Listennnn😂 I told my children “I better not know you started arguments or fights.. but you better not let a single person touch you or you will get it when you get home!” crazy living back then but my children are tough and take no bs from anyone! 💪🏼
💯 Back when I rode the bus in middle school, they would let us wear hats. Older kid in the seat in front of me kept trying to take my hat off my head. I told him to stop twice, the third time I punched him in the mouth. They turned the bus around and took us back to school, they called my Dad and when he got there he told the principal "You might want to give that kid a hearing test because he obviously can't hear" 😂😂😂 Love my Dad and needless to say my hat never got messed with again
My brother was a genius got picked on all the time he even got beat up so I stood up for him and beat the hell out of them then my brother got bigger and stronger ppl still picked on him but when he got on his knees said you get one punch 👊 then it's on they run saying he was crazy
@@andrewbrakey6214 it also doesn't mean that we should do all of this OVERPROTECTIVE, calling ANYONE who has ever picked on anyone else a Bully, & trying to keep our minor children's emotional growth in the "Diapers" stage, either. Sure, I'll agree with you that we shouldn't promote, outright Bullying; as that gives some of these Narcissistic Sociopath minors, the impression that society desires for them to be a torrential tormenting on society & the people within. However, I still, absolutely agree with what Adam is stating. As I am on the VERY tail end of Gen X, & see what my generation has raised into society (from our offspring), I'm ashamed of my generation's "parenting abilities," overall. I'm not ashamed of my parenting abilities, because I wasn't about raising my daughters to be a part of this candy-coated, emotionally fragile, living in delusions, Leftists' Ideolog society. Yet, I'm only ONE out of a whole generation, who have, overall, failed at their parenting roles (as a generation), in not raising their children, prepared to face the Adult, real-life, world.
@@BD-11B_OIF-1 Well said.. never start it but don't back down. Thats exactly what Adam is saying, he's not saying go bully people... 70's through 90's kids know exactly what he's saying
@@ccul8339 you're absolutely correct about that. Throughout Middle school things were pretty rough for me, as far as being, close to relentlessly, picked on. I was the 2nd or 3rd from the shortest kid in my classes, for 6th & 7th grade. Which, being a guy, that especially is bad news. Thankfully, for 8th grade, although still short, I had moved up to roughly, the top of the shortest 1/3rd of the class. However, as my testosterone started kicking in, during those early teenage years, I had become somewhat of a stocky (muscularly, not body fat) kid, as well. Between that, & just being tired of being picked on, I had developed enough gumption (or, what, in the Army Infantry, we always called 'intestinal fortitude') to where I had stood up for myself a couple of times. It only took those 2 or 3, initial times, of standing up for myself, for all of the other guys to leave me alone. Us, Gen X kids (despite us not being children anymore), were the last generation, overall, to understand basics of life being tough, as we grew up. At least half of my friends were 'latch key kids', with most of my friends having both of their parents (if they had both at home) working jobs to support the household.
There's still bullying. The weirdos took over that position, screaming about "victimhood" and "oppression" while trying to destroy anyone who doesn't cater to them
Fair enough. Good point, as they're definitely attempting to be tyrants, upon the rest of society, while, at that same time, claiming that they are 'the victims', of EVERYTHING!!
@@docjohnson1, yep! I got bullied. Quite a bit, until one morning my Mom told me if they bullied me again that if I didn't whip a** she was going to whip mine! That's all it took. That day when the group of girls started with me, I lined them up. After blacking the 1st girls eyes and blooding her nose, the rest of the line scattered and here came the teacher. She called Me and the girl I whopped to an office and gave us a choice of 3 hard licks by a board specially cut with holes in it, or a 3 day suspension? I took the whoopin with the paddle so she made the other girl take the same. She asked who's first and ole girl started crying. I said I would go first. I never shed a tear. Other girl was crying before she was even touched. Yeah, She was a tough bully alright. She had to wear those black eyes for days while I wore a smile. No more bullying for me!!! Mom was so proud of me that afternoon!!
Yep!!! 80s baby here! I grew up with 3 brothers who used to beat my a$$ on the rink. I played hockey for 35+ years... one of the first females ever. I used to scrap with guys and girls... it didn’t matter. People get their fee-fees hurt too much these days. It all started with participation trophies.
I was bullied and I've been a bully. Whether or not, I'm a better person as the result of those experiences, I can't say with certainty. However, I do believe that my overall childhood, how I was raised, is what made me a good person.
