 2 місяці тому

    Love to hear your story man! Growing up I definitely had a different point of view on you I thought you came from a rich family and I always thought you were a really smart kid. Listening to your videos makes me really happy for you!

    • @AdviceFromADad
      @AdviceFromADad Місяць тому

      Hey Horacio, good to hear from you. In respect to some of the other kids we grew up with, man its no comparison, we had some folks really in the mud. Hope you been well since those days. @hmart92