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It took me 40 + years to learn these lessons & recognize this. In a few more years I might have thought about how to relay this message to my kids. Jordan said out loud what I was kinda instinctively thinking and didn't know how to articulate. Thanks Jordan I am forwarding this video to everyone I know

How many children does he have?

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All I thought about when he talked about winning was Michael Jordan

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I concur 💯 Thanks!!!

Loved this...Thank you for doing this video ...I shared it with my kids and family...who have just become parents.❤

An Antidote to CHAOS 00:00 12 Rules for Life 01:27 1. Stand up straight with your shoulders back 02:36 2. Treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping 05:23 3. Make friends with people who want the best for you 09:18 4. Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today 12:11 5. Do not let your children do anything that makes you dislike them 15:01 6.Set your house in perfect order before you criticize the world 16:21 7. Pursue what is meaningful, not what is expedient 18:25 8. Tell the truth, or at least don’t lie 19:15 9. Assume that the person you are listening to might know something you don’t 22:30 10. Be precise in your speech 25:41 11. Do not bother children when they are skateboarding 30:05 12. Pet a cat when you encounter one on the street Thanks for Watching

Sometimes, in some things, Jordan is so on the mark. Other things of his I’m not so sure about. But this I think he nails it. Dead on.

One of my biggest regrets in life is having only one child.

The first rule hit me hard with my first two. I worked too hard and put too much effort in professionally rather than at home with my little ones. May God forgive me.

Really one of the only people I would take parenting advice from.

Having my wife stay home has led to compromises in our standard of living. We drive older cars and don’t yet own our home. Money is often tight. But I honestly cannot imagine waking my children up at 6:00 in the morning to drop them off with strangers that aren’t able to nurture or give them one on one attention. The thought of it breaks my heart.

Unfortunately we don't support mothers in those years so they can be their best for their kids. I agree moms cannot shelter kids too much.

1 is not easier than 2 infact 2 is easier than 1 from when they are both above 3 years old its total bliss.

Thank you very much!!!! Kid are the most beautifull thing in life!

For point #9, my favorite example that illustrates this is the film "Little Miss Sunshine". It shows so much at so many different levels of life!

Dealing with Toxic people is challenging! 00:00 Toxic or Not 02:15 Positive Milestones 02:50 Empathy 03:47 Boundaries 06:08 Toxic Family 09:43 Conclusion

My kids are teenagers now and i have stayed home with them since birth.

My mother always left me on the floor when I was an infant and now I have a flat head. They've always been broke and made terrible decisions in life, including deciding that we didn't need friends. Having children should be illegal for some people.

What about the father? 😢

Have I failed as a parent if my child still misbehaves at 4 she has autism an difficulty learning she's happy but easily distracted

This is fantastic advice. Thank you for sharing

“It’s very hard to grow up, if they don’t have children.” Until you have someone else that matters more than yourself.

Kids don't listen to what you say... they do what you do. 😱

Very good compilation, thanks

I found out last year my maternal great grandmother passed giving birth to my granny and it explained so many things❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

My son is doomed. At 4,5 years, there's already so much missing from this list, I'm not a good mother, never was, never will be (not saying that to be complimented, it's the bare, sad and shitty truth), no father, no siblings, depressed joyless mother, rejected by so many already, because he likes to be in total control (no surprise there), I don't see hope for him, he will not have a good standing in life.

Bravissimo, Dr Peterson!

Exactly, my baby is 8 months old and another baby is on the way. She needs siblings, she needs to play and grow up with someone and have a best friend for life. So best is to give her a brother or sister…

Excellent points! I really enjoyed the video, some things I already knew but some I never really thought about in this way.