@@debbielove5993 sadly the cowards who cyber bully are unlikely to listen. They cyber bully because they dont have the guts to say it to the face of folks
You had me at “dad I got into a fight “ Dad: did you win? Fact!!! This was a learning moment for me. I got my ass kicked by two kids in 1978, I was 13 years old and they jumped me. My father was not sympathetic at all . He first asked “did you defend yourself?” Then he said next time don’t hold back! Fight like your life depends on it! That day I hated my dad. About a year later, I understood why he said what he said! Today my father is the reason for my success a can’t thank him enough!!!
100 agree. My 14 year old son, who's small for his age had bully . He was over 6 inches taller and 40 lbs more. He ended up last week pushing my son. He tried saying he don't want to fight. Well that kid decides to swing at my son. He thought he would have a easy time beating his ass. Well he thought wrong. My kid did a right hook, landed a left and down his ass went. Our district has zero policy so both got suspended. My son came home upset thinking I'd be upset. Asked him did he start it. He said no. I'm like ok. I'm a firm believer that you stand your ground. Principal called. Talking about what happened. Told him I don't believe in fighting but he has a right to defend himself. Principal did state he might be much smaller but shit he has a great 1 - 2. Only thing is he now can't go on his band trip to cedar point. But not standing up for yourself is a sure thing next year he would be again picked on. Don't think that's gonna happen now.
Bring back bullying ‼️ Totally agree. I have been bullyed. I have bullyed. I learned from the best. What comes around goes around. First day of kindergarten punched a kid because the older kids told me to. Teacher called mom. Mom told me to be nice. 😊. The bus ride home learned how to play bloody nuckels, arm wrestling and name calling. 😊 The memories. Thank you Adam 👍💪🇺🇲🦅♥️
It wasn't Bullying, when we were growing up. We also knew when to draw the line. And we also knew the kids to look out we will always. Throw hands when we needed to.
Yeah, sure there are some minuscule advantages but sometimes the detriments are lifelong. Don’t fight for violence or for the sake of it, fight for what’s right.
I was a white skinny kid living in a predominantly black neighborhood going to predominantly black schools growing up. I was bullied daily until I started standing up for myself and earned the respect of other kids. Many think I would have become predudiced or have a issue with black people but I'm not prejudiced and think racism is the dumbest thing there is. I learned the difference between good and bad really quick and had to pay attention to the details of a person's character . Experiencing Bullying definitely has its good and bad points when it comes to character development .
One of my best friends used to bully me in my early teenage years. We ended up being best friends towards our later teenage years after I put my foot down. Now at 34:years old we are still boys and still hang out every so often
As a gen z kid i 100% agree with this i was taught that you never start a fight you end it by winning but if i was to try to protect myself i would be the one geting suspended but like i said i agree with this
For real..tough love and criticism makes people strive to do better. Feelings being hurt is just a temporary thing, and eventually you become hard enough to not crumble.
No. I was born in the 70s, I’m disabled, and I was bullied DAILY through all 12 years of public school, sometimes with physical violence. I learned how to fight, how not to be offended by everything, how to be tough and how not to rat people out, but I also learned that I can’t trust anyone, that authority figures don’t care about me m, and that there are no safe places for people like me. I stopped talking about it with my parents because they couldn’t do anything to stop it if the school wouldn’t cooperate. I ignored the signs of CPTSD well into adulthood because we didn’t believe mental illness and psychological injury are real. I ignored it until I almost took my own life in 2011. I’m a survivor, not a victim, but I WAS victimized. I don’t want bullying to come back. I wouldn’t wish that much suffering on anyone, not even the people who damaged me so irreparably.
Some bullies go own to commit murders - I don’t agree with this message in its entirety and I’m old school born in 1971! We need to toughen kids up from inside the home, not bring bullying back! Teach RESPECT!
Exactly! Bullying not only results in school shooting It also results in suicides. Teaching your kids to be confident, strong, and stand up for themselves. While teaching them to be considerate and respectful. Isn't taught from bullying...it's taught from love. You don't solve bullying with more violence. 🙄
I understand where you are coming from for this! I hate the bullying that happens to children even in elementary school that is just unacceptable! These children are taking their own lives! I wish people would realize this and take up for them!
I cant agee with you on that one. My sister got so bullied in school she tried ti take her life severeal times. She still cant work like normal with other people because of her anxiety. Her whole life was destroed. She dropped out of school when she was just 14! If people just knew how much they actually "destroys" people when they bully!!
My oldest son stood up to the high school bully over our cousin. They fought after school, and the kid shook my son's hand after and said no one had ever stood up to him, and he respected him for it.
The type of bullying we did wasn't telling other kids to off themselves. However, Adam is right, a bit of bullying is a right of passage and it made us tough!!
