People who speak negatively are miserable in their own life and are jealous of your accomplishments. You are truly an impressive woman. Thank you for just being you.
@brianforth4764 she's a woman doing these things, she isn't "like a man" because of her accomplishment. I know you are complimenting her but she isn't more of a man, she's a strong woman. Period.
I like doing Jobs and creating the way men traditionally have done, always wanted wood shop and metal in jr. high school. I’m petite and strong and love working with my body. I’m a woman, too. I totally admire your life, independence, strong, knowledgeable and for just going for it‼️ Thanks for sharing and being you…😎🤗
I can't believe those comments about your "finances" or "a man behind it all" HOLY COW you responded to that with such grace. Well done! (And F those people)
"It's okay to choose yourself in this life. In fact I would highly recommend it." Now that's a fabulous quote that it going onto my quote wall! Thank you for this wonderfully eloquent expression!
I’m 70 yo female - never wanted, never had and NEVER regretted not having children. I’ve traveled, had multiple careers and did whatever I wanted , including marrying 4 times, lol. I’m the fun aunt and godmother and I wouldn’t change my choices for anything.
As a woman especially I so appreciate you being as open about money as you are. It makes these things feel much less intimidating and more possible to achieve.
This is genuinely one of the best vlogs I’ve watched in a long time. From the pressures of being a woman to the reality of grief, I loved every minute of it. I felt like I was having a good heart-to-heart with a friend. Thank you Linnea ❤️
I have never seen one person pack so much living, creating, building and so on into one week. It's too bad that I didn't learn 40 years ago what you know at your age today because I would have set my life differently. Then I didn't realize that I had an option. You amaze me.
Linnea, I am a 75 year old woman who is so impressed by you! Your outlook on life is sane! Your maturity at this young age is is quite amazing! Your politics and understanding of what is sincerely important will bring you such peace and happiness. You are on the right path and I am not usually impressed by many people but you are something! So sorry that you have to experience such ignorance from these men, it’s a waste of your valuable energy. Be grateful that you found Chris and hold him close. I am so very proud of you! Beth
My Dad was my best friend also. I was such a tomboy! We camped, fished, hunted, garage saled & a million other things. He passed in 2012. Depression hit HARD & as you said, the hurt never, ever goes away. My coping mechanism is reminding myself how extremely lucky I was. I have memories that are so special. He even let me go with him to his weekly bowling "with the guys". I'd read or color & wait patiently for him. He taught me to bowl, also. I won't let grief take any of that away from me. When I'm super sad, I grab a memory & thank God for the time I had with him!! ❤❤❤
You make me think of a recent loss. My husband and I met 6 years ago and have been married a little over a year. We were both married before and are later in life. I just adored his mother. She added so much joy to my life and she just passed away. I can’t even feel grief yet becauseI still can’t get pasted how lucky I was to have her in my life. Right now I just feel love when I think about her.
If you let it go ... it goes ... but sometimes it feels "unnatural" to let it go because get used to its company, and for those of us ADHD/Aspie, I think it gives us a tangle point we can "feel"... But oh, there is relief when we look back and see what we left in the valley on the path of life.
the pain fades ... we are programmed to forget pain, otherwise Pandora's box 'false hope' would not have done Zeus any good for torturing us forever : )
I live a totally different life and have a very different lifestyle- but love seeing you being you as hard as you can. And following your own paths. Live and let live - why do many people find that so difficult?
I’m a retired Veteran. Live in a beautiful self built Promaster. My dog and I live an amazing life. I’ve considered putting it up on UA-cam, but ultimately just don’t need the negativity that comes with it. I’m also a Colorado native. Can’t wait for one of your mugs 😊
Linnea, please, for the sake of the world, please continue being completely YOU. For every nay-sayer, you have hundreds (more likely thousands) who think you (and Akela) are completely wonderful and inspiring and just overall delightful. And of course, no opinion should matter but that of your own but please just know you have a much more positive fan base who appreciate you both so much. Also, thank you so much for being so open and honest with your q/a videos. I had no idea you got such personal questions but i really appreciate you taking the time to answer all the Q's and being so honest and forthright about your life.
I love how bad ass you are Linnea, I dont understand why the trolls are so miserable in the comments. Alot of them are probably just mad at themselves cuz there miserable in there own life. You are wise beyond your years. Your dad would be so proud of you.
One SMART woman. I think more women/people should go against societal boxes that have us believe we should put into. Your amazing, beauty & brains. I hope Chris knows he hit the jackpot!
Yes little bird, children will or will not come to you. I adopted the two most amazing children at 42 years old. I’m so glad I waited until I had fulfilled my adventures in live so I did dedicate 20 years to them. Now at 62 they are in college and my adventure part two has started. Baby girl you do you!!
As a 34-year old male, I love the opinions and choices and drive that you have. You're such an inspiration to me, keep being one of the most amazing human beings I follow!
I lost my Dad 8 yrs ago and my Mom 27. I still cry when I think of them. I love the relationship you and Chris have. You are a very strong and independent woman. Keep up the bad ass journey you are on. I’m proud of you.❤❤
I just stumbled upon your channel and I Absolutly love you. You are so talented yet so down to earth and so humble and you know what you want in life and that's in my opinion is what makes you so amazing to watch. If someone doesn't want children that's totally up to them, Never change who you are! We need more people in this world like you. Hope this brings a smile to your face :)
OMG! I just read some of the most negative n mean comments posted. I’m speechless! I’m 74 yo n I’ve watched you from the beginning n you are an inspiration to me! You go girl! ❤
It's four a.m. on Father's Day, watching another of your videos... As someone in there 70's with kids and grandkids, I would be proud to have you as a daughter as I'm sure your Dad is in spirit looking from the other side and guiding your life, dreams and being... Keep being honest, true to yourself and life will be as beautiful as you are....
This reminds me of my great grandmother who walked across the country w a wagon train as a young teenager with her family to build their own future. This is the equivalent today and it’s beautiful, this is what America is all about. Freedom.
Woof. That segment on grief really got me. Thank you for being so candid and vulnerable about your grief journey. I appreciate and respect your lifestyle and can't wait for all the kickass things to come in the future!!
Thank you for keeping it real. For providing inspiration to others. For embracing challenge..for beautiful sunsets. For sharing Akela with all of us. For hikes and fishing..and learning how to shoot arrows...for morning coffee in the snow covered early hours...and so much more. THANK YOU. 🫂🌹🫂
How strong you are. I’m sorry for your loss i don’t comment much on videos but I feel the same grief about my mom and brother loss I feel my life has stoped
You have discovered that hard work, being creative, being in nature, and sweat equity brings true joy. Children will swell your heart in ways that you cannot fathom but it is a decision that requires true introspection. They require the majority of your time and focus. If that isn't your jam, it's better to hold off until you feel you are ready and willing to give yourself to your kids wholeheartedly. My son is my ❤️. And yes, keep working out. I'm a 53 year old woman and lifting is key.
