This is true I accept sometime girls don't want boys who are innocent they actually want rugged boys not all some wild animals do like this I feel pity
Seeing the way how Sneha reacts when you say your incidents,I can really understand her root thought.. I appreciate the way you grow them though you people are with social media❤
I'm so glad you spoke about this, be it men or women, should first be inculcated with respecting their fellow beings. Don't let anyone abuse you, if they over power you, never leave them, let the hell come down. If one fights, and get justice, it will help others to do so too. This will bring in fear and they have to think twice before committing such crimes. I agree with you on bringing in law for a strict law for such crimes, no exception for juvenile as well, if they have knowledge on this crime they are not minors, they have to be treated as majors and apply the same punishment. I've been a victim too many a times, when told to my family I was made to shut up. I'm 47 now...and those incidents have impacted me deeply , which has impacted my relationships as well. To all lost souls, you did nothing wrong, but I pray the culprits are brought to justice soon.
பெண் குழந்தைகளுக்கு ஆடை உடுத்துவது பற்றி சொல்லி கொடுப்பது மட்டும் அல்லாமல் ஆண் பிள்ளைகளுக்கும் சொல்லி வளர்க்க வேண்டும் பெண்களை எப்படி நடத்த வேண்டும் என்று
These things starts from very small things like teasing girls and making jokes on their body parts. Normalizing small comments leads to big traumas. How many people knows about marital rapes !? Why every shitty things happens only to women. "It's not all the men but it's always men!"
Bold of you to assume that all women are innocent. In some places women misuse their rights. They even falsely accuse innocent men . By your logic i can also conclude that "it's not all women but it's always women who falsely accuse men "
I'm 27 male I been sexually abused and raped in my childhood multiple times around the age of 7 to 11. This trauma leads me to non socializing person who always had difficulty in maintaining friendship or relationship. Some months back my psychiatrist conveyed me it may be due to my unhealed childhood trauma I been currently into chronic Depression, PTSD and anxiety issues. I'm taking medication related to it these days hope one day I'll heal. One thing I feel proud was I made sure my lovable younger sister shouldn't undergo this things so I safeguarded her as per my knowledge and she is currently persuing medicine and have large social circle not like me .I felt so guilty when some people commented it's all because of men like I feel it's about individual discriminating things like this towards one gender is not acceptable. My parents didn't educated about this things may be they thought I'm a boy I wouldn't face this things and I really don't know what's happening those days it took me years to understand what happened in my past. To parents who out there make sure to educate your children whether girl or boy about it and give them strong support that you will be always there for them😊
You are a such a cute angel.I agree victims are from both gender. You too get some education and grow your self and reduce your financial dependency also. It is not our mistake, come out from it. Time will heal every pain. Till then we should be very careful and should not become a prey for them. Take care. Stay blessed.
Thank you for discussing about the most important social issue on this forum . Appreciate you for sharing your thoughts and experiences Happy to see mother and daughter sharing this conversation.❤
Iam a clg student studying in coimbatore,I'm staying alone in a rental home ,Innaiki mrng pakathla irukura shop ku I went alone wearing a shorts,there was a Kovil poojari standing nearby I realised where are his eyes going, na avana thirupi stare paniyum kooda avanuku oru hesitation ila,he continued his staring,na dress edhuvum podatha maari he made me feel ,rmba sexualize ah paathitu irundhan,I felt very helpless and felt like nothing I could really do, I really do hope atleast indha maari vds paathachum edhadhu oru paiyanuku aachum ponungala sexualize ah disrespective ah paakuradhu thappunu purinja podhum.
Do u know abt that poojari? Means avan epdi pattavan nu. If he doesn't stop staring in a shitty manner just make a fake call as if you attend the call,and just speak whatever ur heart says,he won't turn by your side , let he feel shame about his actions. I use this method if sometimes Iam in situatiom to travel alone in auto or bus , by noting the vehicle number and sending it to the person I feel safe and also the location live sharing. I think this would be helpful in anyway, hope so u be strong and safe all time.
😢😢😢 I too have been a victim of bad touch twice. It happened when I was between the age of 13-16 and it caused me a great deal of trauma. Till this date, I haven’t confided this to anyone, not even my parents. Being an only child I worry about making my parents upset:( nd also I was very scared that people would think poorly of me. Even now recalling those incidents fills me with fear. Thank you for putting up this video Kamala Amma - Kirthana BA. LLB (hons) 4th year Chennai ❤
Happened to me whn i was in 7th . Horrible trauma.. Now im 23 . That person passed away still i have that impact. But im telling this because we are not alone 🙂
I am damn sure all women would have faced this situation once in thier lifetime after they come out !!! Even thier own house is not a safe place !! Lets start supporting and secure our women from now on !!
I am also a victim ma. Starting from very own cousin brother to the incident that took place last week. The trauma is increasing day by day. I too have a girl child studying in grade 1 till date pick up and drop is by myself and my husband. I am traumatized to the extreme to even believe in PPL around us because of some creatures. I dont no where these situations are going to end.
Amma... Na solratha neenga nambuveengala nu therila... Na 8th padikum pothu la irunthu en v2la na safeah illaing amma.. enkuda porantha anna ve enta thappa nadanthuta try pannitu irunthaanga... Enaku itha amma ta solla bayam.. bcz ammaku enmela paasam jasthi nu nenaicha.. sonna avanga uyiroda iruka mataanga nu nenaicha... Ithukaagave na 11th 12th hostel poita.. na nalla padipang amma.. but intha trauma naalaiye ennala studies la concentrate panna mudila.. antha tym la tha I felt safe with one boy & I fell in love.. ena antha trauma la irunthu veliya kondu vanthathe avanga tha.. avanga soli tha COVID time la amma kita anna pathi sonna... Sonna neengale shock aaveenga... She doesn't even believe me & worry about me.. ipo varaikum avanga en anna ku tha support panraanga... Na ipo sonna atha epd nambarathunu kekaraanga.. now I've completed my UG & studying LLB 2nd year... Na en v2la illa... Venumney councelling la thoorama iruka college select panni en v2la irunthu na thalli iruka.. bcz I don't feel safe in my own house..
Nan oru girl nanum uthe mathiri face paniruken oruthar illa niraya per bad touch panratha en childhood niraya face paniruken.. nanum veliya pogum pothu payanthute than still now enaku 32 age antha fear pogave illa..
This is so true.... I am a young mom and yes when I was in delivery room soon after the baby born I was asking my doctor what baby it is ... They hold her in front of me and said it's a girl and that moment my thought was oh I have to hold her tightly in this unsafe country 😢😢 I couldn't be happier that I got an angel in my hands 😢😢😢
I too faced it by my close trusted relative when I'm too young to understand it was a bad touch but now I realised, it was a bad touch. He is not alive now and still i feel bad about it.
Hi sister I'm aarthi age 27 and married. Recently happened to me one old man age around 60 to 65 opposite to my home he misbehave with me and i shouted totally he twisted on me no one believed me expect my husband pls don't believe age or good fame because these culprits wanted ly creating good image to do bad things to protect themselves pls beware don't believe anyone
I too faced ma In public bus who he get that confidence in a public bus When Punishment was severe it was change.....⚖️ Some cheep rate people are there with us it's has faith 💯
I, being a rape victim, I survived it in my 13th age and none of my family knew about it till now. I processed my traumas with the help of professionals after 10 years and got healed but I don't think all victims can afford it. I agree with Snehu, I am not feeling safe in this nation and this country is incapable of protecting an individual from rape and abuse. To Amma, maatram varum...? I don't think so.... I lost belief. Ennum ethana Peru nambala madhri thavikka poranga...? Kadavul kuda pathutu summa dha irukkanga la, let him/her enjoy our pain and sufferings.... I appreciate your efforts and thanks for speaking about sensitive objectives on this subject.... Survival continues...........!
