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  • @simonesimmons
    @simonesimmons  Рік тому +113

    Go to @simonesquared to join the 30 day manifestation challenge. I'll be releasing the video on Monday! It's a group challenge so you can join the Discord which I'll post then as well

    • @issjjd4651
      @issjjd4651 Рік тому +1

    • @sarasadde1874
      @sarasadde1874 Рік тому +1

      hi I am not finding the link for the server

    • @TilikaVispute
      @TilikaVispute Рік тому +1

      Can’t find it either 🙈💕 pls help

    • @TilikaVispute
      @TilikaVispute Рік тому

      @@shoshoshx thanksss!!! I saw her IG and joined Discord group but was still difficult for me to navigate 🙈💕 thank YOU!! 🌟

    • @ramooyeido1772
      @ramooyeido1772 Рік тому

      Wow, you are too beautiful whomever see you shall believe that God is real, and whenever I see you I am always in a dream, and when we wake up we all will realize that all this life was nothing but a dream and that only God is whats true and real.
      I dont know how can atheists believe that such a very sexy attractive beauty queen like you came from monkeys hahaha
      😄
      There was a teacher whom didn't believe in the existence of God, He said to his students do you see God?,
      the students replied no we don't see God, so the teacher said if you don't see God it means there is no God,
      then a smart student stood up and said to the other students hey guys do you see the teachers brain?,
      then the students replied no we don't see the teachers brain, the student then said then the teacher is crazy he got no brain :0)
      عن الإمام علي "عليه السلام": عَجِبتُ لمن شك في الله، وهو يرى خلق الله
      Imam Ali, peace be upon him, said: I cant understand how a man-man/women-can doubt in the existence of God-/Allah-although he sees His creation.
      وعن الإمام علي "عليه السلام": عَجِبتُ لمن أنكر النشأة الأخرى، وهو يرى النشأة الأولى
      Imam Ali, peace be upon him, said: I cant understand how any one denies the second life although he/she seen the first life-this life is actually a living proof of both the existence of its creator, as well as a clear proof that indicates that another life in heaven or hell may also be a very possible chance as well-.
      وعن الإمام علي "عليه السلام": عَجِبتُ لعامر دار الفناء، وتارك دار البقاء Imam Ali, peace be upon him, said: I cant understand how any one inhabits this transient abode-and is
      so indulged in it-but ignores the everlasting hereafter abode,
      ​one God for all of us, all the universe shows unity with diversity, there are different things different creatures and different materials but are all made of particles and atoms
      ​Even if we will assume that there will not be an atom left of you after death, you still have proven as a created being that there is a Creator,you proved the existence of God even if you do not believe in God.
      ​God initiated everything, and he redo too, and it is evident.
      ​this life is temporary while the next is forever eternal either in paradise or burning in Hell fire
      good qualities are beneficial, and bad qualities are harmful
      So be a better person&a better human always & try to do more good
      always for God sake and refrain from doing any evil or sin or injustice, and worship only God alone whom got no mother & no father &no son and is one not two nor three nor more, & always remember him and be mindful of him and worship him in the way he wants.
      You know one of the best good deeds a person can ever do is teaching people useful things or a useful skill 🙂
      or caring for another person an elderly parent a wife/husband or a child or an ill person, or protecting an innocent person,
      Also spreading this message and not letting it stop with you

  • @hayareneen8458
    @hayareneen8458 Рік тому +1601

    you can't hate yourself into a version you love

  • @pinkcat1847
    @pinkcat1847 Рік тому +261

    She literally said to chill but the video still made me feel like I can move mountains

  • @Ray-cr9wg
    @Ray-cr9wg Рік тому +101

    for the past year and a half, I've been so controlling on my personal growth because I wanted to be "pristine" and "perfect". I didn't want to mess up and be more hurt than I already was. this actually stunted my growth, because I was beating myself up over small things and breaking down every week.
    it's so cool how you always release videos like this right when I need them the most. thank you simone!

