Abe Parker - Self Sabotage (Official Lyric Video)

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  • @AbeParker
    @AbeParker  2 роки тому +440

    Woah... I don't know what to say. The love on this one!! 🥺🙏🏻🙏🏻 Thank you!!!

    • @rjshekar116
      @rjshekar116 2 роки тому +5

      You’re Awesome!! Thanks a lot for releasing this 🔥💯

    • @preciouspixie.
      @preciouspixie. 2 роки тому +5

      Your welcome you deserve it anyway 💕 please don't let life make you sad

    • @anantharaj1535
      @anantharaj1535 2 роки тому +1

      Tq for the song

    • @mahitaprasad
      @mahitaprasad 2 роки тому +2

      Abe. This is beautiful. Period!

    • @owen1438
      @owen1438 2 роки тому +5

      Doing all that you desire while still afraid may show you that it isn’t as scary as you think.
      Then you can prove to yourself what you’re capable of.

  • @kirstymclaren115
    @kirstymclaren115 2 роки тому +246

    Having someone else be able to put all your thoughts and feelings into a song for you is truly free therapy

    • @only1steelle
      @only1steelle 2 роки тому +2

      😂❤😂

    • @preciouspixie.
      @preciouspixie. 2 роки тому

      Very true

    • @TheGoggledBmxers
      @TheGoggledBmxers 2 роки тому +1

      Right it's perfect, I play it on the bus, in school, and before I sleep. This is full of the exact ways I feel

    • @nula0043
      @nula0043 2 роки тому

      Indeed...

  • @selfdiscoveryajcrips
    @selfdiscoveryajcrips 2 роки тому +321

    looking at the lyrics, its crazy to see how much I relate. It is crazy how the mind works. It is even crazier that multiple people struggle with the same thing, but sometimes we are afraid to admit it. God bless you Abe!!! Keep following him!

    • @bintangazharr
      @bintangazharr 2 роки тому +2

      Yeah, crazy how the lyrics accurately describes it all

    • @huh2275
      @huh2275 2 роки тому

      That's how I found his channel, one of his explicitly christian songs, tryna find the one who made this song
      ua-cam.com/video/2phI8Q4M6-Y/v-deo.html

    • @preciouspixie.
      @preciouspixie. 2 роки тому +1

      Ikr

    • @kenzie.hargreaves06
      @kenzie.hargreaves06 2 роки тому +2

      literally.

    • @Sakiiboo
      @Sakiiboo 2 роки тому +3

      If you don't already, listen to NF he's super good

  • @johnnynguyen5902
    @johnnynguyen5902 2 роки тому +109

    I hate that this song hits so close to home for me. I am in college, and every day I have been deciding whether or not I should drop my dream as a filmmaker, simply because I have trouble communicating with others and get overwhelmed easily. Thank you, this song makes me feel less small and less alone.

    • @BTSLiveUploader
      @BTSLiveUploader 2 роки тому +10

      Nah don't quit. Being a filmmaker is your dream and it's worth fighting for! Yes it might be hard, yes you'll have to step out of your comfort zone... But you will learn how to do them all cause that dream is worth fighting for! Keep Going Champ! 😄❤️❤️

    • @johnnynguyen5902
      @johnnynguyen5902 2 роки тому +5

      @@BTSLiveUploader Wow that is some great advice. I appreciate the kind words!!