Yeah Things has happened to me too till 10 yrs ago. I faced these kind of issues in bus, other places too. So i don't go to temple on crowded days. I stopped going in bus. Things has happened even in my workplace. I'm just avoiding those places still. I felt very long back that being born as a girl is a sin to my birth. I still have the feeling of unsafe and will be there till my death.
One incident that i want to share is when i and my family were in bus stop for sending my brother for an college IV trip , a drunken guy came near me to hit on me , a friend of my brother slaps that guy and saved me 😢 i don't even know his name 😢 . But i am glad that he came to help a strange girl and having a great respect for girls. There are some guys .....
எனக்கும் இதவிட மோசமாக நடந்து இருக்கு 10 வயசுல😭 அப்பறம் நீங்க சொன்ன மாதிரி school days la public transport la😭என் அம்மாக்கு கூட தெரியாது.அதுல இருந்து இப்போ 35 வயசு ஆச்சு என் கணவரை தவிர மத்த ஆண்கள் எல்லாம் என்ன தப்பான கண்ணோட்டத்தில் பாக்குராங்கலோனு தோனுது அதுனாலயே வேற ஆண்கள் கிட்ட பேசுவதையே தவிர்க்கிறேன்😢
Very true!😔 Each nd every woman had daily faced nd each day facing thiz!💔I too faced this kind trama🥹nd I think parents should teach their children to behave correct instead protecting✨
Nanum indha situiation la irundhuruken santoor mommy ..idhu full ah padinga actually 12th mudichen andha tim la aluthuten anniki veetuku vandhu daddy kita solrapo .. thirunelveli ku bus la na daddy mummy lam ponom apo enaku back seat la irundhu oru aged ana oru aal bad touch pannaga like na window side la ukkanthu irundhen enaku daddy kita solradhuku mudilla bayamavum padhatama vum irundhuchi apo na safety pin eduthu andha aalu touch panrapo avan kaiya pudichi kada kada nu sharp ah kuthiten nan dha psycho thanama pin vachi kuthuren nu andha aal nalayum katha mudilla bcoz thappu avan mela irukapo epdi shout out pana mudium .... vtuku vandhu my daddy asked me about my higher studies so i said to my dad that all.. what happened in bus !! I don't wanna to be in this country anymore daddy na foreign poren nu soliten daddy suddenly started to cry aprom sonnaru enaku irukuradhu orey oru ponnu nee unaku inga padikradhuku istam illa ne safe ah feel pannalana ok unna vitu enga nala iruka mudiyadhu India la namaku safety illa ne foreign ke poiru nu sonnaru .... So now I'm free bird here na ipo Dubai la MBBS internship eduthutu iruken .. ❤ na India vandhu 4 yrs aachi ..next yr daddy mummy Yoda family ya Dubai shift aga porom santoor mommy...anniki edho function kaga thirunelveli ponom car repair aachi nu oru chinna reason .. bus la konja nala poradhe illa jolly ya round adikalam nu Nana dha daddy kita sonen andha chinna reason nala dhan bus la ye ponom .. 😢
I dont usually comment on videos, but this is personal. I am 22 this year, I have experienced sexual assault when i was 9 years old. No matter when or how many times i think of the event, tears just roll down my eyes. I have 2 sisters, and the trauma happened to me just gets activated in fraction of seconds whenever they step out of the house. I feel safe at home and even then sometimes i am like what if things happen at home and thats how much it affects the victim. it scars them forever. I have not told my parents abt it bcs for a fact i know they will blame me(they will be like neeyae ange pona, idhukku solrathu ponnuna ipdi irukkanum) but deep down i have always wanted them to voice out and defend us. like you said, in the span of this week many households would have talked about how horrible the affected parents would have felt, but i think every parents should have made their children to sit down and ask them if they have experienced any sorts of that and when they ask the children parents should be prepared for any answers. I personally dont think there is a solution for this, but we can hope for a reduction if the upcoming generation or this kid generation decides to change and break the chain of asking girls to change instead we can make both the genders sit down and tell them its never right to touch anyone without their consent and teach to be respectful of each other. Respect creates a boundary for everything. I am sorry to say this but this is sad reality if today(avan paiyan, nee ponnu , avan ennavenalum pannala aana ni ponnu panna kudathu) ITS A HIGH TIME TO BREAK THAT SICK CHAIN.
😢😢 my mother and grandmother always restricted me , they don't allow me to go outside without a shawl 😢 this is happening from when i age attended, i cannot blame my mother for that because the country is like that , my confidence was fully destroyed because of many restrictions 😢😢
I also faced this one in my school time at 1st std near by house one 11st std boy touch me as a bad me and brother play with him one day my brother was not there he bad touch me and I was panic and didn't tell about anyone he call me at leave days to play but I panic to see his face and didn't go better my family shifted into another place and at 8th std after get puberty my mother always told me don't stay with four walls you must go outside because then only you know about the world I also believe and go outside whenever school leave I went my grandmother house this is my house near 2 street my grandmother house this is as usual thing one day I came back to my home one boy at 20+ and I know him he is my relative he suddenly talk with me I just smile him and came back when I was going he touch me as a bad I feel very bad I suddenly cried and I can't do anything I went my home and cried loudly I can't do anything I scattered to say about this to my mom after then I didn't go my grandmother house lonely now also many of the mens looking awkward only when I was walking in a street or anywhere and somebody was looking our body parts only not they look as a women we have to move on for these kind of things because we living with bad mind people's
Its so true that every women out of 10 , 8 have gone through untold trauma like this .. including myself .. years of pain , unsafe feeling, mental health everything . . I went through.. every child do feel hopeless .. couldn't able to face and overcome from it easily .. i think tye only effective and permanent solution for this is to implement strong sections and punishment .. only that coold change everything .. when we think voicing out may change the situation .. people just close their ears and act dumb . STRONG SECTIONS AND PUNISHMENT SHOULD BE IMPLEMENTED! THEN EVERY ONE WILL FEAR TO TOUCH A CHILD AND WOMAN ! we didn't have better place to live atleast we must create a betterone for the upcoming ❤ livewithsocialresponsibility #HOPEFORCHANGE
Hi, i am so glad @momfluencer spoke about this issue! You addrssed everything from provocative drsssing to victim shaming! It's important that the message came from you because, sadly, the society doesn't respect young women like sneha screaming from rooftops ..she may be easily tagged as a feminazi or an extremist! People respect a woman because of her tag.. and they may take what comes from you more seriously because you are a mother! But you are a very sane and sweet one at that! Thanks for leveraging your position in the society to give out a beautiful message..keep rocking!
I faced this too Bad touch is not just a touch it will create a trauma which disturb a persons performance. It happens for 80% of women who travels in town bus regularly. I told to my mom but she never mind it. Because may be she was also go through this she also don’t have an idea how to over come and deal with it. Our county is the most unsafe country in the world. I have told to everyone every time. I am still hearing from youngsters daily their facing same problem while travelling in bus. I am very hard to everyone till date.
