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  • @TheOneWhoKnocks969
    @TheOneWhoKnocks969 8 місяців тому +304

    "Some people stare at their phones in the restaurant because they run out of things to say and the appearance of being mysterious withholding is the first line of defence to sheild their boring personality."
    This is accurate to excruciating level😭

    • @duckstabed7381
      @duckstabed7381 8 місяців тому +4

      I'm so glad i can appear mysterious while being good at talking

    • @vau_st
      @vau_st 8 місяців тому +1

      @@duckstabed7381
      It's the 4 syllabisis words making me a true sorcerer with wordingerers

    • @Truth-And-Freedom
      @Truth-And-Freedom 8 місяців тому

      And the one with the mask and staring at phone -............
      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😆😆👍🤡

    • @cm.design
      @cm.design 8 місяців тому +1

      @@Truth-And-Freedomcringe comment

    • @Truth-And-Freedom
      @Truth-And-Freedom 8 місяців тому

      @@cm.design sure thing mask cu3k
      🤣👍🤡
      Masks do loads 🤣🤣🤣👍🤡
      You literally believe what politicians say.............. POLITICIANS!!!!!!
      😆🤣🤣🤣🤣😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍🤡
      GET A LIFE CRINGE NUMPTY 🤣

  • @ElliotRodger-cz7rb
    @ElliotRodger-cz7rb 8 місяців тому +118

    This is is deep philosophy disguised as comedy. Existentialism extravaganza. 10/10.

    • @kellychuba
      @kellychuba 8 місяців тому +4

      Life is a tragedy for those who feel and a comedy for those who think.

  • @chillaxTF
    @chillaxTF 8 місяців тому +465

    If you're gonna be the smug guy at the table without a phone, might as well double down and whip out a book so you can be smug about 2 things at once.

    • @fullertron
      @fullertron 8 місяців тому +12

      Check out his reading in public video

    • @SWillis474
      @SWillis474 8 місяців тому +32

      ​@@fullertronI'm going to go out on a limb and say he has, hence why he made the book remark

    • @ankavoskuilen1725
      @ankavoskuilen1725 8 місяців тому +3

      O no, not reading in public!!!!!

    • @peenyweeny3834
      @peenyweeny3834 8 місяців тому +5

      i carry around puzzle books for this exact situation

    • @chillaxTF
      @chillaxTF 8 місяців тому +2

      @@SWillis474 🎯

  • @rubberduck57
    @rubberduck57 8 місяців тому +167

    2:38 "Why should they pay attention to you? You'll never be able to compete with an algorithm that knows them better than you ever could."
    That's a meditation for the anxious mind if I've ever heard one.

  • @Frontfight
    @Frontfight 8 місяців тому +252

    Damn man, normally I laugh all the way through, but this being reality is just depressing.

    • @vau_st
      @vau_st 8 місяців тому +2

      🚬 always

    • @ty_teynium
      @ty_teynium 8 місяців тому +3

      But that running at the end tho... pretty funny.

    • @kaiabeatty9355
      @kaiabeatty9355 8 місяців тому +1

      Lol yeah, the piano didn't help either

  • @palaceofwisdom9448
    @palaceofwisdom9448 8 місяців тому +378

    I feel badly for these people, partly because they are missing life with their heads down all the time, but mostly because they failed to appreciate Frankie's awesome sweater.

    • @admiralbum
      @admiralbum 8 місяців тому +20

      They can watch it on UA-cam.

    • @JBBost
      @JBBost 8 місяців тому +3

      You feel badly for the actors in this video? Why? They're doing a pretty good job acting

    • @krispiasek6731
      @krispiasek6731 8 місяців тому +1

      They won't see the interior of a restaurant they have been to a dozen times, truly a tragedy

    • @vau_st
      @vau_st 8 місяців тому

      guck ich drip drip drip drop

    • @shlekmirkarin6429
      @shlekmirkarin6429 8 місяців тому

      ​@@vau_stkOmM uNd hOl bEsSeR 1 wIsHmOp

  • @seanm.9942
    @seanm.9942 8 місяців тому +59

    nobody chases him away at the end because they’re all on their phones, but still he runs.

