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Person is not getting their wants met.... So then they get angry....and start making false accusations.... Lol...

Yes people can be annoying ....

People have called me cruel but typically U am only like that when I have been provoked...other then that I have learned to keep to myself.

I started going to a local club to help me. I remembered that as a kid I had liked Quest for El Dorado, so bought a copy. I’ve now got all the expansions and upgraded the Meeples to miniatures which I’ve painted. I even acquired promo cards and surplus boards to make this 8 player for true chaos! The only other game to get this response out of me is Caracassonne, which I now have acquired every expansion of interest, a custom box and a game that has to be played over multiple sittings!

I have a question regarding passive aggressive behavior from roommates!

Is this applicable even though your passive aggressive husband does not want to conversate even for 1 month?

This is not real passive aggressive They are usually manipulative and action responsive

How do you handle an instructor who calls any attempts at stating your own needs as a student, hostility, responds to any attempts to clarify and deescalate with passive aggressive comments and more accusations of you being hostile. It doesn't matter the tone or approach used anything we bring up is taken as a personal attack and when the instructor inevitably doesn't get the emotional reaction, they leave the class to go tell their boss that the student(s) in question are being hostile. I am genuinely concerned about potential retaliation, the instructor made it very clear they were keeping track of the students they considered "hostile" and this is a class of adults who paid to be there.

I Can’t do what I’m passionate about. I can’t do anything I even like. I need this to stop

For not why me ... but why is society so Ego driven that we make no room or education for anyone who may need to live and give communication and time differently... I lost ALL but one of 7 close knit girlfriends when my multiple, mostly invisible and suppressed conditions, combined and fed off each other. Like some sick infectious succubus, to then form the ultimate cortisol demon and made everyone of those pillars blame me for my behaviors. The loss of support and understanding left me stunned. I heard everything fro.m. if you had really wanted to you would have remembered on your own to show up to.... don't you actually have to be disabled to file for disability.. to after everything we did for you to leave an abusive ex you ghost us . .. Society needs to place more importance on understanding people's behaviors and that not everyone lives their lives on a instant gratifying response and if we truly value and appreciate someone's addition to our lives we take the time to learn about what their life truly looks like ... Because I can bet that most of you out there watching this with a chronic illness has very few people who actually know how much pain you're in and how much you struggle with it❤ THANK YOU for creating content for all of us STRONG AMAZING unique souls out there giving it the everything we can every day Hoping to be seen as the real us that illness can't steal and own only dull . Acknowledging.... Hey , yes, I see you and also know this is one of the most painful ,lonely soul testing life roles on can onku know by experience, BUT u aren't alone on this journey ❤

Today I learned that it's ok to feel my feelings. To acknowledge them and think it's ok to feel this way - was a relief for me. I thought I was feeling how I felt but I was actually trying to push them away because to feel physical pain, sadness and loneliness is painful. Who wants to pay attention to that? I am empathetic and compassionate with others but not with myself, and I figured out why. It's because of my traumatic experiences as a child. I'm seeing a counselor for healing from anxiety. I'm going to journal how I feel each day, validate my feelings and accept my feelings. Thank you 💕

Keep up the good work. Your vids are a must to watch.

I am loving your videos. Found your channel on the way to work! On my third video now! Thank you! xx

Thank you!

I am so excited to come across this video. Just filmed the video for 1st stage in family life cycle scheduled for 27th Sept and there I have talked about how husbands can show support to their wives during pregnancy. Listening to your view from a male perspective has been great.Yes, asking wives as to how men can help out is a great tip and your illustration of diabetics was enlightening too. I am from Nagaland, North Eastern part of India and in my own small way I will definately share this link in my video because I feel listening from a man will resonate with men better.

Very good info!! (Sometimes bosses are looking for ways/reasons to get rid of people, & will needle someone into finally caving & reacting!!)

I have a friend he and his girlfriend will have a discussion and sometimes he will try to address certain things that he migbt want or need or things he might want to improve like she might not be affectionate or show her love towards him. She ignores what he says and does not listen as good as he thinks she could or that she is constantly on social media watching tv shows shopping on Facebook marketplaces and has her ear phones in and drowns the whole world out the majority of the time she is also on live streaming for hours having strange men ogiling her and commenting dirty things and if he addresses this and tries to say i dont like certain things you do she says why are you with me then? Whats all that about? I mean thats all she has to say? It does t seem like shes very caring or puts in much effort to want to make stuff work if thats her attitude. She also sometimes ignores his calls.

My wife is currently 11 weeks and 4 days pregnant. I’m so scared of a miscarriage that it’s so hard to enjoy how amazing this blessing is. My wife and sister brought it up to me that I need to relax and not let that get to me so much. It’s hard to manage it.

Get your divorce papers ready

People need to feel their emotions properly and own and process them. I think this video applys to people you actually care for or are doing therapy on, as for the rest they gotta focus hard on producing their own happiness like the rest of us.

I am desperately trying to get distance from my neighbor who is storming around full of herself while she doesn't ever make eye contact with me, but is always watching and disapproving of me. Her goal is to control me, make my dog imprisoned in a stupid fence I was bullied into paying her $885 for, but don't use because my dog is very well behaved. She really wants me to move out but I have 10 more months on my lease and I'm paid in full-- otherwise I'm starting to think I would like to. She actually looks into my cabin and saw me coming out of the bathroom again today. 😡 We're both complaining to the landlord but never talking it out. I'm the new kid here and she's got the owners thinking she's a good person when she's got the characteristics of the narcissist. I tend to attract them as an empath.

