how to master self-acceptance | matcha talks with tam ep.1

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  • @sparklesparshi108
    @sparklesparshi108 3 місяці тому +970

    Can we talk about the background,props and the quality of the video,she is literally putting sooo much efforts ❤❤

    • @tamkaur
      @tamkaur  3 місяці тому +138

      Thank you so much!!

    • @Ameerah-y1c
      @Ameerah-y1c 3 місяці тому +8

      Yess❤

  • @MuskaanJaisinghani
    @MuskaanJaisinghani 3 місяці тому +375

    Her book feels like a hug. I can literally hear her speak in the book😭❤️

    • @priyaljain7737
      @priyaljain7737 3 місяці тому +7

      Gurllll sameeeee🥹💗

    • @MuskaanJaisinghani
      @MuskaanJaisinghani 3 місяці тому +2

      @@priyaljain7737 ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @angelsharma2676
      @angelsharma2676 3 місяці тому +2

      @@MuskaanJaisinghaniHow can I get that book ? I am getting only Kindle edition on amazon

    • @MuskaanJaisinghani
      @MuskaanJaisinghani 3 місяці тому

      @@angelsharma2676 there might be some delivery issue try ordering at some other address if possible :)

    • @PetronellalungoweMbao-dt9qu
      @PetronellalungoweMbao-dt9qu 3 місяці тому +1

      Is there a soft copy version of the book?

  • @hinanasreen1493
    @hinanasreen1493 3 місяці тому +80

    Our girl is giving us the most cinematic experience in a youtube video.

  • @elyssakatrina492
    @elyssakatrina492 3 місяці тому +244

    the quality?! the production?! the aesthetic?! the theme?! most of all, the content?!
    loveee this fresh way of bringing your content to life tam 💚

  • @itzztyy
    @itzztyy 3 місяці тому +210

    Hi Tam! thank you soo much for your motivation and amazing videos. im 16 and i was at my lowest. i lost friends, went through rejection, heartbreak and so much but i still passed my exams well.. im striving to be the best version of myself this year, and you rly helped me get the right motivation. I wanna be independent, rich and successful like you one day when im older!

    • @taniakhera9650
      @taniakhera9650 3 місяці тому +5

      Same

    • @MorewithAura-nv9uj
      @MorewithAura-nv9uj 3 місяці тому +5

      Same 🤝❤

    • @Rinkalx5
      @Rinkalx5 3 місяці тому +8

      I am 16 too and I also felt that way most of the time in my life but these things make us even more stronger 🤍🤌🏻

    • @brooke8533
      @brooke8533 3 місяці тому +5

      literally was in the exact same boat as you! we'll get through this

    • @malcommmabihya7132
      @malcommmabihya7132 3 місяці тому +2

      Same here best of luck,hope to see you on the other side

  • @anuu__roy
    @anuu__roy 3 місяці тому +70

    Last night I asked God to give me love, for someone to come here and congratulate me, pat my back, hug me cause I know how much effort I'm putting but no one around me is doing that. So I took a break and didn't care about to-do list , was lying on my bed, cried whole morning like a baby while rewatching your "a video to watch when you are sad". I gave myself love but needed little bit human connection and today this video from you. Wowww universe is always working for me even when I don't know. Thank you Tam
    Thank you God for always making my life easy, for always working for me, for always checking on me and helping me out. Ahhh I love being a human !

  • @arohisingh9216
    @arohisingh9216 3 місяці тому +476

    Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone

  • @byjul5488
    @byjul5488 3 місяці тому +33

    "no one is going to give you the reassurance and company and love that you desire like you will, because nobody knows you like you do" - I will have to keep this on repeat in my head. Today I almost fell into my old patterns of seeking someone else (in a dating app), to keep me company and love me, but it really is true that I should be seeking that within myself. Thank you Tam

  • @anonymous-d3u
    @anonymous-d3u 3 місяці тому +41

    i’m glad she talked a bit about reparenting ourselves, it would be great topic for her next video, also i personally need it, thanks tam

  • @Arty-ei4ws
    @Arty-ei4ws 3 місяці тому +102

    Wake up the QUEEN posted!

  • @dindajulia9638
    @dindajulia9638 3 місяці тому +50

    I was struggling about self acceptance. Been crying a lot today. But here’s you are, thank you so much girl. You help me grow to be better. Can’t wait to get that book. Looking forward for this type of video next time. Love you xoxo🤍

    • @cinamoroll130
      @cinamoroll130 3 місяці тому

      i love the fact that I wasn't alone doing this today. cause i found myself crying a lott today too, about the smallest things. this video feels like a warm hug

  • @urdumovierecap
    @urdumovierecap 3 місяці тому +31

    Love the background 😭😭😭😭 it looks so aesthetic

  • @_itsavacado_
    @_itsavacado_ 3 місяці тому +7

    Someone very important to me once told me, “don’t trip over what is behind you.”
    I hope this might help someone else as it helped me.