I feel as a doctor and a woman, it is my duty to say, that the comments about the the way women dress is taken as a validation for their action be it harassment or assault - verbal or sexual by a lot of men and boys. Just a few days back when i was speaking to my aunt about this topic, she made the same comment and i asked her “ If your own son harassed or abused someone just because she was dressed provocatively, will you accept it as a valid reason for your son’s actions?”, only after I asked that question did she realise how ignorant her comment was. Most look at this issue only from a single side, but like all issues this is also multifaceted. Like Rani aunty said I have also faced this at an age when I couldn’t even comprehend the gender differentiation less alone sexual encounters and by no less than a family member, I was subconsciously so traumatised that I repressed the whole issue until it resurfaced during my first year in college when I faced a similar issue albeit to a lesser degree while travelling in public transport. To the parents, guardians and adults, I beg you to have a honest conversation with your kids about this issue, be it boys or girls, teach them what is right from wrong, be open and receptive, tell them to treat each other with dignity and respect, reassure them that no matter the trouble they are in that they are always welcome to share it with you but at the same time set some boundaries that they are not to cross and ask them if they ever faced something like this, but do not push them, because as long as you are willing to openly talk about these issues, with enough time and reassurances they will come to you. It is high time that instead of blaming the victim, or imprisoning women in house or a marriage, you educate your sons, fathers, brothers, cousins and friends about how to treat women, better yet teach them how to treat their fellow human. For all those women out there that went or going through something similar, I know that even on thinking about these encounters, this crippling fear takes over you and for the tiniest moment you freeze every time you read, hear, or see such incidents, I understand and If you ever feel like you want to talk to someone, I urge you to reach to the person you trust most, or to any other doctor or a psychiatrist or you can contact me @9629010555.
Enakku 28, i have faced this issue few times during my schooling. Enakku therinja anna oruthar eh enna bad touch panirukaru, the thing is i was too young to understand that was a molestation and i escaped just bcz i was not comfortable and even after that i was talking to that person bcz i didn't realise that was a bad touch or what i under go was wrong. After certain age only i realized he just molested me. Now i have a 4 yr baby girl. After Aarthi news when I try to say dont get chocolates from others she is asking y. I can't explain her. Enakku therinja kanna nondi vithuruvanga story la sonalum she is not convinced and telling like na Dora oda map pathu veetuku vanthuruven, bheem mari avangala dishum nu adichuruven. How can i explain she is not in a safe society As a girl parent i feel very insecured and unsafe 😢😞
All this happens just because lack of knowledge and wrong parenting , I here by beg parents to upbring both female and male child with equal nourishment and right , Hope this will too change ... Pure prayers to all those victims .
Oh god, the fear on Sneha’s face when u were telling the incident that happened to u😢😢 there r many such incidents that most women have faced this.. it’s not acceptable… like Sneha said women feel unsafe in our own country.. I live in UAE and here I go out all by myself at 12 am and my hubby doesn’t bother but when in India my parents or hubby don’t allow me to step out even at 8… that’s the state of hard reality… I was talking to my son who is 10 year old, how to behave with girls around, I am sure he didn’t understand most of it, but I think it’s everybody effort and responsibility… without any doubt v need stricter laws…
I feel so bad that these things never stop whatever we say until the right action is taken nothing can be changed there is going to be someone as victim until these are taken care properly every women is gonna feel scared inside to step out of her house thinking that men's like this still are out there I'm 17and ik a friend who had gone through this she had shared it with only me not even her parents and she still has that fear it doesn't go away it stays like a scare i hope some changes are made and people will stop blaming the victim
As a man, i feel ashamed if what is happening in our country. Sexual abuse goes on both genders, even i was abused by my cousin when i was 9.its not all men, but always men.But, the reason why major of the victims are girls is bcoz boys are not taught how to see a girl, how to talk to a girl, how to treat a girl, especially in rural areas. The fact that the past abusers are still free in our society, makes me doubt the future of our society. Avanungala kallaala adichu saagadikunamnu thonuthu.
S. I was also sexuall abused by my own brother. For about 3 years he abused. I didn't know know what to do that age. I told my mom. She was working and didn't mind that. I felt very unsafe at my own house. Its been 23 years now. Till now im not able to get out of that trauma. Im praying god to punish him atleast his hands should get cut off in any accident. But now he is talking to me like he is a responsible brother. Cant take it anymore. He is living a nice life. But i lost all my confidence and suffering from anxiety.
True dear... Épaadi nallavan madiriae pesuranuga naaiga... Avanukkum 1girl child irukku.. periya ozhuukkan madiri pesuvan... I was abused by my own father and brother from the age of 9 to 14😢.. now I have 2daughter's but could come out of that worst happens to me.. I don't like to give birth to male child also... My mother acts like she is the best protective motherin the world... Thu it's all fate.. still I'm waking up shockingly in mid nights...
i was just studying in 3rd or 4th watching serial in my house with my grand parents playing with my friends my friends brother came to pick her sisy i dont know why he came also and the powercut happened grandmay went went to match some candles or something he just grabbed me he touched me down he hugged me very tightly after 5 mins my grandma came i just pushed him without shouting at all but i dont know why i didnot said it to her but i remained silent after current came he is watching tv with us i went out from that place but he not that time no one thought me about good touch bad touch literally feeeling bad about tha😓 even at that age im not wearing any short dresses i weared a full gown i didnt weared it again i still remember that dress my birthday dress but i say one thing that time im not scared at all i pushed him away not cried or did anything
I'm 25...I am also face that situation in temple with my parents.... And I also didn't ask to noone even my my parents becoz I just felt so embraced and so suffering...
My mom was an orphan even my mother is a victim she shared her story with me but not even to my father. Due to her trauma she can't leave me alone anywhere and she was overprotective
Idk its Very shameful about our India! But i have a request to sneha i want her to be the Lawyer who sounds to be like "Justice done " i hope she gets in to a higher level in this career she brings out Justice! ❤
Iam studying 11th iam worried very much about this Ma you and sneha as spoked very well.... Don't leave this this issue (pondicherry) like other issue.... Ella issue vaiyum 10 naal pesuvaanga aporam yaaravathu celebrity illa Cricket pathi paaka poiruvaanga.... Athe maari entha maari nadaka koodathu...... Intha issue va perusa aaki.... ella problem layum takkunu maranthuruvaanga ndra mentality ya namba society la maathanum..... And itha konjamaavathu thaduka orey vali entha maari pannuravngalaku kadumaiyaana thandanai tharathuthan #justice for potu oru projanamum illa
Exactly.... This happens to all girls. The thing is we are afraid to tell our parents coz our parents never take action towards the opposite party instead they will restrict a girl's freedom.
I m a victim from the age of 6 yrs nw i m 34 ....still in trauma... Even in temples ,fairs, travels etc everywhere it happens no where it is safe ... Still I cant even believe old men r younger than me too... My six year son went thru this by his 8 yr old friend... Parents pls provide a friendly environment for both boys n girls to speak out these kind of things...
Amma as a coimbatorian like you I'm a 26 yrs old as a mom for 3 yrs boy child i have faced this 2 times in my 8th std and while I'm going for the job. Like sneha said I don't feel safe in this country🥺
The question you asked that why don't we do something as a mass against this, I also thought about it. You know why it's not been there, it's because someone in our house is the one doing it and the one getting affected is also someone in our house only . Would even women (though being the victim) come up and stand against someone in their own home. Most no. That's the Saddenning truth! Women not (maybe unable to ) supporting women.