Hello your absolutely amazing! I would like to chat kindly!! Thanks so much! Godbless.

I know that a lot of passive aggressive behavior comes from narcissists. And do a narcissist just enjoys the drama and chaos and putting others down. So even though calling it to attention might make them look bad, it probably won’t fix the situation or change the way they communicate

Some people be testing my moral and my belief in God I have to be honest it gets hard trying to be righteous and pure when people wanna be hard

OR not... lol

Oh my gosh ive done that in the past it didnt work. Instead narcissist says what you mean? You making something out of nothing. The narcissist says i not talking to you. So why you upset? This person is just awful.

My husband is dealing with drugs addiction, he has been clean and free for years . But he has been under treatment of one medication which is itself causing addiction. However he decided to become free and stop taking this medication and this is the second day. He became very very agressive and i just don’t know how to deal with this situation. Please advise

My experience with responding to p/a comments with, "What are you trying to say? What is it you need?" is that I get more defensiveness from then, like I should already know, OR they gaslight and say they don't know what I'm talking about. It's exhausting. So I choose what relationships are really worth that amount of effort.

I've spent my life being very compassionate towards people, sometimes to my detriment. I'm finally putting my self-care as a priority and no longer have the bandwidth to cater to passive aggressive people. I just call out the snarky behavior immediately with a factual, non emotional response. My boundary is, if you want to speak with me, be a kind adult. I let them know what I will or won't engage with.

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Try asking a passive man "what do you mean by that comment?" And you will get "nothing, it was a joke". They already have avoidance behavior. (Hence, the passive aggressive mindset) Then it will be your fault.

Id rather deal with someone who is overtly aggressive rather than passive aggressive. At least you know where you stand with aggressive people. Passive aggressive people make me want to pull the hair out of my head.

Hey! I alreday have hobbies that used to make me happy, but I started to get more and more tired and unmotivated. I would like to turn my hobbies into my coping skills, because I don't have many friends, and I'm probably struggling with depression. I need help to feel motivated again, and I don't know how. Could you please help me?

If you have any questions on how to deal with a passive aggressive boss, feel free to post below.

Stop labelling everyone else as a narcissist. It is dangerous.

If you have any questions regarding Narcissistic Personality Disorder and or traits comment below.

My ex-husband: 1. Informed me right before we separated that his motto was "me first and everyone else second". This included our young children. 2. He was a no show for over half of his visits so I stopped telling the kids he was coming. He hated that he was a surprise and wanted them "eagerly anticipating" his visits, so he took it upon himself to tell them during phone conversations. He still skipped over half of his visits. 3. Any time he went out anywhere he complained about the service he received because it wasn't what he deserved. My Mom said, who does he think he is? The Prime Minister? 4. He bragged to me, in front of the kids, that he and his girlfriend had a fight then she said she was going to kill herself, grabbed her medicine, and went to their bedroom. He went out and bought them each a coffee, leaving hers on the table as some sort of alibi (?) before falling asleep on the couch. But she apparently didn't take enough pills (his words) because she woke up in the morning. He never once checked to see if she was okay. 5. He joined the Mormons because the missionaries praised him and gave him lots of attention. He wasn't interested in their religion and smoked a joint, had a beer, and smoked some cigarettes after his baptism. 6. He told my son that he was going to hang out with him. He told my daughter that he'd bought a bike from a local gang then it got stolen that night so he wasn't going to pay them. Now they were coming to shake him down. If he didn't call her by morning he was dead. Then knowing that both kids would be calling and people were going to panic, he turned the volume off on his phone and went to bed. 7. My daughter got completely fed up with him and cut him out of her life. He left her a note saying that he hoped her newborn would die of SIDS so she'd know what it was like to lose a child. There's so much more but I don't need to write a novel here. I definitely have my suspicions.

When your PA person is goofing you uo by being late it becomes necessary to be a manipulator yourself to keep them from messing things up. You have to say, "We need to get to the funeral home at 12:00 because we have a lot of stuff to arrange." even though the funeral is at 2:00. Then they will be there in time. Not fun, but you gotta do it.

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There's nothing wrong with being passive aggressive as long as you are making a point. But it is very important to make that point clear and obvious. You need to say upfront why you have that attitude and how you feel.

Comment below with any questions you have about anxiety.

Normalize, Communicate, Values! Good stuff. Thanks.

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When it is obvious that we like each other and when we had a flight he said 'if you dont like me, that is fine'. Is that passive aggressive?

For me, I had to learn to detach from my inner guilt to take a stand. There was a meditation book called 30 Days to Overcome Guilt by Harper Daniels that helped.

Comment below with some passive aggressive experiences you have faced and how you have handled it.

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OK, so I have a very passive aggressive partner. I have done what you suggest for years. My response is almost always "nothing is wrong" or "I don't need anything from you". I try to guide the person into expressing why that passive aggressive attitude was how she communicated which ends in stonewalling, ignoring or a full blown argument which goes nowhere. I really have no idea where to go at that stage, and usually just say that she is right and I'm wrong just to get her to settle down. I know this is the wrong approach I'm taking but I really have no other idea how to deal with it. Any advice would be very helpful! Thanks and Love from Dublin Ireland 🇮🇪

Perfect timing!

What's with the Carrie Fisher Picture?