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Candle of Wisdom
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Sharing timeless wisdom from different philosophies and practical life advice, this channel offers advice and inspiration for a peaceful and fulfilling life, like a candle lighting through the dark of life.
Let's build a community where everyone can find wisdom, peace, and happiness in life. Everyone has the unique experiences, so let's share your journeys, and we can learn from each others!
Let's build a community where everyone can find wisdom, peace, and happiness in life. Everyone has the unique experiences, so let's share your journeys, and we can learn from each others!
When you get older, no matter how free you are, don't visit the homes of these four people.
When You Get Older, No Matter How Free You Are, DON’T Visit These Homes! 🚫🏠
As we age, our time and energy become more valuable than ever. Not every place deserves our presence, and not every home is a safe space for our peace of mind. In this video, I’ll reveal the types of homes you should avoid visiting in your later years-places that drain your energy, disrupt your happiness, and make you feel unappreciated.
I’ll share real-life stories and practical advice to help you set healthy boundaries without guilt. Whether it’s a home filled with drama, a place where you’re only valued when needed, or a space that no longer aligns with your personal growth, you have every right to choose where you invest your time.
💬 Have you ever experienced a visit that left you feeling unwanted or drained? Share your story in the comments!
🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe for more wisdom on living a peaceful, fulfilling life!
#AgingWisely #ProtectYourPeace #LifeAfter60 #BoundariesMatter #selfrespect
Thank you for your support! 💙🙏
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As we age, our time and energy become more valuable than ever. Not every place deserves our presence, and not every home is a safe space for our peace of mind. In this video, I’ll reveal the types of homes you should avoid visiting in your later years-places that drain your energy, disrupt your happiness, and make you feel unappreciated.
I’ll share real-life stories and practical advice to help you set healthy boundaries without guilt. Whether it’s a home filled with drama, a place where you’re only valued when needed, or a space that no longer aligns with your personal growth, you have every right to choose where you invest your time.
💬 Have you ever experienced a visit that left you feeling unwanted or drained? Share your story in the comments!
🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe for more wisdom on living a peaceful, fulfilling life!
#AgingWisely #ProtectYourPeace #LifeAfter60 #BoundariesMatter #selfrespect
Thank you for your support! 💙🙏
🔴 Candle of Wisdom
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What did she bring to the bargaining table? What did she lay on the table?
Hello sir, i love you ♥♥
💬 Have you ever visited a home that left you feeling unwelcome, drained, or unappreciated? Share your experience in the comments-your story might help someone set the boundaries they need! 👉 If this message resonates with you, type "I choose peace" in the comments. Let’s support each other in creating a life filled with respect, warmth, and genuine connections. ❤
If this is anywhere near the truth you had a narrow escape. I would have said only if you put up the same amount in a joint account. A month in Hawaii - at your expense ? Hahaha I think not. Seems like a load of BS to me. Be more careful next time !
Since I've retired I've noticed am haunted by my past because of less to think about and I regret alot especially how I spoke to my late parents but I can't turn the clock back so this video has been helpful
Hey Mate. Your the dumb one that still stayed there listening to her after she mentioned $20,000. Sensible guys will stand up and say to her "DON'T WAIT UP", and just walk off.
Hi My name is Rajendran and am 68 years now from Kerala- southern most part of India. I am physically not well affected by life diseases. My wife is with me, children - two gifted son- are at their work place with their wife. I am mostly alone and spending time became very difficult. I am not in a position to read more due to vision problem. Also till recent I was doing small agriculture by myself in my own small land piece, but now that also became difficult due to physical limitation of my age. I am a type of person often not socialising, mostly sit inside my house sit, sleep,sit sleep like that. People knew me since young age, when see me while they travel ask ' where r you, not seeing now a days outside, could not see you on that function, not seen there on temple festival etc. My basic need ie food, clothing and shelter are comfortably met from my pension and I seldom feel the necessity of going out. Now a thinking developed in me- how long I can go like this ?
The woman financial request was nothing to be concerned about since you don’t know each other. It should have been an automatic that she was not the one. No mental anguish should have occurred. The world is full of weird people and if you don’t have an established relationship with anyone of them how they behave and how they think shouldn’t matter
Being able to let go, is a very strong move in the right direction.
I don’t need a lot of close friends, but I do need socialization. I tried doing without socializing and I was miserable. Socializing helps my anxiety. I fell and broke an ankle and arm. Luckily, I had two children nearby to take me to the emergency room. You can live alone and be happy, but we do need a network especially in rural areas to help us on occasion.
What this woman was doing was a classic callgirl move. She wanted to be paid for the time with her.
Excellent
Life isn't about stress and anxiety. It's about peace, relaxing and being happy. So to all the people out there scrolling through this comment section, I hope you have a great life and live it to the fullest!!! 😃
Even if life feels tough, remember that brighter days are always ahead.
You, random person I will never meet. I wish you success. Everything's gonna be okay.
I’m so grateful for this message-aging is something to embrace!