  • @UnJadedJade
    @UnJadedJade 3 місяці тому +12

    THE AESTHETIC !!!! come on queen

  • @SiaAnastasiou03
    @SiaAnastasiou03 3 місяці тому +11

    Girl you are so creative😍 The background , the colours , the theme of the video , this more chill vibe…so relaxing!

    • @tamkaur
      @tamkaur  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much!!

  • @rosalie624
    @rosalie624 3 місяці тому +12

    Tam can really reach to people's heart because her talks are deep and true, just like her personality and this relflection helps everyone of us to connect with her in the best and healthiest way possible. Her videos are really a hug for our soul. ❤︎

  • @its_afeefa
    @its_afeefa 3 місяці тому +17

    Tam's new video after college feels like a dream...😭💗

  • @Taffiles_
    @Taffiles_ 3 місяці тому +5

    Tam is the only personal development content creator I watch/listen to from start to finish. I always feel so empowered after!

  • @glueyossi
    @glueyossi 3 місяці тому +7

    I have a health condition that is threatening my ability to go off to college and pursue my dreams. I may end up stuck at home and accepting that is teaching me to be grateful for literally EVERY moment no matter what. I can walk right now? Beautiful. It's really in the small things. Life isn't perfect, and your one shot may not be what you wanted, but there is love to be found. Just get as much enjoyment out of the experience as possible, even if it can't be like the others. It's a huge emotional struggle, but it can still BE. ❤

    • @scarletchase9913
      @scarletchase9913 Місяць тому

      hey, how're you doing right now? I hope you haven't given up on your dreams?

  • @kayseaa20
    @kayseaa20 3 місяці тому +2

    the vibe of the video was so calming, it felt like having a conversation virtually with a friend!

  • @ItsBoutheina
    @ItsBoutheina 3 місяці тому +16

    Girrrl, I was just thinking about you right now and I was saying she's probably still busy with the book publishing, that's why she didn't post yet. I just went on UA-cam to see this! Perfect timing as usual.

  • @xoxoadeola
    @xoxoadeola 3 місяці тому +1

    I have been in a serious slump for the past week because I'm not satisfied with where I am in life. I thought “what's the point of getting out of bed? It's not like things are getting better."
    But this video felt like such a warm hug. I feel so motivated to get my life together and take it easy on myself. Thank you so much Tam.❤

  • @sumanxmandal
    @sumanxmandal 3 місяці тому +2

    Tam after reading the book i really want to hug younger tam she has grow so much in life all she needed to do is trust herself and make her the focus of her life. This book feels so close to my heart thankyou tammana thankyou for existing!

  • @SalehaZinnot
    @SalehaZinnot 3 місяці тому +1

    This is so cosy, I can’t wait for autumn and winter talks

  • @Palakmanoor
    @Palakmanoor 3 місяці тому +1

    she is leveling up her life like crazy ily tam the video is like a therapy

  • @lleanetteee
    @lleanetteee 3 місяці тому +1

    this was so important to me! so many self-improvement creators preach a “you versus you” concept and that’s very damaging because you are making yourself your own enemy when you should be learning to love every single part of yourself.

  • @Garima-su1vw
    @Garima-su1vw 3 місяці тому

    I genuinely just love this woman, she is so pretty and so mentally supportive. Every video of hers feels like a warm hugg and she is my therapist now gosh love u

  • @k.6160
    @k.6160 2 місяці тому +1

    I love the plant setting.🌱🌿

  • @TheMissSuhaniTripathi_
    @TheMissSuhaniTripathi_ 3 місяці тому +5

    This girl is literally my online therapist

  • @RimshaNaqvi-gq3ui
    @RimshaNaqvi-gq3ui 3 місяці тому +2

    can we appreciate how far tam has come?? congrats gorgeous keep shining!!🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @abigailhills19565
    @abigailhills19565 3 місяці тому +1

    OMG QUEEN, THESE VIDEOS JUST KEEP GETTING BETTER AND BETTER I MEAN THE LIGHTING?? THE CONTENT?? THE THUMBNAILS?? yayyyy thank you Tamm, wlysmm