    • @sanjaymahato708
      @sanjaymahato708 2 роки тому +3

      Everything could be learned bro..
      The secret is
      Fear nothing
      BE FEARLESS
      And give meditation a try

    • @Sakiiboo
      @Sakiiboo 2 роки тому +2

      When I grow up - NF

    • @wooworld1124
      @wooworld1124 2 роки тому +2

      Keep going it's hard right now but when your done and have the wife,children and life your yearning for you'll be and feel way more accomplished then you've ever thought you could right now

  • @Unitedbro1999
    @Unitedbro1999 9 місяців тому +2

    Christ, this song hits home. One of the best things i ever heard was "make the most of where you are. Dont get so hung up on things you can't control, live alittle" hard to remind myself that sometimes but its sound advice. Peace all❤

  • @haileybarngrover5438
    @haileybarngrover5438 2 роки тому +78

    My heart goes out to all that relate to this song. You are truly battling your own mind, but keep being strong my friends. It seems impossible but we'll make it through💚

  • @cruzo3512
    @cruzo3512 2 роки тому +24

    If I've learned anything in therapy, it's this: You just have to try and get out of your own way. Get out of your own way and don't live your life in fear. Face your fears. Those two statements have helped me IMMENSELY in my journey to better my mental health. I hope it helps anyone struggling here. Thank you for this song. Its wonderful and helps alot of people. Including me.

  • @MinorMotionPicture
    @MinorMotionPicture 2 роки тому +12

    It was a random goofy Instagram reel that used this song which made me aware of it. And now it’s so painful listening to the whole thing because of how it hits right at home. I love it!

  • @chitwanbhola433
    @chitwanbhola433 2 роки тому +6

    one step forward 5 steps back, my hobby is self-sabotage, my head says i'm done, my body says i'm tired, i say can try one more time but my hobby is self-sabotage

  • @audreymation
    @audreymation 10 місяців тому +2

    To anyone listening to this,
    You are loved, and there is somebody who will always love you no matter how many mistakes you make or how much you seem like a failure. You've been hurt and broken and you feel like giving up. But God created you for a purpose, and he will never give up on you. You might not believe it now, but don't push it away before at least considering it. God knows your pain. He knows your loss. In fact, he gave up his only Son so that this brokenness would not be the end of your story. In him is peace, and once received, nothing can take it away. Life is really, really hard. But for those who trust in him, my friends, the darkness is not the end for us. You are loved. Have a blessed day

  • @Donantonio26
    @Donantonio26 2 роки тому +9

    I listened to this song first thing in morning after I woke up on May 3rd. I cried seeing how much the song reflected how I felt about myself. In the two months since then however, I was finally able to break most of my overthinking ( most but not all). I credit this song for a being the catalyst in me realizing that I had a problem but I had the power to fix it. I can't thank you enough Abe.

  • @mroberts2738
    @mroberts2738 Рік тому +1

    They said we could be anything in second grade. Slays me. YES! I remember.

  • @Quellalynn281
    @Quellalynn281 2 роки тому +9

    It has been a while since a song has resonated with me like this one does.. like omg the chills. The tears. It hit so close to home

  • @redwiddow4483
    @redwiddow4483 2 роки тому +24

    Absolutely beautiful.
    I feel like this describes me so accurately, especially right now.
    Thank you for saying the words I couldn’t and helping me realize.

  • @robertgalligan6024
    @robertgalligan6024 2 роки тому +13

    I've been struggling a lot with depression, everyday is a struggle and this song really spoke to me. I hope you make it big and can help people all over the world who think they're going through their struggles alone.

  • @foxmusiclyrics
    @foxmusiclyrics 2 роки тому +122

    Any fans of Abe Parker??❤✋

  • @tylerparker5392
    @tylerparker5392 2 дні тому

    Incredibly written and the conviction in your voice! This is an example of pure humanity.

  • @vanshikagupta941
    @vanshikagupta941 2 роки тому +6

    I’m gonnaaa send this song to myself 😭 loads of love from india 🇮🇳

  • @SugilChill
    @SugilChill 2 роки тому +5

    the lyrics just hit the soul 🥺

  • @Rocqull76
    @Rocqull76 2 роки тому +1

    I really needed to bump into this artist u have made my past few days better free ya mind body an soul

  • @scraperlancelot4763
    @scraperlancelot4763 2 роки тому +2

    This made me cry. Thank you . I've been so stressed lately and this helps a lot.

