Are Sleepovers Still Safe for Kids? For Many Parents It’s Complicated
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- Опубліковано 19 тра 2024
- Do you let your child spend the night away from home? We’re talking about the recent headlines sparking concern over sleepovers and speaking to people behind them. Joining the debate is Tara Huck, a mom who went viral for her opinion, professor Dr. Tamara Mose and child psychiatrist Dr. Larry Mitnaul. Tell us your thoughts about the topic in the comments.
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I never had a sleepover, my mom always said no and was overprotective. Being grown now I say thanks mom
Well it happened with us and I am 68 when I was 8 or 9 and as I said it was back inthe sixties too
this was normal when I was growing up in the 90s early 2000s though times have changed since then
Times haven’t really changed changed. We’re just more aware of the isolated incidences due to the internet and social media.
Thank you Dr. Mitnaul for sharing the truth concerning sleepovers!
Its a hard no for me. My child will not be allowed to sleepover at their friend's home. My reasons are the same as others who have mentioned why they won't allow their child to sleepover at anyone's home. Safety first.
What about like cousin sleepovers?
My family didn't allow this either, people are crazy!
Thanks for having me!!
No!
Just use discernment. I used to allow my child to have sleepovers at our home, but wouldn’t allow her to go to anyone else’s home. I thought that was a bit hypocritical. So I used discernment, got to know the parents and any siblings, etc., and then allowed her to go to a select few. She had a great time! I used to go to sleepovers frequently and have never been mistreated in any way. My daughter had a great time at the few sleepovers she’s gone to. Also, most cases of any type of abuse happen inter-family, so it’s usually not going to be at a friend’s sleepover that a child may get abused. It may be at grandma’s house when the Uncles or cousins come around. Just some food for thought. Protect your children, use discernment, and pray over them.
The 7 of us weren’t allowed to sleep over unless it was at our grandmothers(both grandfathers passed before we were born). My parents said we know them but we don’t know what’s going on in their house. My son was only allowed to sleep over at his grandmothers(ironically both grandfathers passed before he was born). Even then my ex MIL allowed him to hang with some relatives that she trusted when he was about 10. Those “trusted relatives” thought it would be funny to see his reaction by letting him watch R rated movies🤦🏾♀️.
I wouldn't let my child nor my cat sleepover.
No.
I'm not a mom but I was a child and I used to get angry at my mom for not allowing me to go to my cousins homes for a sleepover. I have many cousins and all of us are women so imagine I was the "weird" kid that never felt part of the group because I didn't know what they said and did at night. Now I'm an adult and I understand my mom. She was right.
Not!!
Sleepovers were definitely normal for me. But being molested at 5 year's old by my 16 year old cousin was also normal. If you are going to let your child go you have to be able to have an established relationship with the people whose home they go over and have a lot of role play for different scenarios. My suggestion is JUST DON'T DO IT!
I’m so sorry that happened to you. It proves my point that most cases of abuse are inter-familial and not from going to the best friend’s house for a sleepover there.
@@candicane1abuse can happen anywhere.. All it takes is that one time and I wouldn't want to risk it. You don't know who's coming and going in other people's houses. And sometimes children abuse other children because they themselves are victims too..
@@candicane1 thank you for your kind words. I'll be 54 in a month and it feels like yesterday. 😔 😟
@@brittany.381 facts 💯
As an African i agree this is a very American issue. Even when my aunt was out of town she would get someone to stay with me at the house instead of me staying at my friends’
My mom didn’t let me sleepover at nobody’s house, I did not let my daughter sleepover either, I see alot of stories about children being molested by close friends and family members, as a mom I have to protect my daughter, and I explained to her why she couldn’t sleepover and she understood
Are used to do sleepover all the time at my friend house
I still do have sleepover. I’ll go over my friend house and have sleepover.
My professor is in here omg
I am from Jamaica, we don't have sleepovers
Hard NO when I was coming up too, I’m 60!!! Grandparents house with cousins during the holidays, that’s it!!! My boys had like 4 boys over in the living room on their birthday,,, not planned, “can they spend the night “ I was in an apartment, knew the parents down the hall,,, it was ok, couple times,,,, no sleep overs for my grandkids unless they are at my house,,,as an OG, my advice, better safe than sorry, your kids will be fine,,, it’s ok to say HELL NO
I allowed my child to go over to sleepovers. Never again. As parents we must be on the same page.
My kids sleep at one house and the children of that house sleep at my house.
We have 3 kids that family have two kids,dads know each other,mom and me know each very well.
We travel together they took care of our two big kids when we had our 3 rd.
No sleepovers, period!
Tamron has a serious point, though, and you should never let anyone spend the night or have a sleepover at someone's house, you know.
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No, that wouldn't be right at all.
The female therapist sounds like she is preparing her children how to handle something happening vs the male is preventing the likelihood of something from happening.
Back in the day “ sleep overs “
We’re the thing and it was over night and safe we had safe fun beside it was only three of us and only parents were there
I don’t think sleepovers are necessary. I never did this, but ai was permitted to go to school week long trips - similar to camp. So, thee are different opportunities for developing independence.
You can’t helicopter kids so much. You’ll take away what made childhood fun for all of us. That’s why you never see kids playing outside and in the street anymore. Helicopter parenting
This TC (Tara) she's so hypocritical. Y'all couldn't find anyone else but her?
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