There is a man who lives in West Texas in the desert who has an awesome homestead. I can't remember what his channel is right now, but I'll try to find it. He put a sloping roof on his house and has large water containers to catch rainwater. I was shocked that he was actually able to catch that much water, but I guess it does rain in the desert. He also has raised beds where he grows veggies. Also, there is one guy who planted desert grasses on his land and then desert trees, eventually, a spring came up. He now has an oasis in the desert with wildlife and water and large trees. Also, watch "Greening the Desert." It's an awesome documentary about a man living the desert in Israel, who saw them burning brush and decided to make compost out of it instead and amend the soil. It's mind blowing what a little creativity can do to a desert landscape. I'm subscribing, because I want to see this project from beginning to end.
It is father's day today. I sure do understand your grief. My dad passed just before covid hit. What I miss most is just talking to him. Thank you for sharing. Sincerely , Kathy, Colorado Girl through and through.
Hi fellow unicorn. I too never married, no kids. Lots of assumptions and odd questions as to why. Never understood why it mattered to anyone. If we all worked on being the best ME then what a great WE we'd be.
Same here Hi 👋 single ,no kids in my 50s now , always asked when are you getting married ?!! Who ?!! Kids ?!! I was really busy building my career and traveled alot . I'm always been kinda a lone wolf 🐺 kinda person. ☮️
I had a good friend who was a few years older than I, & throughout my 30s & 40s, kept insisting that everyone needs to experience having at least one child. She had two, one of which she didn’t appear to like at all, & another whom she thought hung the moon, but he’s embarrassed by her & only talks to her if he can’t find a babysitter. 63 now, & thankful every damn day that I never had any.
I guess you can never miss what you never had, but I will never know because I have children. I wouldn't change or exchange that for anything in the world. Biased? Absolutely ❤😊
A friend and I were at a hardware store and a clerk assumed we were a lesbian couple. Because two female friends in a hardware store must imply something about our sexuality. We still laugh about it.
Love this! Lol At one point in time, my best friend and I both drove Subarus. It was often assumed that we were a couple when we pulled up to camp even though we were in separate vehicles. We still laugh about it. If shopping in hardware stores, being able to handle power tools and tackle tough projects, not being afraid to be alone and adventurous, laughing hysterically with the person you're with, and driving a rugged vehicle that can handle rough terrain are Lesbian indicators, who wouldn't want to be mistaken for one! They must be doing something right!❤
Straw bale house is cool, but if I were physically able and after the research I did when I was able, I concluded that a cob house was best for me. I really wish I could do it. My old body and lack of help prevents me. You go! I’ve been watching since your van build and actually used a lot of your ideas to build my own.
Love your answer about the kids. I always knew I wanted to be a mom and my adult sons are still my greatest joy, but wholeheartedly agree no one should feel pressure to do so. Its a huge decision and its 2024. We should be beyond that mentality. Loved the storm too.
OK, this whole video is *amazing* . It made me cry, smile, feel very angry (misogyny! agh), inspired and impressed. It's an interesting thing to watch how peoples fears shape their life, either by them avoiding them and deflecting, or leaning in and growing past them (like you push yourself to). I'm trying *very* hard to not make this comment just about the horrible misogynistic vitriol and the pressures and expectations weighed on women... There is a lot of beauty and support out there in the world too and power in sharing it - so THANK YOU! As an aside; my mom has recently begun fretting over my lack of a man and lack of desire to have any children and has begun to say things like; "You need to find a man who's handy with tools and can do these things for you." And I take a deep breath, remind myself that she's saying it because she loves me & worries (and *ahem* internalized sexism) and tell her "I AM that man, mom."
Misogyny? Seriously? The expectations placed on men and women to marry and have children are often driven by selfish impulses from their families. Both sexes face pressures that are not fair. Don't play into the divide, we both face unique unfair pressures.
@@Make-Asylums-Great-Again Misogyny really yes, I was referring to the comments from guys that she shared in the video (what they were saying, and how what they were saying reflects the expectations on women because of misogyny, like how they expect a man to be behind everything). The pressures to marry and procreate are absolutely shoved onto both sexes, with their own nuances and difficulties, and it sucks for everyone. (Though it is still a pressure still touched by misogyny, both things can be true at the same time, men are also harmed by it)
I'm older 60, and never understood why folks seemingly feel the need to pressure others about having kids, really it's nobody's business, same with someone sexual orientation, what bearing do these have on your life? NONE!
Being 46 I'm still pressured to have kids. Sometimes if it's done aggressively and rude and it's such a private matter. I don't ask people why they have kids. It's none of my business.
It’s not just none of our business what other women decide about having children- it can be heartbreaking for women who are unable and did want children. I always think about my best friend from high school telling me in our 20’s that she hated babies and she wouldn’t even hold them. A few years later she told me that wasn’t the case, she had just found out that she was unable to have children. It took her several years to be able to even look at a baby without crying. It’s just another reason why we really need to mind our business. People are always going through things that we know nothing about, kindness is the answer, and it’s not kind to pry.
When people bug me about having kids I just say, "oh you want to hear about all my miscarriages?" And they usually stop me before I get one sentence into the grizzly details. Don't ask a question if you don't want an honest answer!
Thank you for sharing today. 1) people are asahats 2) you can see your hard work is paying off and it’s awesome to watch 3) grief is very hard and totally personal. I totally get when you mentioned your family grieved in different ways. Same girl…. Same….. it’s been years for my mom, 14 years for my dad and 10 years for my sister and 6 months for a brother… I mourn each one differently… hugs and love your way.
I've been watching your journey for a while now and this by far is my favorite episode. You answer some really personal questions with a calm demeanor and very thoughtful answers. Your response to kids/no kids was SO spot on! I'm 62 and faced those questions for years. Just keep on being you, Linnea! You're fortunate to live in a time when it's much more OK for a woman to be taking on the things you're doing. Keep expanding your horizons! It's fun to be following along. Hugs and kisses to sweet Akela.