  • @gabi8096
    @gabi8096 2 роки тому +5

    just stay, every song has strong meaning to somebody, and then one day, there's gonna be the one that means a lot to many many people, and the next one too.. you don't stop when you achieve what you want, you keep going like you were before, so it has always been a win.. as long as you keep going, with anything in life, that's enough

  • @yellowsunflowers88
    @yellowsunflowers88 2 роки тому +3

    Terima kasih sudah bicara dengan diriku melalui lagu ini. Diriku mengerti, tersenyum lalu menangisi setiap liriknya. Aku ingin berusaha lebih baik lagi pada diriku. ^^

  • @zenon2514
    @zenon2514 2 роки тому +3

    Every word just hits me like this song was meant for me 🥲

  • @1_atlas_7
    @1_atlas_7 2 роки тому +1

    “The only one in my way is me.”
    Pretty much the hardest hitting line for me. In a pretty great spot in life by exterior metrics. Lots of friends, lots of family, decent amount of money, smart enough to go to school, etc etc etc. All that, and what’s left? What’s holding me back? Only thing left is me.

  • @floreselginad.3354
    @floreselginad.3354 2 роки тому +5

    Now I have the perfect response to everyone who asks why I don't want to go out often. Idk why it's so hard for some to understand that... it's not because I don't want to spend time with them, it's just that I am currently trapped inside my head. This beautiful song will perfectly speak for me when I can't. Thank you! ❤️

  • @lindseyhomer7312
    @lindseyhomer7312 2 роки тому +15

    It has surpassed my expectations and I can't wait to have it on repeat once I wake up!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @tiffanyweldon2489
    @tiffanyweldon2489 2 роки тому +1

    Damn... This song spoke to me in the best way. I self-sabotage every single day... I wrote an edit to this song with a woman duetting, it's not perfect, but it did it for me.
    Us self saboteur's are going to make it through this.

  • @nelzaretlc
    @nelzaretlc Рік тому +4

    ❤️❤️ only Christ can save us from ourselves ❤️❤️🌻💓🌻💓

  • @kathrynholley3622
    @kathrynholley3622 2 роки тому +3

    The relatability. You have a wonderful voice and a good gift for lyrics. Thank you for making this.

  • @Meea0ww
    @Meea0ww 2 роки тому +6

    The song touched my tear.. So lovely.. ❤❤

  • @unigenius
    @unigenius 2 роки тому +5

    You wrote the hell out of this song!! It really hits home, as someone who hasn't really "made it" yet.

  • @randysmith7027
    @randysmith7027 2 роки тому +1

    Damn this shit relatable.

  • @RohitNandy
    @RohitNandy 2 роки тому +5

    This song is everything for some people like me….. overthinking everything all the time… too scared of ourselves! You just gave my thoughts a voice…. Thank you

  • @woodliao317
    @woodliao317 2 роки тому +3

    once again, thank you Abe parker, you sing out of my voice in my current 30s life, struggling with work life.

  • @arlieee43
    @arlieee43 2 роки тому +2

    I have literally just listened to this like 5 times
    It's crazy how much you can relate to someone you don't know

  • @chaos2themaxx
    @chaos2themaxx 2 роки тому +7

    Mark my words... You're gonna make it BIG! Keep doing what you do... Keep making songs that all of us can relate to... You're awesome 😊😊😊

  • @introvertedbutterfly
    @introvertedbutterfly 2 роки тому +1

    This song is so moving and beautiful and ... wow ... just wow my heart

  • @Offrack-e4g
    @Offrack-e4g 2 роки тому +4

    Please do not ever stop releasing songs
    Every single song is amazing I just absolutely love how unique you are compared to other artists and it's truly lovely

  • @chinghuang7633
    @chinghuang7633 Рік тому +1

    This song is amazing!! Even though the lyrics is sad, but it heals...