  • @mikaelalopezzz
    @mikaelalopezzz Рік тому +88

    "it doesn't have to all happen now." ‼the whole video is a great reminder for every growth addict. thank youu so muuuch 🥺

  • @yourstuff4979
    @yourstuff4979 Рік тому +22

    no please- I was having the worst day and comparing myself to others and all but that's when you dropped this video, and the little "you're probably a good person " , it helped me a little because all the things that you say is ultimately truthful and you have such a great perspective on things. I love when your mindset is like this ♡

  • @float4046
    @float4046 Рік тому +9

    "this life is a first time experience and making mistakes are bound to happen. I'm allowed to just be, I will live either way."

  • @cm.182
    @cm.182 Рік тому +12

    The analogy really helped me rn i was just thinking about how im not doing the best at academics and stressing, but now i think im more at ease and it really does not happen overnight. I am proud that i have improved a lot since the last few years and i know ill improve more! Thank you so kuch for you videos simmone :)

  • @kasja9661
    @kasja9661 Рік тому +6

    yeah I agree with that toddler thing. additionally, in my case - I was drinking and partying a lot since I was 16 till 19 years old. and I think that my brain just started developing when I stopped drinking, but it started to function as I was 16 again, I was going through all these stages connected to being a teenager, because partying and drinking caused so much suppressing my emotions and slowed down my 'natural evolution'.

  • @asteriab.havilliard2789
    @asteriab.havilliard2789 Рік тому +6

    As always you are right on point, I'm starting with this mindset rn, I didn't grow up in an Asian family but in a Latina sooo yup same thing constantly comparing yourself with someone else etc, thank you for the marvellous video!

  • @arwaelaa
    @arwaelaa Рік тому +1

    That analogy of being a toddler is mind-fucking luv- genuinely made me realize so much like omg shit is JUST starting to get real😮‍💨

  • @rainbow8351
    @rainbow8351 Рік тому

    i've decided to start new habits for myself, and a new routine, and i let go of toxic friendships that wouldnt get me anywhere, and i feel so much better but i dont feel like im growing on the other side... even tho im growing... im thinking "i want growth now" , " i need to grow and to become a better version of myself " . guess im putting preassure on myself, idk. i dont usually comment on videos , but i felt the need to talk, and to say thank you for this video, it made me feel more relaxed, and chilled out fr. im from portugal so pardon if my english is bad, wish u all the love and success, thank u

  • @itgirlisim
    @itgirlisim Рік тому +2

    i really liked the toddler thing. because i'm 20 and i feel so old and back on life..but actually so young and we still have so much time to grow.

  • @rebeka7206
    @rebeka7206 Рік тому +5

    I needed every single word. I've been so lost in myself and it feels so much better now knowing that I need to patient and that I will grow. That I will become who I always wanted to be. Here's to those little girls we left behind while becoming women. 🥂 and here's to the woman of our dreams who we are going to yet meet. Grateful for myself and honey also so grateful that I found you! ❤

  • @indianprincesstarot
    @indianprincesstarot Рік тому +2

    My friend said this to me “Life is a marathon, not a sprint.”

  • @RiyaGupta-wm4yg
    @RiyaGupta-wm4yg Рік тому +1

    I really needed this . I was getting too self conscious recently and was trying to become a perfection which actually doesn't exist

  • @GadgetsGearCoffee
    @GadgetsGearCoffee Рік тому +1

    I'm definitely a baby. I would say then at this point I'm 2-3 years old.
    Personally my 20s was a mess and I know a lot of other people that are/were in the same boat. Lots of mistakes, hurt, repeated patterns, constant lessons I wasn't learning or didn't know how to overcome. Self-growth can become toxic and impossible to get "there". You need to enjoy the process, the now, the you as you currently are with
    "there" in mind which ironically, gets you "there" faster and with way less resistance.
    A lot of the times, growth is in the smallest ways and it's so important to honour and be proud of how far you've come and use that as fuel to keep going :) but it's definitely not a fast process but that's how it sticks! Journaling is a great way to sort your thoughts, feelings, and acknowledge and be proud of yourself by taking the time to write it down, you think it, you write it, you read it.

  • @lovemiffy5094
    @lovemiffy5094 Рік тому +3

    ilyyy sometimes i think i need to slow down and social media is so draining because of these trends and standards but we keep slaying!