Just recently latched on2 your video's and have subscribed. I could identify over many things u showed and discussed. Your comments 2wards the end about grieving resonated within me deeply. Every one grieves differently ,in their own way and in their own time. My hubby passed almost 2 years ago and this Sunday would've marked our 40'th Wedding Anniversary 😢. I miss him so sooo much. The grieving is profound for me. I appreciate your video's because it brings good memories of when he was alive and our time 2gether. We both loved the outdoors and spent a great deal of time interior camping,hiking,portaging together and with our Alaskan Malamutes. Thank you for your video's,your honesty and integrity. I love your dog. She reminds me of mine...Keep on doing what your doing and leave all the negative naysayers behind in the dirt. I'm impressed with your life and accomplishments. No one should judge another until they've walked a mile in their moccasins ...God Bless you and your beloved dog...
I so so appreciate your words and stay inspired by them. Keep it up. Love the life you are living and building Also Chris’s sweet comments here and there about how good everything is turning out is so sweet and thoughtful. But yes everything looks so good and you should be proud!!
Your dad sees all you do and once in awhile they give you signs. I lost my dad in 2020...and I know I'll see him again on the other side❤ When you pass your past animals greet you first then your family ❤😊🙏
mean spirited folks are hurt people lashing out. it's a grand way in life to be happy for others thank you for sharing your thoughts, experiences with us 💚🌱🌻
I just found your page! I’m drawn to adventure and the outdoors. I’m 50 and travel long distances to learn about new places and challenge myself. I’ve been transitioning from tent camping, car camping and hopefully soon I’ll buy a van. The transition has been a challenge. In the past few years, I’ve had some mobility issues that can slow me down. I’ve had to reflect on my ego wants and my limits physically, but I will not stop. I can do things in my own time. I will continue to explore and it is scary making big life decisions and purchases! I’m also a solo female traveler and I’ve learned to trust my instincts and support from others. I love that your page is a combo of what your life looks like, q&a and reflections on life. Thank you!
Oy. This one made me cry. It will be 19 years in the 23rd since my dad’s been gone. And you’re right. It still hurts like Hell. I miss him so much. He never got to meet my kid. Ugh. Those comments on that video had me losing my mind. Holy crap. I’m so sorry you had to see those. Awful people .. Anyway, another wonderful video! Can’t wait to see those raised beds in another month or so! And your shed!! Thank you for sharing it all. You’re a force, and a joy to watch. You inspire me. ❤ Pets and kisses for Akela and Kobes!!
I see your consistent hard work Linnea. Ignore the naysayers - they are just speaking about themselves. Nothing to do with who you are and your passionate, thoughtful, consciously driven lifestyle. We live off grid and spent $35,000 on water infrastructure. With water and soil you can do anything! You go!
It's because they want you to be on the grid there's really no true freedom cuz even if you bought raw land You still have to hook it up to utilities in order for you not to get kicked out of your land
Your such a light ,a love, an adventurous spirit. Love And a curiosity for life moves you forward. Thanks for sharing your life and loves with us. Kisses to Akela
Linnea, I so enjoy and respect your insights. You validate perspectives which are often in the minority and create a source of angst in peoples lives as judgements evolve. Independence. Not choosing parenthood. Sacrifices which really are no such thing. You have brave conversations about these things and so much more! Such a gem!
Golly gee it really gives me hope for humanity when I hear that you and Chris can practice non-enmeshed, spacious love. That is so incredibly refreshing! 💓
Omg! You so perfectly articulated what I’ve been trying to figure out how to say! I live in a shuttle bus that I built out myself and have been living in it for 9 months now. Your comment about the small struggles of van life making what you do/have sweeter. Wow! Nailed it! I’ve always been fiercely independent and a problem solver and I am loving the little day to day struggles and go to sleep at every night with a great sense of accomplishment. Love your journey!
I love your videos and never did it cross my mind nor would it have mattered. I am 58 yrs old and I where a ball hat in summer . Keep being who you were created to be.
Man, it really hit home when you started talking about your dad. I have a lot of the same values and goals you have regarding life and the joy of exploration but i fear going too far from home away from my elderly parents. You're very inspiring!! glad i found your channel.
I`m a guy and I will say well done! You are a big inspiration for me and love your channel, Don`t let the hate comments get to you, keep up the good work!
I climbed Kilimanjaro and 10 other mountains before the "accident"....The 17 year old ran a stop sign and changed my life. You won't go "Crazy" (rough word for people with brain injuries so maybe don't use so much)....you will find a new way. I'm going out again soon....hearing aids, cane and all but she took out my camper, so vanlifing....you might actually find you're a better person because you won't say things like "you'll go crazy" and you will see us....I also have PTSD from hanging upside down in an SUV. Huge fan...keep going....
Kudos to you for living your vision. I love how so many of the younger generation have chosen to live their dreams. Breaking away from the old mold of how we thought we should be Giving great hope to the future of this world. Keep striving on. And may you continue to find fulfillment in living your life!
Not all men think that way I believe in a woman that can do everything by herself best women that do that every person can do things by themselves they don't need anybody else to do it for them they just got to get up and do it you're very smart strong girl😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
I am so glad that you don’t feel pressured about having children. I knew for myself it wasn’t going to work and I loved my job which wouldn’t have fit with a family . There was lots of criticism but I stayed happy with my decision . I’m so glad that you are making the life choices you want and that make you happy! Great video btw!❤❤
I think the reason why you get asked if you are gay is because of your power and energy. Those are usually considered masculine traits, but you break all the societal boundaries with your hunger for knowledge and your fierce independence. Your physical strength and endurance is phenomenal. I think it may intimidate women, when it should really inspire them. You chose a man who compliments you in every way. A beautiful match I must say. You are just incredible Linnea., as is Chris. Blessings to you both. ❤
I'm seeing pink in your skin, and I'd like you to consider Coolibar SPF hat and clothing. I survived skin cancer, but it's wasn't easy. Please take care.
My bff Tina did not survive skin cancer either. The Mom/Grandma/Retired licensed Esthetician in Me is begging you to wear sunscreen every. Single. Day. You already wear a Hat and that’s good! Just protect yourself sweet child ❤ The world of younger women NEEEEEEED old Lady Linnea to be here when you’re 80…. 90… 100 ❤ Ironically, earlier today I saw Tina’s number in my phone 😢 I sat there staring at it wishing I could call her. I miss her so much
Love your attitude & drive. I’m in my early 60s and have lived a bit of an unconventional life - no kids, sailed away on our sailboats a couple of times. So much I agree with you on! You go girl!