I've been saying that for decades. But, what needs to happen is parents need to teach their kids how to overcome (pass through) bullying. It's really difficult to figure out on your own. It's much better if someone tells (or at least hints) how to deal with it. For me, it was my 8th grade bus driver. I'd say "pull up so I can get a running start. There's too many guys to fight!" He'd say: "you'll figure it out!" I'm like: "What's to figure out? "There's 10 guys going to beat me to a pulp!" Hed say: "get out of the buss! Eventually, you'll figure it out." Boom! One day, there were way more than 10 guys, and I was like: "Open up the door! Open up door!! Open it now!! He delayed opening the door until I looked at him. When I turned and screamed: "Open the f*cking door NOW!!" He smiled and said: "I told you you'd figure it out!" Then he released several years of anger, hurt, fear, and shame on to that poor crowd. I didn't get a scratch on me that day. I ran out and started dishing out biscuits with a vengeance. I hurt a few really bad. All the other guys took off running. I felt like an idiot. For the years before that day, I took beating after beating after beating after beating after beating. From that day on, I knew how to deal with the worst bullying could dish out, the brutal group beatdown. It's better to die on your feet than live on your knees! But, if you stand up for yourself, you'll find it's so much better and even safer to deal with the problems, head-on! Nip it in the bud early, and you'll save yourself a lot of torment!
You should have thrown down with your bully, and it wouldn't matter if you had won or lost. You'd remember standing up for yourself. You let yourself be a victim by being weak.
I was always told, don’t start a fight… but make damn sure you finish one! 😂 It’s something we’ve passed down to our kids & hopefully they’ll pass down to theirs! 🤷🏻♀️
Adam, I am a huge fan of yours. My son has been bullied in the fourth grade. That ended early in the school year cuz my son cracked a 5th grader across the face so hard 5 finger marks were left n they thought the 5th grader got hit at home.. #proudfathermoment
Dude, I have literally been saying this for months and I said it on one of your shorts just a few minutes ago ! I Telling the story of how badly I was bullied . Until......one glorious day when I decided to stop that sh$t 100% agree . No bullys sounds great in theory , but these kids can't cope with anything . They have grown up with the safe spaces and the booing , and now they be like " You cant bully me , because I identify as a girl" Thats messed up sh$t . Bring Back Bullying , Bring back bullying !
From a mom of an autistic 25 yr old who was relentlessly bullied for it as a child.....I totally approve this message. It made him into a strong man who lets absolutely nothing get to him. (still my baby boy though 😜).
If he is not wrong, he is right.. Pain is a part of life folks, overcoming fears and perceivering creates champions, people don't focus on what happens in these situations, the bully has to learn a lesson too, its a lesson for both,
I was bullied a lil bit, never bullied myself, but when I stood up for myself I almost showed what true boxing was meant to be. 1st time was 6th grade when a kid started talking bad about my mom, I gave 3 chances before I started hitting. Last one was 9th grade being hazed by a senior for 8 months in weights, lucky for him we may have exchanged blows he caused my face to swell, I broke his jaw but I was 120lbs to his 165. If my mom wasn't per say "starving" me my freshman year I would have been a solid 160-180. God has his own ways showing himself.
To an extent. Bullying never left. It just shifted. Treat people with respect and call out bullshit when you see it. Be a respectful bully. Disrespect will get you nowhere.
I think tough love is more important than bullying… we should respect our fellow human beings, but also point out where they go wrong to make them better. We don’t need to bully people to help them become better later on…
Dude man, pretty sure most of us grew up the same way , don’t encourage bullying, just encourage people to fight back against it and for it to stop it’s not a good thing. It’s a natural selection but glorifying it ain’t it bro. Humble and kind.
Pearls of wisdom from my dad.... " It doesn't matter who's right or wrong, if you kick their ass you win", " its all pink in the middle" and ,.. "an irishman is never drunk as long as he can hold on to one blade of grass and not fall off the face of the earth" I miss that old man, but if you think im soft, go ask your mom.
I personally dont have to deal with any of this from the people i am around so its more of a problem for those who it effects because my people are solid. Adam if everyone around you is solid then why you seeking validation in people you dont see as valid……you will never change their minds so go use yours for your time n stop letting these things live rent free in your head…created struggles…you have it good. Much earned respect.
When I was 10-11 a kid in my neighborhood tried to bully me. We got into a fight and we’re friends ever since that fight. I didn’t go to my parents and say this kid is picking on me. I told him to stop and when he didn’t we had the fight. No one died, no one ran away crying. We became great friends the next day. I was new to the neighborhood at that time so he tried picking on the new kid. My dad always told me if someone hits you, hit them back.