  • @vanshikagupta941
    @vanshikagupta941 2 роки тому +2

    I don't like how deeply and on what level I connect to this song... :)

  • @ronakchandak777
    @ronakchandak777 2 роки тому +7

    He has gained majority of his subscribers due to the song 'Butterflies'! Proves that you need to keep working untill luck strikes at your place and give you all that you ever worked for ❤️✨

  • @5H4h1D4250
    @5H4h1D4250 2 роки тому +1

    its crazy how this song hits home..and relate..oh my i need more coffee 🥺🤭

  • @amcrafteev6164
    @amcrafteev6164 2 роки тому +3

    It's hopeless sometimes. 🥺

  • @sydney12323
    @sydney12323 2 роки тому +5

    Man you are deeply underated. You're songs are so good!

  • @TeacherRai-t2l
    @TeacherRai-t2l 18 днів тому

    It hurts to listen to. It captures most of the pain I don't want to accept. I am well aware of the problem, but this voice in my head is just...overwhelming.

  • @princessyunicamartinez5628
    @princessyunicamartinez5628 2 роки тому +2

    you really comfort me always by using your songs

  • @jwbibby64
    @jwbibby64 2 роки тому +2

    This song literally gave me goosebumps it's so accurate and relatable.

  • @randomish4285
    @randomish4285 2 роки тому +2

    Wow I finally found a song that fully encapsulates what I've been feeling for the past years. I've given up a lot to chase my dream but self-sabotaging thoughts never stop and when everything seems to work against me, I start doubting everything I've done to get where I am. I start doubting if it was worth it. But when I look back on how far I've come, on how much I've achieved through all the pain, and all the wonderful people I've met in my journey, ALL those remind me, it IS WORTH IT and no matter what happens I am not a failure for choosing this road to travel. Thank you for this song

  • @hibajaouadi9182
    @hibajaouadi9182 2 роки тому +1

    This song can really get you out of your head and take you to other unknown but beautiful places

  • @patrickkelley2735
    @patrickkelley2735 2 роки тому +1

    I've been dealing with anxiety and depression this past year, unable to express in words how it feels. This song does it. Thank you.

  • @emmagamig9187
    @emmagamig9187 2 роки тому +7

    I needed this song so much! All my thoughts and feelings that I can't express put in a beautiful song. Thank you ❤

  • @soulofanartist2563
    @soulofanartist2563 2 роки тому +22

    (My version of the song)
    There’s a
    Voice saying I’m a failure if I quit
    It’s the same one saying that I can’t make it
    And I wanna scream but I live in my family home
    Sleeping in the loft where all the rooms below are wide open,
    They said we could be anything in 7th grade
    I guess I was dumb enough to believe what they said
    And now I’m just another dreamer that's been torn apart
    How do you get out of your head?
    Telling yourself you won’t make it
    And second nature is to second guess

    Or when you
    Burn every bridge before you cross
    Wave a white flag before you lost
    How do you not self-sabotage?

    I miss hurting and feeling low and honest I
    Don’t know how to answer when my Mom asks why
    I’m still trying to tell myself that I’m not wasting a life

    I push away love when I need it
    Write these songs and then delete it
    Stay awake all night wondering why
    (still wondering why...)
    How do you get out of head?
    Telling yourself you won’t make it
    And second nature is to second guess

    Burn every bridge before you cross
    Wave a white flag before you lost
    How do you not self-sabotage?
    Ooo
    I don’t need a backseat driver
    Ooo
    Trying to give myself some grace
    Ooo
    Been living with myself full time and
    Ooo
    I’m finally trying to see things face to face
    How do you get out of your head
    Telling yourself you won’t make it
    And second nature is to second guess

    Burn every bridge before you cross
    Wave a white flag before you lost
    How do you not self-sabotage?

    The only one in my way is me
    How do I learn to set me free?
    How do you not self sabotage

  • @nell2246
    @nell2246 2 роки тому +3

    Ur voice the lyrics the melody every thing is perfect ur really underrated i hope more ppl will discover ur songs 🤍✨

  • @UnReality
    @UnReality 2 роки тому +1

    love the song, so touching...