  • @kpopcharlits
    @kpopcharlits 3 місяці тому +3

    Hi I bought your book and literally tears came into my eyes while readings. You are so positive and I am so happy that you are helping all of us to self love ourselves. ❤ love your purity and most probably love you! ❤

  • @outsider.03
    @outsider.03 3 місяці тому

    OMGGG yes.
    Every time I take a day off -even if it's because I'm sick, I have a fever or any other health-related problem at that moment- my mother yells at me that I'm lazy, irresponsible, weak, and many other variants of that.
    I have depression episodes some times, and I am a HSP, and still I'm working through that, working on taking risks, learning to lead my groups, to face hard situations, to manage them in the best possible way, and even if that goes wrong, I'm so damn proud of myself because I did the most difficult part. I put myself there. Right in front of my biggest fear, and faced it. I faced it. I would then learn from that situation if it didn't go as planned.
    I'm proud of myself. I can't say I'm unbothered when people criticize me, calling me things I'm sure I'm not -lazy, egotistic, dumb-, but I know I'll eventually be, because I know who I am and who I'm about to be, because I'm working towards that version of me.
    And I have to thank you, Tam Kaur, because you have helped me a lot through my journey ❤.

  • @jianna4479
    @jianna4479 3 місяці тому

    I stumbled across this channel & have been watching all of these videos. Im usually a very confident person but through alot of life changes ive lost myself a bit which is so unlike me. This channel is like a breath of fresh air. You can really feel the message and you can literally see that she practices what she preaches & it shows. Such radiance and glow in this video ✨️ Thank you, Tam 🫂

  • @misia6670
    @misia6670 3 місяці тому +26

    girl no way!! I just made myself matcha and sat down to watch one of your videos and you posted this video 10 mins ago!!!on point!!

  • @farhanakhanam5852
    @farhanakhanam5852 3 місяці тому +10

    Congratulations on the success of your new book

  • @luckygirl03
    @luckygirl03 3 місяці тому +3

    Hey Tam - your videos have helped me grow so much and they're so comforting ❤

  • @Alicesdoco
    @Alicesdoco 2 місяці тому

    I actually love these types of videos
    😊🍵💖.
    It’s almost like a chill sit down therapy session with a friend. Some of the topics are actually really hard to bring up with some of my friends. Sometimes they just need someone to rant to which is okay but then I don’t feel like I can bring up my own concerns. So I’m actually really grateful you’re bringing up these hard conversation topics here.
    Thanks Tam helping me love myself. Have a great day to anyone reading this.
    Also once a week matcha therapy sessions sounds amazing 😊🍵💖.

  • @baharsorosh3083
    @baharsorosh3083 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm crying it was so beautiful

  • @labs9618
    @labs9618 3 місяці тому +1

    Giving fall vibes, love it. can’t wait for fall

  • @Star-ul9yd
    @Star-ul9yd 3 місяці тому +1

    This video felt so calming and so much like a warm hug. Everything you said was so relatable and so full of love and care. Also the setting and the background, also the way you were dressed up all cozy set that vibe where it just felt like a safe space to talk about feelings. I am a hugeeeee fan of you and you are literally my role model. Keep slaying big sis . Lots of love 🩷

  • @stankpop1633
    @stankpop1633 3 місяці тому +1

    Tam, you're literally like a big sister for me, thank you so much for your support and helping me to understand that everything's will be okay and I deserve a lot❤❤❤

  • @AffirmationAlchemist18
    @AffirmationAlchemist18 3 місяці тому +1

    you give me some much comfort, thank you. xxx

  • @aesthetic-d4e
    @aesthetic-d4e 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much Tam! You're that big sister every girl needs 😭🎀

  • @graceblake5007
    @graceblake5007 3 місяці тому

    I love that, where you are now is the moments you are going to cherrish! Also love your set! All about plants, green and soft things.
    You dont have to earn your own love! Wow

  • @munazamudasir9733
    @munazamudasir9733 3 місяці тому +2

    I always wanted an elder sister for advice, and i found that sister in you.
    Tam! You are my elder sister.
    Ly💕

  • @kathleenmollie
    @kathleenmollie 3 місяці тому +14

    a new series AND a new book, girl you're treating us rn

  • @Ritubhati06
    @Ritubhati06 3 місяці тому

    Tam's videos feels like a warm hug in this wicked world!!
    My best discovery ever on the internet is Tam!!!💚💚

  • @oliwka8379
    @oliwka8379 3 місяці тому +1

    your eyes as you speak are full of joy, peace and passion for life i love it you taught me a lot today!!! ❤❤❤