I also have faced this once I realized now not only to me anything happens to another women I raise my voice. Some women are still in 1950 backward thought still . All shd change the mind set
I thought only I was affected but seeing the comment section literally I was shocked but one think is common in every girls they stay silent and I regret staying silent and again and again they get an opportunity to touch us. We shouldn't be sad its not our mistakes face the situation no matter whatever happens stay strong
Even i faced many issue like this never shared with my parents but now i shared everything with my husband after god he is the one protecting me from every situation. There many women still now facing issues
At the current situation many small boys and girls should faced the situation Aana girls ku nadantha ithu periya visyam thaan aana boys ku nadantha paiyan thana indranga antha paiyan bayangramana trauma la irupan 😢
I have also faced a sexual harrasment at my previous work organisation despite complaining to women safety department with proofs they did not punish that person who was my team leader. I am still traumatized.
I m 30 now. When i was 16 i also faced the situation in bus. 11th std physics practical anniki. Ennala practical la concentrate pannave mudila. Sir kita neraya thitu vangunen. But na edhunala apdi irundhenh yartayum sollala. Enna ellarum thapa pathuduvanga nu bayam. Idhu illama en chithapa paiyan enna madila ukara vechu bad touch pannan. Apo enaku may be 12 years irukum. Veli ulagathala matum illa. Sondha veetla kuda annan, mama murai ullavanga kuda neraya per chinna pullanga kita thapa nadandhukuranga.
I have just now turned teenager (13) thankyou aunty for informing us at least I got to know how to be careful and how the world is not all people are bad but there are some
I too faced it many times but can't do anything at that moment i feel like breaking their face but we can't do anything from the age of 10 im seeing men staring at us in a very wrong way even though we show our face they'll never mind abt it which is so irritating, I too feel the same what is goona happen by talking abt this will our country change overnight NEVER !!! IM 17 ryt now and i don't know hereafter how many ppl im goona face like this only thing i want to say is teach your child getting marks going to school is alone not the whole thing a child should learn every parent must talk abt good touch n bad touch wat to do at that time And one more thing we need to talk abt this too what will be next step when a child comes n tells something like that there are some parents who get tensed and hide that issue they sit in the corner and blame that girl as if she asked a guy to touch her Im not telling abt all parents BUT there are parents like this too i think parents also needed to be educated abt this . Just dont know how we r gonna survive Thanks for this video aunty ❤
The harsh truth is each of us go through different sufferings and hardships , but not everything can be told out easily . I agree to your point which explains that no matter what bad happens gradually we have to move on in life even if the problem isnt solved . Justice for each and every individual who have gone through painful suffering. I too had got harassed once physically last year by one student from our university near our university in Australia. I should have been strong i felt , but i learnt a lot from it and became a wiser person than before.🤝💪
Yes, mam i too faced this,, at the age of 12 , my neighbor one old man, 60 plus, while i playing with his grandchild, he pressed my breast, i cried lonely, i told my dad, after a day, but he didn't warned that old man, after when i come out my home , the way of his seeing was in bad manner, one day i threw a stone on him, still he watches in a bad manner, so he is a worst gut 😢
Almost 5.7k comments in the comment section I can see around 5.6k told about the harassment happened in their life 😢 really this is curse of our country
Comment Section full aa ithana peru avunga trauma va share panranga but ithana peruku idhu nadanthurukunu nenaikum bothu as a men a enaku shame aa iruku 🤕
I’m sorry that you’re feeling this way, brother. But, whoever feels it’s okay to rape is not a man at all. You are a real man, they’re not. They’re just disgusting lust-driven monsters.
Its also happening for the girl's there inside their own house they are suffering a lot without able to tell anyone about it that they have been going through all this in their own house. It may be their father, brother, uncle....... Girls don't feel much safely even inside or outside their home. 🙂
As a Male, i fell really sorry for all the victims. It regrets me as a male. Be careful from this generation boys. I didn't complain all the boys, even i belong to this generation but, thats the truth. I Didn't tell all the girls to adjust all this, but our individual safety is important. Stay strong everyone and don't fear to voice out for your insecurities
I too faced harassment when i was 8 years old On that time i not even known that was an harassment 🙂💔 Till now i had faced 4 major harrassments Now im 17 years old
Ennoda clg days la enga clg la deaf and dumb students neraiya padichanga bus la ellarum onna varuvom athula oru ponnu kitta oru 50yrs above irukkum avan thappa thottan😡antha ponnala solla mudiyala Nan Avan pannatha pathuten odane enkitta irukka needle 💉 vachi avanoda Kaila kizhichiten Avan kaththa kooda illa
எனக்கும் இந்த மாதிரி cinema theatre ல நடந்திருக்கு இப்போ எனக்கு 38 வயசு நான் 8 வது படிக்கும்போது theatre seat பின்னாடி ஒருத்தன் கை விட்டு bad touch பண்ணான் நான் பயந்து போய் seat edge ல படம் பாத்தேன் பக்கத்துல அம்மா இருக்கும் போதே நடந்தது அப்போ நீங்க சொல்ர அதே பயம் அம்மா கிட்ட சொல்ல விடல.. அழுகை அடக்கிட்டு உகந்தது இனும் ஞாபகம் இருக்கு..அதுல இருந்து cinema theatre போறதே விட்டுட்டேன் இப்பாவும் cinema பிடிக்காது...கூட்டமான bus, train உம் பெண்களுக்கு safe இல்ல.. மோசமான அனுபவங்களை சந்தித்து இருக்கிறேன்... இப்போ என் மகளை வெளிய எங்கனா அனுப்பவும் பயம் இருக்கு...
The point sneha told...the way we fight for culture y can't we fight for rape... correct 💯💯💯💯💯💯
😂😂can't ah 😂😂
💯% true❤️🙂
I think parents should teach their boy child to behave correct instead protecting, or restricting girl child
This is true I accept sometime girls don't want boys who are innocent they actually want rugged boys not all some wild animals do like this I feel pity
Very true..
Enanga pesreenga
@@ss-tc5gy En Purilaya ungaluku sonadhu. Tamil la solanuma?
@@gowshika7999 enaku purithu...ungluku puritha?
This was actually very helpful and you've teached me to be more careful and just as Sneha said "I've lost my trust on this country"
Seeing the way how Sneha reacts when you say your incidents,I can really understand her root thought.. I appreciate the way you grow them though you people are with social media❤
I'm so glad you spoke about this, be it men or women, should first be inculcated with respecting their fellow beings. Don't let anyone abuse you, if they over power you, never leave them, let the hell come down. If one fights, and get justice, it will help others to do so too. This will bring in fear and they have to think twice before committing such crimes.
I agree with you on bringing in law for a strict law for such crimes, no exception for juvenile as well, if they have knowledge on this crime they are not minors, they have to be treated as majors and apply the same punishment.
I've been a victim too many a times, when told to my family I was made to shut up. I'm 47 now...and those incidents have impacted me deeply , which has impacted my relationships as well.
To all lost souls, you did nothing wrong, but I pray the culprits are brought to justice soon.
பெண் குழந்தைகளுக்கு ஆடை உடுத்துவது பற்றி சொல்லி கொடுப்பது மட்டும் அல்லாமல் ஆண் பிள்ளைகளுக்கும் சொல்லி வளர்க்க வேண்டும் பெண்களை எப்படி நடத்த வேண்டும் என்று
Dress is their individual choice,
These things starts from very small things like teasing girls and making jokes on their body parts. Normalizing small comments leads to big traumas. How many people knows about marital rapes !? Why every shitty things happens only to women. "It's not all the men but it's always men!"