This video might be one of my favorite of yours that I've seen out of all the time I've followed you. I loved your responses especially to the question of losing a parent, being queer, and then your view on choosing yourself in this life despite society's norms. I love that you always show an alternative and beautiful life you're building. As a queer person myself who has lost both of my parents, all grandparents, and several friends with no other blood family alive that accepts me the deep grief you talk about I very much feel in my daily life still to this day at 34 years old. Continue being your authentic self, the world is a better place for you being you ♥️
I feel like I say this everytime but I LOVED THIS VIDEO! The transparency when buying land, speaking about kids and societal pressure, keeping fit and healthy, how much you and Chris support each other (with literal proof not long after haha), Akela's and Kobuk's differences (last video was so damn cute with all the Akela cuddles!), your incredibly bravery and wisdom sharing about your grief (I cried with you), and CALLING OUT THE DICKHEADS who have nasty things to say (such a classy way to address the toxicity of it). The way you articulate your thoughts is beautiful. So much value, so much comfort, so much inspiration... I could go on and on. As always, absolutely brilliant video. Much love from NZ ❤
I have spent nearly half a day watching all of your shorts and a couple of your videos. You are a very enjoyable person and I find your spirit uplifting. That said I am a 57 year old dude who is not a perv and has worked for everything I have ever gotten. A part of me envy’s you.
Girrrrrrllllll …… don’t even listen to the naysayers. You are rocking it!!! Oh how I wish I could have a do-over and live a similar lifestyle. But with 60 around the corner I am a bit limited. However you are totally motivating me to do something different. THANK YOU!!!
I'm (f) going to be 65 this summer; have lived in a '93 pre-fab camper van for 3 years; bought a 2019 Ram utility van this summer; and am building it out myself. What I've learned from watching a gazillion hours of male and female builders is that mistakes will happen. You plan plan plan, act, and then execute. If not up to your expectations, pause, plan again and re-execute. Not gender dependent or age dependent.
Thank you more than I can express for discussing grief. My little copilot, Henry, passed away last Wednesday night. My life, my van life, everything, feels so off without my buddy. You are an inspiration and a joy to watch. Thank you so much!!
Losing your parents is a grief like no other. Also, it's something you can't comprehend until you walk through it. Others can walk alongside but it's a solitary journey. I lost both my parents in 2020. I'm only now starting to feel like myself. I cried buckets, I journaled and I ate lots of ice cream. I found uplifting u-tubers, like Linea, and followed their journey. There are gifts along the path that help you carry the grief. One of my gifts was a sweet little robin. He came to my patio door every morning. He would cock his head and peer in, like he was checking on me. My heart hurts for you. I know how hard it is. Linea has so much wisdom. I love listening to her counsel. Much love, hugs and prayers from a fellow grief warrior.
You’re incredible self awareness combined with your willingness to share your most private details of your life is so generous and kind. If you later decide to have children, you’ll be a fantastic mother. If not, you’ll continue to share your gifts with others and that’s also a lot like being a mother.
I show my adult son your videos. I told him this is your type of girl. Flyfishing, living in nature etc. just like my son. Your a special woman. Keep doing you.
My son just graduated high school, they are all consuming, and expensive. And brining a baby into a rain forest isn’t recommended lol. I had my son later @ 37 before that I had a ball, traveled and enjoyed so much. Then after that I guess it was time for me. But even at that time I could have gone either way. I was whole without kids. I love him he’s amazing and I don’t regret my choices. And so glad I had fun and traveled while I was still young and had money, kids are expensive lol. So definitely do what’s right for you.
I lost my mother a year ago. I still miss her, she was the most amazing human I have ever met, she was the kindest person I have ever met. I tear up right now thinking of her.
I think people should live their lives as the want to and not how society says we should and love how you look at life with a freedom of choice. I did also wonder about you being a member of the queer community but I actually like how you answered the question. Keep being you.
People who speak negatively are miserable in their own life and are jealous of your accomplishments. You are truly an impressive woman. Thank you for just being you.
I totally agree! Linnea is such a special and truly amazing person.💞💞
Linnea is more a man than ill ever be, I can't even imagine building half the things she builds let alone live the outside life she lives.
@brianforth4764 she's a woman doing these things, she isn't "like a man" because of her accomplishment. I know you are complimenting her but she isn't more of a man, she's a strong woman. Period.
I like doing Jobs and creating the way men traditionally have done, always wanted wood shop and metal in jr. high school. I’m petite and strong and love working with my body. I’m a woman, too. I totally admire your life, independence, strong, knowledgeable and for just going for it‼️ Thanks for sharing and being you…😎🤗
Bethany
So true, negative individuals are miserable in their own lives and skin.,
I can't believe those comments about your "finances" or "a man behind it all" HOLY COW you responded to that with such grace. Well done! (And F those people)
I couldn't believe them either. :( Thank you for the support!
People are so rude and so jealous of your accomplishments. I'm glad you pay no attention to them and continue to do your thing that you love.
As a 78 year old woman I am so envious of you. You are doing the lifestyle I would do. Keep the vision.
"It's okay to choose yourself in this life. In fact I would highly recommend it." Now that's a fabulous quote that it going onto my quote wall! Thank you for this wonderfully eloquent expression!
Love that! Thank you so much!
I’m 70 yo female - never wanted, never had and NEVER regretted not having children. I’ve traveled, had multiple careers and did whatever I wanted , including marrying 4 times, lol. I’m the fun aunt and godmother and I wouldn’t change my choices for anything.
Assisted living or family? Who will be helping when the time comes? I ask because I’m on a similar path.
@@Make-Asylums-Great-Again Don't know for sure, but just a stab. If she's the "fun aunt and god mother, sounds like she's got options.
Divorce is total HELL.
I don't know you personally, but girl, I am proud of you! 😊
Thank you so much!
Right!
Amen! Whatta badass!!!!❤
As a woman especially I so appreciate you being as open about money as you are. It makes these things feel much less intimidating and more possible to achieve.
Absolutely agree!
This is genuinely one of the best vlogs I’ve watched in a long time. From the pressures of being a woman to the reality of grief, I loved every minute of it. I felt like I was having a good heart-to-heart with a friend. Thank you Linnea ❤️
I'm so, so glad it hit your heart Charlene!
Same here, plus I can truly relate.
I have never seen one person pack so much living, creating, building and so on into one week. It's too bad that I didn't learn 40 years ago what you know at your age today because I would have set my life differently. Then I didn't realize that I had an option. You amaze me.
I think that is the problem for us older ladies (68), we didn't realise that we had the option!!!
Well to be realistic, back then we couldn’t even get credit. Remember that? ?
As a girly girl who also love outdoorsy stuff and making things for myself, i LOVED seeing you do all that hard work in the cutest dress 🥰
Linnea, I am a 75 year old woman who is so impressed by you!
Your outlook on life is sane! Your maturity at this young age is
is quite amazing! Your politics and understanding of what is sincerely important will bring you such peace and happiness. You are on the right path and I am not usually impressed by many people but you are something!