My youngest Boy will be 20 In May..... He's been an excellent example of EVERYTHING! HE'S not exactly the prince of Kool! But he's got a WALL full of sports stuff! Mine HERE know how to Fight!
I got into a fight sophomore year threw some blows lost drivers education privilege and sent to therapy school hence the bully didnt get nothing since i threw the first hits. Bus driver pulled the bus over while i was sticking him in the face. My dad had stage 4 cancer and i was bullied my whole life from elementary to hs. Zero tolerance for violence my mom was pissed at the district. fast foward im 30 years old and it made a good person for it. going through things in life makes you stronger STRENGTH IS WHAT WE GAIN FROM THE MADNESS WE SURVIVE. thats tattooed on my ribs with a semi colon. It did damage to me but i wouldnt be the guy i am today. I speak my mind and not afraid to speak up even as an adult. Lone wolves are usually quiet and dont mess with people but those are the ones that will strike hard once its over.😈i go places by myself sometimes i have to watch what i say i stand up for others even been in heat rising conversations. idgaf how many guys or if they are bigger GIVE RESPECT GET RESPECT went to a biker bar 3 blue collar workers running there mouths about someone i say you talk big game about someone go tell that person something they got fired up a bunch of bitches with no balls 😂
My Dad told me... Don't you dare start the fight, but don't you even think about walking away either💪 miss the old days‼️
This was our rule too
My dad said only fight when someone is in danger or your I'm danger
Listennnn😂 I told my children “I better not know you started arguments or fights.. but you better not let a single person touch you or you will get it when you get home!” crazy living back then but my children are tough and take no bs from anyone! 💪🏼
💯 Back when I rode the bus in middle school, they would let us wear hats. Older kid in the seat in front of me kept trying to take my hat off my head. I told him to stop twice, the third time I punched him in the mouth. They turned the bus around and took us back to school, they called my Dad and when he got there he told the principal "You might want to give that kid a hearing test because he obviously can't hear" 😂😂😂 Love my Dad and needless to say my hat never got messed with again
My brother was a genius got picked on all the time he even got beat up so I stood up for him and beat the hell out of them then my brother got bigger and stronger ppl still picked on him but when he got on his knees said you get one punch 👊 then it's on they run saying he was crazy
I'm sure everyone has a story of perceiving but it doesn't mean we should promote bullying.
@@andrewbrakey6214 it also doesn't mean that we should do all of this OVERPROTECTIVE, calling ANYONE who has ever picked on anyone else a Bully, & trying to keep our minor children's emotional growth in the "Diapers" stage, either. Sure, I'll agree with you that we shouldn't promote, outright Bullying; as that gives some of these Narcissistic Sociopath minors, the impression that society desires for them to be a torrential tormenting on society & the people within. However, I still, absolutely agree with what Adam is stating. As I am on the VERY tail end of Gen X, & see what my generation has raised into society (from our offspring), I'm ashamed of my generation's "parenting abilities," overall. I'm not ashamed of my parenting abilities, because I wasn't about raising my daughters to be a part of this candy-coated, emotionally fragile, living in delusions, Leftists' Ideolog society. Yet, I'm only ONE out of a whole generation, who have, overall, failed at their parenting roles (as a generation), in not raising their children, prepared to face the Adult, real-life, world.
@@BD-11B_OIF-1 Well said.. never start it but don't back down. Thats exactly what Adam is saying, he's not saying go bully people... 70's through 90's kids know exactly what he's saying
@@ccul8339 you're absolutely correct about that. Throughout Middle school things were pretty rough for me, as far as being, close to relentlessly, picked on. I was the 2nd or 3rd from the shortest kid in my classes, for 6th & 7th grade. Which, being a guy, that especially is bad news. Thankfully, for 8th grade, although still short, I had moved up to roughly, the top of the shortest 1/3rd of the class. However, as my testosterone started kicking in, during those early teenage years, I had become somewhat of a stocky (muscularly, not body fat) kid, as well. Between that, & just being tired of being picked on, I had developed enough gumption (or, what, in the Army Infantry, we always called 'intestinal fortitude') to where I had stood up for myself a couple of times. It only took those 2 or 3, initial times, of standing up for myself, for all of the other guys to leave me alone. Us, Gen X kids (despite us not being children anymore), were the last generation, overall, to understand basics of life being tough, as we grew up. At least half of my friends were 'latch key kids', with most of my friends having both of their parents (if they had both at home) working jobs to support the household.
I AGREE 100000% learning to stand up for yourself and learning to stand up for others is such a skill that kids don’t have these days!!!
There's still bullying. The weirdos took over that position, screaming about "victimhood" and "oppression" while trying to destroy anyone who doesn't cater to them
YES THIS!!!
guess its time to call what it is for what it is then xD its fair game from here.