    • @deanstanley2125
      @deanstanley2125 8 місяців тому +1

      Maybe he's doing a dine and dash because he saw his server on the phone

    • @vandemonian5412
      @vandemonian5412 8 місяців тому +7

      he's running away from the crushing vacuum that threatens to pursue him

  • @polyphoniphilia
    @polyphoniphilia 8 місяців тому +58

    but how are people going to know i'm at a restaurant if i'm not writing it on social media

    • @ankavoskuilen1725
      @ankavoskuilen1725 8 місяців тому +6

      You are so right.
      Nobody at the restaurant has noticed you there, because they were all on their phones. 😢

  • @JBBost
    @JBBost 8 місяців тому +67

    I like how he runs out of there regardless of whether he's being chased or not -- and with the phone people, it follows that he wouldn't be followed, except maybe on his socials

    • @voli6570
      @voli6570 8 місяців тому

      Better to keep moving regardless. Can’t stay stagnant.

  • @73685
    @73685 8 місяців тому +22

    I remember a few years ago seeing a family at a sports bar/restaurant, all eyes locked on the screen. We thought it was odd then. Little did we know.

  • @scorklamusic
    @scorklamusic 8 місяців тому +31

    This was a great video! I showed it to everyone else at the restaurant I'm at!

    • @vandemonian5412
      @vandemonian5412 8 місяців тому +4

      i hope you sent them the link and didnt actually share your phone

  • @Skaxarrat
    @Skaxarrat 8 місяців тому +25

    This guy could teach real philosophy at a Uni.

  • @bluewren65
    @bluewren65 8 місяців тому +12

    The script was great, but the pink fluffy jumper is the real star.

  • @brianindiana9375
    @brianindiana9375 8 місяців тому +4

    "First line of defense to shield a boring personality"
    "You'll never be able to compete with an algorithm that knows them better than you ever could"
    Well put

  • @oletalk
    @oletalk 8 місяців тому +8

    I used to be quite anxious about my worsening eyesight as I approached middle age, and started putting my phone away during my commute. It was then I started noticing that everyone - everyone - around me on the train was glued to their phone the entire time.
    I see the guy in the purple shirt and I feel seen. 😅😅😅

  • @user-je4eh9ht1k
    @user-je4eh9ht1k 8 місяців тому +4

    I love radical honesty. Awareness is the first step to change.

  • @AntonMadness
    @AntonMadness 8 місяців тому +12

    Commedy isn't always haha, sometimes it can also be just to confront you.

  • @mariapanariello6949
    @mariapanariello6949 Місяць тому +1

    This was devastatingly spot on. We’re worlds away from those directly in front of us. Interpersonal communication requires a desire to give a shit about someone other than yourself. Excellent observation and your sweater is smashing

  • @prettyvacant37
    @prettyvacant37 8 місяців тому +23

    Hands down my favorite video.. you speak the awful truth, my man!!

  • @stickibug
    @stickibug 8 місяців тому +2

    "they refuse to pretend to find you interesting" I think this personality trait of mine is why I keep failing at customer service jobs 😂

  • @littlelioness4278
    @littlelioness4278 8 місяців тому +3

    Literally arrived at the restaurant...opened my phone to UA-cam...to this!!! Couldn't hear over the "ambience" waited until after bingo to listen 😂

  • @JSalesFilm
    @JSalesFilm 8 місяців тому +3

    running away solo was a great touch.

  • @erinshores2617
    @erinshores2617 8 місяців тому +8

    This is so on point - and sad! You're a genius, Frankie!

  • @0mn1vore
    @0mn1vore 8 місяців тому +6

    Aspect ratio is *so square.* I love it.
    Nice sweater too, btw. :-)

  • @superfisher4379
    @superfisher4379 8 місяців тому +5

    I witnessed this years ago on a subway before smartphones were even a thing. Everyone gets on the train. Out came the phones. Train stops phone goes away. This repeated at every stop ad nauseum.

    • @impyrobot
      @impyrobot 8 місяців тому +4

      Tbf who makes small talk on public transport? Acceptable to go on your phone or read or stare out the window but going on your phone constantly when with your friends/family is not cool.