So sorry that you have to experience such ignorance from these men, it’s a waste of your valuable energy. Be grateful that you found Chris and hold him close. I am so very proud of you! Beth
@@bethcorwin9394 I'm a 74 year old guy beth ... and I approve of your message! :)
My Dad was my best friend also. I was such a tomboy! We camped, fished, hunted, garage saled & a million other things. He passed in 2012. Depression hit HARD & as you said, the hurt never, ever goes away. My coping mechanism is reminding myself how extremely lucky I was. I have memories that are so special. He even let me go with him to his weekly bowling "with the guys". I'd read or color & wait patiently for him. He taught me to bowl, also. I won't let grief take any of that away from me. When I'm super sad, I grab a memory & thank God for the time I had with him!! ❤❤❤
Sounds like an amazing dad. ❤
You are amazing, I luv ur spirit. U r an inspiration to all woman of all ages
You make me think of a recent loss. My husband and I met 6 years ago and have been married a little over a year. We were both married before and are later in life. I just adored his mother. She added so much joy to my life and she just passed away. I can’t even feel grief yet becauseI still can’t get pasted how lucky I was to have her in my life. Right now I just feel love when I think about her.
Really people should mind their own business but your example of strong independence and capability is inspiring. Good luck to you and your future. 😊
Thank you!
Your words are artistic and inspirational. Well spoken by a truly beautiful soul. Thank you.
Wow, thank you!
Wise beyond your years young lady. Carry on 💪 fullfil your dreams. So important!!! 🐾🙏🏻✌🏻
Thank you so much!
@@Linneaandakela you're most welcome.
Time does not heal all wounds, we simply learn to make room for the pain of loss.
If you let it go ... it goes ... but sometimes it feels "unnatural" to let it go because get used to its company, and for those of us ADHD/Aspie, I think it gives us a tangle point we can "feel"... But oh, there is relief when we look back and see what we left in the valley on the path of life.
the pain fades ... we are programmed to forget pain, otherwise Pandora's box 'false hope' would not have done Zeus any good for torturing us forever : )
I hope you never stop filming and sharing your life and thoughts. You are such a beautiful and interesting individual. Loved this one a lot.
I live a totally different life and have a very different lifestyle- but love seeing you being you as hard as you can. And following your own paths.
Live and let live - why do many people find that so difficult?
Agree - thanks so much for the support. And I'm so glad you're in a lifestyle that makes you happy!
I’m a retired Veteran. Live in a beautiful self built Promaster. My dog and I live an amazing life. I’ve considered putting it up on UA-cam, but ultimately just don’t need the negativity that comes with it.
I’m also a Colorado native. Can’t wait for one of your mugs 😊
Creativity! Yes. Kids? Not necessary to be a lovely nurturing human! Right on! Not made to create babies! Live you! Love you!
Some people like the community or revenue. If you don't need it, don't do it
Linnea, please, for the sake of the world, please continue being completely YOU. For every nay-sayer, you have hundreds (more likely thousands) who think you (and Akela) are completely wonderful and inspiring and just overall delightful. And of course, no opinion should matter but that of your own but please just know you have a much more positive fan base who appreciate you both so much.
Also, thank you so much for being so open and honest with your q/a videos. I had no idea you got such personal questions but i really appreciate you taking the time to answer all the Q's and being so honest and forthright about your life.
I love how bad ass you are Linnea, I dont understand why the trolls are so miserable in the comments. Alot of them are probably just mad at themselves cuz there miserable in there own life. You are wise beyond your years. Your dad would be so proud of you.
One SMART woman. I think more women/people should go against societal boxes that have us believe we should put into. Your amazing, beauty & brains. I hope Chris knows he hit the jackpot!
Yes little bird, children will or will not come to you. I adopted the two most amazing children at 42 years old. I’m so glad I waited until I had fulfilled my adventures in live so I did dedicate 20 years to them. Now at 62 they are in college and my adventure part two has started. Baby girl you do you!!
As a 34-year old male, I love the opinions and choices and drive that you have. You're such an inspiration to me, keep being one of the most amazing human beings I follow!
I lost my Dad 8 yrs ago and my Mom 27. I still cry when I think of them. I love the relationship you and Chris have. You are a very strong and independent woman. Keep up the bad ass journey you are on. I’m proud of you.❤❤
I'm so deeply sorry for your losses.
I love how Akela barked when you called for Chris like she was helping.
Haha isn't that the cutest??
I love that your are building a beautiful life in your own!!! There needs to be more woman speaking about their accomplishments.
You are my hero! 💛
Amen!! Thank you so much!
I just stumbled upon your channel and I Absolutly love you. You are so talented yet so down to earth and so humble and you know what you want in life and that's in my opinion is what makes you so amazing to watch. If someone doesn't want children that's totally up to them, Never change who you are! We need more people in this world like you. Hope this brings a smile to your face :)
OMG! I just read some of the most negative n mean comments posted. I’m speechless! I’m 74 yo n I’ve watched you from the beginning n you are an inspiration to me! You go girl! ❤
It's four a.m. on Father's Day, watching another of your videos... As someone in there 70's with kids and grandkids, I would be proud to have you as a daughter as I'm sure your Dad is in spirit looking from the other side and guiding your life, dreams and being... Keep being honest, true to yourself and life will be as beautiful as you are....
Wow what a bunch of angry jealous people. I think your great Linnea, support and watch you all the time. Ignore the negativity.
Who’s being negative, I see nothing but support.
@@Make-Asylums-Great-AgainI think they meant the ones displayed in the video.
This reminds me of my great grandmother who walked across the country w a wagon train as a young teenager with her family to build their own future. This is the equivalent today and it’s beautiful, this is what America is all about. Freedom.
Woof. That segment on grief really got me. Thank you for being so candid and vulnerable about your grief journey. I appreciate and respect your lifestyle and can't wait for all the kickass things to come in the future!!
Thank you for keeping it real. For providing inspiration to others. For embracing challenge..for beautiful sunsets. For sharing Akela with all of us. For hikes and fishing..and learning how to shoot arrows...for morning coffee in the snow covered early hours...and so much more. THANK YOU. 🫂🌹🫂
How strong you are. I’m sorry for your loss i don’t comment much on videos but I feel the same grief about my mom and brother loss I feel my life has stoped
You have discovered that hard work, being creative, being in nature, and sweat equity brings true joy. Children will swell your heart in ways that you cannot fathom but it is a decision that requires true introspection. They require the majority of your time and focus. If that isn't your jam, it's better to hold off until you feel you are ready and willing to give yourself to your kids wholeheartedly. My son is my ❤️. And yes, keep working out. I'm a 53 year old woman and lifting is key.