Exactly!
*Dude you gotta get a patent on that electrical tape snap-back!!!👍
Fair enough. Good point, as they're definitely attempting to be tyrants, upon the rest of society, while, at that same time, claiming that they are 'the victims', of EVERYTHING!!
Gen-X here... Adam speaks FACTS.🇺🇸
Yes sir, been bullied, bullied myself, been beat up and beaten up, way better person for all of it. You da man Adam "Respect is Everything "
I bet you did bully yourself 😂😂 freaking gay 😂
"Did you start it" that was always the first question I got.
We don't worry about other peoplez kids.... we worry about what our kids are gonna do...
Followed up by did you defend yourself. My mom didn't mes around
@@docjohnson1, yep! I got bullied. Quite a bit, until one morning my Mom told me if they bullied me again that if I didn't whip a** she was going to whip mine! That's all it took. That day when the group of girls started with me, I lined them up. After blacking the 1st girls eyes and blooding her nose, the rest of the line scattered and here came the teacher. She called Me and the girl I whopped to an office and gave us a choice of 3 hard licks by a board specially cut with holes in it, or a 3 day suspension? I took the whoopin with the paddle so she made the other girl take the same. She asked who's first and ole girl started crying. I said I would go first. I never shed a tear. Other girl was crying before she was even touched. Yeah, She was a tough bully alright. She had to wear those black eyes for days while I wore a smile. No more bullying for me!!! Mom was so proud of me that afternoon!!
Yep!!! 80s baby here! I grew up with 3 brothers who used to beat my a$$ on the rink. I played hockey for 35+ years... one of the first females ever. I used to scrap with guys and girls... it didn’t matter.
People get their fee-fees hurt too much these days. It all started with participation trophies.
Amen
I was bullied and I've been a bully. Whether or not, I'm a better person as the result of those experiences, I can't say with certainty. However, I do believe that my overall childhood, how I was raised, is what made me a good person.
Cyberbullying is a problem because cowards hide behind a screen where they cant get hit.
Hence the reason he said to get off the Internet and go outside. 😂
@@debbielove5993 sadly the cowards who cyber bully are unlikely to listen. They cyber bully because they dont have the guts to say it to the face of folks
@@ArtandApoc you didn't listen to either, 🤣coward sticks and stones.
😂😂😂😂😂 my god adam i 💯 agree
This needs to go viral! Quickly, before the milk toast crowd has it taken down.
You had me at “dad I got into a fight “
Dad: did you win?
Fact!!! This was a learning moment for me. I got my ass kicked by two kids in 1978, I was 13 years old and they jumped me. My father was not sympathetic at all . He first asked “did you defend yourself?” Then he said next time don’t hold back! Fight like your life depends on it! That day I hated my dad. About a year later, I understood why he said what he said! Today my father is the reason for my success a can’t thank him enough!!!
100 agree. My 14 year old son, who's small for his age had bully . He was over 6 inches taller and 40 lbs more. He ended up last week pushing my son. He tried saying he don't want to fight. Well that kid decides to swing at my son. He thought he would have a easy time beating his ass. Well he thought wrong. My kid did a right hook, landed a left and down his ass went. Our district has zero policy so both got suspended. My son came home upset thinking I'd be upset. Asked him did he start it. He said no. I'm like ok. I'm a firm believer that you stand your ground. Principal called. Talking about what happened. Told him I don't believe in fighting but he has a right to defend himself. Principal did state he might be much smaller but shit he has a great 1 - 2.
Only thing is he now can't go on his band trip to cedar point. But not standing up for yourself is a sure thing next year he would be again picked on. Don't think that's gonna happen now.
Good job. You raised him well. As for him missing the band trip… that might be for the best. Have you ever heard the band camp stories?😬
@@kirstene8356🤣👍🤣🤣
Sometimes you have to do what you have to do!!
Take him fishing when he was supposed to be on the band trip.
Bring back bullying ‼️ Totally agree. I have been bullyed. I have bullyed. I learned from the best. What comes around goes around. First day of kindergarten punched a kid because the older kids told me to. Teacher called mom. Mom told me to be nice. 😊. The bus ride home learned how to play bloody nuckels, arm wrestling and name calling. 😊 The memories. Thank you Adam 👍💪🇺🇲🦅♥️
Bullying never harmed me as my dad always taught me to stand up for myself.
Got respect very quick.
LMFAO 🤣🤣🤣. You're so from where I'm from. Thankx
Agree! Fight it out get over it!! 💪 FR! You have spoken facts!! Much love and respect! God Bless You
And without weapons. Also a very cowardly thing! What happened to fists?