  • @dragan2324
    @dragan2324 8 місяців тому +11

    For non-zoomers, this is the meal when you realize your homies ain't your homies. For zoomers, this every meal since your parents got too tired to take care of you.

  • @1BergerVongSchlauigkeitHer
    @1BergerVongSchlauigkeitHer 8 місяців тому +3

    I Have No Eyes, and I Must Stare.

  • @PrettyBlueThings
    @PrettyBlueThings 8 місяців тому +12

    There's a lot of harsh truths in this one Frankie

  • @jamieweithman3944
    @jamieweithman3944 8 місяців тому +4

    That's R E A L not reel 😂
    I loved this one!

  • @chelseyxu5399
    @chelseyxu5399 8 місяців тому +1

    the Chinese lady browsing memes lmao i cant

  • @vision2k890
    @vision2k890 8 місяців тому +4

    Do a cultural observation: people on their laptops at coffee shops

  • @polreamonn
    @polreamonn 8 місяців тому +6

    Frankie hits the spot again.

  • @ro55reel5
    @ro55reel5 8 місяців тому +2

    Nothing social about bowed heads in screens, he sais, writing a message into the void that replaced his friends

  • @JJJackson777
    @JJJackson777 7 місяців тому

    Frankie running away from his revelations and epiphanies at the end of every episode is both beautiful and harrowing.

  • @johnk6757
    @johnk6757 8 місяців тому +5

    For sure my instinct is to go to my phone cause of social anxiety. But I feel it is even more obvious and cringe so I just make myself endure the awkwardness (which usually is in my head or transient anyways)

  • @joshuataylor3550
    @joshuataylor3550 8 місяців тому +4

    Ironically we're all watching this on our phones.

    • @PappyMandarine
      @PappyMandarine 7 місяців тому

      some do on their computers, sitting at a desk, mate...

  • @cpzd83
    @cpzd83 8 місяців тому +6

    I was waiting for this one. My SO and I always people watch people like this

    • @cribscian
      @cribscian 8 місяців тому

      SO?

    • @cpzd83
      @cpzd83 8 місяців тому +1

      @@cribscian significant other

    • @Bajigaloo
      @Bajigaloo 8 місяців тому +6

      @@cribscian dont be rude

    • @cribscian
      @cribscian 8 місяців тому

      @@Bajigaloo I didn't know what the acronym stood for.... Now I do... What's your issue?

    • @Trhow
      @Trhow 8 місяців тому +4

      @@cribscian he is playing with you

  • @Marrshall
    @Marrshall 8 місяців тому +1

    dude this is the best one you did so far....

  • @omerk8403
    @omerk8403 8 місяців тому +1

    I need the overly dramatic soundtrack, it sounds amazing.

  • @aidonger42069
    @aidonger42069 8 місяців тому +4

    Time spent sitting all alone, time spent sitting on my phone

  • @_vexation9618
    @_vexation9618 8 місяців тому +1

    These videos were funny before but it's personal now; he's coming for all of us

  • @piccalillipit9211
    @piccalillipit9211 8 місяців тому +3

    *ANOTHER FRIGHTENINGLY ACCURATE OBSERVATION*

  • @IjwPetersen
    @IjwPetersen 8 місяців тому +2

    big fan of the fashion on this channel

  • @JD-cf3mv
    @JD-cf3mv 8 місяців тому +1

    Try this. Make a pact with your mates as u sit down for dinner. The person who looks at their phone during the meal, pays for the meal.

    • @stickibug
      @stickibug 8 місяців тому

      We did that once at a bar, and my two buddies absentmindedly pulled their phones out at the *same exact time* to check a sports score 😂 they had to split the bill

  • @tomh383
    @tomh383 8 місяців тому +4

    This one hit a little too hard

  • @space_station_shenanigans514
    @space_station_shenanigans514 8 місяців тому +2

    That was really depressing what have we become

  • @dualshock3
    @dualshock3 8 місяців тому +1

    When it comes to technology, I like looking at Japan to get a glimpse of what's about to happen to the west in the future lol

  • @TheKivifreak
    @TheKivifreak 2 місяці тому

    Intimacy has been replaced with the illusion of human togetherness. 🗣️

  • @mellowrockmusic
    @mellowrockmusic 8 місяців тому +3

    Yeah not going to lie. As a youngun, its changed our social landscape. Not for the better... A bit depressing

  • @galisleo8737
    @galisleo8737 8 місяців тому +2

    It is shameful to steal your grandmother's clothes.