That's 💯 true
Bold of you to assume that all women are innocent. In some places women misuse their rights. They even falsely accuse innocent men . By your logic i can also conclude that "it's not all women but it's always women who falsely accuse men "
@@enchantedspark-ws2wj can we stop blamiing eachother and together try to protect ourselves from evils belonging both genders
Manichow ahh😂😂😂
Body parts jokes are mostly cracked by women on boys
I'm 27 male I been sexually abused and raped in my childhood multiple times around the age of 7 to 11. This trauma leads me to non socializing person who always had difficulty in maintaining friendship or relationship. Some months back my psychiatrist conveyed me it may be due to my unhealed childhood trauma I been currently into chronic Depression, PTSD and anxiety issues. I'm taking medication related to it these days hope one day I'll heal. One thing I feel proud was I made sure my lovable younger sister shouldn't undergo this things so I safeguarded her as per my knowledge and she is currently persuing medicine and have large social circle not like me .I felt so guilty when some people commented it's all because of men like I feel it's about individual discriminating things like this towards one gender is not acceptable. My parents didn't educated about this things may be they thought I'm a boy I wouldn't face this things and I really don't know what's happening those days it took me years to understand what happened in my past. To parents who out there make sure to educate your children whether girl or boy about it and give them strong support that you will be always there for them😊
Everything will change bro don't worry the human who did this to u will be punished by God severally
You are a such a cute angel.I agree victims are from both gender. You too get some education and grow your self and reduce your financial dependency also. It is not our mistake, come out from it. Time will heal every pain. Till then we should be very careful and should not become a prey for them. Take care. Stay blessed.
I wish pray and hope you heal.. Hugs to you
Don't worry
Big hug to u🫂🫂 hope u heal soon ❤❤ and joy the life and I wish, you get all the happiness in this world.
Thank you for discussing about the most important social issue on this forum . Appreciate you for sharing your thoughts and experiences
Happy to see mother and daughter sharing this conversation.❤
Influencers like you and many others must talk about it a lot together so that it can bring about some sort of change at the least
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Iam a clg student studying in coimbatore,I'm staying alone in a rental home ,Innaiki mrng pakathla irukura shop ku I went alone wearing a shorts,there was a Kovil poojari standing nearby I realised where are his eyes going, na avana thirupi stare paniyum kooda avanuku oru hesitation ila,he continued his staring,na dress edhuvum podatha maari he made me feel ,rmba sexualize ah paathitu irundhan,I felt very helpless and felt like nothing I could really do, I really do hope atleast indha maari vds paathachum edhadhu oru paiyanuku aachum ponungala sexualize ah disrespective ah paakuradhu thappunu purinja podhum.
Do u know abt that poojari? Means avan epdi pattavan nu. If he doesn't stop staring in a shitty manner just make a fake call as if you attend the call,and just speak whatever ur heart says,he won't turn by your side , let he feel shame about his actions.
I use this method if sometimes Iam in situatiom to travel alone in auto or bus , by noting the vehicle number and sending it to the person I feel safe and also the location live sharing.
I think this would be helpful in anyway, hope so u be strong and safe all time.
The sad truth is andhamari kazhisadaingalukellam indha video poi seraadhu...paakkamaataanuga
@Mit_mithra sad reality 🤐
😢😢😢 I too have been a victim of bad touch twice. It happened when I was between the age of 13-16 and it caused me a great deal of trauma. Till this date, I haven’t confided this to anyone, not even my parents. Being an only child I worry about making my parents upset:( nd also I was very scared that people would think poorly of me. Even now recalling those incidents fills me with fear. Thank you for putting up this video Kamala Amma
- Kirthana
BA. LLB (hons) 4th year
Chennai
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Happened to me whn i was in 7th . Horrible trauma.. Now im 23 . That person passed away still i have that impact. But im telling this because we are not alone 🙂
Thank u for bringing up this topic 🙏..
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Sure🙏
I am damn sure all women would have faced this situation once in thier lifetime after they come out !!! Even thier own house is not a safe place !! Lets start supporting and secure our women from now on !!
Very true!!! I stopped using public transport for years.
I am also a victim ma. Starting from very own cousin brother to the incident that took place last week. The trauma is increasing day by day. I too have a girl child studying in grade 1 till date pick up and drop is by myself and my husband. I am traumatized to the extreme to even believe in PPL around us because of some creatures. I dont no where these situations are going to end.
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My respect for u
Thank you for opening up of many girls trauma 🙏
Sneha said true words justice delayed and denied.
தண்டனைகள் கடுமையாக இருந்ததால் தான் குற்றங்கள் குறையும்.
Amma... Na solratha neenga nambuveengala nu therila... Na 8th padikum pothu la irunthu en v2la na safeah illaing amma.. enkuda porantha anna ve enta thappa nadanthuta try pannitu irunthaanga... Enaku itha amma ta solla bayam.. bcz ammaku enmela paasam jasthi nu nenaicha.. sonna avanga uyiroda iruka mataanga nu nenaicha... Ithukaagave na 11th 12th hostel poita.. na nalla padipang amma.. but intha trauma naalaiye ennala studies la concentrate panna mudila.. antha tym la tha I felt safe with one boy & I fell in love.. ena antha trauma la irunthu veliya kondu vanthathe avanga tha.. avanga soli tha COVID time la amma kita anna pathi sonna... Sonna neengale shock aaveenga... She doesn't even believe me & worry about me.. ipo varaikum avanga en anna ku tha support panraanga... Na ipo sonna atha epd nambarathunu kekaraanga.. now I've completed my UG & studying LLB 2nd year... Na en v2la illa... Venumney councelling la thoorama iruka college select panni en v2la irunthu na thalli iruka.. bcz I don't feel safe in my own house..
I feel so sorry for this...more and more strength and love to you akka❤
Stay strong da
Nan oru girl nanum uthe mathiri face paniruken oruthar illa niraya per bad touch panratha en childhood niraya face paniruken.. nanum veliya pogum pothu payanthute than still now enaku 32 age antha fear pogave illa..
Porn is the main reason
Ninga epovume bold ah irunga, ethukume payam vendam,and be safe sisy.
This is so true.... I am a young mom and yes when I was in delivery room soon after the baby born I was asking my doctor what baby it is ... They hold her in front of me and said it's a girl and that moment my thought was oh I have to hold her tightly in this unsafe country 😢😢 I couldn't be happier that I got an angel in my hands 😢😢😢
I too faced it by my close trusted relative when I'm too young to understand it was a bad touch but now I realised, it was a bad touch. He is not alive now and still i feel bad about it.
Truth but sad 😢.
(Foreigners + Devote + Local) today women's day.we're educated / growth 📈.
I feel these things happen often because people watch ** videos online and as those women are unapproachable, those fools end with some random girl🤧‼️
I think instead of banding TikTok, the government has to band those kind of websites to prevent all kinds of abuses.
True
Hi sister I'm aarthi age 27 and married. Recently happened to me one old man age around 60 to 65 opposite to my home he misbehave with me and i shouted totally he twisted on me no one believed me expect my husband pls don't believe age or good fame because these culprits wanted ly creating good image to do bad things to protect themselves pls beware don't believe anyone
I too faced ma
In public bus who he get that confidence in a public bus
When Punishment was severe it was change.....⚖️
Some cheep rate people are there with us it's has faith 💯
I, being a rape victim, I survived it in my 13th age and none of my family knew about it till now.
I processed my traumas with the help of professionals after 10 years and got healed but I don't think all victims can afford it. I agree with Snehu, I am not feeling safe in this nation and this country is incapable of protecting an individual from rape and abuse. To Amma, maatram varum...? I don't think so.... I lost belief. Ennum ethana Peru nambala madhri thavikka poranga...?
Kadavul kuda pathutu summa dha irukkanga la, let him/her enjoy our pain and sufferings....
I appreciate your efforts and thanks for speaking about sensitive objectives on this subject....