  • @PotatoeBunny93
    @PotatoeBunny93 Рік тому +1

    You inspire me so much. I will be 30 this year and im going thru a whole life change. Its been hard but a lot of your videos have helped me understand things differently and also look at where ive been causing my own self pain unnecessarily. Thank you

  • @issjjd4651
    @issjjd4651 Рік тому +2

    i have alot of exams this year which are very very important for my future and Ive been feeling so pressured recently and this helped!

  • @luluphaam
    @luluphaam Рік тому +1

    i loved this video sm. you're so right. i always put pressure on myself on days where I felt like :why didn't I do this and so on..
    you literally changed my mindset!!
    thank you simone

  • @highfvck
    @highfvck Рік тому +21

    How do you make everything so comforting? something about you feels like home. Thank you saur much for this, tiktok rlly f’s you up in a lot of ways subconsciously.

  • @ophelia4662
    @ophelia4662 Рік тому

    This was really helpful and validating, thank you very much! It felt pretty invalidating how I was constantly trying to change myself and attract those things I wanted, but no one ever appreciated me for all that drastic change just because it wasn’t visible physically. (I think part of being a women is that we focus more on self-development, so when we mature, it shows in our personalities, which is not really materialistic) It felt like no matter how I do, it was never enough. Yet I kept going on and even when I started crying, I said to myself, “what have you done to actually deserve to cry? Are you following your schedule fully? Did you get up on time today? Are you getting better than you were even last week?!” However, IG the push wasn’t what I needed that time, even if most times. Thank you very much for the important reminder, it helped a lot!

  • @aidafarinaismail6080
    @aidafarinaismail6080 Рік тому +1

    This is very insightful and i absolutely love the toddler analogy!

  • @shine2678
    @shine2678 Рік тому +1

    Girl....just yesterday i came to know anout your channel, you are just amazing!!!!
    Im a codependent person who always get used by people one or the other way...
    In the end i get my heart broken n they easily move on..
    Your videos are helping me a lot, never stop posting!!

  • @LA-lq1zf
    @LA-lq1zf Рік тому +1

    Im 36 and I’m not where I want to be. I do lots of comparing myself on social media but you are right, small steps. Even if it’s just picking up a book or going outside for a walk.

  • @corinacretu7500
    @corinacretu7500 Рік тому

    I can't explain how much I needed this video right now- This has opened so many new thought in my mind! I'm close to turning 18 and I've been very stressed with trying to get my life together because I've wanted to study Biology at Oxford since I was 14. Last year I was really depressed, I gave up trying on anything, I started having a small problem with drinking and I was overly obsessed with a boy. When he broke up with me that kind of catapulted me into wanting to become a better person and have a better life because I wasn't happy. I've made friends, got better grades, started meeting new opportunities but that only made me want more and more and more and I am EXHAUSTED. Recently everything has started to crumble a little bit, my grades dropped, my insomnia and anxiety is getting the best of me, some of my friends are starting to get tired of me, I've even hurt someone enough to cut me off.It's only been 5 months and I've already changed my life drastically and I have to remind myself that there's still time and that it's already amazing that I've had so much motivation to do all of that until now. It's time for a break, to build one thing at a time instead of doing it all at once.

  • @strzy8194
    @strzy8194 Рік тому +1

    I LOVEE your channel so much😭

  • @iamsomeone8266
    @iamsomeone8266 Рік тому +1

    i was like this a while ago where i got rlly amazing and rapid growth, I didnt get this same growth while in my junior and current senior year and i actualy feel like i have actually messed up and i am now getting Es. I dont have many friends or party, but i am very isolated. i was in the same situation when experiencing this levels of growth prior and i always found being independant to be be benifitial. But yeah, i needed to hear it, that ar will not be the same and that growth comes in gradually
    My life started when i was 14 when u got my period, it made me rethink my entire percetion of myself, i wanted to imporve, i also got a rlly bad eating disorder because of self inporvment. I dont have it anymore, but it definately opened my eyes.