  • @sparklesparshi108
    @sparklesparshi108 3 місяці тому +2

    Just received your book and when I tell you I couldn't believe i was holding it in my hand, I have started reading it and i am already loving it 😭❤️❤️

  • @OpheliasAdvices-mp9km
    @OpheliasAdvices-mp9km 3 місяці тому +1

    Love this new series! The theme really gives different vibes and this was such a nice talk - one I’d have loved to hear from someone else (typically I’m the one who takes on this role)! Thank you very much for a good start to the day

  • @shreyamahi1498
    @shreyamahi1498 3 місяці тому +1

    i am falling in love with your book . its a masterpiece

  • @hanaa.h15
    @hanaa.h15 3 місяці тому

    Your voice is literally so comforting, I can listen to it all day omgggg. Your vids have helped me sm and I can that the efforts you put into making them are 100% worth it!!!!!!

  • @itshazzybee
    @itshazzybee 3 місяці тому +3

    This is perfect! I'd just gotten your book delivered 10mins ago and when i was about to confirm the delivery i saw this notification! In my Tam era and absolutely loving it!💞

  • @majakusowska6565
    @majakusowska6565 3 місяці тому

    omg! I’m obsessed with this spot. Btw I love this cozy vibe and laid-back approach while talking about big topics

  • @nobodyknows9323
    @nobodyknows9323 3 місяці тому +2

    I love this video soo much. Its a very comfy sister to sister talk and I just feel so warm inside after hearing this. Thanks Tam ❤❤

  • @nuhameneyuale9366
    @nuhameneyuale9366 3 місяці тому +1

    I love the theme of this whole video like she looks very nice and cozy and also the background as well

  • @Uniquelymer97
    @Uniquelymer97 3 місяці тому

    Girl I am OBSESSED with this video style. It's perfect it feels like friend therapy

  • @jackyphoria
    @jackyphoria 3 місяці тому

    I love the vibes! It's so relaxing and calming, love it sm

  • @tin_go0
    @tin_go0 3 місяці тому

    I love your videos, I love the positive energy. I love the way that you aren't shouting at us, perfect for morning background while preparing for the day.

  • @SnugglySepticEye
    @SnugglySepticEye 3 місяці тому

    Tam! You are a big sis and I’m so grateful for you! I have been on the self help journey for years and now all I want is peace and acceptance of myself, ALL of me. 💗

  • @sanjitapatnaik324
    @sanjitapatnaik324 3 місяці тому +1

    I just loved this relaxed form of self development video, it kinda gives the vibes of “GRWM while I overshare” series vibes from your vlog channel. Please Please Please make more of these videos. Sending love ❤ .

  • @KrissyFizzle
    @KrissyFizzle 3 місяці тому

    Tam, the aesthetics of this whole video is so nice. You just keep outdoing yourself ❤️❤️

  • @shruti5909
    @shruti5909 3 місяці тому +1

    Im so proud of u tam!!

  • @julyberardo1428
    @julyberardo1428 3 місяці тому

    This felt so personal and intimate, it was like a warm hug. Thank you so much Tam❤

  • @sitimasarkar
    @sitimasarkar 3 місяці тому

    I am loving this new series also i really appreciate how tam puts so much effort into each video and try so many new things. I am so grateful to have found tam ❤

  • @NiSu-n4d
    @NiSu-n4d 3 місяці тому +3

    Yesssss I have been WAITING on your video to come out

    • @NiSu-n4d
      @NiSu-n4d 3 місяці тому

      Also LOVE the bg

  • @nesrinaldroubi
    @nesrinaldroubi 3 місяці тому

    Love the vibe of this soooo much how ever I do really wonder how can we shin a light on our good and beautiful when we actually forget that they exist

  • @amishakarmakar08
    @amishakarmakar08 3 місяці тому

    i love the variety of backdrops nd formats and props and setup and everythingg

  • @FashionWhispers
    @FashionWhispers 3 місяці тому +1

    loveee the production and the green aesthetics. And the content is on point, amazing as alwayss 💖❤

  • @mycowhasanaemia
    @mycowhasanaemia 3 місяці тому +2

    I love this setup so much. ❤

  • @MarinaPazLeça
    @MarinaPazLeça 3 місяці тому

    LOOOved this video please make more of theeseee, I am crying cause everytime I need somenthing I come to your chanel and find exacly what I needed to hear.

  • @zulaihatabdullahi182
    @zulaihatabdullahi182 3 місяці тому

    These videos feel more relaxing but im still learning something. Im so here for matcha talks!!