Survival continues...........!
Im sorry u don't deserve this 🥺
Thanks @momfluencer for creating social awareness.🙏👍Thought provoking content. Gr8 effort @sneholic 👌 . Hope we all can make this world safer place.
Yeah
Things has happened to me too till 10 yrs ago. I faced these kind of issues in bus, other places too. So i don't go to temple on crowded days. I stopped going in bus. Things has happened even in my workplace. I'm just avoiding those places still. I felt very long back that being born as a girl is a sin to my birth. I still have the feeling of unsafe and will be there till my death.
No ,not being born a girl is sin since someone did sin it's not your fault.be happy about your self 😊
True bayam bayam amma appa namala dhan solluvanga thittuvanganu bayam😢😢 adhanala dhan solrathu ila
This video will make someone's life safe thank you
One incident that i want to share is when i and my family were in bus stop for sending my brother for an college IV trip , a drunken guy came near me to hit on me , a friend of my brother slaps that guy and saved me 😢 i don't even know his name 😢 . But i am glad that he came to help a strange girl and having a great respect for girls. There are some guys .....
எனக்கும் இதவிட மோசமாக நடந்து இருக்கு 10 வயசுல😭 அப்பறம் நீங்க சொன்ன மாதிரி school days la public transport la😭என் அம்மாக்கு கூட தெரியாது.அதுல இருந்து இப்போ 35 வயசு ஆச்சு என் கணவரை தவிர மத்த ஆண்கள் எல்லாம் என்ன தப்பான கண்ணோட்டத்தில் பாக்குராங்கலோனு தோனுது அதுனாலயே வேற ஆண்கள் கிட்ட பேசுவதையே தவிர்க்கிறேன்😢
True 💯 sis, enakkum bad touch nadathiruku, 7th padikkum pothu realation la athum Chithappa murai, ithanalaye ipo vara en ponna yar v2ko sonthangal v,2ku vida payam
Very true!😔
Each nd every woman had daily faced nd each day facing thiz!💔I too faced this kind trama🥹nd I think parents should teach their children to behave correct instead protecting✨
Nanum indha situiation la irundhuruken santoor mommy ..idhu full ah padinga actually 12th mudichen andha tim la aluthuten anniki veetuku vandhu daddy kita solrapo .. thirunelveli ku bus la na daddy mummy lam ponom apo enaku back seat la irundhu oru aged ana oru aal bad touch pannaga like na window side la ukkanthu irundhen enaku daddy kita solradhuku mudilla bayamavum padhatama vum irundhuchi apo na safety pin eduthu andha aalu touch panrapo avan kaiya pudichi kada kada nu sharp ah kuthiten nan dha psycho thanama pin vachi kuthuren nu andha aal nalayum katha mudilla bcoz thappu avan mela irukapo epdi shout out pana mudium .... vtuku vandhu my daddy asked me about my higher studies so i said to my dad that all.. what happened in bus !! I don't wanna to be in this country anymore daddy na foreign poren nu soliten daddy suddenly started to cry aprom sonnaru enaku irukuradhu orey oru ponnu nee unaku inga padikradhuku istam illa ne safe ah feel pannalana ok unna vitu enga nala iruka mudiyadhu India la namaku safety illa ne foreign ke poiru nu sonnaru .... So now I'm free bird here na ipo Dubai la MBBS internship eduthutu iruken .. ❤ na India vandhu 4 yrs aachi ..next yr daddy mummy Yoda family ya Dubai shift aga porom santoor mommy...anniki edho function kaga thirunelveli ponom car repair aachi nu oru chinna reason .. bus la konja nala poradhe illa jolly ya round adikalam nu Nana dha daddy kita sonen andha chinna reason nala dhan bus la ye ponom .. 😢
24:38 you are absolutely right Sneha 😢💔
I dont usually comment on videos, but this is personal. I am 22 this year, I have experienced sexual assault when i was 9 years old. No matter when or how many times i think of the event, tears just roll down my eyes. I have 2 sisters, and the trauma happened to me just gets activated in fraction of seconds whenever they step out of the house. I feel safe at home and even then sometimes i am like what if things happen at home and thats how much it affects the victim. it scars them forever. I have not told my parents abt it bcs for a fact i know they will blame me(they will be like neeyae ange pona, idhukku solrathu ponnuna ipdi irukkanum) but deep down i have always wanted them to voice out and defend us. like you said, in the span of this week many households would have talked about how horrible the affected parents would have felt, but i think every parents should have made their children to sit down and ask them if they have experienced any sorts of that and when they ask the children parents should be prepared for any answers. I personally dont think there is a solution for this, but we can hope for a reduction if the upcoming generation or this kid generation decides to change and break the chain of asking girls to change instead we can make both the genders sit down and tell them its never right to touch anyone without their consent and teach to be respectful of each other. Respect creates a boundary for everything. I am sorry to say this but this is sad reality if today(avan paiyan, nee ponnu , avan ennavenalum pannala aana ni ponnu panna kudathu) ITS A HIGH TIME TO BREAK THAT SICK CHAIN.
I completely agree with u..stay strong akka❤
I think she is really a good mother and a good influencer in the media ❤
Exactly ❤
😢😢 my mother and grandmother always restricted me , they don't allow me to go outside without a shawl 😢 this is happening from when i age attended, i cannot blame my mother for that because the country is like that , my confidence was fully destroyed because of many restrictions 😢😢
I also faced this one in my school time at 1st std near by house one 11st std boy touch me as a bad me and brother play with him one day my brother was not there he bad touch me and I was panic and didn't tell about anyone he call me at leave days to play but I panic to see his face and didn't go better my family shifted into another place and at 8th std after get puberty my mother always told me don't stay with four walls you must go outside because then only you know about the world I also believe and go outside whenever school leave I went my grandmother house this is my house near 2 street my grandmother house this is as usual thing one day I came back to my home one boy at 20+ and I know him he is my relative he suddenly talk with me I just smile him and came back when I was going he touch me as a bad I feel very bad I suddenly cried and I can't do anything I went my home and cried loudly I can't do anything I scattered to say about this to my mom after then I didn't go my grandmother house lonely now also many of the mens looking awkward only when I was walking in a street or anywhere and somebody was looking our body parts only not they look as a women we have to move on for these kind of things because we living with bad mind people's
Thankyou, much needed video on public platform .
Its so true that every women out of 10 , 8 have gone through untold trauma like this .. including myself .. years of pain , unsafe feeling, mental health everything . . I went through.. every child do feel hopeless .. couldn't able to face and overcome from it easily .. i think tye only effective and permanent solution for this is to implement strong sections and punishment .. only that coold change everything .. when we think voicing out may change the situation .. people just close their ears and act dumb . STRONG SECTIONS AND PUNISHMENT SHOULD BE IMPLEMENTED! THEN EVERY ONE WILL FEAR TO TOUCH A CHILD AND WOMAN ! we didn't have better place to live atleast we must create a betterone for the upcoming ❤ livewithsocialresponsibility #HOPEFORCHANGE
She is a great mother i never saw on social media ❤❤😊😊
Hi, i am so glad @momfluencer spoke about this issue! You addrssed everything from provocative drsssing to victim shaming! It's important that the message came from you because, sadly, the society doesn't respect young women like sneha screaming from rooftops ..she may be easily tagged as a feminazi or an extremist! People respect a woman because of her tag.. and they may take what comes from you more seriously because you are a mother! But you are a very sane and sweet one at that! Thanks for leveraging your position in the society to give out a beautiful message..keep rocking!