Alot of things fill your heart..it takes a strong visionary woman to also want more for herself than children.
You speak from the heart, and it's refreshing.
There is a man who lives in West Texas in the desert who has an awesome homestead. I can't remember what his channel is right now, but I'll try to find it. He put a sloping roof on his house and has large water containers to catch rainwater. I was shocked that he was actually able to catch that much water, but I guess it does rain in the desert. He also has raised beds where he grows veggies. Also, there is one guy who planted desert grasses on his land and then desert trees, eventually, a spring came up. He now has an oasis in the desert with wildlife and water and large trees. Also, watch "Greening the Desert." It's an awesome documentary about a man living the desert in Israel, who saw them burning brush and decided to make compost out of it instead and amend the soil. It's mind blowing what a little creativity can do to a desert landscape. I'm subscribing, because I want to see this project from beginning to end.
It is father's day today. I sure do understand your grief. My dad passed just before covid hit. What I miss most is just talking to him. Thank you for sharing. Sincerely , Kathy, Colorado Girl through and through.
Wow those disgusting comments!!
I am 63 never married, no kids and livin in mexico w a view of the beach 4 minutes away.
This ol lady has NO
Regrets!
Good for you. You go girl.
Hi fellow unicorn. I too never married, no kids. Lots of assumptions and odd questions as to why. Never understood why it mattered to anyone. If we all worked on being the best ME then what a great WE we'd be.
Same here Hi 👋 single ,no kids in my 50s now , always asked when are you getting married ?!! Who ?!! Kids ?!! I was really busy building my career and traveled alot . I'm always been kinda a lone wolf 🐺 kinda person. ☮️
I had a good friend who was a few years older than I, & throughout my 30s & 40s, kept insisting that everyone needs to experience having at least one child. She had two, one of which she didn’t appear to like at all, & another whom she thought hung the moon, but he’s embarrassed by her & only talks to her if he can’t find a babysitter.
63 now, & thankful every damn day that I never had any.
I guess you can never miss what you never had, but I will never know because I have children. I wouldn't change or exchange that for anything in the world. Biased? Absolutely ❤😊
A friend and I were at a hardware store and a clerk assumed we were a lesbian couple. Because two female friends in a hardware store must imply something about our sexuality. We still laugh about it.
this is one of the funnier stories i've read in a comments section. i love that you both just laugh about it (and how could you not)
He even said something about how I "must be the one who cooks." Because I mentioned going to the cooking section of the store. Lol
Love this! Lol At one point in time, my best friend and I both drove Subarus. It was often assumed that we were a couple when we pulled up to camp even though we were in separate vehicles. We still laugh about it. If shopping in hardware stores, being able to handle power tools and tackle tough projects, not being afraid to be alone and adventurous, laughing hysterically with the person you're with, and driving a rugged vehicle that can handle rough terrain are Lesbian indicators, who wouldn't want to be mistaken for one! They must be doing something right!❤
Straw bale house is cool, but if I were physically able and after the research I did when I was able, I concluded that a cob house was best for me. I really wish I could do it. My old body and lack of help prevents me. You go! I’ve been watching since your van build and actually used a lot of your ideas to build my own.
Love your answer about the kids. I always knew I wanted to be a mom and my adult sons are still my greatest joy, but wholeheartedly agree no one should feel pressure to do so. Its a huge decision and its 2024. We should be beyond that mentality. Loved the storm too.
OK, this whole video is *amazing* . It made me cry, smile, feel very angry (misogyny! agh), inspired and impressed. It's an interesting thing to watch how peoples fears shape their life, either by them avoiding them and deflecting, or leaning in and growing past them (like you push yourself to). I'm trying *very* hard to not make this comment just about the horrible misogynistic vitriol and the pressures and expectations weighed on women... There is a lot of beauty and support out there in the world too and power in sharing it - so THANK YOU!
As an aside; my mom has recently begun fretting over my lack of a man and lack of desire to have any children and has begun to say things like; "You need to find a man who's handy with tools and can do these things for you." And I take a deep breath, remind myself that she's saying it because she loves me & worries (and *ahem* internalized sexism) and tell her "I AM that man, mom."
Misogyny? Seriously? The expectations placed on men and women to marry and have children are often driven by selfish impulses from their families. Both sexes face pressures that are not fair.
Don't play into the divide, we both face unique unfair pressures.
@@Make-Asylums-Great-Again Misogyny really yes, I was referring to the comments from guys that she shared in the video (what they were saying, and how what they were saying reflects the expectations on women because of misogyny, like how they expect a man to be behind everything).
The pressures to marry and procreate are absolutely shoved onto both sexes, with their own nuances and difficulties, and it sucks for everyone. (Though it is still a pressure still touched by misogyny, both things can be true at the same time, men are also harmed by it)
I'm older 60, and never understood why folks seemingly feel the need to pressure others about having kids, really it's nobody's business, same with someone sexual orientation, what bearing do these have on your life? NONE!
Being 46 I'm still pressured to have kids. Sometimes if it's done aggressively and rude and it's such a private matter. I don't ask people why they have kids. It's none of my business.
Same here. I'm 48.
It’s not just none of our business what other women decide about having children- it can be heartbreaking for women who are unable and did want children. I always think about my best friend from high school telling me in our 20’s that she hated babies and she wouldn’t even hold them. A few years later she told me that wasn’t the case, she had just found out that she was unable to have children. It took her several years to be able to even look at a baby without crying.
It’s just another reason why we really need to mind our business. People are always going through things that we know nothing about, kindness is the answer, and it’s not kind to pry.
When people bug me about having kids I just say, "oh you want to hear about all my miscarriages?" And they usually stop me before I get one sentence into the grizzly details. Don't ask a question if you don't want an honest answer!
I love your passion for life and your desire for independence. Your desire to learn is absolutely beautiful. Keep going and being you.
Linnea, I have never commented on any video on UA-cam, BUT you are so inspiring, thank you. Love from germany
Thank you for sharing today. 1) people are asahats 2) you can see your hard work is paying off and it’s awesome to watch 3) grief is very hard and totally personal. I totally get when you mentioned your family grieved in different ways. Same girl…. Same….. it’s been years for my mom, 14 years for my dad and 10 years for my sister and 6 months for a brother… I mourn each one differently… hugs and love your way.
I've been watching your journey for a while now and this by far is my favorite episode. You answer some really personal questions with a calm demeanor and very thoughtful answers. Your response to kids/no kids was SO spot on! I'm 62 and faced those questions for years. Just keep on being you, Linnea! You're fortunate to live in a time when it's much more OK for a woman to be taking on the things you're doing. Keep expanding your horizons! It's fun to be following along. Hugs and kisses to sweet Akela.