Such a valuable and heartwarming message! Seniors, you are amazing!
Thank you my friend that what I'm always telling to my in laws and family siblings aloneness is not loneliness as don Juan by Carlos castanedas book says🎉🎉🎉
I hope that the author of this story finds someone as nice as he is to spend his life with. In the meantime, he should be thanking everyone of his lucky stars that he got away from that horrible creature.
Beautiful message! Thank you for uplifting our amazing seniors.
You have no idea how much this video means to me. Thank you!
Few friends: because they have hobbies and some like me would rather watch vintage movies or read than socialize. Most people are shallow and boring anyway incl. relatives.
For emergencies some reliable services is the need one cannot handle such situations
What?? She didn't want an open relationship? This is either B.S. or you need to change the name of this site to "Simp City". The guy shouldn't have made it to the fourth condition.
For goodness sake!, you should've just walk out after her first demand. You wasted valuable time. I put video on double speed but then could'nt be bothered finishing.
At my age and a widowed what I want is someone beside me share the love in a home ...what's important in our age now is to have a peace of mind with someone ❤️❤️
A predatory sociopath with alot of Gall
Western ladies are perniciously influenced by Chinese women's example. Christine is the perfect example of how most mainland Chinese women proceed.
BS Story Teller for UA-cam hits. DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME .
Most older folks can tell the difference between a friend and an acquaintance. Lots of acquaintances out there, but very few friends.
You dodged a bullit with this one, you would be safer playing with a rattlesnake,
I have no regret for myself but for my son after the divorce broken family
I have always been a loner. Being around more than one or two persons at a time is exhausting and I can't wait to get away. Seems the conversation is usually dominated by one or two. In a large group there tends to be multiple conversations going on at once. The less of these large groups I am a part of, the better. I like my own company because I don't have to explain myself or engage in meaningless chit chat. As someone said in an earlier comment, living alone one can be comfortable doing whatever one prefers--jogging, cycling, reading, cooking--and no complaints!
I agree with the comment below. Just rent a good looking escort for your fun and then go on with your life. You can really drive a rental hard, park it and walk away
Adios and good luck 🎉
I started this in my mid 40’s. Bucket list is in full throttle! 56 now. Drama free is the way to be. I find being alone intentionally is not loneliness! It’s bliss!
They are Healthy Individuals, many of their friends have passed on usually.
💬 Let’s start the conversation! 💬 As we grow older, friendships often change. Some people keep a large social circle, while others naturally choose a smaller, more meaningful group. Do you think having fewer friends in old age is a sign of loneliness or a choice for peace? 🔹 Have your friendships changed as you’ve aged? 🔹 Do you prefer deep connections over a wide social circle? 🔹 What’s the most valuable lesson you’ve learned about relationships in later life? 👉 Share your thoughts below! Let’s have a meaningful discussion. I’ll be reading and replying to comments! ⬇😊
Life after 70 is just as vibrant, and this video proves it!
Sure if he deposits $20,000 she has to deposit the same amount first , she can pay for her own vacation if that was her dream. SHE IS A GREEDY USER AND DESERVES TO BE ALONE
I think, for a 50 year old woman, 5000$ deposit is enough
Oh, a date can scar you, woman can be practical and transactional too. I met an 18 year old exquisite social butterfly a few years ago, not exactly a date, was a co worker. I loved her for not treating me like a push over, at 42 you are too concious of your fading looks. She wanred a free open relationship, I use you, you use me kind of attitude. She would notice almost every of my positive qualities, it was like she was cultured enough to be some ones soul mate, why was she so fatalistic, I guess she assumed men are past long term relationships, true to most men of her generation. I could not disrespect her, her fatalistic mind set was charming in it own way. Men do not find the perfect women in one life time, he too becomes a bit of fatalistic, we make best of the short when the long is but an unreachable fantasy.
Aging is a journey full of lessons, and accepting its truths can lead to a more fulfilling life. Instead of fearing change, we should embrace it, cherish our experiences, and find joy in every moment. Life doesn’t end with age-it evolves! 🌿💙
Yes, to protect my peace I am alone. I do my art, kiss my kitties, clean my house & totally am to myself. No other way. I'm 74. It's my life to live the way I want, finally.🌹
Living alone yes peaceful quiet yada yada 73 here no friends to count on kids move away long time ago 1000 miles away Just don't get sick or need help pre surgical or post High dive into an empty pool if you will Head to the Philipines hire up live in help 4 to 500 month now you just leveled the playing field
I agree all the things that you are saying Sir....!
Sir,I whole heartedly agree and appreciate each and everything in your saying about living in old age .It is quite enough for me to ask and to consult every good and bad thing to overcome and solve with the Holy Spirit who is the truest friend to us all and the little circle of my own beloved family and just prepare for the journey home of our heavenly father .Thank you and God bless you , Sir .In Jesus name .Amen .
This video is proof that life doesn’t stop at 70-it just gets better!