It wasn't Bullying, when we were growing up. We also knew when to draw the line. And we also knew the kids to look out we will always.
Throw hands when we needed to.
lol I’ve been saying that for years lol it keeps the weirdos in check
I'm Gen X. Bullys created the man that I am now. Hated them at the time, but because of them, I can take ANYTHING you dish out.😉👏👏👏
There's a difference between picking on someone and bullying them into depression.
Yeah, sure there are some minuscule advantages but sometimes the detriments are lifelong.
Don’t fight for violence or for the sake of it, fight for what’s right.
Absolutely fucking agreeeeeee.
I was a white skinny kid living in a predominantly black neighborhood going to predominantly black schools growing up. I was bullied daily until I started standing up for myself and earned the respect of other kids. Many think I would have become predudiced or have a issue with black people but I'm not prejudiced and think racism is the dumbest thing there is. I learned the difference between good and bad really quick and had to pay attention to the details of a person's character . Experiencing Bullying definitely has its good and bad points when it comes to character development .
One of my best friends used to bully me in my early teenage years. We ended up being best friends towards our later teenage years after I put my foot down. Now at 34:years old we are still boys and still hang out every so often
Facts
100% agreed
Bring back the father who teaches his son what a toolbox is and its contents and what they're used for.
Cheers 🍷
As a gen z kid i 100% agree with this i was taught that you never start a fight you end it by winning but if i was to try to protect myself i would be the one geting suspended but like i said i agree with this
Amen brother....PREACH!!!!
Father of 4 here bro. Amazing seeing the kind of father you pride yourself in being. Thank you.
For real..tough love and criticism makes people strive to do better. Feelings being hurt is just a temporary thing, and eventually you become hard enough to not crumble.
No. I was born in the 70s, I’m disabled, and I was bullied DAILY through all 12 years of public school, sometimes with physical violence. I learned how to fight, how not to be offended by everything, how to be tough and how not to rat people out, but I also learned that I can’t trust anyone, that authority figures don’t care about me m, and that there are no safe places for people like me. I stopped talking about it with my parents because they couldn’t do anything to stop it if the school wouldn’t cooperate. I ignored the signs of CPTSD well into adulthood because we didn’t believe mental illness and psychological injury are real. I ignored it until I almost took my own life in 2011. I’m a survivor, not a victim, but I WAS victimized. I don’t want bullying to come back. I wouldn’t wish that much suffering on anyone, not even the people who damaged me so irreparably.
I rode the bus in the early 80s. Promise the today kids would barely get on our bus!
Some bullies go own to commit murders - I don’t agree with this message in its entirety and I’m old school born in 1971! We need to toughen kids up from inside the home, not bring bullying back! Teach RESPECT!
Exactly! Bullying not only results in school shooting It also results in suicides. Teaching your kids to be confident, strong, and stand up for themselves. While teaching them to be considerate and respectful. Isn't taught from bullying...it's taught from love. You don't solve bullying with more violence. 🙄
@@frany4417 wow PERFECTLY said, TY! ‼️🙌🏻‼️💚
Negative bullying is bad. We need to teach our kids self control confidence good self esteem n how to throw a punch.
I'm Jamel Jackson and i approve this message!
Bullying never went out of fashion...... it just got more technologically advanced
You can't give an ass whopping if you can't take an ass whopping,and you have to stand up for yourself even if you lose the fight, you gain 💯 respect!
I understand where you are coming from for this! I hate the bullying that happens to children even in elementary school that is just unacceptable! These children are taking their own lives! I wish people would realize this and take up for them!
I kind of agree I was home schooled the best thing my uncle did for me was always picking on me. It made me stronger
Preach it, Adam!
I can stand with this. Half black half white thru jim crowe 😮..facts Iykyk
One of my brothers that I've known for over 30+years. Tried bullying me at 12 years old. We fought! Been friends ever since!
I cant agee with you on that one. My sister got so bullied in school she tried ti take her life severeal times. She still cant work like normal with other people because of her anxiety. Her whole life was destroed. She dropped out of school when she was just 14! If people just knew how much they actually "destroys" people when they bully!!
Love ur neighbor as ur self🇺🇸
We dont need bullies, we need backbones...
My oldest son stood up to the high school bully over our cousin. They fought after school, and the kid shook my son's hand after and said no one had ever stood up to him, and he respected him for it.
I thought I was the only one that thought that
The type of bullying we did wasn't telling other kids to off themselves. However, Adam is right, a bit of bullying is a right of passage and it made us tough!!
I've been saying that for decades.
But, what needs to happen is parents need to teach their kids how to overcome (pass through) bullying. It's really difficult to figure out on your own. It's much better if someone tells (or at least hints) how to deal with it.