    • @iamsomeone8266
      @iamsomeone8266 Рік тому

      when i say im isolated, i mean i dont have many friends, i dont party, and i dont hang out. I actually orefer this as i find it lets me focus on myself better. It is what i found to work best for me, but i know not everyone will expetinence the same as me. My goal is to imporve but yeah, the whole 'IMPORVE IN 1 WEEK' shtick is so annoying, i would have no way to moniyor this anyways especially since mine is mostly to do with grades and school

  • @a-edits4172
    @a-edits4172 Рік тому

    I do agree, I just happened to recently instill the ‘i can do anything i put my mind into’ mindset after more than a decade of depression (mainly bc of my parents, im asian). They always insulted me and even threatened bunch of things if i didnt do well in school. Now, i really dont give a fuck and im working hard to migrate to australia next year and remove myself from all the toxicity they bring into my life 🙏🙏

  • @flowerofvenuss
    @flowerofvenuss Рік тому

    the timing of this video is crazy cuz i was literally comparing the me now to how i was before, i was being so mean to nyself... like i needa calm down because THE PAST ME is the reason why i'm even here today so like yeah... i needed that reminder fr thanks simone u da besttt

  • @joyous-s2b
    @joyous-s2b Рік тому +1

    I NEEDED THIS. THANK YOU SO MUCH, SIMONE. I'M SO GRATEFUL I CLICKED THIS VIDEO. THIS SO HELPFUL ESPECIALLY IN MY SITUATION RIGHT NOW. 💝💝💝💝

  • @nctarsmoon
    @nctarsmoon Рік тому +2

    Simone: "You're a good person!"
    me almost blushing: "ok :D"

  • @haras0047
    @haras0047 Рік тому

    0:14 I used to be that person who always push myself to "grow", try new things, try the things that challenge me, even the things that I was so very uncomfortable in doing. Until I reached the peak and had the biggest burnout in my life, I fell into deep depression for more than two years, not even getting help, my family didn't notice but I was dying, my academics were instantly messed up, I neglected my last assignment to graduate. I ignored my friends for one and a half year. It was just so fucked up. I think the pandemics contribute to this thing I was experiencing as well. smh. But it's been a few months since I'm slowly crawling back out of the dark loop hole. I'm working on myself again, try to be more gentle with myself and accept myself for who I am. Now I will be more rational on what and what not to do. I don't want to push myself too hard to the point I'm losing myself..
    Anyways thanks a lot for the insights, Simone!

  • @nai9646
    @nai9646 Рік тому +1

    ive always said this omg finally ppl are realizing

  • @luluphaam
    @luluphaam Рік тому +2

    simone u were never 2 cringey at all, we all admire you because of your humor and that you're charming af.
    SLAY queen
    greetings from berlin

  • @OO-ct4hq
    @OO-ct4hq Рік тому +2

    PERIODDDDDDDDDDDDD THE HAIR THE BROWS THE NAILS THE TALKS THE QUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEN IS REBORNNNNNNNNNNNN

  • @mysterycurry
    @mysterycurry Рік тому +1

    thank you for your wisdom brother, so glad I found you on my recommended

  • @strkisd
    @strkisd Рік тому +2

    love the timing you're a gift fr ❤️

  • @neosmatrix6443
    @neosmatrix6443 Рік тому

    it's so true i feel that pressure sm i feel it sm evry year i grow older even tho it's a happy moment i feel terrible and like i lack time more and more bcause of people, society, family, friends bcause i don't act mature? exactly?

  • @jasxcoeur
    @jasxcoeur Рік тому +1

    i can't get over how good Simone's hair looks also fire vid as always queen

  • @dishitapandhi71
    @dishitapandhi71 Рік тому +1

    i completely agree but i am confused for the fact that if growth is lifelong, how to like those painful transitions?

  • @phillipbenoit5179
    @phillipbenoit5179 Рік тому +3

    Hmm you're right, me believing I'm "good enough and self love" helped me set boundaries with people. Used to always tell suicidal people "think of yourself as your baby; Would you do that to your baby? Different subject, I don't know I attempted Shopify but I failed at it tutorial by AC Hamilton was to complicated😅... I remember you saying you were successful at it. Can you do a simplified tutorial on Shopify? pls🥺... Last thing about your locked jaw, just ministered, be brutally honest... move your jaw... how's it feel?😇