  • @lofi-loverhugsyou2948
    @lofi-loverhugsyou2948 8 місяців тому +1

    franky is a fashion icon

  • @skyrat3816
    @skyrat3816 8 місяців тому +3

    This has been a pet hate since touch screens became a thing. Going to the pub in the hope of them bants, but really you may as well get some tins from the offy and drink em on ya Tod at home.

  • @the_discordian_revolution
    @the_discordian_revolution 4 місяці тому

    all i can say is the algo didn't like you calling out the technofeudalists a few months back haha. your videos brought me a small moment of life-saving reprieve in the form of (human) joy. thanks, man who wears odd clothing and runs like that one kid from middle school

  • @MrBluelightzero
    @MrBluelightzero 8 місяців тому +1

    You didn't need to run at the end, just walk around a corner.

  • @MElaughs
    @MElaughs 8 місяців тому +1

    Absent real. Frankie, you're a poet. Providing the world a flamboyantly dressed flavour of every bit of culture.
    The only people that saw you run were here. It's sad, funny, but so sad.

  • @justaguyontheinternet1556
    @justaguyontheinternet1556 8 місяців тому +2

    This was just sad.bravo!

  • @avi2125
    @avi2125 8 місяців тому

    Excellent script!!! Thanks... "deafening sound of..." "Phone as a pacifier" 😅

  • @saharkhalili5303
    @saharkhalili5303 8 місяців тому

    The riskiest one yet. Love it

  • @sallyguberman6310
    @sallyguberman6310 2 місяці тому

    The moment you realize it’s comedy but it’s real All out truth 💯

  • @jacksondowdle5217
    @jacksondowdle5217 7 місяців тому

    Fyi, I watched this whole video essay while sitting across from coworker who is going to die of breast cancer this summer

  • @justbeegreen
    @justbeegreen 8 місяців тому +2

    This is a very depressing commentary on the reality of the destruction of human connection bc of our addiction to our phones

  • @neuzethmusic131
    @neuzethmusic131 8 місяців тому

    That jumper though, 12/10!

  • @mariuszj3826
    @mariuszj3826 4 місяці тому

    Ironically, probably most people who stare at their phones watched this.

  • @UnStop4ble
    @UnStop4ble 8 місяців тому +3

    this made me depressed

  • @kueller917
    @kueller917 8 місяців тому +1

    I'll defend it when I'm at a restaurant alone though.

    • @thegrinderman1090
      @thegrinderman1090 8 місяців тому +1

      That's fine, it's not being rude to anyone

  • @leonbarry5403
    @leonbarry5403 8 місяців тому

    Me staring at my wife playing the video real loud.... She didn't even look up 😢

  • @zsuzsannacircleedge8416
    @zsuzsannacircleedge8416 8 місяців тому

    "Antitainement" New word in my word-treasure-box,

  • @xxplosive656
    @xxplosive656 8 місяців тому +1

    me too thanks

  • @niteshades_promise
    @niteshades_promise 3 місяці тому

    GET OFF YOUR PHONES!!! 🍻

  • @zsuzsannacircleedge8416
    @zsuzsannacircleedge8416 8 місяців тому

    I prefer people looking at their phone to people screaming into it.

  • @OhAwe
    @OhAwe 8 місяців тому

    It's amazing how many people are unable to resist it. People who will pull out a phone and start messaging someone mid-conversation. Like huh? Imagine puling out a phone and calling someone while someone is talking with you, without saying anything.

  • @Dope-Display
    @Dope-Display 8 місяців тому

    Frankie the Philosopher

  • @jjryan1352
    @jjryan1352 5 місяців тому

    Society of the Spectacle meets Simulation and Simulacra

  • @NietJeffrey
    @NietJeffrey 8 місяців тому

    Frankie, you can run all you want in this video, but you'll never outrun the phone because its in your pocket.