  • @greatkisailn
    @greatkisailn 2 роки тому +1

    How can you sing my life when I can't even sing my songs about these things about me because I always end up crying even when I am only starting the first verse. this is a masterpiece, full of emotions and expression... I hope one day everyone who feels the same will be okay ...

  • @Sammyyyyyyyyyyyy
    @Sammyyyyyyyyyyyy 2 роки тому +1

    How the hasn't this blew up yettt!!!???? Oh my gawdd Abe you're sooo freakinnggg goodddd!!!! 💙💙💙✨

  • @kitkatthat1219
    @kitkatthat1219 2 роки тому +3

    Can I just say ,Wow, this is a beautiful song and you have a beautiful talent 💜

  • @brandoncooper9226
    @brandoncooper9226 2 роки тому +2

    I can't describe how great this song is and hits just right. God bless you and thank-you for doing what you do. We're all so fortunate for your talent.

  • @GarrickVonOtto
    @GarrickVonOtto 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks My G Abe, For Let The World Tells My Feeling, From The Bottom Of My Heart You Have My Gratitude👍

  • @Kavidharsshini
    @Kavidharsshini 2 роки тому +2

    Just wanna say Thankyou for this composition ✨❤️

  • @teauric.7896
    @teauric.7896 2 роки тому +3

    ❤️‍🩹
    Thank you Abe.

  • @finjalou
    @finjalou 2 роки тому

    this song means so much to me. the first time i heard it was shortly after i almost canceled going to a funeral and i couldn't explain to my mum why i didn't want to go. so this part of the song really hit me. but honestly every line is so special. every time i hear this brilliant song i burst into tears within the first two lines. and i almost never cry THAT much just because of something relatable. but this song brings up emotions i didn't even know i really had. maybe because it is one of the main issues in my life and i've never heard a song more relatable or my thoughts so precisely speaken out loud. but also because this writing is just beautiful. thank you abe.

  • @khrissym1920
    @khrissym1920 2 роки тому +3

    I've had this song on repeat since I saw someone with this sound over there video ,I had the break down and feel so much better thank you for this song 🖤

  • @TheBigTimeRush13
    @TheBigTimeRush13 2 роки тому +2

    Finally 🥰 waited so long for this masterpiece !

  • @strangegiraffe
    @strangegiraffe 2 роки тому +5

    I just discovered you and your songs, you’re such an amazing singer with beautiful songs! These lyrics are incredibly relatable

  • @rinkyreddy4475
    @rinkyreddy4475 2 роки тому

    you're gifted man don't ever sabotage yourself

  • @mayuritelang3066
    @mayuritelang3066 8 місяців тому

    this feels like someone telling me my thoughts so clearly... how do I set me free, when I am the one Stopping me.

  • @cometinc.5223
    @cometinc.5223 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this song. I haven't felt so connected with a song in so long.😢

  • @eilishwatanabe4379
    @eilishwatanabe4379 2 роки тому

    my heart goes out to anyone who could relate to this song

  • @realremix2273
    @realremix2273 2 роки тому +1

    Been waiting for this one to drop. I'm a little late for the premiere but it's an amazing song, keep it up dude. I can't say how much I relate to this and it's amazing to fund other people that are like me. I know everyone keeps saying there are millions just like you but to hear someone say exactly what I've been feeling for so long is just... amazing.

  • @kavyaparikh7166
    @kavyaparikh7166 2 роки тому +2

    I just discovered your Songs and I am OBSESSED! Like aahhhhhh ❤️. You are the best !

  • @dafiqz.firdaus5859
    @dafiqz.firdaus5859 2 роки тому +2

    I love this song 😭😭😭. Thank you for calming my mind slowly 😔. I will play this song every night!!!