Thank you for your authentic, courageous, beautiful self. How inspiring you are. ❤
Thank you so much!
Just recently latched on2 your video's and have subscribed. I could identify over many things u showed and discussed. Your comments 2wards the end about grieving resonated within me deeply. Every one grieves differently ,in their own way and in their own time. My hubby passed almost 2 years ago and this Sunday would've marked our 40'th Wedding Anniversary 😢. I miss him so sooo much. The grieving is profound for me. I appreciate your video's because it brings good memories of when he was alive and our time 2gether. We both loved the outdoors and spent a great deal of time interior camping,hiking,portaging together and with our Alaskan Malamutes. Thank you for your video's,your honesty and integrity. I love your dog. She reminds me of mine...Keep on doing what your doing and leave all the negative naysayers behind in the dirt. I'm impressed with your life and accomplishments. No one should judge another until they've walked a mile in their moccasins ...God Bless you and your beloved dog...
My mom passed last summer. I still haven't openly grieved for her. Yes I miss her but didn't or haven't cried.
I love following your journey.
I so so appreciate your words and stay inspired by them. Keep it up. Love the life you are living and building
Also Chris’s sweet comments here and there about how good everything is turning out is so sweet and thoughtful. But yes everything looks so good and you should be proud!!
I'm so glad!
Your dad sees all you do and once in awhile they give you signs. I lost my dad in 2020...and I know I'll see him again on the other side❤ When you pass your past animals greet you first then your family ❤😊🙏
You have such an interesting presence in your videos. You make them so easy to watch. Love your style.
Thank you so much!
mean spirited folks are hurt people lashing out.
it's a grand way in life to be happy for others
thank you for sharing your thoughts, experiences with us 💚🌱🌻
I just found your page! I’m drawn to adventure and the outdoors. I’m 50 and travel long distances to learn about new places and challenge myself. I’ve been transitioning from tent camping, car camping and hopefully soon I’ll buy a van. The transition has been a challenge.
In the past few years, I’ve had some mobility issues that can slow me down. I’ve had to reflect on my ego wants and my limits physically, but I will not stop. I can do things in my own time.
I will continue to explore and it is scary making big life decisions and purchases!
I’m also a solo female traveler and I’ve learned to trust my instincts and support from others.
I love that your page is a combo of what your life looks like, q&a and reflections on life.
Thank you!
Oy. This one made me cry. It will be 19 years in the 23rd since my dad’s been gone. And you’re right. It still hurts like Hell. I miss him so much. He never got to meet my kid. Ugh.
Those comments on that video had me losing my mind. Holy crap. I’m so sorry you had to see those. Awful people ..
Anyway, another wonderful video! Can’t wait to see those raised beds in another month or so! And your shed!!
Thank you for sharing it all. You’re a force, and a joy to watch. You inspire me. ❤
Pets and kisses for Akela and Kobes!!
I see your consistent hard work Linnea. Ignore the naysayers - they are just speaking about themselves. Nothing to do with who you are and your passionate, thoughtful, consciously driven lifestyle. We live off grid and spent $35,000 on water infrastructure. With water and soil you can do anything! You go!
Learned a lot about the early steps to buying land-never considered how significant county regulations can be.
It's because they want you to be on the grid there's really no true freedom cuz even if you bought raw land You still have to hook it up to utilities in order for you not to get kicked out of your land
Most have a minimum requirement of square footage of living space, & distance between the well & septic.
Your such a light
,a love, an adventurous spirit. Love
And a curiosity for life moves you forward. Thanks for sharing your life and loves with us. Kisses to Akela
Aw thank you so much!
You are such an inspiration ❤ i really love watching your videos.
Thank you so much!
Linnea, I so enjoy and respect your insights. You validate perspectives which are often in the minority and create a source of angst in peoples lives as judgements evolve. Independence. Not choosing parenthood. Sacrifices which really are no such thing. You have brave conversations about these things and so much more! Such a gem!
Golly gee it really gives me hope for humanity when I hear that you and Chris can practice non-enmeshed, spacious love.
That is so incredibly refreshing! 💓
There should be more people like you in the world.
Stick to your path.
Thank you so much!
You Rock girl,love the way you think,you speak of years older and wiser then you are,love your channel!😊
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Omg! You so perfectly articulated what I’ve been trying to figure out how to say! I live in a shuttle bus that I built out myself and have been living in it for 9 months now. Your comment about the small struggles of van life making what you do/have sweeter. Wow! Nailed it! I’ve always been fiercely independent and a problem solver and I am loving the little day to day struggles and go to sleep at every night with a great sense of accomplishment. Love your journey!
I love your videos and never did it cross my mind nor would it have mattered. I am 58 yrs old and I where a ball hat in summer . Keep being who you were created to be.
Rock on! Thank you so much!
So true on your thoughts on fitness. My goals now , with my 60’s quickly approaching, is to stay in shape and independent as long as I can.
Excellent - same! :) Let's get it!
I love your videos and having watched your journey. Truly a gift
I'm so glad!
Man, it really hit home when you started talking about your dad. I have a lot of the same values and goals you have regarding life and the joy of exploration but i fear going too far from home away from my elderly parents. You're very inspiring!! glad i found your channel.
I`m a guy and I will say well done! You are a big inspiration for me and love your channel, Don`t let the hate comments get to you, keep up the good work!
Aw thank you so much! I appreciate the support. :)
I climbed Kilimanjaro and 10 other mountains before the "accident"....The 17 year old ran a stop sign and changed my life. You won't go "Crazy" (rough word for people with brain injuries so maybe don't use so much)....you will find a new way. I'm going out again soon....hearing aids, cane and all but she took out my camper, so vanlifing....you might actually find you're a better person because you won't say things like "you'll go crazy" and you will see us....I also have PTSD from hanging upside down in an SUV. Huge fan...keep going....
Thank you for sharing, I love how you share your projects. I'm old, but very inspired 😊. Your way of navigating choices is absolutely amazing 🤗🌺
Thank you so much!
I agree with you….whatever your choice is about kids, it’s what’s right for you, PERIOD!! LOVE your videos!!♥️♥️♥️Linnea stay TRUE to you!! 💝✨💝
Always look forward to the videos
Ive been watching your videos since you started and thumbs up came along way
Kudos to you for living your vision. I love how so many of the younger generation have chosen to live their dreams. Breaking away from the old mold of how we thought we should be Giving great hope to the future of this world. Keep striving on. And may you continue to find fulfillment in living your life!
You know what you do you ❤ it doesn't matter 😊 your choices that make you happy 🎉
Yes! Thank you so much!