For me, it was my 8th grade bus driver. I'd say "pull up so I can get a running start. There's too many guys to fight!"
He'd say: "you'll figure it out!"
I'm like: "What's to figure out? "There's 10 guys going to beat me to a pulp!"
Hed say: "get out of the buss! Eventually, you'll figure it out."
Boom! One day, there were way more than 10 guys, and I was like: "Open up the door! Open up door!! Open it now!!
He delayed opening the door until I looked at him.
When I turned and screamed: "Open the f*cking door NOW!!"
He smiled and said: "I told you you'd figure it out!" Then he released several years of anger, hurt, fear, and shame on to that poor crowd.
I didn't get a scratch on me that day. I ran out and started dishing out biscuits with a vengeance. I hurt a few really bad. All the other guys took off running.
I felt like an idiot. For the years before that day, I took beating after beating after beating after beating after beating.
From that day on, I knew how to deal with the worst bullying could dish out, the brutal group beatdown.
It's better to die on your feet than live on your knees! But, if you stand up for yourself, you'll find it's so much better and even safer to deal with the problems, head-on!
Nip it in the bud early, and you'll save yourself a lot of torment!
Bet that bus driver would have been shocked if said kid pulled out a gun and said open the door. Imagine the regret from the driver.
Bullying traumatized me. It was relentless. I did not want to go to school. I’m an adult now that was long ago but I still remember the fear.
You should have thrown down with your bully, and it wouldn't matter if you had won or lost. You'd remember standing up for yourself. You let yourself be a victim by being weak.
Just because they didn't punch someone doesn't mean bullying is ok.
@@magnusalbusvenator406. Pretty f*cked up for you to say that to this person. You don’t know the circumstances.
Was taught , don't start it . But you damn well better finish it . 💪
I gotta agree 💯 we changed we overcome our weaknesses and pushed forward to make ourselves better.
Proven facts 💯 and once they stand up for themselves tell um took ya long enough not don't let that shit happen again from nobody
It's a part of life🤷♂️ being shaped & molded... Lessons that developed us to be stronger...
Any one who bullied me either aged like rotten meat or got really fat. So I feel vindicated. 😂😂
And you're probably a cop too. LOL
@@chrisyak1312 so you gathered that from my comment. Send this guy to the academy immediately. Bahahaha!
Where the fuck did you get that? She looks hot in her pfp no sign of a pig@@chrisyak1312
Yeah, I can’t jump aboard that I get what you’re saying totally these days and times are just a whole different level
Got to agree 👍 these days go's way to far
@@jamespughthat's because people nowadays have 2 moms.
@@MaxSteel13.17KIAignorant comment. It’s because people can’t effectively communicate and resort to treating people like shit
Absolutely 💯 💯
As a 40 yr old man that was bullied half his life i approve this msg its pure facts🇺🇸
I was always told, don’t start a fight… but make damn sure you finish one! 😂 It’s something we’ve passed down to our kids & hopefully they’ll pass down to theirs! 🤷🏻♀️
I was 8 years younger than my brother. Obviously he couldn't beat up his sister's bullies. So he bullied me SO hard and he toughened me up.
New subscriber here from Scotland 👍
Theres a big dfference between bullying and not being soft.
NEVER OK TO BULLY.
Adam, I am a huge fan of yours. My son has been bullied in the fourth grade. That ended early in the school year cuz my son cracked a 5th grader across the face so hard 5 finger marks were left n they thought the 5th grader got hit at home.. #proudfathermoment
My son is a huge fan of yours. We are wanting to meet you do bad
Ol boy always off the chain aint he, I like this feller here man Adam is cool guy
Yep, I'm with ya on that 💯 %
Facts 💯 that’s my memory of life. Get bullied till you beat the bully.
This is the truth! This is why we have safe spaces now.
Keep the truth coming 💯
Damn agreed 👍🏻💯 fuck it's what have Ben missing in men and boys 😂
Dude, I have literally been saying this for months and I said it on one of your shorts just a few minutes ago ! I Telling the story of how badly I was bullied . Until......one glorious day when I decided to stop that sh$t 100% agree . No bullys sounds great in theory , but these kids can't cope with anything . They have grown up with the safe spaces and the booing , and now they be like " You cant bully me , because I identify as a girl" Thats messed up sh$t . Bring Back Bullying , Bring back bullying !
Amen brother bring it back now
From a mom of an autistic 25 yr old who was relentlessly bullied for it as a child.....I totally approve this message. It made him into a strong man who lets absolutely nothing get to him. (still my baby boy though 😜).
Gen X!! Bring everything back!!