I was a starry-eyed immature and helpless person when I got married, and still I decided to have kids right away. Life slapped me so hard, with health issues, miscarriage, infant loss, relationship and work issues. All I thought I had was destroyed, and worst of all, I realised I was immature and helpless. I have a 5 yo now and God only knows how, I made it, with His daily grace and help. I grew the HECK up in ways that could NEVER have happened otherwise. The efforts you go through for a baby are unspeakable, and so is your maturation, but a bloody battle is necessary. Do you make anything worthy without extreme effort? Also I stuck to my child for his first 5 years non-stop. He is now an incredibly smart, kind and lovely child. He can tell right from wrong, he obeys me and respects me, he has values, he loves life and the family. He doesn't obsess over stuff, he doesn't beg me to buy him things. People just love being around him. I do not deserve him. He's already better than me at that age, and at any age, for that matter. I hope he will never be the selfish, apathetic aimless teenager I was. My parents spoiled me and that was the result. Harsh truth, but once you know, a world of possibility opens: you CAN actually make things better. I was a total textbook idiot, and now I am not too bad, and all the suffering gave me so much love for work, so much empathy and respect for others, that it enriches my life incredibly. So, all Dr. Peterson said is absolutely true. He knows his stuff.

#1: Jordan Peterson is a hack, drug addict and should never be listened to

Be Rich! Or it'll be bloody painful Buddy!

People are not afraid of disciplining but more like lazy to discipline their kids. Then when the kid starts acting up the way they have been raised by the lazy parent, the stupid lazy parent gets upset then blames the child

Great advice, but if you have 3 kids, that’s a minimum of 15 years, not 4. And 15 years of your working life can be half if you work 30 years. 4 years out of 80 let’s say isn’t much, but 15 out of 30, that’s half. Most people really can’t do that. And I think the most important point that he misses, is some parents don’t want to stay at home. And a stay at home parent that really doesn’t want to be there, that’s not any better and probably worse than daycare.

This video is so awkward to watch, the tone used is so off putting. Advice: just enjoy spending time with your kid, just enjoy it. Create memories, don’t have these goals… looks like crazy parenting and not genius relations, then you create competition monster, narcissistic children

Thank you for taking the time to make this compilation. Really useful

I love this ❤ The most difficult part for me is inviting the witch to the party.... But it makes sense. They need to be prepared. Thanks for all the advice.

Having one child is MUCH harder than having two!!

Never take advice from someone who preaches for killing women and children!

Rule #1 Don't listen to Jordan Peterson

The main thing i learned from the audio book was that their is no risk in trying. Recognizing what can be done to improve your life starts with a goal. The most rewarding goal is not one that only helps you but helps all around you.

There are a lot of people who grew up in domestic violence and abuse and nevertheless as an adult you can choose to heal and break the cycle. So even if you didn’t have the best role models you can still be a good role model for your future kids. Breaking the abuse cycle is the most freeing and inspiring sensation knowing that your kids will never experience that.

Hope these next 4 years go by quick lol 😅

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My mum and dad were excellent parents, I'm trying to bring my children up the same way they brought me and my sisters up. My mum is the most loving mum ever, I used to get jelous as a kid because other kids would go to my mum for comfort if they hurt themselves or just wanted a cuddle. My dad was strict and I'm so grateful, if something came on the tv where a young girl had gone missing or something he would tell me, "This is why I'm strict" and now I have my own children I agree 100%. If I can be half as good as my parents I will be happy.

Most of things Jordan says I agree. But I disagree that having a children makes you a grown man. You just need to look around and see how many assholes have kids. Many people have kids and are selfish narcissists. It is just objectively false.

Every kid is different you will know when they are ready to move from interacting only with parents to interact with other kids.

You're a fkn moron. Children being a burden has nothing to do with a parent wanting to drink and everything to do with the crippling debt and financial costs associated with having children. It's the single dumbest thing you could ever do from a financial perspective. Especially in the GD United States where the government and society both collude to to cut your knees out from under you as soon as a baby is on the way. Say goodbye to any career you thought you might have. Say hello to crushing medical bills, constant harassment by the government requiring a million ever increasingly expensive doctor visits, dental visits, school supplies, and on and on. Double your food costs, triple your clothing costs, double your water bill, and for the first 4 years spend every waking second trying to thwart that dumb kid's unending desire to kill himself in ways you never thought possible. It is WELL documented that the cost of raising a child is in the HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS of dollars. PER KID! And this cost is born almost entirely by the parents. LMFAO at the child tax credit that MAYBE covers 1% of it.