  • @vedikaghatge
    @vedikaghatge 3 місяці тому

    By the end of this episode i had tears in my eyes cuz I was so moved. Thank you so so much posting this❤

  • @joicooper5497
    @joicooper5497 3 місяці тому

    I love this chill cozy feel and its was a great topic

  • @NurJahan-x5e
    @NurJahan-x5e 3 місяці тому +2

    The aesthetic >>>>>>>
    The feeling>>>>
    The vibe>>>> ummmmm😭😭

  • @pppalakk
    @pppalakk 3 місяці тому

    Loved the video and the cozy setup. Soo comforting!❤

  • @_akanksha2016
    @_akanksha2016 3 місяці тому +3

    The setting is giving million+ and a published author...and we here for it 😏🔥

  • @swiyadutta4655
    @swiyadutta4655 3 місяці тому

    This video feels like elder sister giving life advice on a rainy evening ❤ this video felt like home 🥰 loved this sm. XOXO

  • @missinlove-gy6re
    @missinlove-gy6re 3 місяці тому

    girlie I cannot express how much I needed this, tysm 😭❤️

  • @egypt-z1e
    @egypt-z1e 3 місяці тому

    I loved this video, definitely made me feel good and relaxed after a long first week of college.

  • @ip3931
    @ip3931 3 місяці тому +1

    Once again, brilliant, in act even better quality than before!

  • @ExcelEnefola-f1r
    @ExcelEnefola-f1r 3 місяці тому +1

    Tam am so glad to see you ,you have really inspired me a lot as a teenager i remember i eas like a people pleaser and had low self esteem but now i am xonfident so thank you so much❤

  • @Smashable_sissy7987
    @Smashable_sissy7987 17 днів тому

    Everything is changeable, you are in control!!

  • @Drishtigarg1
    @Drishtigarg1 3 місяці тому +1

    I am very excited to read your book! i order it yesterday! ❤

  • @beingasmi-f5j
    @beingasmi-f5j Місяць тому +1

    I love you tam didi!

  • @PranaviDwivedi
    @PranaviDwivedi 3 місяці тому +1

    bought your book Tam! Its one of the very few non fiction books i can't put down!

  • @callherperry
    @callherperry 3 місяці тому

    She is the sistmate that we needed for a long time:)) I really needed this conversation , thanks Tam♡

  • @yoursguardiananggel
    @yoursguardiananggel 3 місяці тому +1

    Tam, I need a hug from you.. 😭i seriously love you so much and you gave me so much confidence. 😭🩷. You're like my big sister.. Thank you sooo much 😘🥹

  • @sweetsanchi9824
    @sweetsanchi9824 3 місяці тому +1

    I love you so much Tam. You are the perfect big sis everyone needs❤. You were there when I was at my lowest 😊

  • @madisthisshe
    @madisthisshe 3 місяці тому

    thankyou tam, more love to you, this gave me comfort and strength to march forward🫂💖

  • @sarvaepc
    @sarvaepc 2 місяці тому +1

    2024 Tam focusing on reaching our mindsets instead of just actions >>>>>

  • @soumyabhoi9525
    @soumyabhoi9525 3 місяці тому

    Girl I love your voice and aesthetic it's so therapeutic.... 🎀

  • @mariannakokavesi
    @mariannakokavesi 3 місяці тому +2

    I was about to make my morning matcha, I am feeling a bit funky, and I just see you’ve posted the perfect video! 🩷🍀💫 I love your content, thank you 🫶🏻

  • @folasewaidowu907
    @folasewaidowu907 3 місяці тому

    You’re so WISE, my goodness!! Loved the video as usual! ❤️❤️

  • @AnnaRoseBaldono
    @AnnaRoseBaldono 3 місяці тому

    YESSS! Already obsessed with this series! 😍

  • @boaluv
    @boaluv 3 місяці тому

    love this new series!! would love more vids and longer😅 i really resonate with what you said in the early parts of the video where we are nostalgic and miss the little things in life from a while ago, i def need to work on accepting myself as i am rn and postponing that happiness.

  • @dejectedreamer
    @dejectedreamer 3 місяці тому

    The vibes are immaculate ✨

  • @NityaGoyal-2802
    @NityaGoyal-2802 3 місяці тому

    O. M. G.
    The backdrop props and her is the best aesthetic ❤❤!!!
    Also i love your book

  • @Mnndp
    @Mnndp 3 місяці тому +1

    Finally!
    Her book isn't a book it's a voice message coz once you hear her voice you can't unhear it. It's like an old 80s letter 💌 through which you can hear her speaking 🗣️