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I Hate begin introvert bc just I overthing when I have conversetion to people, but if one of my friend is with me i wil commnuicate with people freely, but this year I got class with out my friend it was the worset year ever

so fake it till you make it and step out of your comfort zone? eh

Easiest way to get clicks these days is to tell people you have the answer for them feeling weird outside their comfort zone. Which is every person on Earth, it's part of the human experience!

The hardest thing I do as an introvert is getting people to understand how I react to social encounters. People invite me to events and I accept. The day of the event my anxiety takes over and I do not attend. I will stress over missing the event. Then there’s seeing the person that invited me and trying to explain why I did not attend. Usually I lie. Not many people understand introverts. Thanks for sharing your videos. There’s a lot here that I can incorporate into my view of being the way I am.

I'm so introverted sometimes I intimidate myself. 😛 Hint: It's our default facial expressions that freak people out, especially when we're lost in thoughts. 🙂

It’s even worse when you’re a man. Your sex life suffers for it.

I think people in our lives do matter, but how we react matters more for sure. Great guide and video.

Quick story. I was once at a graduation celebration and all these old ppl kept coming up to me one by one and chatting. Everytime they asked me a question, I simply answered and left it at that. I wasn't going to ask them a question in return. Also, when they said some random bullcrap, I usually didn't respond. Crap made me feel so unintelligent, but the fact of the matter is I JUST DON'T CARE.

BIG FAX. I ALWAYS HATED SMALL TALK. CRAP FELT SO POINTLESS

Amazing. Sounds just like how I think. I'm a VIrgo, too. This perspective really helped!

Loved these tips! They are so helpful!

Thanks for being so vulnerable open and brave to admit this ..

I adore small talk, big talk. Why is it considered binary?? This is what foxes me. I don’t understand why it’s not also a thing to like adore and do both?? 🤷🏻 why is it only either / or

I like you very much.

Most people will not like you, bit why would you care?FThe only persons that matter are those who will give you a hand when you are in deep shit.

You are great!Thank you.Thats real life wisdom😊

Real

So true. Confidence is important!

Just Subscribed. I found your video today and since I’m also a introvert its nice to know why some people might be afraid of me.

Lady you're annoying.....you're making a big deal out of nothing

Did you go to some inspiration conference that made you think you'd be an inspiration?

Everyone has as some point....you still have no personality......

How you can be more interesteding...I'll do this by boring....I'm just a loser trying to make money.....

at 1st its fun with extrovert partner but later it gets annoying when the extrovert's friends interfere the relationship

Ok for a bit but not constant how are yiur cats how's yiur weather what did you have for dinner over and over I can do small talk not for long though called futile talk and it's annoying as fingernails on a chalkboard

this channel is like home to me, i can relate to it a lot. its been 10 months since you last posted a video, and i dont mean to bug you, but please lol i love them. come back when you feel like it, or ready

I like being a intervert I just don't like being around extroverts because they talk so much

BEAUTIFUL.

Yeah , it's like in order to be accepted by others you need to accept yourself first

hi. I have selective mutism. I was diagnosed at age 5 back in the late 70s. Back then no one knew what selective mutism was. I did take a video of me speaking. I didn't think that I sounded good.

Are people who had selective mutism when they were 5 and when they overcome it, do they also become stupid?

I was diagnosed with selective mutism when I was 5. I had to just mess up and fail and not try again because it was too late.

This didn’t help much if any for me. Im sorry

Can you be who you really are or is this just a persona that you project to be accepted?

I hate being an introvert. I really, really needed this.

My social anxiety is the reason I'm hooked on Valium and it's HELL. Despite being on Valium i cannot go to a hair salon because i start shaking and twitching, my heart gets all heavy, my neck gets very stiff and it triggers a migraine... It's so awkward because usually the person doing my hair doesn't understand.

The only time I say" Hi how are you doing " is when I'm asking questions in public places (stores, restaurants, schools, hospitals etc" Its pointless to say "Hello" when you're not going to engage in a full conversation.

I'm a misanthrope and I hate small talk- If I'm not dealing with a person on a professional level, dating wise or if I haven't known you since childhood, then I'm just flat out going to ignore you. I've ignored so many people who tired do small talk- they got mad and start calling me names, but I didn't care because I know I had power over the situation.

My issue is that I blush, which is very visible and people even point it out, which is exactly what I dont want and what I fear. So my anxiety causes me to blush, which causes anxiety, which causes me to blush... I wish I "just" had the anxiety part, which it seems most people have. It would be a DREAM to ONLY feel the anxiety without any physical effect.

Is it strange that i hate being an extrovert?

Hello, where are you ?

Those watching, check out autistic burnout as well.

It's a crippling fear that, honestly, got me to go to a therapist. It's actually so refreshing to see someone talk about this and admit they have this fear too. Thanks for this, Bridget.

Very encouraging

Thank you for charing, Bridget! 🙏

Oh my goodness this is me!!!!

im glad i dont need to mask anymore because i thought i need to be like all the other people now i only talk if i feel like it😂😂

Being an introvert is very painful

As an introvert, if we are being honest, we only hate small talk if we are not interested in the other person. But if it was someone we are interested in, it doesn't matter whether it's small talk, we will talk about anything.

You said about not knowing when it will end. I have said a silent prayer in my head that God will let it end before I start crying. I usually wear earbuds, because that's the unspoken "leave me alone" sign, and if people try to get my attention when I'm wearing them, I feel completely right to be rude. They are being rude first by trying to talk to a stranger with earbuds