I am a boy
I have also been abused by some men
Boys are also at danger
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So much of girls have faced this with in the relatives it self its not just about others 😢
Very well told. Lovely to watch mom and daughter talking together. Let's fight together.
I faced this too Bad touch is not just a touch it will create a trauma which disturb a persons performance. It happens for 80% of women who travels in town bus regularly. I told to my mom but she never mind it. Because may be she was also go through this she also don’t have an idea how to over come and deal with it. Our county is the most unsafe country in the world. I have told to everyone every time. I am still hearing from youngsters daily their facing same problem while travelling in bus. I am very hard to everyone till date.
I feel as a doctor and a woman, it is my duty to say, that the comments about the the way women dress is taken as a validation for their action be it harassment or assault - verbal or sexual by a lot of men and boys. Just a few days back when i was speaking to my aunt about this topic, she made the same comment and i asked her “ If your own son harassed or abused someone just because she was dressed provocatively, will you accept it as a valid reason for your son’s actions?”, only after I asked that question did she realise how ignorant her comment was. Most look at this issue only from a single side, but like all issues this is also multifaceted. Like Rani aunty said I have also faced this at an age when I couldn’t even comprehend the gender differentiation less alone sexual encounters and by no less than a family member, I was subconsciously so traumatised that I repressed the whole issue until it resurfaced during my first year in college when I faced a similar issue albeit to a lesser degree while travelling in public transport. To the parents, guardians and adults, I beg you to have a honest conversation with your kids about this issue, be it boys or girls, teach them what is right from wrong, be open and receptive, tell them to treat each other with dignity and respect, reassure them that no matter the trouble they are in that they are always welcome to share it with you but at the same time set some boundaries that they are not to cross and ask them if they ever faced something like this, but do not push them, because as long as you are willing to openly talk about these issues, with enough time and reassurances they will come to you. It is high time that instead of blaming the victim, or imprisoning women in house or a marriage, you educate your sons, fathers, brothers, cousins and friends about how to treat women, better yet teach them how to treat their fellow human. For all those women out there that went or going through something similar, I know that even on thinking about these encounters, this crippling fear takes over you and for the tiniest moment you freeze every time you read, hear, or see such incidents, I understand and If you ever feel like you want to talk to someone, I urge you to reach to the person you trust most, or to any other doctor or a psychiatrist or you can contact me @9629010555.
Watching this now after the recent incident makes much more sense , one of the best video about the current issues ..
Enakku 28, i have faced this issue few times during my schooling. Enakku therinja anna oruthar eh enna bad touch panirukaru, the thing is i was too young to understand that was a molestation and i escaped just bcz i was not comfortable and even after that i was talking to that person bcz i didn't realise that was a bad touch or what i under go was wrong. After certain age only i realized he just molested me.
Now i have a 4 yr baby girl. After Aarthi news when I try to say dont get chocolates from others she is asking y. I can't explain her. Enakku therinja kanna nondi vithuruvanga story la sonalum she is not convinced and telling like na Dora oda map pathu veetuku vanthuruven, bheem mari avangala dishum nu adichuruven. How can i explain she is not in a safe society
As a girl parent i feel very insecured and unsafe 😢😞
Nowadays in school they start early to teach about good and bad touch from grade1
This is an important content to acknowledge people
Give knowledge to boys that to respect every girls and protect in any manner from child hood is the only way💫🔥
Each and every women had faced and each day facing this. Even by the looks women facing nonsense. Stomach burning 🔥
Im littraly crying now 😔
All this happens just because lack of knowledge and wrong parenting ,
I here by beg parents to upbring both female and male child with equal nourishment and right ,
Hope this will too change ...
Pure prayers to all those victims .
Every women atleast faced this type of problem once in their life
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I am feeling so bad about this generation😢
its not just this generation , the majority of the ones who do things like this are actually not from this generation
Not this generation, epola irudhu iruku
Aama aama entha generation la mattum than veliya teriyuthu ponna generation mudi marichuruvanenga keta maanam pogirum aa
Great initiative lack of safety in our country nowdays if women is traveling alone its not a easy job
Oh god, the fear on Sneha’s face when u were telling the incident that happened to u😢😢 there r many such incidents that most women have faced this.. it’s not acceptable… like Sneha said women feel unsafe in our own country.. I live in UAE and here I go out all by myself at 12 am and my hubby doesn’t bother but when in India my parents or hubby don’t allow me to step out even at 8… that’s the state of hard reality… I was talking to my son who is 10 year old, how to behave with girls around, I am sure he didn’t understand most of it, but I think it’s everybody effort and responsibility… without any doubt v need stricter laws…
Even iam in UAE BUT MANY OF MY FRIENDS EXPERIENCED THE SAME SITUATION IN UAE NO COUNTRY OR PEOPLE ARE SAFE HERE FOR FEMALES.
I feel so bad that these things never stop whatever we say until the right action is taken nothing can be changed there is going to be someone as victim until these are taken care properly every women is gonna feel scared inside to step out of her house thinking that men's like this still are out there I'm 17and ik a friend who had gone through this she had shared it with only me not even her parents and she still has that fear it doesn't go away it stays like a scare i hope some changes are made and people will stop blaming the victim
Its good that you guys spoke about this i myself have been soo disturbed by reading news everyday
As a man, i feel ashamed if what is happening in our country. Sexual abuse goes on both genders, even i was abused by my cousin when i was 9.its not all men, but always men.But, the reason why major of the victims are girls is bcoz boys are not taught how to see a girl, how to talk to a girl, how to treat a girl, especially in rural areas. The fact that the past abusers are still free in our society, makes me doubt the future of our society. Avanungala kallaala adichu saagadikunamnu thonuthu.
S. I was also sexuall abused by my own brother. For about 3 years he abused. I didn't know know what to do that age. I told my mom. She was working and didn't mind that. I felt very unsafe at my own house. Its been 23 years now. Till now im not able to get out of that trauma. Im praying god to punish him atleast his hands should get cut off in any accident. But now he is talking to me like he is a responsible brother. Cant take it anymore. He is living a nice life. But i lost all my confidence and suffering from anxiety.
True dear... Épaadi nallavan madiriae pesuranuga naaiga... Avanukkum 1girl child irukku.. periya ozhuukkan madiri pesuvan... I was abused by my own father and brother from the age of 9 to 14😢.. now I have 2daughter's but could come out of that worst happens to me.. I don't like to give birth to male child also... My mother acts like she is the best protective motherin the world... Thu it's all fate.. still I'm waking up shockingly in mid nights...
i was just studying in 3rd or 4th watching serial in my house with my grand parents playing with my friends my friends brother came to pick her sisy i dont know why he came also and the powercut happened grandmay went went to match some candles or something he just grabbed me he touched me down he hugged me very tightly after 5 mins my grandma came i just pushed him without shouting at all but i dont know why i didnot said it to her but i remained silent after current came he is watching tv with us i went out from that place but he not that time no one thought me about good touch bad touch literally feeeling bad about tha😓 even at that age im not wearing any short dresses i weared a full gown i didnt weared it again i still remember that dress my birthday dress but i say one thing that time im not scared at all i pushed him away not cried or did anything
I'm 25...I am also face that situation in temple with my parents.... And I also didn't ask to noone even my my parents becoz I just felt so embraced and so suffering...