Your relationship with Kris is so healthy
Not all men think that way I believe in a woman that can do everything by herself best women that do that every person can do things by themselves they don't need anybody else to do it for them they just got to get up and do it you're very smart strong girl😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
Women don't need ANY permission for their own lives and direction. Period.
I am so glad that you don’t feel pressured about having children. I knew for myself it wasn’t going to work and I loved my job which wouldn’t have fit with a family . There was lots of criticism but I stayed happy with my decision . I’m so glad that you are making the life choices you want and that make you happy! Great video btw!❤❤
Thank you so much, Norman! :)
Thanks for speaking up! 👏
@@Linneaandakela 😁😁
I think the reason why you get asked if you are gay is because of your power and energy. Those are usually considered masculine traits, but you break all the societal boundaries with your hunger for knowledge and your fierce independence. Your physical strength and endurance is phenomenal. I think it may intimidate women, when it should really inspire them. You chose a man who compliments you in every way. A beautiful match I must say. You are just incredible Linnea., as is Chris. Blessings to you both. ❤
I'm seeing pink in your skin, and I'd like you to consider Coolibar SPF hat and clothing. I survived skin cancer, but it's wasn't easy. Please take care.
Seconded. My mom did not survive.
yes, please please, linnea! take care, put SPF and check the moles once in a while! we want you safe
My bff Tina did not survive skin cancer either. The Mom/Grandma/Retired licensed Esthetician in Me is begging you to wear sunscreen every. Single. Day. You already wear a Hat and that’s good! Just protect yourself sweet child ❤ The world of younger women NEEEEEEED old Lady Linnea to be here when you’re 80…. 90… 100 ❤
Ironically, earlier today I saw Tina’s number in my phone 😢 I sat there staring at it wishing I could call her. I miss her so much
Love your attitude & drive. I’m in my early 60s and have lived a bit of an unconventional life - no kids, sailed away on our sailboats a couple of times. So much I agree with you on! You go girl!
That sounds amazing!! Good for you!
I love those raised beds! They're beautiful
They turned out so cool!
This video might be one of my favorite of yours that I've seen out of all the time I've followed you. I loved your responses especially to the question of losing a parent, being queer, and then your view on choosing yourself in this life despite society's norms. I love that you always show an alternative and beautiful life you're building. As a queer person myself who has lost both of my parents, all grandparents, and several friends with no other blood family alive that accepts me the deep grief you talk about I very much feel in my daily life still to this day at 34 years old. Continue being your authentic self, the world is a better place for you being you ♥️
Well said! Be proud
I feel like I say this everytime but I LOVED THIS VIDEO!
The transparency when buying land, speaking about kids and societal pressure, keeping fit and healthy, how much you and Chris support each other (with literal proof not long after haha), Akela's and Kobuk's differences (last video was so damn cute with all the Akela cuddles!), your incredibly bravery and wisdom sharing about your grief (I cried with you), and CALLING OUT THE DICKHEADS who have nasty things to say (such a classy way to address the toxicity of it). The way you articulate your thoughts is beautiful.
So much value, so much comfort, so much inspiration... I could go on and on. As always, absolutely brilliant video.
Much love from NZ ❤
If I could “like” this video multiple times I would. You are an amazing human being. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. Peace.☮️
Thank you so much! I'm so glad you enjoyed it!
Haters gonna hate, plough on girl, you got this.
Thank you!
I have spent nearly half a day watching all of your shorts and a couple of your videos. You are a very enjoyable person and I find your spirit uplifting. That said I am a 57 year old dude who is not a perv and has worked for everything I have ever gotten. A part of me envy’s you.
Wow, thank you! That's really kind of you to say! :)
Girrrrrrllllll …… don’t even listen to the naysayers. You are rocking it!!! Oh how I wish I could have a do-over and live a similar lifestyle. But with 60 around the corner I am a bit limited. However you are totally motivating me to do something different. THANK YOU!!!
I'm (f) going to be 65 this summer; have lived in a '93 pre-fab camper van for 3 years; bought a 2019 Ram utility van this summer; and am building it out myself. What I've learned from watching a gazillion hours of male and female builders is that mistakes will happen. You plan plan plan, act, and then execute. If not up to your expectations, pause, plan again and re-execute. Not gender dependent or age dependent.
Thank you Linnea for your amazing storys and meaningful words 💚 you inspire me to strive for a life that I want and that makes me happy 🌱
Aw I'm so glad.
WOW!! Back 2 back vids.....!! NICE!!
Thank you more than I can express for discussing grief. My little copilot, Henry, passed away last Wednesday night. My life, my van life, everything, feels so off without my buddy. You are an inspiration and a joy to watch. Thank you so much!!
So sorry to hear about your Henry. Very sad.
Losing your parents is a grief like no other. Also, it's something you can't comprehend until you walk through it. Others can walk alongside but it's a solitary journey. I lost both my parents in 2020. I'm only now starting to feel like myself. I cried buckets, I journaled and I ate lots of ice cream. I found uplifting u-tubers, like Linea, and followed their journey. There are gifts along the path that help you carry the grief. One of my gifts was a sweet little robin. He came to my patio door every morning. He would cock his head and peer in, like he was checking on me. My heart hurts for you. I know how hard it is. Linea has so much wisdom. I love listening to her counsel. Much love, hugs and prayers from a fellow grief warrior.
You’re incredible self awareness combined with your willingness to share your most private details of your life is so generous and kind. If you later decide to have children, you’ll be a fantastic mother. If not, you’ll continue to share your gifts with others and that’s also a lot like being a mother.
I agree...life is a choice. I love how you think. ❤ Find joy in what completes you. No judging or expecting how others should live.
I show my adult son your videos. I told him this is your type of girl. Flyfishing, living in nature etc. just like my son.
Your a special woman. Keep doing you.
My son just graduated high school, they are all consuming, and expensive. And brining a baby into a rain forest isn’t recommended lol. I had my son later @ 37 before that I had a ball, traveled and enjoyed so much. Then after that I guess it was time for me. But even at that time I could have gone either way. I was whole without kids. I love him he’s amazing and I don’t regret my choices. And so glad I had fun and traveled while I was still young and had money, kids are expensive lol. So definitely do what’s right for you.
I love you saying how you were "whole" without a child .. and OK to decide...OK now works. Congrats on your grad.
I lost my mother a year ago. I still miss her, she was the most amazing human I have ever met, she was the kindest person I have ever met. I tear up right now thinking of her.
I think people should live their lives as the want to and not how society says we should and love how you look at life with a freedom of choice. I did also wonder about you being a member of the queer community but I actually like how you answered the question. Keep being you.