  • @esperanzagajardovidal1798
    @esperanzagajardovidal1798 Рік тому +2

    this appeared in the right time, thank you 💗

  • @KyurinDiary
    @KyurinDiary Рік тому

    Needed this!!!! Thanks queen❤❤❤

  • @xaiad
    @xaiad Рік тому +2

    GOD I LOVE HER

  • @amiyeptho8473
    @amiyeptho8473 Рік тому

    I’m so happy I came across Simone’s video on how to get better grades and now we’re here. She has now become my new favourite and I love her accent💞 love you sim

  • @bunnic4sh
    @bunnic4sh Рік тому

    been watching ur vids since 2020 LOVEUSM like honestly SUCH A GODDESS

  • @taajahsmith913
    @taajahsmith913 Рік тому

    I think I see the improvement over time but everyday day is a new day to implement a new habit; which thus, creates a “changed” person. I love how you want us to know change isn’t one week💕💕 it takes the pressure off us!

  • @linahfatima
    @linahfatima Рік тому

    I literally told my self the same thing last night

  • @dominique928
    @dominique928 Рік тому

    I needed to hear this so much girl!! You help and inspire so many people you should be so proud ❤

  • @Mindsetolympics
    @Mindsetolympics Рік тому

    Millionaries and billionaries in their 20s like kylie jenner are baby geniuses!!🎉

  • @jayaprasad9266
    @jayaprasad9266 Рік тому +2

    simone always slays, we love you 💃🏽

  • @TashA-nw2iy
    @TashA-nw2iy Рік тому

    Exactly what I needed Simone❤️🦋
    Thank you so much

  • @Tech.Unicorn
    @Tech.Unicorn Рік тому

    I really needed to hear this today.

  • @desiv3025
    @desiv3025 Рік тому

    The analogy out things in perspective for me. Thank you 💞

  • @selfhealingasanhsp3007
    @selfhealingasanhsp3007 Рік тому

    Great analagy,
    Ive just started living at 37
    Thank god !

  • @swiftie6839
    @swiftie6839 Рік тому +1

    I've never been this early thank you for this I've been down lately ❤️

  • @tess1763
    @tess1763 Рік тому

    This was a beautiful video 🥰 I admire the way that you are able to put your thoughts into words.

  • @bhaveerathod2373
    @bhaveerathod2373 Рік тому +1

    You don’t know how much this video helped me 🤍🤍🤍

  • @heaven9944
    @heaven9944 Рік тому

    thanks a lot😭😭🧡

  • @moonlarkmystic
    @moonlarkmystic Рік тому

    Really good point. Thank you.

  • @CiaoAlter
    @CiaoAlter Рік тому

    I fr needed this

  • @hastinikoo5361
    @hastinikoo5361 Рік тому

    I really needed this ❤️

  • @xiangnianzu1914
    @xiangnianzu1914 Рік тому

    I love how you have spoken to me. Neither were you pointlessly speaking nor were you aggressive. 🤗

  • @AZ-gf4kz
    @AZ-gf4kz Рік тому

    Mayn who tells her to make such needed videos?? How does she know we need it???SHE KNOWS US SO WELL ACTUALLY 😩

  • @taajahsmith913
    @taajahsmith913 Рік тому

    OMG I NEEDED THIS

  • @seonsunnysunshine
    @seonsunnysunshine Рік тому +4

    TRILLIONAIRE GANG PRESENT HERE!! 🎉🎉🎉

  • @ranyaqlf3300
    @ranyaqlf3300 Рік тому

    you look like gigi vibes girl ✨✨

  • @patriciaa4260
    @patriciaa4260 Рік тому

    Honestly I think i only started growing when I began working in July and going to uni at the same time so really I am just 4-5 months old lmfaooo!! thanks for the reminder simone ❤

  • @serenenotes6552
    @serenenotes6552 Рік тому

    Recently I'm obsessed to be the same person like the other influencer from their skin, habit and routine not until I watched this video.

  • @deepvirus
    @deepvirus Рік тому

    yeah thank you for this. i need that

  • @faithemmavaz6311
    @faithemmavaz6311 Рік тому

    NEEDED THIS!!

  • @yvesburgers
    @yvesburgers Рік тому +1

    ily ure like my therapist atp

  • @sheyurban
    @sheyurban Рік тому +1

    I always like before watching because it will be good anyway, love you Simone!