Face la adika vendi tha na sister
Don't feel embraced
Yeah I too experienced this..by my relative brother😓
My mom was an orphan even my mother is a victim she shared her story with me but not even to my father. Due to her trauma she can't leave me alone anywhere and she was overprotective
Idk its Very shameful about our India! But i have a request to sneha i want her to be the Lawyer who sounds to be like "Justice done " i hope she gets in to a higher level in this career she brings out Justice! ❤
Iam studying 11th iam worried very much about this
Ma you and sneha as spoked very well.... Don't leave this this issue (pondicherry) like other issue.... Ella issue vaiyum 10 naal pesuvaanga aporam yaaravathu celebrity illa Cricket pathi paaka poiruvaanga....
Athe maari entha maari nadaka koodathu......
Intha issue va perusa aaki.... ella problem layum takkunu maranthuruvaanga ndra mentality ya namba society la maathanum.....
And itha konjamaavathu thaduka orey vali entha maari pannuravngalaku kadumaiyaana thandanai tharathuthan
#justice for potu oru projanamum illa
Exactly.... This happens to all girls. The thing is we are afraid to tell our parents coz our parents never take action towards the opposite party instead they will restrict a girl's freedom.
I m a victim from the age of 6 yrs nw i m 34 ....still in trauma... Even in temples ,fairs, travels etc everywhere it happens no where it is safe ... Still I cant even believe old men r younger than me too... My six year son went thru this by his 8 yr old friend... Parents pls provide a friendly environment for both boys n girls to speak out these kind of things...
Amma as a coimbatorian like you I'm a 26 yrs old as a mom for 3 yrs boy child i have faced this 2 times in my 8th std and while I'm going for the job. Like sneha said I don't feel safe in this country🥺
The question you asked that why don't we do something as a mass against this, I also thought about it. You know why it's not been there, it's because someone in our house is the one doing it and the one getting affected is also someone in our house only . Would even women (though being the victim) come up and stand against someone in their own home. Most no. That's the Saddenning truth! Women not (maybe unable to ) supporting women.
I also have faced this once I realized now not only to me anything happens to another women I raise my voice. Some women are still in 1950 backward thought still . All shd change the mind set
Thank you for talking about issues wo.an are facing it means a lot💜
Amma.நானும் face pani irrukan.in my childhood la.house owner &my own சித்தப்பா.ipo நினைச்சாலும் yenaku aalugai வரும்....yenaku அவளோ கோபம் varuthu
I thought only I was affected but seeing the comment section literally I was shocked but one think is common in every girls they stay silent and I regret staying silent and again and again they get an opportunity to touch us. We shouldn't be sad its not our mistakes face the situation no matter whatever happens stay strong
Even i faced many issue like this never shared with my parents but now i shared everything with my husband after god he is the one protecting me from every situation. There many women still now facing issues
At the current situation many small boys and girls should faced the situation
Aana girls ku nadantha ithu periya visyam thaan aana boys ku nadantha paiyan thana indranga antha paiyan bayangramana trauma la irupan 😢
I have also faced a sexual harrasment at my previous work organisation despite complaining to women safety department with proofs they did not punish that person who was my team leader. I am still traumatized.
i've also experienced this too by my cousin brother..and never even told anyone :( mummy and snegu sis
10:38 thanks for mentioning about this mominfluencer ❤😔
I m 30 now. When i was 16 i also faced the situation in bus. 11th std physics practical anniki. Ennala practical la concentrate pannave mudila. Sir kita neraya thitu vangunen. But na edhunala apdi irundhenh yartayum sollala. Enna ellarum thapa pathuduvanga nu bayam. Idhu illama en chithapa paiyan enna madila ukara vechu bad touch pannan. Apo enaku may be 12 years irukum. Veli ulagathala matum illa. Sondha veetla kuda annan, mama murai ullavanga kuda neraya per chinna pullanga kita thapa nadandhukuranga.
Unga family group la intha video share panni unga comment screenshot ah sent pannuga and avanga wife illa family ta sollunga
Add fathers tooooo sisters..... Yevlo than bayapadradhu, azhuvardhu,theriyala
Sneha is saying all the really think based on true facts about it 😢
I have just now turned teenager (13) thankyou aunty for informing us at least I got to know how to be careful and how the world is not all people are bad but there are some
I too faced it many times but can't do anything at that moment i feel like breaking their face but we can't do anything from the age of 10 im seeing men staring at us in a very wrong way even though we show our face they'll never mind abt it which is so irritating, I too feel the same what is goona happen by talking abt this will our country change overnight NEVER !!! IM 17 ryt now and i don't know hereafter how many ppl im goona face like this only thing i want to say is teach your child getting marks going to school is alone not the whole thing a child should learn every parent must talk abt good touch n bad touch wat to do at that time And one more thing we need to talk abt this too what will be next step when a child comes n tells something like that there are some parents who get tensed and hide that issue they sit in the corner and blame that girl as if she asked a guy to touch her Im not telling abt all parents BUT there are parents like this too i think parents also needed to be educated abt this . Just dont know how we r gonna survive
Thanks for this video aunty ❤
The harsh truth is each of us go through different sufferings and hardships , but not everything can be told out easily . I agree to your point which explains that no matter what bad happens gradually we have to move on in life even if the problem isnt solved . Justice for each and every individual who have gone through painful suffering. I too had got harassed once physically last year by one student from our university near our university in Australia. I should have been strong i felt , but i learnt a lot from it and became a wiser person than before.🤝💪
Kastam ah irukku maa🥺 ivlo commends 🥺 akka thangachi ellarum plss uggalukku ittha mari nadattha pls ugga parents kitta open ah sollugga . 🥺 #respectawomens
Yes, mam i too faced this,, at the age of 12 , my neighbor one old man, 60 plus, while i playing with his grandchild, he pressed my breast, i cried lonely, i told my dad, after a day, but he didn't warned that old man, after when i come out my home , the way of his seeing was in bad manner, one day i threw a stone on him, still he watches in a bad manner, so he is a worst gut 😢
As said government should take a severe action for those bastards
Almost 5.7k comments in the comment section I can see around 5.6k told about the harassment happened in their life 😢 really this is curse of our country
Comment Section full aa ithana peru avunga trauma va share panranga but ithana peruku idhu nadanthurukunu nenaikum bothu as a men a enaku shame aa iruku 🤕
I’m sorry that you’re feeling this way, brother. But, whoever feels it’s okay to rape is not a man at all. You are a real man, they’re not. They’re just disgusting lust-driven monsters.
Hats off to both of you.. things should change!!
Its also happening for the girl's there inside their own house they are suffering a lot without able to tell anyone about it that they have been going through all this in their own house. It may be their father, brother, uncle.......
Girls don't feel much safely even inside or outside their home. 🙂
This relates to my dark story when I was small kid 8to10 years old
I literally cried while seeing this vedio😢this society was to be change ☹
As a Male, i fell really sorry for all the victims. It regrets me as a male. Be careful from this generation boys. I didn't complain all the boys, even i belong to this generation but, thats the truth. I Didn't tell all the girls to adjust all this, but our individual safety is important. Stay strong everyone and don't fear to voice out for your insecurities
As sneha said I don't feel safe in my own country. After getting to know all these I felt like it's better that I die in a gun shot not by this.
I too faced harassment when i was 8 years old
On that time i not even known that was an harassment
🙂💔
Till now i had faced 4 major harrassments
Now im 17 years old
can u take action against it by saying to ur trusted ones 😢
Ennoda clg days la enga clg la deaf and dumb students neraiya padichanga bus la ellarum onna varuvom athula oru ponnu kitta oru 50yrs above irukkum avan thappa thottan😡antha ponnala solla mudiyala Nan Avan pannatha pathuten odane enkitta irukka needle 💉 vachi avanoda Kaila kizhichiten Avan kaththa kooda illa
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