  • @tracieagle
    @tracieagle 2 роки тому +2

    Abe, thank you so much! Brilliant!!! So proud of you!💜💜💜

  • @faithlife8244
    @faithlife8244 2 роки тому +2

    Found you a while ago on Instagram and I'm glad I did, you're music is really good and I really love your voice. I can't wait to keep watching you grow and seeing all the other music you make. You're doing amazing!

  • @chickendollar8710
    @chickendollar8710 2 роки тому +2

    I love this song! Send lots of love to everyone that is struggling

  • @abcdeliza7109
    @abcdeliza7109 2 роки тому +2

    Ur voice is a healer❤️

  • @TwilightRoseXD
    @TwilightRoseXD 2 роки тому

    I saw a short clip of this on fb. I had to look you up to listen to the full song.. worth it

  • @maxgunstone954
    @maxgunstone954 2 роки тому

    After 22 years,, it's finally in words. Been relating to this for way too long

  • @Paymitch
    @Paymitch 2 роки тому +2

    Abe! This is incredible! I love how relatable your lyrics are! 🥰

  • @agatalegut5792
    @agatalegut5792 2 роки тому +1

    I have waited for it for so long ! This is awesome 💙

  • @Hudaaaldin2047
    @Hudaaaldin2047 2 роки тому +1

    This is precious 💕

  • @trinityduncker5376
    @trinityduncker5376 2 роки тому +1

    I cant put into words how much I appreciate and love this song!!!💛

  • @gicoscristylannt.9562
    @gicoscristylannt.9562 2 роки тому +1

    Song with the heart ❤️

  • @silaswest7912
    @silaswest7912 2 роки тому +1

    Your music has helped me through my self hatred and overthinking. Thank you so much!! God bless!!

  • @The_bisexual_crow25
    @The_bisexual_crow25 2 роки тому +1

    This is exactly what I needed. Thank you for this beautiful song 😊

  • @ThePianoLounge
    @ThePianoLounge 2 роки тому +1

    Loving your work 😁

  • @rosesteege6093
    @rosesteege6093 2 роки тому +1

    This is such a great song. Thank you for sharing.

  • @STHNDKAMUSIC
    @STHNDKAMUSIC 2 роки тому

    what a masterpiece

  • @aaronlayson5326
    @aaronlayson5326 2 роки тому +1

    Not understanding how this ain't a hit yet !!!!

  • @Commonsenseguy20
    @Commonsenseguy20 2 роки тому

    I can't imagine myself before I heard this beautiful song

  • @humanbeing4928
    @humanbeing4928 2 роки тому +1

    Living with depression and everyday hearing the voices in my head like " i hate myself...i don't deserve to live " ......aahh i got goosebumps. I wish i couldn't relate to this Lyrics.

  • @mompatimatshaba1216
    @mompatimatshaba1216 2 роки тому +1

    I think i hve 2-3 months listening to your music 🎶 .. especially Butterflies 🦋 song. I must say ur songs always resonate with my emotions... what a 🎵 song ... great lyrics 👏

  • @galaxyamv8428
    @galaxyamv8428 2 роки тому

    you’re songwriting is getting better and better :) It’s so sad how much I relate to this tho

  • @ophelia2936
    @ophelia2936 2 роки тому

    Bless your hands that wrote this

  • @voltairedeleon724
    @voltairedeleon724 2 роки тому +1

    Believe on ourselves, we are the only one who can changed our Future.❤️

  • @slsth3569
    @slsth3569 2 роки тому +1

    How is this guy not famous, i wonder 🤔🤔

  • @alyssarose1657
    @alyssarose1657 8 місяців тому

    It is what it is brought you to my attention && I'm so glad it did . ❤ Your music is beautiful & so relatable ❤

  • @Carrie_LeStrange
    @Carrie_LeStrange 2 місяці тому

    This song..... It's so..... It's like you climbed right into my brain and sat there writing it..

  • @melaniedejesus2176
    @melaniedejesus2176 9 місяців тому +1

    Yup this is my song