  • @jemariedumaldal880
    @jemariedumaldal880 Рік тому

    Thank you.

  • @ishanibagal8353
    @ishanibagal8353 Рік тому

    saw this at the exact right time

  • @samararobles4267
    @samararobles4267 Рік тому

    Life Changing. Thank You.

  • @teuzza23
    @teuzza23 Рік тому

    I need more of your videos! You are awesome!

  • @khaybae
    @khaybae Рік тому

    I love you and your content, tysm

  • @ervinsmoviecorner8748
    @ervinsmoviecorner8748 Рік тому +2

    Good job, Simone!❤❤

  • @emanonfound99
    @emanonfound99 Рік тому

    YAAASS!! SIMONE YOU'RE SLAYIIING ♡

  • @oliviarose3937
    @oliviarose3937 Рік тому +1

    i literally just watched your last video and you posted a new one.. slay😌trillionaire gang~😈

  • @bruhvamigo3258
    @bruhvamigo3258 Рік тому

    love you sm!!

  • @fantasia243645
    @fantasia243645 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for sharing. 💛

  • @pilly3815
    @pilly3815 Рік тому

    Andy Sachs hair ❤️

  • @yuhmi88
    @yuhmi88 Рік тому +2

    TRILLIONAIRE GANG!!

    • @simonesimmons
      @simonesimmons  Рік тому +3

      slay

    • @yuhmi88
      @yuhmi88 Рік тому +1

      @@simonesimmons OH MY GOODNESS I CAN DIE PEACEFULLY NOW

  • @sofieaadriena2499
    @sofieaadriena2499 Рік тому

    i just turned 18 and i love you

  • @a0706413
    @a0706413 Рік тому

    really great content, thank you! I also like the ending since german is my mothertongue ;)

  • @tokwa7580
    @tokwa7580 Рік тому +2

    Of course i'll watch all your videos

  • @snugglyduck6534
    @snugglyduck6534 Рік тому

    Nothing changed in me, no criticism stuck, and I just lived life and succeeded when I just tried to, from working in general labor jobs to making six figures, when I was motivated by want or need. The only that changed in me was my focus, approach, and direction. And all the propaganda about who succeeds and what women want and what men want and all that stuff is just people trying to succeed as experts in the field of "what [whatever] wants" to make money from the audience - it's mostly bunk; it's geared around what people observed that people believe (like Alpha males) while arguing in the open about it, not what is true. There is a long history of people selling you on you to capitalize on you, and it usually starts with a breakdown of you. Like going to a car dealer, he knows just the car you should be driving, but you're driving that piece of junk, but step right this way - you actually want to be seen in that junk - in this, everyone will be impressed.

  • @nasreen6814
    @nasreen6814 Рік тому

    the timing.

  • @AmandaSbarros
    @AmandaSbarros Рік тому

    I'm 20 but thinking about the way you think I'm one year old and I feel so much better now lol

  • @Fandoms4Life
    @Fandoms4Life Рік тому +1

    Bruh is this a trend or something?? I saw Lynette Adkins posted about not being a self-improvement project only like two days ago too! Very interesting 🤔🤔🤔

    • @simonesquared
      @simonesquared Рік тому +1

      We are on the same wavelength I guess LOL 😭😭 I had to change my thumbnail coz I was like wtf how did we say the same thing

  • @Beefstraganoff
    @Beefstraganoff Рік тому

    Ur lips and lipgloss etc are sooo yaaassssssss 🧿😍

  • @scouters1912
    @scouters1912 Рік тому +1

    Whats that song in the beginning

  • @maryamalmansouri
    @maryamalmansouri Рік тому

    but the feeling when ur not growing and not evolving sucks btw ur lip combo is so good hook us up

  • @dreams1629
    @dreams1629 Рік тому

    Thank you
    And The gloss is glossing

  • @piper3090
    @piper3090 Рік тому

    what lipgloss combo are you using? I need to know

  • @vishnurpillai7973
    @vishnurpillai7973 Рік тому

    As a longtime viewer of Simone from the g*nitals demographic, I must say the thing she said about age hits so hard.