  • @sidework1
    @sidework1 8 місяців тому

    Watching this while staring at my phone

  • @daysofboyhood
    @daysofboyhood 8 місяців тому +1

    Where to cop that fuzzy jaiket Frankie?

  • @Celeste-in-Oz
    @Celeste-in-Oz 8 місяців тому

    The irony of how many people are watching this in restaurants

  • @bbloomfield6497
    @bbloomfield6497 8 місяців тому

    I'm so nerdy I did work experience at Nintendo during high school. But I don't stare at a device when I go out.
    My phone is on airplane mode, just to conserve battery for the night, no one is calling it anyway.

  • @ReadyF0RHeady
    @ReadyF0RHeady 8 місяців тому

    I watch this while i stare at my phone in a Restaurant

  • @user-cp6lg5gf5l
    @user-cp6lg5gf5l 8 місяців тому

    I’m watching this in a restaurant

  • @dan27032
    @dan27032 8 місяців тому

    2:32 she needs to get that shit fixed how can anyone use a phone like that. On a serious note bang on the money as always Frankie it’s depressing

  • @meandab
    @meandab 8 місяців тому

    Beautiful as always, my friend

  • @Protoman888
    @Protoman888 8 місяців тому

    Yup himalayan pink salt matching your shirt.
    Namaste

  • @SHMUPS
    @SHMUPS 8 місяців тому +1

    why does frankie shame the guy who tries to do better?

  • @Ciorstaidh
    @Ciorstaidh 8 місяців тому

    Cheers for this one frankie x

  • @daniladanilov7794
    @daniladanilov7794 8 місяців тому +2

    It's so funny that they are so deep into their anxiety and feeling awkward that they become almost paralyzed and not even one of them visibly reacted to a dude coming up to them and talking to a camera

  • @mirgrant
    @mirgrant 8 місяців тому

    thanks for giving us a banger ya turkey!

  • @Trhow
    @Trhow 8 місяців тому

    I do this but with books, don't know what to do instead

  • @75Vinnie
    @75Vinnie 8 місяців тому +5

    Sitting in a restaurant watching this

  • @crazyratlady3115
    @crazyratlady3115 8 місяців тому +1

    I have auditory processing disorder, and I struggle to understand what people are saying when there's a lot of background noise - like music, other people talking loudly etc. When I eat at restaurants, I'm on my phone because I'm talking to the person I'm with over text. Maybe consider whether some of the people on their phones aren't mindlessly scrolling the algorithm. Maybe they're not being as antisocial as you assume. Maybe this is the only way they can enjoy a conversation in such an atmosphere. Maybe they're actually just talking shit about you, and they don't want you to overhear.

    • @ExtremeObservations
      @ExtremeObservations 8 місяців тому

      No no no nuance! It’s the DeAtH oF tHe s0cIAl don’t you understand!? It’s the ABSENT OF THE REAL reeee!!

    • @Stupididiot67
      @Stupididiot67 6 місяців тому

      99% of people on their phones arent doing that your in a very small minority

  • @bruce-le-smith
    @bruce-le-smith 8 місяців тому

    lovin the south london outfit mate, namaste

  • @steveygee1
    @steveygee1 8 місяців тому

    I’m at a restaurant watching this.

  • @biosfearmag
    @biosfearmag 8 місяців тому

    Well put

  • @mirgrant
    @mirgrant 8 місяців тому

    mom logic

  • @djmon1987
    @djmon1987 8 місяців тому

    Fair play.

  • @auchmalwassagen
    @auchmalwassagen 8 місяців тому

    love your jumper.

  • @peterkerj7357
    @peterkerj7357 8 місяців тому

    Some weird compression thing going on with the chessboard. All the light squares look like they have pieces on them.

  • @AN-jz3kf
    @AN-jz3kf 8 місяців тому

    I just feel awkward standing or sitting there tbh

  • @DidYaServe
    @DidYaServe 8 місяців тому

    If ya see Brilliant Shane around the place, will ya give him a slap. Sound.

  • @richardwallace2458
    @richardwallace2458 8 місяців тому

    Your geansaí is possibly the only thing that can break this evil spell.