I think it should be mandatory that every guy plays football, just to grasp what hard work is and how chaotic life will be down the line
😂😂❤❤ sad when we are The last of a dying breed. Could not be more truer!!!
Yup that’s how I met my best friend, we fought twice in one day, earned respect from one another.
Yeah these kids need to learn to "walk it off!"
You're 100% correct!
If he is not wrong, he is right.. Pain is a part of life folks, overcoming fears and perceivering creates champions, people don't focus on what happens in these situations, the bully has to learn a lesson too, its a lesson for both,
I was bullied a lil bit, never bullied myself, but when I stood up for myself I almost showed what true boxing was meant to be. 1st time was 6th grade when a kid started talking bad about my mom, I gave 3 chances before I started hitting. Last one was 9th grade being hazed by a senior for 8 months in weights, lucky for him we may have exchanged blows he caused my face to swell, I broke his jaw but I was 120lbs to his 165. If my mom wasn't per say "starving" me my freshman year I would have been a solid 160-180. God has his own ways showing himself.
To an extent. Bullying never left. It just shifted. Treat people with respect and call out bullshit when you see it. Be a respectful bully. Disrespect will get you nowhere.
i been telling my kids if it aint broken, bleeding or on fire get on outta here….now my husband says i wife that way too 😂💪🙏
I think tough love is more important than bullying… we should respect our fellow human beings, but also point out where they go wrong to make them better. We don’t need to bully people to help them become better later on…
Facts! 😂
Dude man, pretty sure most of us grew up the same way , don’t encourage bullying, just encourage people to fight back against it and for it to stop it’s not a good thing. It’s a natural selection but glorifying it ain’t it bro. Humble and kind.
Stick up for people stand your ground teach them all this
Pearls of wisdom from my dad.... " It doesn't matter who's right or wrong, if you kick their ass you win", " its all pink in the middle" and ,.. "an irishman is never drunk as long as he can hold on to one blade of grass and not fall off the face of the earth"
I miss that old man, but if you think im soft, go ask your mom.
Amen👍👍👍
My Man & Amen🇺🇸💪🏻👊🏻🇺🇸
I personally dont have to deal with any of this from the people i am around so its more of a problem for those who it effects because my people are solid. Adam if everyone around you is solid then why you seeking validation in people you dont see as valid……you will never change their minds so go use yours for your time n stop letting these things live rent free in your head…created struggles…you have it good. Much earned respect.
Amen Brother 💯
Hard times make for hard men, hard men make for easy times. Easy times make for soft men, soft men make for hard times.
I got bullied and I was in a bad place but now that you say it I think back and I think of it made me a better person and how I benefited from it.
When I was 10-11 a kid in my neighborhood tried to bully me. We got into a fight and we’re friends ever since that fight. I didn’t go to my parents and say this kid is picking on me. I told him to stop and when he didn’t we had the fight. No one died, no one ran away crying. We became great friends the next day. I was new to the neighborhood at that time so he tried picking on the new kid. My dad always told me if someone hits you, hit them back.
Amen brother❤❤
Lmfao 😂😂😂😂😂 safe place. I'm dying😂😂😂
My youngest Boy will be 20 In May..... He's been an excellent example of EVERYTHING! HE'S not exactly the prince of Kool! But he's got a WALL full of sports stuff! Mine HERE know how to Fight!
It’s a confidence builder for sure
And nowadays when a kid does stand up for him or herself they get suspended and the bullies can play the victim
Sadly that happened to my son. He didn't start it. But he sure finish it. 5 day
I got into a fight sophomore year threw some blows lost drivers education privilege and sent to therapy school hence the bully didnt get nothing since i threw the first hits. Bus driver pulled the bus over while i was sticking him in the face. My dad had stage 4 cancer and i was bullied my whole life from elementary to hs. Zero tolerance for violence my mom was pissed at the district. fast foward im 30 years old and it made a good person for it. going through things in life makes you stronger STRENGTH IS WHAT WE GAIN FROM THE MADNESS WE SURVIVE. thats tattooed on my ribs with a semi colon. It did damage to me but i wouldnt be the guy i am today. I speak my mind and not afraid to speak up even as an adult. Lone wolves are usually quiet and dont mess with people but those are the ones that will strike hard once its over.😈i go places by myself sometimes i have to watch what i say i stand up for others even been in heat rising conversations. idgaf how many guys or if they are bigger GIVE RESPECT GET RESPECT went to a biker bar 3 blue collar workers running there mouths about someone i say you talk big game about someone go tell that person something they got fired up a bunch of bitches with no balls 😂
Electric tape on the strap for your hat ...
Love it brother , I had to use staples once !!!
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